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Would a mature woman date a 22 year old guy if they had the chance?

 
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Would a mature woman date a 22 year old guy if they had the chance?
When i say "mature" i mean from the age 40+. Would a relationship with that type of age gap be able to work out? I met a sexy cougar on dating club cougarconnecting (dot com).I'm 22 and i am more attracted to the older women. but i have never been in a situation where i have had the chance to ask out any on a date, but if the chance came then i would definitely take it.

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Is she chinese?
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did you tell her about your small penis?
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Older men, once they get over 40 or so tend to start looking at very young women. Older women on the other hand like men their age. Lots of times young guys in their 20s date women in their 30s, but once those guys get older they start to want the young ones. I think it has something to do with loss of testosterone.
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Plenty of cougars, but don't be sad when we act cynical and don't take you seriously. Find the right one.
I personally would love to go back to the guys I knew when I was 20, they were more real, easy going, talented, etc. These guys my age don't want me, firstly. But secondly, I do not want them, they have no talent or ambition or joy of life or excitement or sexual energy or fun, they have a big shiny truck and a big shiny head and nothing else.
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I can only speak for myself, and I'm a 41 year old woman.

I definitely would NOT be interested in dating someone in their 20's. I've got a 20 year old daughter, as well as a 14 and 13 yr old. I have been heavily invested in my children since their births, and do not care to take on another adult child, even if it would be for "fun".

It is my opinion that women (and men) who do find interest in the younger (often times MUCH younger) severely lack in self-discipline, self-esteem, security, and are fearing growing old. Myself, I am growing old gracefully and contently.

I find it very disturbing that someone much older would seek out someone much younger. If it happened solely by chance, without ANY intentions of it happening, that would be different, but purposeful seeking of a much younger mate is only another marker to detect where we are in our sick society (imho).
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I can only speak for myself, and I'm a 41 year old woman.

I definitely would NOT be interested in dating someone in their 20's. I've got a 20 year old daughter, as well as a 14 and 13 yr old. I have been heavily invested in my children since their births, and do not care to take on another adult child, even if it would be for "fun".

It is my opinion that women (and men) who do find interest in the younger (often times MUCH younger) severely lack in self-discipline, self-esteem, security, and are fearing growing old. Myself, I am growing old gracefully and contently.

I find it very disturbing that someone much older would seek out someone much younger. If it happened solely by chance, without ANY intentions of it happening, that would be different, but purposeful seeking of a much younger mate is only another marker to detect where we are in our sick society (imho).
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I understand what your saying but i imagine most women in their 40s that are seeking out males half their age dont have kids and are not really looking for much more than a bit of fun, i doubt they are seeking the qualities your pointing out.

As a male in my twenties i honestly dont understand this whole interest with women in their forties, mid thirties i could understand maybe but i honestly dont see how a relationship would work, then again i dont think these cougars are looking for a relationship.
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No.

It'd be like babysitting except not getting paid.
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a lot of women that are older run into the old "men my age....well their dick doesnt work" syndrome.

i have been hit on by MANY older women, simply for that reason.

both genders want to feel young again. and both will seek out any means possible to feel this.

i find also though, it takes a very mature younger guy to get with older women, unless it is just for dick. if you want to get one worth keeping, it will take more than a hard cock.
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When i say "mature" i mean from the age 40+. Would a relationship with that type of age gap be able to work out? I met a sexy cougar on dating club cougarconnecting (dot com).I'm 22 and i am more attracted to the older women. but i have never been in a situation where i have had the chance to ask out any on a date, but if the chance came then i would definitely take it.
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Do you have 10 million dollars?
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I can only speak for myself, and I'm a 41 year old woman.

I definitely would NOT be interested in dating someone in their 20's. I've got a 20 year old daughter, as well as a 14 and 13 yr old. I have been heavily invested in my children since their births, and do not care to take on another adult child, even if it would be for "fun".

It is my opinion that women (and men) who do find interest in the younger (often times MUCH younger) severely lack in self-discipline, self-esteem, security, and are fearing growing old. Myself, I am growing old gracefully and contently.

