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Why WOMEN are SO SELFISH and ungrateful?

 
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I don't understand why women are so selfish. I have been with someone for 5 month. Already a month or so into our relationship she told me that she had great feelings for me and that she loved me. I on the other hand told her that I liked her but that I couldn't call it love yet. She pressured me to love her but I told her I needed more time. Then she broke up with me out of the blue one day after being with me for 5 month. At first she told me she wants to stay friends and a week later she wouldn't reply to my SMS or even calls. So in the end I got a hold of her and asked her why was it that she was so cold to me. She told me that she has no more feelings for me. So I asked her, how could this be? If you truly loved me you would still at least miss me. She said 'I don't want to hurt you but I don't have feelings for you anymore'. She also said that she thought she loved me at the time. I told her that wasn't normal but she kept saying that I can't define what is normal and what isn't. All this time I was trying to be so supportive of her. We practically been together almost everyday. I was there for her when she needed me the most. When she had a stomach flu I was there for her. I even took her to the hospital and was there with her even though I haven't slept for more than 24 hours. This is already not the first time I observe and experience how women are really selfish human beings who only care about themselves in the end. They are good PRETENDERS that's for sure. Nothing they say it seems can be really taken seriously because anything they do only serves their own agenda.
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This is what happens when you worship a human.


They think they have the power of a god.
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She told you that she loved you then she breaks up with you. 1rof1

She's crazy!!!!!

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Not all women are like that. Be glad that you found out sooner than later.
You sound like a really nice guy. Don't let any woman force you into telling them you love them before your sure.
I don't think she was being selfish or ungrateful....Just clueless.
You will find the right one soon. hf
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I get your pains, but males do tons of shit in relationships that I'm sure female users here could illustrate or make examples of. First of all if you're a dude and let a girl says she loves and she has only known you that long you're just a sucker like she is for emotion just another extreme angle. Love is something that takes a lot of time and sadly neither side seems interested in that Love isn't a thought or emotion it's a state of consciousness that no other states along can be summed up by. In this case ditch and from now cut your losses with these types.

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It's a game to them, you weren't biting or worthy of her time. She moved on. I wish I could find the quote I'm looking for but women are really brilliant. Men gullible and clueless for the most part. That's why they like the liars cheats and scoundrels. They find them challenging.
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Dont be a dick. Obviously these are the only types of women you have met.

We are not all selfish ingrates.

There is no real reason to remain friends with an ex, unless there is a child involved, property, or a business.

Move on. So many people come here wondering why their ex's dont respond to their phone calls, or texts, or emails.

They want to move on. They are an ex for a reason. now grab a hold of your balls, and do the same.
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Unfortunately, it is only temporary. If the SHTF, they will be treated like animals. So, let them enjoy these days.

Men are animals, and women will suffer the most when the shit hits the fan. And it's horrible.

So please, refrain from complaining about their current status.
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It's a game to them, you weren't biting or worthy of her time. She moved on. I wish I could find the quote I'm looking for but women are really brilliant. Men gullible and clueless for the most part. That's why they like the liars cheats and scoundrels. They find them challenging.
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This is what happens when you worship a human.


They think they have the power of a god.
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It has nothing to do with worshiping a human being. I was there for her because this is who I am. I was in relationship with another person so of course I felt like I wanted to support the person I am with. It's very painful to know that even though she said she loved me and while I did not have such feelings I ended up the one who truly cared for her. And even though our relationship had ups and downs I still stayed the true gentleman that I am. But it seems women in general really do not care about that. When they say that they want a good man who respects and accepts them for who they are all they really are saying is that they want someone to PLEASE THEIR NEEDS so when they get tired of you they will get rid of you like a used condom.
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You need to Love yourself first, then try it with other people...
We get the powers over us that we've earned collectively. Humanity, as a whole, is self-interested, shallow, ignorant, violent and immoral; small wonder, therefore, that our leaders (secret or otherwise) reflect that. You want better leaders, become better people.
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the collective was poisoned
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She told you that she loved you then she breaks up with you. 1rof1

She's crazy!!!!!
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damned lmao
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This is what happens when you worship a human.


They think they have the power of a god.


It has nothing to do with worshiping a human being. I was there for her because this is who I am. I was in relationship with another person so of course I felt like I wanted to support the person I am with. It's very painful to know that even though she said she loved me and while I did not have such feelings I ended up the one who truly cared for her. And even though our relationship had ups and downs I still stayed the true gentleman that I am. But it seems women in general really do not care about that. When they say that they want a good man who respects and accepts them for who they are all they really are saying is that they want someone to PLEASE THEIR NEEDS so when they get tired of you they will get rid of you like a used condom.
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Your getting their. Trying to understand the combination of woman's twisted logic and free flowing, multiple agenda's mixed with hormonally induced patterns of spontaneous emotional outbursts is sort of like trying to hard to get a Pollock painting. Stare to long and try to make sense of it and you might just go mad.

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Dont be a dick. Obviously these are the only types of women you have met.

We are not all selfish ingrates.

There is no real reason to remain friends with an ex, unless there is a child involved, property, or a business.

