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Why WOMEN are SO SELFISH and ungrateful?

 
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be glad she left of her own accord, its so muc less hassle and drama then getting the police imvolved. having them dragged off kicking and screaming , so you can bring home that new chick from work and cockslap her that night.
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Horoscopes are THE stupidest way to try to pick a mate, people are too different to pigeonhole into some stupid fairy tale sign that some astronomer on acid made up.
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Astrology goes back to at least the Sumarians, probably much further.

I use to feel the same way about it, but being a Capricorn and having been with both a Cancer (lol) and a Gemini, I'm much more inclined to listen.


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I don't understand why women are so selfish. I have been with someone for 5 month. Already a month or so into our relationship she told me that she had great feelings for me and that she loved me. I on the other hand told her that I liked her but that I couldn't call it love yet. She pressured me to love her but I told her I needed more time. Then she broke up with me out of the blue one day after being with me for 5 month. At first she told me she wants to stay friends and a week later she wouldn't reply to my SMS or even calls. So in the end I got a hold of her and asked her why was it that she was so cold to me. She told me that she has no more feelings for me. So I asked her, how could this be? If you truly loved me you would still at least miss me. She said 'I don't want to hurt you but I don't have feelings for you anymore'. She also said that she thought she loved me at the time. I told her that wasn't normal but she kept saying that I can't define what is normal and what isn't. All this time I was trying to be so supportive of her. We practically been together almost everyday. I was there for her when she needed me the most. When she had a stomach flu I was there for her. I even took her to the hospital and was there with her even though I haven't slept for more than 24 hours. This is already not the first time I observe and experience how women are really selfish human beings who only care about themselves in the end. They are good PRETENDERS that's for sure. Nothing they say it seems can be really taken seriously because anything they do only serves their own agenda.
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Buddy you seem very naive and young. I too had that happen to me a couple of times.

Seems you had more feelings for her than you let on.

When women turn on you quickly like that, it can only mean one thing, Momma's got new cock in her life.

She's putting distance between you and her fast so she doesn't have to face her own idiocy, of misleading you all the time she was with you. Don't try and convince her of this, she won't listen or accept it. Trust me, move on. She was probably scouting new cock the whole time she was with you. She wanted your declaration of love because she felt insecure, even though she really never loved you. You were smart not to admit yours cause at least when you say it, you probably mean it. Sounds like she's young too. She will eventually be put in her place by some other guy who will do the same to her. Trust me, what comes around goes around.

Best advice again move on, forget about it. Yes I know it's difficult. I often found heading away for a long summer vacation helped. You will need some real physical distance to get your head straight again.

Honestly I know it will sound stupid, but use prostitutes. Fuck some whores and feel like you don't give a fuck anymore. Call it break up sex therapy, with someone who will recognize your pain and help you deal with it. Once that's out of your system you might try and meet a nice girl again with out the emotional baggage. Never admit to using prostitutes though.

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I don't understand why women are so selfish. I have been with someone for 5 month. Already a month or so into our relationship she told me that she had great feelings for me and that she loved me. I on the other hand told her that I liked her but that I couldn't call it love yet. She pressured me to love her but I told her I needed more time. Then she broke up with me out of the blue one day after being with me for 5 month. At first she told me she wants to stay friends and a week later she wouldn't reply to my SMS or even calls. So in the end I got a hold of her and asked her why was it that she was so cold to me. She told me that she has no more feelings for me. So I asked her, how could this be? If you truly loved me you would still at least miss me. She said 'I don't want to hurt you but I don't have feelings for you anymore'. She also said that she thought she loved me at the time. I told her that wasn't normal but she kept saying that I can't define what is normal and what isn't. All this time I was trying to be so supportive of her. We practically been together almost everyday. I was there for her when she needed me the most. When she had a stomach flu I was there for her. I even took her to the hospital and was there with her even though I haven't slept for more than 24 hours. This is already not the first time I observe and experience how women are really selfish human beings who only care about themselves in the end. They are good PRETENDERS that's for sure. Nothing they say it seems can be really taken seriously because anything they do only serves their own agenda.
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I am going to show my age here but, women today have no boundaries or mothers to guide them. They are no longer women but a cross of something in between, a man and a whore.
I have been married 27 years I was lucky that there were still real women when I was dating. I look around today and don't see anything that I would consider having a long term relationship with. There are women that a man would spend a night with or maybe even a couple months with, but nothing to take home to mother. I worry about my son having to find a girl today.