I find it very disturbing that someone much older would seek out someone much younger. If it happened solely by chance, without ANY intentions of it happening, that would be different, but purposeful seeking of a much younger mate is only another marker to detect where we are in our sick society (imho).
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 997526

Seriously.
You're 40.
You are content to grow old gracefully.
50 years of being alone growing old gracefully.
You don't want to go out and have fun or make love all night or listen to music or go hiking with a guy?
That is what younger guys do that older guys do not.
Eating at a restaurant and watching TV for 50 years is just not my cup of tea !
Being alone every night reading novels has never been fun to me !
Do people ever get skin hunger, or only us sensitive ones?
9 years of celibacy and loneliness can really make one think about what one is missing. I'm not afraid to grow old, I am tired of being treated like I'm old.
peace.
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There's the number 22 again!

6/22/2010...
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I can only speak for myself, and I'm a 41 year old woman.

I definitely would NOT be interested in dating someone in their 20's. I've got a 20 year old daughter, as well as a 14 and 13 yr old. I have been heavily invested in my children since their births, and do not care to take on another adult child, even if it would be for "fun".

It is my opinion that women (and men) who do find interest in the younger (often times MUCH younger) severely lack in self-discipline, self-esteem, security, and are fearing growing old. Myself, I am growing old gracefully and contently.

I find it very disturbing that someone much older would seek out someone much younger. If it happened solely by chance, without ANY intentions of it happening, that would be different, but purposeful seeking of a much younger mate is only another marker to detect where we are in our sick society (imho).
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 997526

Your first sentence says it all. You can only speak for yourself because it depends on the man. Some men in their forties are handsome and virile, and it's fine if they pair up with much younger women who appreciate fit older men who will treat them well (in the emotional sense, not sugar daddies). Other men in their forties are like old geezers, and such men shouldn't judge their more youthful peers who have more pep than they do. It shouldn't "disturb" you if no minors are involved. Men have been dating and having children with much younger women since time began. There's nothing "sick" about it. In fact, it's a sign of good health. What works for you, works for YOU. If something else works for two other adults, more power to them.
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a lot of women that are older run into the old "men my age....well their dick doesnt work" syndrome.

i have been hit on by MANY older women, simply for that reason.

both genders want to feel young again. and both will seek out any means possible to feel this.

i find also though, it takes a very mature younger guy to get with older women, unless it is just for dick. if you want to get one worth keeping, it will take more than a hard cock.
 Quoting: george_glass

Chances are that some of these "old men" in their forties gave up in their thirties because they bought the myth of inevitable steep declines. IOW, they didn't take care of their bodies, not realizing that you can be energetic in bed at an older age than conventional wisdom would dictate. Look at Sting, for a dramatic example of great sexual stamina. This is what can be achieved if you take care of your body. You can have the vigor of your younger self with the maturity of your older self.
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As one of the women stated earlier in this thread: I can only speak for myself.

I am 40 years old and when it comes to dating I generally select women younger than myself. Granted, I would be lying if I said that physical attraction played no part in it. However, the primary reason is, well, to be blunt: The vast majority of stable, intelligent, beautiful and baggage-free women my age are already spoken for and I don't do the adultery thing.

I am not saying "all women my age are crap" by any stretch of the statement. Please, I pray no one come at me with attacks under the assumption that I've said anything of the like.

However, I date a lot. I date women of all ages and sadly, the vast majority (not all, thankfully) of women I've dated that are 30+ are angry and bitter due to some jackass that came before me. No offense to any of them, but I'm too old to spend a decade proving I'm not their ex just to find out whether we're compatible or not.

I spent the majority of my adult life raising my children (and an ex's daughter that wasn't my own biological offspring) alone and dealing with "I don't date single dad's, I ain't got no time for baby-momma drama". Once my kids were raised and I was able to finally get past that hurdle now I'm having to consider that I might have missed the boat.

Not that I mind being single or anything, but it really would be nice to find a wife that accepts me for me, and not the me her ex taught her I must be.

