TuTu and Rocky
please at least read the third link at least from the earlier post (though all three were chosen because connected). I know on this post none of us want to hurt another's feelings. Sometimes we have been misunderstood.

[link to www.op-stjoseph.org]
two qoutes from this article...

'Soon after his conversion, Augustine wrote one of his first works, called the Soliloquies, in which he basically argues that one soul cannot teach another anything. We merely present outward signs to one another through speech, and the inner working of illumination and insight that allows us to coordinate signs with truth: this is the work of God alone, who gives us to understand. It is a very humble view of the human teacher and a very exalted view of the divine teacher, and ironic, because St. Augustine would go on to be such a luminary for the whole of the Christian world, a teacher in Christ of a unique stature, from whom we still have so much to learn today.'
and
"That we scrutinize and seek to understand in all its intricacies, yes, but also that we seek to love and that we believe is a merciful truth, a truth that unveils our ills and those of others, in order to heal, not in order to destroy."