QUESTION FOR MEN: If a woman slaps you in the face, do you hit her back? | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1055394 United States 08/02/2010 06:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Winningjob User ID: 385114 United States 08/02/2010 06:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have only been slapped twice in my lifetime and didn't return a slappin'. Once at band camp (no shit) I asked a girl if she had a tight embouchure, slapped right there in my blue shit and blue shorts in the middle of camp. The second time was at an after hours club in Virgina Beach while at the Armed Forces School of Music. I was there with a female friend that I would hang out with sometimes (she was a Navy wife and going through a divorce). Anyway, I was sitting there with her and I believe one or two other people in the group and this girl that I had...uh, "DANCED" with the prior weekend saw me and walked straight over..slapped me right out of my chair while saying a few colorful metaphors and left. Apparently, she thought I was there with some other girl. Last Edited by Winningjob on 08/02/2010 06:35 PM |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1046174 United States 08/02/2010 06:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I had an ex-gf slap me once when I called her a bitch for using my credit card irresponsibly. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1055184She slapped me...hard. I didn't hit her back, but really felt like it. I knew the cops would take me to jail had I hit her, so i just bit the bullet and walked out the door, and broke up w/ her. Men, would you or have you hit a girl for slapping/hitting you first? Hitting a sociopath (cuz that's what she is) accomplishes nothing. Dump her, learn your lesson and move on. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 903456 Netherlands 08/02/2010 06:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Well, calling women a bitch is already an emotional slap in the face so you were pretty much even. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1055184--- yea, you have a point I guess...but she called me an asshole plenty of times, and I never hit her. But We don't really care if they call us that. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 738886 United Kingdom 08/02/2010 06:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Of course hit her back, im not saying punch her full on and it depends on your size and her size really. But no you cannot be a punch/slap bag to anyone, just because someone was born without a dick doesnt give them free reign to slap someone without consequences. Alternatively what you could do *raises eyebrow* wait til shes asleep and fuck her hard in the ass haha |
Ice Princess User ID: 875198 United States 08/02/2010 06:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Ice Princess User ID: 875198 United States 08/02/2010 06:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I had an ex-gf slap me once when I called her a bitch for using my credit card irresponsibly. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1046174She slapped me...hard. I didn't hit her back, but really felt like it. I knew the cops would take me to jail had I hit her, so i just bit the bullet and walked out the door, and broke up w/ her. Men, would you or have you hit a girl for slapping/hitting you first? Hitting a sociopath (cuz that's what she is) accomplishes nothing. Dump her, learn your lesson and move on. Takes one to know one. I hope you the get/got the same fate you wish upon others who had an abusive childhood. |
Ice Princess User ID: 875198 United States 08/02/2010 06:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Women can cause lot of damage as well. I know lot of cases where women were capable of abusing victim to hospital condition. I wouldnt let anyone touch me...but I wouldnt necessarily over use violence. Just prevent hitting from happening. Quoting: MustisYou are correct, women can cause a lot of damage. I am talking about a slap in the face here though. |
Hickory User ID: 974021 United States 08/02/2010 06:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | As a woman I would say yes, you should be allowed to hit her back. She assaulted you first. I personally would never assume I could get away with hitting anyone without being hit back. Male or female. You where the grown up by walking away. You have one life. Live it. You have one voice, use it. You have one :Hickory-1: |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1055394 United States 08/02/2010 06:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I slapped my husband on the cheek once. He never hit me back. He was raised to never hit a woman. Despite my lack of respect towards him during these rare drunken rages, I have the utmost respect for this man because he never hit me back. In my opinion, a real man doesn't hit a woman back. I was hit by a man unprovoked during our entire relationship and I have no respect for him to this day. Any man who would hit a woman back, ok especially with any kind of force or intention to hit, is probably not a good man. Quoting: Ice Princess 875198By your own admission, your statement is worthless. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1046174 United States 08/02/2010 06:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I had an ex-gf slap me once when I called her a bitch for using my credit card irresponsibly. Quoting: Ice Princess 875198She slapped me...hard. I didn't hit her back, but really felt like it. I knew the cops would take me to jail had I hit her, so i just bit the bullet and walked out the door, and broke up w/ her. Men, would you or have you hit a girl for slapping/hitting you first? Hitting a sociopath (cuz that's what she is) accomplishes nothing. Dump her, learn your lesson and move on. Takes one to know one. I hope you the get/got the same fate you wish upon others who had an abusive childhood. Sociopathy isn't about an abusive childhood, it's about an undeveloped brain and an inability to feel emotions, guilt, remorse ... sociopaths only care about themselves and what they want, and they don't give a rats ass about you. You are just a means to an end. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 624751 United States 08/02/2010 06:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Would the cops arrest the man in that case? Like if you were slapped first, then you slapped her backed the same way. I thought the cops ALWAYS arrested the man no matter what if he strikes 1st or 2nd. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1055184Depends on the cop. If you have a smart one who will make the determination of who the primary aggressor is based on defensive wounds, bruising, etc, then he would arrest the woman for assault. If you have an idiot for a cop show up, the man is going to jail no matter what. Either way you both lose. |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 1055184 France 08/02/2010 06:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No need to slap. You apologize for calling her a bitch give her a good fucking and the second you come tell that bitch to pick up her bra and pick up her blouse and get the hell outta my house. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 975400 |
Ice Princess User ID: 875198 United States 08/02/2010 06:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I slapped my husband on the cheek once. He never hit me back. He was raised to never hit a woman. Despite my lack of respect towards him during these rare drunken rages, I have the utmost respect for this man because he never hit me back. In my opinion, a real man doesn't hit a woman back. I was hit by a man unprovoked during our entire relationship and I have no respect for him to this day. Any man who would hit a woman back, ok especially with any kind of force or intention to hit, is probably not a good man. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1055394By your own admission, your statement is worthless. Why is that, Einstein? Because I differentiate between a smack on the cheek and the brute force a man is capable of over a woman? Yes I think a man who punches, kicks or tries to strangle a woman is different than a cheek-smacking woman, absolutely. If you beg to differ, please explain rather than make some diluted, worthless statement. I have never tried to inflict violence upon a man. The slap on the cheek was an attempt to make the person talk. I have suffered real abuse at the hands of my ex, who apologized and tried to make amends but could not stop his aggression so I finally left. I gave him MANY chances and not ONCE called the police on him, which is how it is for most men. If every woman called the police, the jails would be far more overcrowded than they are now, so all of you pansie-butts whinging over a slap on the cheek should stfu and leave the woman and count your blessings you didn't get the royal ass-kicking most woman get at the hands of abusive men! |
John Donson User ID: 1012203 United States 08/02/2010 06:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Blueacres User ID: 894464 United Kingdom 08/02/2010 06:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | An ex once slapped me full force on the chops during an arguement, I never retaliated. She did it a second time seconds later, I never retaliated but told her she could have those two for free but the next one would get one back. She did it a third time and I nearly took her face off. She never did it again! "Two roads diverged in a wood and I, I took the one less traveled by." The Road Not Taken — Robert Frost, 1916 [link to www.bartleby.com] |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1055977 New Zealand 08/02/2010 06:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | if woman think they have the right to hit a man, honestly they diserve to be hit back lol! woman arent in any position to be assaulting men, especially unpredictable men who snap or are .eg mentally ill, like myself. chances are they are at complete physical dis advantage and why they think they have the right to hit anyone without being hit first is beyong me! |
Ice Princess User ID: 875198 United States 08/02/2010 06:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I had an ex-gf slap me once when I called her a bitch for using my credit card irresponsibly. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1046174She slapped me...hard. I didn't hit her back, but really felt like it. I knew the cops would take me to jail had I hit her, so i just bit the bullet and walked out the door, and broke up w/ her. Men, would you or have you hit a girl for slapping/hitting you first? Hitting a sociopath (cuz that's what she is) accomplishes nothing. Dump her, learn your lesson and move on. Takes one to know one. I hope you the get/got the same fate you wish upon others who had an abusive childhood. Sociopathy isn't about an abusive childhood, it's about an undeveloped brain and an inability to feel emotions, guilt, remorse ... sociopaths only care about themselves and what they want, and they don't give a rats ass about you. You are just a means to an end. You are correct. Been with two now, so shame on me. My husband is a lovely man, not a sociopathic bone in his body. People need to wake up about these creeps. They will suck you in, they are very charming, and they care NOTHING about you, despite their ability to fake it, they will say they can't live without you, they are so dramatic, but the feelings begin and end with themselves, you are entirely dispensible. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1055394 United States 08/02/2010 06:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I slapped my husband on the cheek once. He never hit me back. He was raised to never hit a woman. Despite my lack of respect towards him during these rare drunken rages, I have the utmost respect for this man because he never hit me back. In my opinion, a real man doesn't hit a woman back. I was hit by a man unprovoked during our entire relationship and I have no respect for him to this day. Any man who would hit a woman back, ok especially with any kind of force or intention to hit, is probably not a good man. Quoting: Ice Princess 875198By your own admission, your statement is worthless. Why is that, Einstein? Because I differentiate between a smack on the cheek and the brute force a man is capable of over a woman? Yes I think a man who punches, kicks or tries to strangle a woman is different than a cheek-smacking woman, absolutely. If you beg to differ, please explain rather than make some diluted, worthless statement. I have never tried to inflict violence upon a man. The slap on the cheek was an attempt to make the person talk. I have suffered real abuse at the hands of my ex, who apologized and tried to make amends but could not stop his aggression so I finally left. I gave him MANY chances and not ONCE called the police on him, which is how it is for most men. If every woman called the police, the jails would be far more overcrowded than they are now, so all of you pansie-butts whinging over a slap on the cheek should stfu and leave the woman and count your blessings you didn't get the royal ass-kicking most woman get at the hands of abusive men! No, Einstein. Because YOU introduced violence into the equation. You're damned lucky he didn't knock your yammering block off. |
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Ice Princess User ID: 875198 United States 08/02/2010 07:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I slapped my husband on the cheek once. He never hit me back. He was raised to never hit a woman. Despite my lack of respect towards him during these rare drunken rages, I have the utmost respect for this man because he never hit me back. In my opinion, a real man doesn't hit a woman back. I was hit by a man unprovoked during our entire relationship and I have no respect for him to this day. Any man who would hit a woman back, ok especially with any kind of force or intention to hit, is probably not a good man. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1055394By your own admission, your statement is worthless. Why is that, Einstein? Because I differentiate between a smack on the cheek and the brute force a man is capable of over a woman? Yes I think a man who punches, kicks or tries to strangle a woman is different than a cheek-smacking woman, absolutely. If you beg to differ, please explain rather than make some diluted, worthless statement. I have never tried to inflict violence upon a man. The slap on the cheek was an attempt to make the person talk. I have suffered real abuse at the hands of my ex, who apologized and tried to make amends but could not stop his aggression so I finally left. I gave him MANY chances and not ONCE called the police on him, which is how it is for most men. If every woman called the police, the jails would be far more overcrowded than they are now, so all of you pansie-butts whinging over a slap on the cheek should stfu and leave the woman and count your blessings you didn't get the royal ass-kicking most woman get at the hands of abusive men! No, Einstein. Because YOU introduced violence into the equation. You're damned lucky he didn't knock your yammering block off. Damned lucky? Why, because you are a nobody, worthless peice of crap full of bitterness and hate, and your own self-hatred would easily drive you to beat a woman within an inch of her life? A slap on the cheek isn't justification for an ass-kicking you low life white trash POS. It is not ok, but "knocking your yammering block off" is hardly an appropriate response. Sounds like you need a good, hard ass whooping from a MAN. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1055394 United States 08/02/2010 07:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No, Einstein. Because YOU introduced violence into the equation. You're damned lucky he didn't knock your yammering block off. Quoting: Ice Princess 875198Damned lucky? Why, because you are a nobody, worthless peice of crap full of bitterness and hate, and your own self-hatred would easily drive you to beat a woman within an inch of her life? A slap on the cheek isn't justification for an ass-kicking you low life white trash POS. It is not ok, but "knocking your yammering block off" is hardly an appropriate response. Sounds like you need a good, hard ass whooping from a MAN. You sound like my chickens. But they give me eggs. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1029848 Canada 08/02/2010 07:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I had an ex-gf slap me once when I called her a bitch for using my credit card irresponsibly. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1055184She slapped me...hard. I didn't hit her back, but really felt like it. I knew the cops would take me to jail had I hit her, so i just bit the bullet and walked out the door, and broke up w/ her. Men, would you or have you hit a girl for slapping/hitting you first? sounds like she's been a bad gurl twice and needs to be bent over your knee for a good spanking -- she's practically begging for it! haha, but seriously, it's not in your best interest to hit a woman, ever. if you do and it gets legal, you're going to lose as the man in court. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 875198 United States 08/02/2010 07:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I threw my exwife through the glass door of my house by her neck. Of course I went to jail for the weekend but To this day I still do not regret it. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1054834How do you like your permanent criminal record? Oh, that's right. You don't work, so no biggie. You probably STILL blame her, don't you? |