"Most" women are uncompromising, selfish, disrespectful, arrogant, and loud mouthed, not to mention bad mouthed. No one enforces any borders on them. I have had women speak to me in a way that no damn man would of dared, why because men know there are consequences to confronting another man but women know there will be no consequences. A man I would of popped in the mouth but what can you do to a woman?
I DO NOT ADVOCATE HITTING A WOMEN, I am only stating the issue.

We have had 4 generations of shit useless self absorbed parents who are just as selfish and arrogant as the girls being raised. There is no going back this is the future and its hell.
Woman's lib started it and hundreds of groups propagated it. Its all designed to destroy Christianity, North America for the foreign invasion. I don't blame them for trying, I blame the stupid North Americans for falling for it. When it comes down to it we are stupid and most deserve what is coming, unfortunately people like myself are along for the ride.
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OP you experience outside of yourself what you have inside. If you do not love and honour yourself, then you will experience that outside of yourself. If you do not respect your inner feminine (the anima which is being in touch with your feelings etc.) then you will attract a woman who mirrors that.
So many men here like to whine and blame women for all their problems, when really , they need to be looking inside to find the answers.
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Please some women are just crazy like everyone else can be.

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I don't understand why women are so selfish. I have been with someone for 5 month. Already a month or so into our relationship she told me that she had great feelings for me and that she loved me. I on the other hand told her that I liked her but that I couldn't call it love yet. She pressured me to love her but I told her I needed more time. Then she broke up with me out of the blue one day after being with me for 5 month. At first she told me she wants to stay friends and a week later she wouldn't reply to my SMS or even calls. So in the end I got a hold of her and asked her why was it that she was so cold to me. She told me that she has no more feelings for me. So I asked her, how could this be? If you truly loved me you would still at least miss me. She said 'I don't want to hurt you but I don't have feelings for you anymore'. She also said that she thought she loved me at the time. I told her that wasn't normal but she kept saying that I can't define what is normal and what isn't. All this time I was trying to be so supportive of her. We practically been together almost everyday. I was there for her when she needed me the most. When she had a stomach flu I was there for her. I even took her to the hospital and was there with her even though I haven't slept for more than 24 hours. This is already not the first time I observe and experience how women are really selfish human beings who only care about themselves in the end. They are good PRETENDERS that's for sure. Nothing they say it seems can be really taken seriously because anything they do only serves their own agenda.
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She is not a woman in the normal sense she is a sociopath and you are better off without it:

[link to www.lovefraud.com]

[link to transsociopathica.blogspot.com]

Wikipedia’s article on Psychological Manipulation is an excellent read. [link to en.wikipedia.org]

The “Basic Manipulative Strategy of a Psychopath” is particularly valuable:

1: Assessment Phase
Some psychopaths are opportunistic, aggressive predators who will take advantage of almost anyone they meet, while others are more patient, waiting for the perfect, innocent victim to cross their path. In each case, the psychopath is constantly sizing up the potential usefulness of an individual as a source of money, power, sex or influence. Some psychopaths enjoy a challenge while others prey on people who are vulnerable. During the assessment phase, the psychopath is able to determine a potential victim’s weak points and will use those weak points to seduce.

2: Manipulation Phase
Once the psychopath has identified a victim, the manipulation phase begins. During the manipulation phase, a psychopath may create a persona or mask, specifically designed to ‘work’ for his or her target. A psychopath will lie to gain the trust of their victim. A psychopath’s lack of empathy and guilt allows them to lie with ease – they don’t see the value of telling the truth unless it will help get them what they want.

As interaction with the victim proceeds, the psychopath carefully assesses the victim’s persona. The victim’s persona gives the psychopath a picture of the traits and characteristics valued in the victim. The victim’s persona may also reveal, to an astute observer, insecurities or weaknesses the victim wishes to minimize or hide from view. As an ardent student of human behavior, the psychopath will then gently test the inner strengths and needs that are part of the victim’s private self and eventually build a personal relationship with the victim.