Move on. So many people come here wondering why their ex's dont respond to their phone calls, or texts, or emails.

They want to move on. They are an ex for a reason. now grab a hold of your balls, and do the same.
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What kind of of a selfish insensitive human being are you? We have been together for 5 month. Been seeing each other almost everyday and had such a strong spiritual connection at first and now you are telling me that you just want her to forget about all of this like it was just a distant memory and then move on like it never happened? I don't think you realize how painful it is for me.
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I don't understand why women are so selfish. I have been with someone for 5 month. Already a month or so into our relationship she told me that she had great feelings for me and that she loved me. I on the other hand told her that I liked her but that I couldn't call it love yet. She pressured me to love her but I told her I needed more time. Then she broke up with me out of the blue one day after being with me for 5 month. At first she told me she wants to stay friends and a week later she wouldn't reply to my SMS or even calls. So in the end I got a hold of her and asked her why was it that she was so cold to me. She told me that she has no more feelings for me. So I asked her, how could this be? If you truly loved me you would still at least miss me. She said 'I don't want to hurt you but I don't have feelings for you anymore'. She also said that she thought she loved me at the time. I told her that wasn't normal but she kept saying that I can't define what is normal and what isn't. All this time I was trying to be so supportive of her. We practically been together almost everyday. I was there for her when she needed me the most. When she had a stomach flu I was there for her. I even took her to the hospital and was there with her even though I haven't slept for more than 24 hours. This is already not the first time I observe and experience how women are really selfish human beings who only care about themselves in the end. They are good PRETENDERS that's for sure. Nothing they say it seems can be really taken seriously because anything they do only serves their own agenda.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 971626


She was not happy and moved on, you should too. If you loved her, you should have told her so. You must have had some pretty strong feelings for her, to come on here bashing her. Either way, you really should have no expectations in relationships. People are free to be with and love whomever they choose. If someone does not love you or want to be with you, you should let them go.
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But it seems women in general really do not care about that. When they say that they want a good man who respects and accepts them for who they are all they really are saying is that they want someone to PLEASE THEIR NEEDS so when they get tired of you they will get rid of you like a used condom.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 971626



Women do treat men like games for the most part.

Waggle your joystick a few times, press your buttons, and then trade you in when they want something different.

Consumer society breeds consumer like behaviour. (Hence why poorer nations don't have these issues for the most part)

Men are no different.

It is simply something you have to accept.

You can either gamble or avoid altogether.


As you've experienced, risk doesn't always bring reward.
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You are just upset you can't play with her hot body OP. You never loved her. You would be just as upset if someone stole your bigscreen TV. Love does not take time. You know it right away. I'm glad she left you. Such a noob mistake taking love of sex for real love. Now go and find your real love.
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never try to turn a slut into a houswife....forget about it.life is to short and thers lots of fine fish ready to eat.......
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She was demanding sex from me all the time (once I had to hold to tight my boxers because she was trying to take them off of me) and I think when she realized she couldn't get enough of it from me she decided to find someone else.

Like she said to me in our last conversation that someone from her past has surfaced. So basically someone else came along and she decided she did not love me anymore. Unfreaking believable that someone like her who pretends to be spiritual can do this. Too many people pretend to be spiritual but really aren't any different than the rest. How can I be so blind? Why do I always fall for it? All I want is to meet someone who has at least SOME dignity.
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OP, you're far from alone.

Your mistake was getting involved with a self-centered little American Princess who expects her every whim to be immediately and obediently satisfied . . and if she doesn't get what she demands, or gets bored, screw you! You're getting a divorce (or breaking up).

Be happy you found out now. They LOVE to trap a guy by pretending to be in love -- just like your ex did -- only long enough to get married and have a kid or two and sit on their fat a$$es collecting child support (after they pawn the ring you spent 3-4 months salary on).

Sure, there are lazy and abusive guys who deserve to get dumped . . . but I've personally seen hundreds of these narcissistic, soul-suckers do the same thing. So much so it's exactly like they carefully plan it out.

American women are taking themselves out of the picture and it's about time.

DON'T GIVE UP! Look at real women from other countries. They believe in a true relationship and commitment.

And I fully expect the fat, angry American women who know this is true and see their gravy trains leaving without them to flame away. Screw 'em!
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Not all women are like that. Be glad that you found out sooner than later.
You sound like a really nice guy. Don't let any woman force you into telling them you love them before your sure.
I don't think she was being selfish or ungrateful....Just clueless.
You will find the right one soon. hf
 Quoting: Hickory


Thank you! I think you are correct that she is just clueless.
Probably she is confused about what she wants from life. She would always tell me how she likes to be a ree spirit and all that.
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-sigh-

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All humans lie.


Geesh! Don't you watch House!!!
Personal responsibility - try it sometime. Quit blaming others for your bad choices. Consequences happen.

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Dont be a dick. Obviously these are the only types of women you have met.

We are not all selfish ingrates.

There is no real reason to remain friends with an ex, unless there is a child involved, property, or a business.

Move on. So many people come here wondering why their ex's dont respond to their phone calls, or texts, or emails.

They want to move on. They are an ex for a reason. now grab a hold of your balls, and do the same.


