My Neighbors: Fight all the time | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 955500 United States 05/11/2010 01:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Better than living below someone who never leaves his place and listens to your every move. It's bizarre. I was home for a few days after I first moved into the condo, and I was moving stuff around and sweating a lot, so every couple hours I'd run the faucet to get a drink of water or clean something. After maybe the 10th time, I heard my upstairs neighbor scream "I'M BORED, I THINK I'LL GET A GLASS OF WATER!!". Also, about a week later, I was up until 1AM, on the computer and studying, and the next day I overheard him talking to another neighbor telling them that I never sleep and that I don't have a job. Since then, the other neighbor in the complex has started walking her dog past my window everyday and looking in. The neighbor above me never leaves, his car is always in the parking lot, yet he talks shit about me to the other neighbors, and tells them that I don't have a job (which I do). I immediately put it up for sale after that. It was way too weird. I'm taking a $28k loss on the sale of condo, but I don't care at this point. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 250359What a violation of individual sovereignty and alarming lack of privacy is this!? I have the same occurrence! After I was forced to return an apartment complex, I made it absolutely clear to management that I am a private researcher and will not have my privacy violated by anyone. I concern myself with my own affairs and expect those around me to do the same. When I arrive home, I do not run up the stairs or slam my door, I close the door gently. It is curious to observe my next door neighbors do the same. Confirming they were observing my behavioral patterns. The only dispute I have is with the those below me - they spy and engage in covert/stealth like information gathering. Eavesdropping, synchronizing the times of departure and return, etc. Being that I have Asperger's syndrome and high functioning intellect, these subtleties I recognize immediately. It is sickening, I may involve the police if it escalates. Another consequence of living in a city. I miss my house! living that right now,, it's coordinated and typical of provacateurs trying to elicit a response... even if i sniffle or make a mere shuffle of a chair, somebody upstairs is bound to respond with like sound, or if i run the tap for a sec or two,, the same,,,, CONDOS SUCK and i am sure they go in and out whenever you're not there,, they've made LAME excuses to barge in late at night due to phony leaks, yet neglected to simply listen to my spot on explanation of a REAL leak caused by their manufacturing deficiencies... phony window problems as pretext for building-wide scrutiny, monthly fire tests for building-wide scrutiny, i'm talking about the fancy schmancy surveilled ones with elec door sensors, cams, intercom sys ++plus it's even worse when you get mixed owners vs renters,,, y even bother i ask myself,, it's disgusting how many freaks and weirdos even act freakishly in elevators,, they always face my profile whereas i'm the type to leave be, so let me me as well,,, nvr encouraging eye contact from strangers as a matter of courtesy, not antisocial tendencies which i have none,, but these operators, they gawk, stare, scrutinise, follow, suddenly bang walls and/ or drop boulders onto my concrete ceiling,,, sickening i'm convinced it's a hub-building for various agencies to train really shitty nub operatives I prefer my silence and solitude - no one will rob that from me. I will cite another example for you to give considerable thought to. For the past few months, my meager income has been reduced, prompting me to alter what my nutritional intake will be - limited non-genetically modified foods are no longer financially viable. I began exploring MRE's and mount house foods - quite nutritional and tolerable taste, although that does not truly matter to me, I only concerned with the providing the body what it needs to function properly. As of late, I have postponed this primarily due to the foolishness at work and began indulging myself from various take out restaurants. I began ordering my one establishment, small business/family owned entitled, "Mr.Jims" excellent food and quality. The delivery individuals, however are stunned to silence regarding my courtesy at the door. I give them a firm, "good morning, evening, afternoon and such." And no response for a time, a cognitive delay of sorts, then the hand me my order and I say thank you. Even with Asperger's syndrome, I have honed my ability to discern facial arrangements, theirs was one of bewilderment. This is what we have become. Do I really need to answer the door and be deliberately short, and heavy handed to get the dignity I deserve? I have already severed every human contact. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 966567 United States 05/11/2010 01:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 955500 United States 05/11/2010 02:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My neighbors below me, kid cry's all the time. Every friggen night. I have to sleep with ear plugs. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 966567But, what'cha gonna do. The children are exempt from my point of view, the little ones are innocent and it is objectionable to witness them treated with abject malice of the those caring for them because they themselves are still children. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 941031 United States 05/11/2010 02:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My neighbors below me, kid cry's all the time. Every friggen night. I have to sleep with ear plugs. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 966567But, what'cha gonna do. Wait til the baby gets older and cries less or move. Everyone has choices. But never take it out on kids who can't help it. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 566493 United States 05/11/2010 02:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Just call the police, and don't put up with it. Had those types around me, and then they thought they attack me somehow, anyway, both of them are gone, since those kind of people all think that they only exist and can do what they want. Keep it up domestic enemies, and see what the USA really does. We'll spit on your graves. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 955500 United States 05/11/2010 02:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Just call the police, and don't put up with it. Had those types around me, and then they thought they attack me somehow, anyway, both of them are gone, since those kind of people all think that they only exist and can do what they want. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 566493Keep it up domestic enemies, and see what the USA really does. We'll spit on your graves. Calling the proper authorities on each occasion will only serve to exacerbate the circumstances further - only to be partially resolved and fresh, new grievances are found. I have simply began to ignore them all equally. I will not exacerbate my personal condition because of them. I'm considerate as can be, under the circumstances. |
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walkerbrianna User ID: 25279084 United States 10/09/2012 10:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Well me and my husband have been married 4 2 years now and we are both very passionate people who deal with each other every day.I love him with all my heart but sometimes our arguments can get very loud and I know they have disturb my neighbors but I think every couple eventually fights so I hope the neighbors can 4 give. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 754169 United States 10/09/2012 11:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Well me and my husband have been married 4 2 years now and we are both very passionate people who deal with each other every day.I love him with all my heart but sometimes our arguments can get very loud and I know they have disturb my neighbors but I think every couple eventually fights so I hope the neighbors can 4 give. Quoting: walkerbrianna 25279084 It is inconsiderate trashy people like this that ruin it for everyone else. If you are in an argument, go somewhere else to fight it out. |