The persona of the psychopath – the “personality” the victim is bonding with – does not really exist. It was built on lies, carefully woven together to entrap the victim. It is a mask, one of many, custom-made by the psychopath to fit the victim’s particular psychological needs and expectations. The victimization is predatory in nature; it often leads to severe financial, physical or emotional harm for the individual. Healthy, real relationships are built on mutual respect and trust; they are based on sharing honest thoughts and feelings. The mistaken belief that the psychopathic bond has any of these characteristics is the reason it is so successful.

3: Abandonment Phase
The abandonment phase begins when the psychopath decides that their victim is no longer useful. They abandon their victim and move on to someone else. In the case of romantic relationships, a psychopath will usually seal a relationship with their next target before abandoning their current victim. Abandonment can happen quickly and can occur without the current victim knowing that the psychopath was looking for someone new. There will be no apologies for the hurt and pain they cause because psychopaths do not appreciate these emotions.

Phase 3, the Abandonment Phase is particularly relevent.

Regarding discarding Jamie did this to both his father and an x-partner. There are probably more, I simply did not know him long enough to learn if there were any more, although he did allude to perhaps one, “a person I knew at that time…”

“From the height of his satisfaction with your optimal utility to him, the sociopath begins a slow, inexorable and, in some cases, disorientingly precipitous, phase of depreciating you.”
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Its not all women. But for the most part American women are selfish, deceptive, And can never admit the truth EVER... Always remember that you young guys. Stop putting these women up on a pedestal. Because once they see that they "Have you" they will fuck with you,make a fool out of you, and slowly but surely loose all respect for you. Even when your in love with a american women always keep that its a game in the back of your mind because you will pay for giving your heart to her. Its a very sad time that we live in because thats what true love really is. " Total Devotion " to one another, and you just cant do that anymore with these american " princess" . Sure they all think they are "princess" , but act more like Common Whores. Of course things are not like this all over the world . There are still countries where they havent fucked up the balance of nature, and women still love to act like strong beautiful women. I have dated women from America, and women from overseas, and other countries. And its only the westernized American women who play this game. Good luck, I know its not possible for everyone to meet Foreign women. But if you can you will see for your self that they still truly love men, and love being beautiful feminine women . And are not scared to embrase their femininity .
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She wanted to settle down, which is why she jumped the gun. But you didn't,and you just wanted to take it slow and explore your feelings. But when things finally started clicking for you, you get a shock from her saying goodbye!
You do care about her, but you wanted to wait. That girl is looking to settle down, and when you wouldn't, she moved on.

It's biological, guy. Females are programmed to want to settle down and have babies. It's the men who aren't. They ask why, the women ask why not?
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I don't understand why women are so selfish. I have been with someone for 5 month. Already a month or so into our relationship she told me that she had great feelings for me and that she loved me. I on the other hand told her that I liked her but that I couldn't call it love yet. She pressured me to love her but I told her I needed more time. Then she broke up with me out of the blue one day after being with me for 5 month. At first she told me she wants to stay friends and a week later she wouldn't reply to my SMS or even calls. So in the end I got a hold of her and asked her why was it that she was so cold to me. She told me that she has no more feelings for me. So I asked her, how could this be? If you truly loved me you would still at least miss me. She said 'I don't want to hurt you but I don't have feelings for you anymore'. She also said that she thought she loved me at the time. I told her that wasn't normal but she kept saying that I can't define what is normal and what isn't. All this time I was trying to be so supportive of her. We practically been together almost everyday. I was there for her when she needed me the most. When she had a stomach flu I was there for her. I even took her to the hospital and was there with her even though I haven't slept for more than 24 hours. This is already not the first time I observe and experience how women are really selfish human beings who only care about themselves in the end. They are good PRETENDERS that's for sure. Nothing they say it seems can be really taken seriously because anything they do only serves their own agenda.
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You sound like a dumb twentysomething.

People can't help who they love.

