How to deal with as*ho*e in laws

What do they do?

drink alot, I give you an rx for Patron silver, admininster as necessary.

Don't be there when an asshole is there.

i do not take recreational drugs of any sort (coffee doesn't count)

EXCEPT

i keep one 10mg valium in my spice cabinet in the kitchen. when inlaws are over at holidays and i'm cooking, if they get to be too much to deal with, i take it. works like a charm. mind over matter. 30 minutes later, i dont mind, and they certainly dont fucking matter

LOL! It seems like most people deal with asshole in laws by using narcotics.. I'm not one to use alcohol or drugs,but I do appreciate the advice.. I almost want to do away with all the holidays,it's become a total charade, they do more harm than good..

I tell them to shut their fucking mouths. I am an adult, if they don't like what I and their daughter does they can stick a pole in their asses and waddle home.

Boundaries. You tell them exactly what is and is not acceptable if they want to see you. For my IL's there is no discussion of religion or politics and no "advice" given without solicitation. They ahve to behave in a respectful manner just as much as they expect to be respected or it's a no go.

Move to another city so they are not so near by. Is that an option.

[liveleak]
mother and father-inlaw are great. One of there kids are horriable, "it" have stollen from everybody in the family. I just don't want to "it". I made feel bad because I can't stand any family functions where 'it" is at.

a shoe?

I'm divorcing now but I never wanted kids, anyway. Especially with my husband. I had been to some family reunions, deep South so you can imagine. Pretty fucking scary, the people there.

Some in-laws are pretty hard to deal with, but you take the valium or pound down a few beers and put up with it. If you start a "feud", it will never end. The bigger, wiser person shuts up and says nothing, no matter how hard he is jabbed. Asshole is a disease and it's contagious. If you talk back to someone who has it, it won't cure them - it just makes it worse. And now you have it. Just be nice to keep the peace. It's what normal, decent people do.

Just think, someone posted Chelsea Clinton is getting married. Imagine if you had that mother-in-law . . .