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I married an ex-stripper because i loved her and after 9 months she left me.. I can not get a pay check untill september 2010. my last paycheck was
in December, but we have been on a never ending vacation since we were courting... an $800 dollar dinner for two at Craft Steak House. Holy crap the list goes on and on and on and on................now she wants HALF... FUCK
HER..

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I fixed the title ... bump
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You married a stripper. Your fault. No sympathy.
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????
need more back story
how did you two survive without a paycheque for so long?
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Half of what?
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You married a stripper. Your fault. No sympathy.
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awwww Boooooo!!
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Re: I married an ex-stripper because i loved her and after 9 months she left me.. I can not get a pay check untill september 2010. my last paycheck was
dude---remember you can't take pussy to the bank

but the pussy will take you to the bank

;)


(and i am female)
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Half of what?
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Half of my FAMILY's Propertys!!!
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Re: I married an ex-stripper because i loved her and after 9 months she left me.. I can not get a pay check untill september 2010. my last paycheck was
an $800 dollar dinner for two at Craft Steak House.
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dude, it says

"Average Check
3 course menu starting at $85"

she must have charged you for sex, too.

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dude---remember you can't take pussy to the bank

but the pussy will take you to the bank

;)


(and i am female)
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Yea, I know. I was sooo sure that THIS was It...
jokes on me i guess
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an $800 dollar dinner for two at Craft Steak House.



dude, it says

"Average Check
3 course menu starting at $85"

she must have charged you for sex, too.

[link to www.mgmgrand.com]
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we both had 6 OZ of KOBE and a crazy bottle of Sake.... plus sides and desert.
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Half of what?

Half of my FAMILY's Propertys!!!
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really? how is that so? are your parents dead?

what was in their will/trust?

and what about siblings? any? do they know?

are you the sole inheritor of the family property as last surviving son?


9 months you can contest this..get your marriage annulled ..
fraud..
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Re: I married an ex-stripper because i loved her and after 9 months she left me.. I can not get a pay check untill september 2010. my last paycheck was
should've gotten with a gay man

cause gay can't marry

so

they can't take half

LOL
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you live in California right?

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Re: I married an ex-stripper because i loved her and after 9 months she left me.. I can not get a pay check untill september 2010. my last paycheck was
Ex-stripper. Red flag.

If you owned the property before you got married, depending on what state you're in, you shouldn't have to give her half. ESPECIALLY when the marriage was only 9 months -- and she's the one who abandoned the marriage.

Next time don't be easy prey for a woman who knows how to shake her ass to get what she wants. There are decent women out there, few and far between.
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Half of what?

Half of my FAMILY's Propertys!!!


really? how is that so? are your parents dead?

what was in their will/trust?

and what about siblings? any? do they know?

are you the sole inheritor of the family property as last surviving son?


9 months you can contest this..get your marriage annulled ..
fraud..
 Quoting: junipero

Only one surviver, My Dad, but he is going through Altzimers.
The trust goes to me and secondary my sister, its 60/40
i share it with my sister.
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I live in Massachusetts.. I know I'm DOOMED.
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Half of what?

Half of my FAMILY's Propertys!!!


really? how is that so? are your parents dead?

what was in their will/trust?

and what about siblings? any? do they know?

are you the sole inheritor of the family property as last surviving son?


9 months you can contest this..get your marriage annulled ..
fraud..

Only one surviver, My Dad, but he is going through Altzimers.
The trust goes to me and secondary my sister, its 60/40
i share it with my sister.
 Quoting: Seraphic


you are not doomed.. get your sister involved..what is your 'wife' wanting? half of all assets? for a brief 'marriage'?

believe me your dad may have altzheimers but he will resonate with this.. or someone caring for him can get the message through..

get a power of attorney document .. perhaps have your sister be the one because of your situation.. she would not skunk you would she?

maybe agfree to go 50/50 if she helps you..better than stripzella getting half
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you are not doomed.. get your sister involved..what is your 'wife' wanting? half of all assets? for a brief 'marriage'?

believe me your dad may have altzheimers but he will resonate with this.. or someone caring for him can get the message through..

get a power of attorney document .. perhaps have your sister be the one because of your situation.. she would not skunk you would she?

maybe agfree to go 50/50 if she helps you..better than stripzella getting half
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Yes, thats it...
Thanks Junipero
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see how GLP solves your life problems!


just ask chuckle
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see how GLP solves your life problems!


just ask chuckle
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Thats what i did. yeehaww!!
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Re: I married an ex-stripper because i loved her and after 9 months she left me.. I can not get a pay check untill september 2010. my last paycheck was
you are not doomed.. get your sister involved..what is your 'wife' wanting? half of all assets? for a brief 'marriage'?

believe me your dad may have altzheimers but he will resonate with this.. or someone caring for him can get the message through..

get a power of attorney document .. perhaps have your sister be the one because of your situation.. she would not skunk you would she?

maybe agfree to go 50/50 if she helps you..better than stripzella getting half

Yes, thats it...
Thanks Junipero
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 Quoting: Seraphic


in grief or uncertainty..we sometimes make choices that we would not otherwise..

i went through a long time of being the executor and going through family shit ..and dealing with legal shit and a lawyer out of state who was trying to take the escrow..

i am no expert6 but you can fight this..

annull the marriage ..reasons? under duress..stress, etc.

if not then get that power of attorney.. i do not know what mass laws are but my advice qwhen dealing with lawyers is keep all communications brief! including emails..they are not (emotional) counselors.. they will listen but charge your ass off..even when you think they are sincere..

think and write down all your points without distractions..

good luck..it is not her right to your familys assets only after 9 months despite your lack of judgement.. she wanted the divorce right?

she should walk away..
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I live in Massachusetts.. I know I'm DOOMED.
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Lesson learned? You haven't even gotten close yet.