Grow the fuck up.
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The OP's girlfriend seemed pretty immature to me. As such, she would not be stable......and therefore not to be fully trusted.


Eventually most men and women mature enough so that you can trust them a bit more.


It took me about two or three hundred before I found the right one.....so you sometimes have to be very, very patient......and guard your heart for awhile.
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Women are not selfish and ungrateful, not really OP even the ones you may think are most likely are not. Get to know them better.
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Why couldn't you tell her that you love her?

It's not so hard. People make a big freaking deal out of saying those three little words, like they are waiting for lightening bolts to come and hit their ass first.

Tell people you love them, and tell them often. Tell your parents, your siblings, your friends, and definately your girlfriend. Just say, "I love you."

I promise, the world won't end if you do.
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Dont be a dick. Obviously these are the only types of women you have met.

We are not all selfish ingrates.

There is no real reason to remain friends with an ex, unless there is a child involved, property, or a business.

Move on. So many people come here wondering why their ex's dont respond to their phone calls, or texts, or emails.

They want to move on. They are an ex for a reason. now grab a hold of your balls, and do the same.


What kind of of a selfish insensitive human being are you? We have been together for 5 month. Been seeing each other almost everyday and had such a strong spiritual connection at first and now you are telling me that you just want her to forget about all of this like it was just a distant memory and then move on like it never happened? I don't think you realize how painful it is for me.
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then next time u love someone, dont be afraid to tell them
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Unfortunately, it is only temporary. If the SHTF, they will be treated like animals. So, let them enjoy these days.

Men are animals, and women will suffer the most when the shit hits the fan. And it's horrible.

So please, refrain from complaining about their current status.
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dont be surprised when u get shot in the face trying to collect your animal when tshtf
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Shouldn't the title of this thread be
"Why is MY WOMAN ...?"
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Shouldn't the title of this thread be
"Why is MY WOMAN ...?"
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I agree. It's not every woman.
Go find the right one and treat her right. And if you love her, let her know. And don't wait ages to be 100% sure that you really love her...
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OP, I know how you feel. She played your emotions like a game. It's something most women in the civilized world feel like they have a right to do. Here's some advice: Take time to reflect on that selfish bitch, then wait. By wait, I mean, just look online for indicators that will tell you how to tell if a woman is untrustworthy, or not meaningful when she says things to you. And read. Read anything you can about relationships. Educate yourself. I'm going through a pretty tough breakup right now myself, but we have to keep our chins high. Unfortunately, the women in the civilized world are mostly selfish, lying, deceitful bitches that will try to hold out on sex from you, after you've been with her awhile, to get something she desires from you, until one of you ends the relationship. There are magazines, songs, TV shows, etc. that all praise this sort of behavior from women in the civilized world. Finding a truly good woman is a difficult task indeed. The divorce rate is still 50% or more, and has been for over 30 years, and that is why. Your time may be better spent researching about behavior in women, and how to find good women(probably going to have to save money and travel to a different country to find one.)

Good Luck Sir

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verycold Weather it out.

P.S.: Most women that are considered beautiful have over-inflated egos and are problematic. Find an ugly girl and try to start a relationship with her. You might be surprised how good a woman can be. Just be on the lookout, because once she doesn't give you as much sex as normal, you know the relationship is going downhill, towards its end, as she might be cheating or trying to get something from you.
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OP, I know how you feel. She played your emotions like a game. It's something most women in the civilized world feel like they have a right to do. Here's some advice: Take time to reflect on that selfish bitch, then wait. By wait, I mean, just look online for indicators that will tell you how to tell if a woman is untrustworthy, or not meaningful when she says things to you. And read. Read anything you can about relationships. Educate yourself. I'm going through a pretty tough breakup right now myself, but we have to keep our chins high. Unfortunately, the women in the civilized world are mostly selfish, lying, deceitful bitches that will try to hold out on sex from you, after you've been with her awhile, to get something she desires from you, until one of you ends the relationship. There are magazines, songs, TV shows, etc. that all praise this sort of behavior from women in the civilized world. Finding a truly good woman is a difficult task indeed. The divorce rate is still 50% or more, and has been for over 30 years, and that is why. Your time may be better spent researching about behavior in women, and how to find good women(probably going to have to save money and travel to a different country to find one.)