What kind of of a selfish insensitive human being are you? We have been together for 5 month. Been seeing each other almost everyday and had such a strong spiritual connection at first and now you are telling me that you just want her to forget about all of this like it was just a distant memory and then move on like it never happened? I don't think you realize how painful it is for me.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 971626


It may be painfull to you, but you cannot catagorize all women this way, just because one rips out your heart, does not mean we all do. And 5 months ? How old are you ?

Now re-read what you wrote me. Saw each other almost every day, had a spiritual connection at first...

Come on. You are saying it yourself. It was over about
3 months ago.
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Survival of the species. It's embedded in them. They must take care of themselves and of their offspring in the first place, at all cost.
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Dont be a dick. Obviously these are the only types of women you have met.

We are not all selfish ingrates.

There is no real reason to remain friends with an ex, unless there is a child involved, property, or a business.

Move on. So many people come here wondering why their ex's dont respond to their phone calls, or texts, or emails.

They want to move on. They are an ex for a reason. now grab a hold of your balls, and do the same.


What kind of of a selfish insensitive human being are you? We have been together for 5 month. Been seeing each other almost everyday and had such a strong spiritual connection at first and now you are telling me that you just want her to forget about all of this like it was just a distant memory and then move on like it never happened? I don't think you realize how painful it is for me.


It may be painfull to you, but you cannot catagorize all women this way, just because one rips out your heart, does not mean we all do. And 5 months ? How old are you ?

Now re-read what you wrote me. Saw each other almost every day, had a spiritual connection at first...

Come on. You are saying it yourself. It was over about
3 months ago.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 966567


Again you are missing the point. It's not about if it was over 3 month ago or not. It's about FEELINGS. Do not pretend like you love someone or care about someone or be with someone if you have no feelings for them. I was planning/thinking of breaking up with her too but I decided to wait because she was moving to a new apartment in a week so I thought I would rather not put pressure on her because I know how difficult her life was anyways. Yet she didn't even care about me. I remember how before I came over her apartment that night I did some shopping for her and even got her a plushy toy to make her happy and instead I got dumped.
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I don't understand why women are so selfish. I have been with someone for 5 month. Already a month or so into our relationship she told me that she had great feelings for me and that she loved me. I on the other hand told her that I liked her but that I couldn't call it love yet. She pressured me to love her but I told her I needed more time. Then she broke up with me out of the blue one day after being with me for 5 month. At first she told me she wants to stay friends and a week later she wouldn't reply to my SMS or even calls. So in the end I got a hold of her and asked her why was it that she was so cold to me. She told me that she has no more feelings for me. So I asked her, how could this be? If you truly loved me you would still at least miss me. She said 'I don't want to hurt you but I don't have feelings for you anymore'. She also said that she thought she loved me at the time. I told her that wasn't normal but she kept saying that I can't define what is normal and what isn't. All this time I was trying to be so supportive of her. We practically been together almost everyday. I was there for her when she needed me the most. When she had a stomach flu I was there for her. I even took her to the hospital and was there with her even though I haven't slept for more than 24 hours. This is already not the first time I observe and experience how women are really selfish human beings who only care about themselves in the end. They are good PRETENDERS that's for sure. Nothing they say it seems can be really taken seriously because anything they do only serves their own agenda.
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She was demanding sex from me all the time (once I had to hold to tight my boxers because she was trying to take them off of me) and I think when she realized she couldn't get enough of it from me she decided to find someone else.

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the evidence is clear: you stink in bed.
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I don't understand why women are so selfish. I have been with someone for 5 month. Already a month or so into our relationship she told me that she had great feelings for me and that she loved me. I on the other hand told her that I liked her but that I couldn't call it love yet. She pressured me to love her but I told her I needed more time. Then she broke up with me out of the blue one day after being with me for 5 month. At first she told me she wants to stay friends and a week later she wouldn't reply to my SMS or even calls. So in the end I got a hold of her and asked her why was it that she was so cold to me. She told me that she has no more feelings for me. So I asked her, how could this be? If you truly loved me you would still at least miss me. She said 'I don't want to hurt you but I don't have feelings for you anymore'. She also said that she thought she loved me at the time. I told her that wasn't normal but she kept saying that I can't define what is normal and what isn't. All this time I was trying to be so supportive of her. We practically been together almost everyday. I was there for her when she needed me the most. When she had a stomach flu I was there for her. I even took her to the hospital and was there with her even though I haven't slept for more than 24 hours. This is already not the first time I observe and experience how women are really selfish human beings who only care about themselves in the end. They are good PRETENDERS that's for sure. Nothing they say it seems can be really taken seriously because anything they do only serves their own agenda.


UBER-DORK!!!!!!!!!!!


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You comment isn't any better. Explain yourself ....
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She was demanding sex from me all the time (once I had to hold to tight my boxers because she was trying to take them off of me) and I think when she realized she couldn't get enough of it from me she decided to find someone else.



the evidence is clear: you stink in bed.
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Obviously I am not! When I went down on her the first time she told me that it was one of her best ever. Of course she could of been lying but since then she just demanded I go down on her all the time because she liked it so much (even though I didn't want to).
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