Ugh, didn't mean to rant.
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My boss is right now, and she's 42

get in where you fit in eh?
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why not go for it and have some fun. teach him what sex is all aboutand enjoy while teaching him. that's all i have to say because it's not a relationship it's having fun at forty.
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*just* because he's 22? No.
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For one night then I kick him to the curb
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I understand what your saying but i imagine most women in their 40s that are seeking out males half their age dont have kids and are not really looking for much more than a bit of fun, i doubt they are seeking the qualities your pointing out.

As a male in my twenties i honestly dont understand this whole interest with women in their forties, mid thirties i could understand maybe but i honestly dont see how a relationship would work, then again i dont think these cougars are looking for a relationship.
 Quoting: BillyX

I met a woman 8 years older than me and we became good friends, Then I married her, lol.

Almost 5 years, Going strong hf
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As one of the women stated earlier in this thread: I can only speak for myself.

I am 40 years old and when it comes to dating I generally select women younger than myself. Granted, I would be lying if I said that physical attraction played no part in it. However, the primary reason is, well, to be blunt: The vast majority of stable, intelligent, beautiful and baggage-free women my age are already spoken for and I don't do the adultery thing.

I am not saying "all women my age are crap" by any stretch of the statement. Please, I pray no one come at me with attacks under the assumption that I've said anything of the like.

However, I date a lot. I date women of all ages and sadly, the vast majority (not all, thankfully) of women I've dated that are 30+ are angry and bitter due to some jackass that came before me. No offense to any of them, but I'm too old to spend a decade proving I'm not their ex just to find out whether we're compatible or not.

I spent the majority of my adult life raising my children (and an ex's daughter that wasn't my own biological offspring) alone and dealing with "I don't date single dad's, I ain't got no time for baby-momma drama". Once my kids were raised and I was able to finally get past that hurdle now I'm having to consider that I might have missed the boat.

Not that I mind being single or anything, but it really would be nice to find a wife that accepts me for me, and not the me her ex taught her I must be.

Ugh, didn't mean to rant.
 Quoting: Phydeau



I'm 40 and rarely date, not because I haven't been asked but because I feel so out of place in this world, it's so much bullshit all the time. People wear me out. However, no real baggage, because I haven't really had anything serious because I don't believe in living together. i want to have my space and my own stuff. i look young (30) and I am pretty well rounded, but the thing is, I, like most people like this, don't need someone else that much. I wish I could find a nice truck driver or a person that's not hovering all the time.
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If she "got the chance"?!?!!? Most forty-year-old women know HOW to seduce a 22-year-old...IF they are interested they can easily "get the chance". You WON'T be 22 forever, kid. If that's your only virtue, forget it...you'll be lucky if you can get someone your own age.

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I think compatibility is extremely important. I am in a very serious relationship with a young man who is 22 and I just turned 41. Honestly some days I don't get why he would be so in love with me, but I believe he is.

I think it is up to the individuals involved. Men and women both play games at any level at any age.

I am very active and always have been. I love to hunt, camp fish, hike.. you name it. But its hard for me to find someone who can keep up with my lifestyle. Age is just a number and I don't feel 41. Women out live men and men in his family don't live as long as women do in mine. If you really love someone, you wont see the aging process its all in your attitude anyway.

But there are some things to think about. It works for us because I can't have children and he doesn't want any. That may change for him later, but I doubt it, since I know why he feels that way.

Also he isn't intimidated that I own my own house outright and he doesn't consider me to be his sugar momma either. He works very hard 12-14 hr days.

All it is, is a mind set and you need to be on the same page and be able to communicate and know what you can expect from one another.
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sometimes people cant see past age...
ive had the opposite problem and it kind of broke my heart...so the answers yes.
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No to immature.
If you woke up breathing, you have another chance!
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I was on the 22 side of it once "interconnecting" with a cougar, she taught me half of what I know...
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im 23 and older women always eye fuck me... and i mean eye fuck me hahah but then again it could not mean anything... maybe they just wanna feel young again..... byt whoooooooo knows anyway, women are mysterious!
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Of course they would they would use him like a dildo then toss him aside the slimy selfish parasites.
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im 23 and older women always eye fuck me... and i mean eye fuck me hahah
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