Good Luck Sir

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verycold Weather it out.

P.S.: Most women that are considered beautiful have over-inflated egos and are problematic. Find an ugly girl and try to start a relationship with her. You might be surprised how good a woman can be. Just be on the lookout, because once she doesn't give you as much sex as normal, you know the relationship is going downhill, towards its end, as she might be cheating or trying to get something from you.
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how old are you?
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She was demanding sex from me all the time (once I had to hold to tight my boxers because she was trying to take them off of me) and I think when she realized she couldn't get enough of it from me she decided to find someone else.

Like she said to me in our last conversation that someone from her past has surfaced. So basically someone else came along and she decided she did not love me anymore. Unfreaking believable that someone like her who pretends to be spiritual can do this. Too many people pretend to be spiritual but really aren't any different than the rest. How can I be so blind? Why do I always fall for it? All I want is to meet someone who has at least SOME dignity.
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Dude, she's a "nympho". She doesn't know what love is only throws the word around. She prob has alot of Old "friends" that she sees (off and on) if you catch my drift. And now you're one of many. She wants her cake and eat it too! MOve on Bro! I had the same happen to me.

The poster that told you to grab your balls....was only trying to give you power and inspiration to move on.;;like your Ex apparently did. Don't take the advice personally. It is good sound advice IMHO. Don't waste time wanting to be "With" someone that "doesn't want" to be with you :) Been there and done that Bro! Goodluck!
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Dont be a dick. Obviously these are the only types of women you have met.

We are not all selfish ingrates.

There is no real reason to remain friends with an ex, unless there is a child involved, property, or a business.

Move on. So many people come here wondering why their ex's dont respond to their phone calls, or texts, or emails.

They want to move on. They are an ex for a reason. now grab a hold of your balls, and do the same.
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What kind of of a selfish insensitive human being are you? We have been together for 5 month. Been seeing each other almost everyday and had such a strong spiritual connection at first and now you are telling me that you just want her to forget about all of this like it was just a distant memory and then move on like it never happened? I don't think you realize how painful it is for me.
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women do not think this way. What you think is 'spiritual' is really just your instincts to pity and sympathize for women. It makes breeding possible. Women are attracted to strength not empathy and 'spiritual' etc etc. She decided you were a loser and left. end of story. Dont believe any of this shit about women wanting 'love' they simply want someone who is powerful, capable, and also someone who they feel is 'hooked' on them. probably you failed at one or more of these items.
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Why u don't understand modern woman.Bottom line make your dick wet and move.Now to get out this u need fuck few hookers.
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What PEOPLE mean when they say the love thing in the first few months is...I lust you...I love your pheromones and the way you look and feel. It takes about 3 months of being together in person (not on the internet or long distance) to work out if the lust will grow to more inlove or lessen.

It also takes a decent sex life...that doesnt mean huge libido's....just matching ones....ie if both have low libidoes...they match. If its a mismatch (one high, one low)then one can be very frustrated by the other which leads to frustration in other areas...and hence lessening of affection.

You have been together for 5 months.....and during that time AS she got to know you more....the less she felt overall that you were the one for her. Why is she being cold? Maybe part of her is angry that it didnt work out...and that she was more giving (saying the L word)/sexual and you couldnt respond how she wanted you to. She doesnt want to be just friends and wants to move on....so why WOULD she stay in contact...out of politeness?

If she has already moved on and seeing someone else...it would be strange to him if she were still in touch with you. Selfish and ungrateful probably has little to do with it. Why we date and get attached, with the boot from oxcytocin levels due to sex....is to SEE if we are likely marriage/longterm partners not to settle because the other party is nice and we dont want to hurt their feelings...isnt it?

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I on the other hand told her that I liked her but
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you only like her BUTT?


YOU ARE SELFISH AND UNGRATEFUL!!!!!!!!!!!






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She is "playing" you, and you are falling for her game. Turn your back, walk away, no contact what so ever, don't go where she goes, ignore her.

She will contact you. They are not good, playing the games they play, when played !