If she really does go after $$ and property and you find yourself in a pissing match, just wait until you see how much fucking money the attorneys steal from wallet. Btwn your lawyers and her, you just may be doomed. But really, based on the fact that you were together for such a brief period of time, there's little she can do.


So it ain't as bad as it could be.... unless ....

you find out she got pregnant while you were 'courting' her for the past 8 months.
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I live in Massachusetts.. I know I'm DOOMED.
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Lesson learned? You haven't even gotten close yet.

If she really does go after $$ and property and you find yourself in a pissing match, just wait until you see how much fucking money the attorneys steal from wallet. Btwn your lawyers and her, you just may be doomed. But really, based on the fact that you were together for such a brief period of time, there's little she can do.


So it ain't as bad as it could be.... unless ....

you find out she got pregnant while you were 'courting' her for the past 8 months.
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no chance, she stopped having sex with me, and i paid for her birth control.
I'm safe ..
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Re: I married an ex-stripper because i loved her and after 9 months she left me.. I can not get a pay check untill september 2010. my last paycheck was
How would you rate your relationship with her on a scale of 1 to 10? Was it worth it?
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Half of what?

Half of my FAMILY's Propertys!!!
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1. did you get a prenuptial agreement (no I'm guessing)

2. Do you live in a community property state? (yes, I'm guessing)

3. Is there a minimum length of time a couple must have been married for the wife (without children) to be ABLE to demand 50% of your assets in a settlement? (I know there are minimum lengths of time one must be married in order for either partner to expect any alimony.)

4. Are you in a better legal situation because SHE left you, you did not leave HER; you did not abandon the marriage, she did.

5. Is there ANY property of yours that is ALSO in her name? (for example, are you both on the mortgage to your home, are you both on the title to your car)

6. Do you have any children from a previous marriage? They have a stake in what happens to you financially and this woman who is soon to be your x-wife.

7. Did you have a will that had been drawn up prior to being married to her? If so, did you change it to make her a beneficiary in the event of your death? (This would show intention on your part to leave her with your assests.)
If you do have a will, but you never changed it to make her your beneficiary, I would think that works in your behalf.

8. Check whether she has pulled this before with some poor fool ahead of you (possibly abroad). Maybe this is her M.O. Maybe she goes around marrying guys, staying married for a short time and then takes them to the cleaners. Maybe???
Talk to her "oldest friend" that you know of and pump that person for info about her past.

9. The simplest solution is for you to claim alienation of her affections and prove that she carried on an extra-marital affair at some point during your short marriage.
If she is the skank she sounds like she is, this should have indeed actually happened.


GOOD LUCK

Sorry for your hard luck.
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dude---remember you can't take pussy to the bank

but the pussy will take you to the bank

;)


(and i am female)
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I think they call that sexually incurred debt.
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Half of what?

Half of my FAMILY's Propertys!!!

THIS!

9 months you can contest this..get your marriage annulled ..
fraud..
You were married for too short a time. There was no investment in the marriage...Annul it.

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Half of what?

Half of my FAMILY's Propertys!!!


1. did you get a prenuptial agreement (no I'm guessing)

2. Do you live in a community property state? (yes, I'm guessing)

3. Is there a minimum length of time a couple must have been married for the wife (without children) to be ABLE to demand 50% of your assets in a settlement? (I know there are minimum lengths of time one must be married in order for either partner to expect any alimony.)

4. Are you in a better legal situation because SHE left you, you did not leave HER; you did not abandon the marriage, she did.

5. Is there ANY property of yours that is ALSO in her name? (for example, are you both on the mortgage to your home, are you both on the title to your car)

6. Do you have any children from a previous marriage? They have a stake in what happens to you financially and this woman who is soon to be your x-wife.

7. Did you have a will that had been drawn up prior to being married to her? If so, did you change it to make her a beneficiary in the event of your death? (This would show intention on your part to leave her with your assests.)
If you do have a will, but you never changed it to make her your beneficiary, I would think that works in your behalf.

8. Check whether she has pulled this before with some poor fool ahead of you (possibly abroad). Maybe this is her M.O. Maybe she goes around marrying guys, staying married for a short time and then takes them to the cleaners. Maybe???
Talk to her "oldest friend" that you know of and pump that person for info about her past.

9. The simplest solution is for you to claim alienation of her affections and prove that she carried on an extra-marital affair at some point during your short marriage.
If she is the skank she sounds like she is, this should have indeed actually happened.


GOOD LUCK

Sorry for your hard luck.
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Thank you, and Yes i did have her sign a anti-nuptual agreement, But her lawyer was not available to be present at the signing, so now she claims to have signed it under duress.
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From DivorceSupport.com

Massachusetts is referred to as an "equitable distribution" state.
When parties are unable to reach a settlement, Family Court will take the following approach to dividing the assets; First, it will go through a discovery process to classify which property and debt is to be considered marital.
........................
The courts shall consider the following: a. length of the marriage;

Google Massachusetts divorce laws..
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From DivorceSupport.com

Massachusetts is referred to as an "equitable distribution" state.
When parties are unable to reach a settlement, Family Court will take the following approach to dividing the assets; First, it will go through a discovery process to classify which property and debt is to be considered marital.
........................
The courts shall consider the following: a. length of the marriage;

Google Massachusetts divorce laws..
 Quoting: Tardy 2D Party

Thanks Tardy 2D Party hf
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