QUESTION FOR MEN: If a woman slaps you in the face, do you hit her back? | |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 31696926 Canada 02/06/2013 11:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Call your other girlfriend and have her beat the crap out of the wench. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1056305 best answer ever!! No seriously women usually think that men are not gonna hit them back because men usually brag about being the "STRONGER" sex and also because of the "princess" complex of some women that think they're too precious for men to hit them. As a female myself i'm glad to learn that women can do damage and that we're not all weak pussies. I bet all the pricks bragging about hitting women on here also won't have any problem admitting that the "weaker" sex is not that weak after all, that the sexes might be equal on that level? I expect men to hit me back even if i'm justified to hit them but if i do i expect a real fight and go for the kill. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 31696926 Canada 02/06/2013 11:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | if you hit a girl for any reason other than self-defense (meaning she would most likely have to have a weapon) you're a total wimp. you should be able to block it or dodge it in the first place. Quoting: anonymoose 30280786 IKR!? Cause men are "usually" stronger than women no? They brag so much about that! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 33848418 Germany 02/06/2013 11:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | if you hit a girl for any reason other than self-defense (meaning she would most likely have to have a weapon) you're a total wimp. you should be able to block it or dodge it in the first place. Quoting: anonymoose 30280786 IKR!? Cause men are "usually" stronger than women no? They brag so much about that! I never hear men brag about that. It's simple biology. No idea what IKR means, though. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 31696926 Canada 02/06/2013 11:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | if you hit a girl for any reason other than self-defense (meaning she would most likely have to have a weapon) you're a total wimp. you should be able to block it or dodge it in the first place. Quoting: anonymoose 30280786 IKR!? Cause men are "usually" stronger than women no? They brag so much about that! I never hear men brag about that. It's simple biology. No idea what IKR means, though. Well the same pricks that bitch about women not being equal to men(especially on physical strenght) are usually the ones that brag about needing to hit women even just for a little girly slap lol. Oh the irony! IKR= I Know Right! |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 33848418 Germany 02/06/2013 11:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | if you hit a girl for any reason other than self-defense (meaning she would most likely have to have a weapon) you're a total wimp. you should be able to block it or dodge it in the first place. Quoting: anonymoose 30280786 IKR!? Cause men are "usually" stronger than women no? They brag so much about that! I never hear men brag about that. It's simple biology. No idea what IKR means, though. Well the same pricks that bitch about women not being equal to men(especially on physical strenght) are usually the ones that brag about needing to hit women even just for a little girly slap lol. Oh the irony! IKR= I Know Right! I never hear any men brag about things like that, it's just the way it is. Males are bigger with more upper body strength. It's not a competition, it's just nature. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 33848418 Germany 02/06/2013 11:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You will feel you have the right to slap her back, but you are the man...don't. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33827543 We all make choices. If one decides to initiate violence on another, then they should expect the same in kind. One (male or female) simply cannot go around in a civilized society striking other people. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 33827543 United States 02/06/2013 11:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You will feel you have the right to slap her back, but you are the man...don't. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33827543 We all make choices. If one decides to initiate violence on another, then they should expect the same in kind. One (male or female) simply cannot go around in a civilized society striking other people. Yes, but we also can make the choice not to retaliate. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 33455081 United States 02/06/2013 11:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I threw my exwife through the glass door of my house by her neck. Of course I went to jail for the weekend but To this day I still do not regret it. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 875198How do you like your permanent criminal record? Oh, that's right. You don't work, so no biggie. You probably STILL blame her, don't you? I like my record just fine. I like my job just fine, and I like my second nondrinking wife just fine. And yes I do blame my first drunk ass wife for it. She started beating on me and I finally had enough. How do you like having ESP and doing Remote viewing? I am a woman and I don't think it's your fault if she was beating you first. If more people were aware that they could just as well be hurt back, probably wouldn't see as many people abusing others. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 33848418 Germany 02/07/2013 12:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You will feel you have the right to slap her back, but you are the man...don't. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33827543 We all make choices. If one decides to initiate violence on another, then they should expect the same in kind. One (male or female) simply cannot go around in a civilized society striking other people. Yes, but we also can make the choice not to retaliate. We could make that choice, but it's unproductive. Rules, boundaries, and limitations in life. You don't hit me, and I won't hit you. One cannot have 50 % of the population thinking it is ok to initiate violence on another human being. And I know most women would not initiate this type of violence, or men. It's just those minority of people who need to understand that their are consequences for raising their hands to others to do violence. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 33848418 Germany 02/07/2013 12:20 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Actually, I'd reverse that theory, if I was going to run with it. But I would hit back in kind, either way. It's the only way some folks learn, unfortunately. I am just glad I have never been in that situation. I tend to avoid those types. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 33827543 United States 02/07/2013 12:25 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You will feel you have the right to slap her back, but you are the man...don't. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33827543 We all make choices. If one decides to initiate violence on another, then they should expect the same in kind. One (male or female) simply cannot go around in a civilized society striking other people. Yes, but we also can make the choice not to retaliate. We could make that choice, but it's unproductive. Rules, boundaries, and limitations in life. You don't hit me, and I won't hit you. One cannot have 50 % of the population thinking it is ok to initiate violence on another human being. And I know most women would not initiate this type of violence, or men. It's just those minority of people who need to understand that their are consequences for raising their hands to others to do violence. I am not advocating violence--from women or from men. You are right to say that if you don't hit me, I won't hit you, but that works only some of the time. A man is a lot stronger than a woman, he can seriously hurt her, he can explore other options besides striking her back. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 33848418 Germany 02/07/2013 12:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33848418 We all make choices. If one decides to initiate violence on another, then they should expect the same in kind. One (male or female) simply cannot go around in a civilized society striking other people. Yes, but we also can make the choice not to retaliate. We could make that choice, but it's unproductive. Rules, boundaries, and limitations in life. You don't hit me, and I won't hit you. One cannot have 50 % of the population thinking it is ok to initiate violence on another human being. And I know most women would not initiate this type of violence, or men. It's just those minority of people who need to understand that their are consequences for raising their hands to others to do violence. I am not advocating violence--from women or from men. You are right to say that if you don't hit me, I won't hit you, but that works only some of the time. A man is a lot stronger than a woman, he can seriously hurt her, he can explore other options besides striking her back. Sure, their are options. Ignore it or call the police, I guess. It's never happened to me, but I know I would hit back. It's my natural reaction, having grown up fighting. It would all be over before I could even consider options. Sort of like pulling your hand away from a hot stove; no thought involved, just reaction. Maybe people who are martial arts experts would understand. And it's a learning experience for her. She might think twice before ever trying that again, and maybe gain from the experience. I have seen women who have done that, and got hit in return; the look on their face was certainly one of, " I better not do that shit again". |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 31557420 United States 02/07/2013 12:41 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I had an ex-gf slap me once when I called her a bitch for using my credit card irresponsibly. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1055184She slapped me...hard. I didn't hit her back, but really felt like it. I knew the cops would take me to jail had I hit her, so i just bit the bullet and walked out the door, and broke up w/ her. Men, would you or have you hit a girl for slapping/hitting you first? You're an idiot for letting her use your credit card at all. No, you should not hit back, ever. Yes you should. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 33827543 United States 02/07/2013 12:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | We could make that choice, but it's unproductive. Rules, boundaries, and limitations in life. You don't hit me, and I won't hit you. One cannot have 50 % of the population thinking it is ok to initiate violence on another human being. And I know most women would not initiate this type of violence, or men. It's just those minority of people who need to understand that their are consequences for raising their hands to others to do violence. I am not advocating violence--from women or from men. You are right to say that if you don't hit me, I won't hit you, but that works only some of the time. A man is a lot stronger than a woman, he can seriously hurt her, he can explore other options besides striking her back. Sure, their are options. Ignore it or call the police, I guess. It's never happened to me, but I know I would hit back. It's my natural reaction, having grown up fighting. It would all be over before I could even consider options. Sort of like pulling your hand away from a hot stove; no thought involved, just reaction. Maybe people who are martial arts experts would understand. And it's a learning experience for her. She might think twice before ever trying that again, and maybe gain from the experience. I have