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THERE= a place. not here - THEIR= belongs to them - THEY'RE = short for "They Are". THEN = a point in time; not now. - THAN = used to compare things.
-If you tried 4 times to move forward, it was the FOURTH time you went FORTH! ---Something AFFECTS you. You have an EFFECT on something
Some one can win a MEDAL made of a METAL like gold for showing his METTLE (courage)
If something is LOOSE you might LOSE it. Your=belongs to "you" You're short for "you are"
You file a suit in court. You wear a suit in court. You stay in a suite at the hotel. You sweat it out. Victory is sweet!
If two sets of twin brothers have a gunfight, you have a Dual Duel
MUTE=Silent, unable to talk. MOOT= No longer relevant or important. "A mute points out a moot point."

“One of the penalties of not participating in politics is that you will be
governed by your inferiors.” – Plato
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I don't understand why women are so selfish. I have been with someone for 5 month. Already a month or so into our relationship she told me that she had great feelings for me and that she loved me. I on the other hand told her that I liked her but that I couldn't call it love yet. She pressured me to love her but I told her I needed more time. Then she broke up with me out of the blue one day after being with me for 5 month. At first she told me she wants to stay friends and a week later she wouldn't reply to my SMS or even calls. So in the end I got a hold of her and asked her why was it that she was so cold to me. She told me that she has no more feelings for me. So I asked her, how could this be? If you truly loved me you would still at least miss me. She said 'I don't want to hurt you but I don't have feelings for you anymore'. She also said that she thought she loved me at the time. I told her that wasn't normal but she kept saying that I can't define what is normal and what isn't. All this time I was trying to be so supportive of her. We practically been together almost everyday. I was there for her when she needed me the most. When she had a stomach flu I was there for her. I even took her to the hospital and was there with her even though I haven't slept for more than 24 hours. This is already not the first time I observe and experience how women are really selfish human beings who only care about themselves in the end. They are good PRETENDERS that's for sure. Nothing they say it seems can be really taken seriously because anything they do only serves their own agenda.
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08/02/2011 03:05 AM
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The man/woman relationship is a perfect gift. Both men and women can't make the most of it right now.
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08/02/2011 03:28 AM
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Women want alpha, if you aren't you are just temporary
This is the fate of man. He must strive for that which he cannot attain. He must believe in that which he cannot prove. He must seek that which he cannot find. He must travel a road without knowing his destination. Only thus can the purpose of life be fulfilled.

For I tell you, God will not do things you are too apathetic to do for yourselves.
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I don't understand why women are so selfish. I have been with someone for 5 month. Already a month or so into our relationship she told me that she had great feelings for me and that she loved me. I on the other hand told her that I liked her but that I couldn't call it love yet. She pressured me to love her but I told her I needed more time. Then she broke up with me out of the blue one day after being with me for 5 month. At first she told me she wants to stay friends and a week later she wouldn't reply to my SMS or even calls. So in the end I got a hold of her and asked her why was it that she was so cold to me. She told me that she has no more feelings for me. So I asked her, how could this be? If you truly loved me you would still at least miss me. She said 'I don't want to hurt you but I don't have feelings for you anymore'. She also said that she thought she loved me at the time. I told her that wasn't normal but she kept saying that I can't define what is normal and what isn't. All this time I was trying to be so supportive of her. We practically been together almost everyday. I was there for her when she needed me the most. When she had a stomach flu I was there for her. I even took her to the hospital and was there with her even though I haven't slept for more than 24 hours. This is already not the first time I observe and experience how women are really selfish human beings who only care about themselves in the end. They are good PRETENDERS that's for sure. Nothing they say it seems can be really taken seriously because anything they do only serves their own agenda.
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Welcome to the world of the great mystery called Woman.

The arent doing this because they are selfish, they JUST never really know what they want or they fear to miss something else. Confusion, shizofrenia and so on.
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Well i had the same experience. With many infact. All the same. Some gilrs might say, not all girls are like this, blah blah, that cos they are amazingly good hypocrites. To them nice guys are like Kleenex. Soft and disposable. Treat them the way they treat you and they will go gaga over you. I know wierd creatures they are :/

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