seen women who have done that, and got hit in return; the look on their face was certainly one of, " I better not do that shit again". Agree to disagree then. Cheers AC Germany |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 33848418 Germany 02/07/2013 12:59 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33848418 We could make that choice, but it's unproductive. Rules, boundaries, and limitations in life. You don't hit me, and I won't hit you. One cannot have 50 % of the population thinking it is ok to initiate violence on another human being. And I know most women would not initiate this type of violence, or men. It's just those minority of people who need to understand that their are consequences for raising their hands to others to do violence. I am not advocating violence--from women or from men. You are right to say that if you don't hit me, I won't hit you, but that works only some of the time. A man is a lot stronger than a woman, he can seriously hurt her, he can explore other options besides striking her back. Sure, their are options. Ignore it or call the police, I guess. It's never happened to me, but I know I would hit back. It's my natural reaction, having grown up fighting. It would all be over before I could even consider options. Sort of like pulling your hand away from a hot stove; no thought involved, just reaction. Maybe people who are martial arts experts would understand. And it's a learning experience for her. She might think twice before ever trying that again, and maybe gain from the experience. I have seen women who have done that, and got hit in return; the look on their face was certainly one of, " I better not do that shit again". Agree to disagree then. Cheers AC Germany Alrighty. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 33851446 United States 02/07/2013 01:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Dude let her know her role!!!! You should sucker punched that bi$&@ long before the credit car issue!!! The earlier you start the quicker they learn. Remember after you whimper next one you have to immeidetly say " if anyone asks!!! You fell!!! Got that??? U Got that!!!!" |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 33777930 United States 02/07/2013 01:28 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I had an ex-gf slap me once when I called her a bitch for using my credit card irresponsibly. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1055184 She slapped me...hard. I didn't hit her back, but really felt like it. I knew the cops would take me to jail had I hit her, so i just bit the bullet and walked out the door, and broke up w/ her. Men, would you or have you hit a girl for slapping/hitting you first? That's called domestic violence and the state prosecutes not you. You hit her back and one or both report it you can pretty much bet you both go to jail. |
jet54 User ID: 13261022 United States 02/07/2013 01:53 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A woman KNOWS a MAN can absorb a slap on the face. And a real man WILL absorb a slap because it is no threat to their masculinity. That is why so many movies on TCM show the man absorbing a proverbial slap from the woman. A woman needs to know they can feel safe with their anger.( And the man needs to know they can control their anger, after their return from home from WWII.) |
Children of the Atom User ID: 20257839 United States 02/07/2013 02:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | QUESTION FOR MEN: If a woman slaps you in the face, do you hit her back? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1055184 Fuck NO. Anyone who does is a pussy. I had an ex-gf slap me once when I called her a bitch for using my credit card irresponsibly. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1055184 Sucks, but ya know, shouldn't of called her a bitch. Oh, btw - Leave her ass. |
Abaddon User ID: 33876657 United States 02/07/2013 01:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I had an ex-gf slap me once when I called her a bitch for using my credit card irresponsibly. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1055184 She slapped me...hard. I didn't hit her back, but really felt like it. I knew the cops would take me to jail had I hit her, so i just bit the bullet and walked out the door, and broke up w/ her. Men, would you or have you hit a girl for slapping/hitting you first? Nope, would never hit a woman. On a side note, I don't understand why anybody still uses credit; they're nothing but debt traps. |
Scorned User ID: 57498905 United States 04/29/2014 12:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I recently slapped my husband in the face and he hit me back so hard I fell into the kitchen table. I don't think he felt my slap through his beard. I'm 5'3" at 130lbs and he's 6'2" at 280lbs. The reason I slapped him was because he repeatedly called me a bitch, told me I was worthless and that he was going to leave me and take our son. He did this while standing over me aggressively and I felt really upset,vhurt and threatened. I DID NOT instigate anything. I was upset with him for taking off to some frat party without saying anything and to express my frustration I refused to speak to him. He escalated the situation with his verbal bullshit. He has broken doors, walls, various household items. He has previously choked me and tried full on punching me but I was able to get him off of me, this was of course after he threw the computer, a shelf and broke a vase that I cleaned up.I know I shouldn't have slapped him, but I don't think I was completely wrong for it. But because of the situation we are both going to court. . |
CMcC User ID: 111064 United States 04/29/2014 12:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | As a general rule men don't hit women, period. But with women's equality comes women robbers, terrorists etc so yeah definitely, an appropriate level of mayhem and violence must be applied to protect the public. Fear God and Dread Nought. |