I married an ex-stripper because i loved her and after 9 months she left me.. I can not get a pay check untill september 2010. my last paycheck was | |
Seraphic (OP) User ID: 932957 United States 08/13/2010 01:32 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I married an ex-stripper because i loved her and after 9 months she left me.. I can not get a pay check untill september 2010. my last paycheck was I fixed the title ... Anyone who in discussion relies upon authority uses, not his understanding, but rather his memory. Leonardo Da Vinci 1452-1519, Italian Inventor, Architect, Painter, Scientist, Sculptor |
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Olibow User ID: 769657 United States 08/13/2010 01:38 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I married an ex-stripper because i loved her and after 9 months she left me.. I can not get a pay check untill september 2010. my last paycheck was Half of what? ~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~ From ED TV (1999) I feel that Ed (TV) is the apotheosis of a prevailing American syndrome. It used to be that someone became famous because they were special. Now people are considered special just for being famous. Fame, itself, is now a moral good in this country. It's its own virtue. |
Seraphic (OP) User ID: 932957 United States 08/13/2010 01:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I married an ex-stripper because i loved her and after 9 months she left me.. I can not get a pay check untill september 2010. my last paycheck was You married a stripper. Your fault. No sympathy. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1065436awwww Boooooo!! Anyone who in discussion relies upon authority uses, not his understanding, but rather his memory. Leonardo Da Vinci 1452-1519, Italian Inventor, Architect, Painter, Scientist, Sculptor |
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Seraphic (OP) User ID: 932957 United States 08/13/2010 01:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I married an ex-stripper because i loved her and after 9 months she left me.. I can not get a pay check untill september 2010. my last paycheck was Half of what? Quoting: OlibowHalf of my FAMILY's Propertys!!! Anyone who in discussion relies upon authority uses, not his understanding, but rather his memory. Leonardo Da Vinci 1452-1519, Italian Inventor, Architect, Painter, Scientist, Sculptor |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1066573 United States 08/13/2010 01:41 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I married an ex-stripper because i loved her and after 9 months she left me.. I can not get a pay check untill september 2010. my last paycheck was an $800 dollar dinner for two at Craft Steak House. Quoting: Seraphicdude, it says "Average Check 3 course menu starting at $85" she must have charged you for sex, too. [link to www.mgmgrand.com] |
Seraphic (OP) User ID: 932957 United States 08/13/2010 01:42 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I married an ex-stripper because i loved her and after 9 months she left me.. I can not get a pay check untill september 2010. my last paycheck was dude---remember you can't take pussy to the bank Quoting: juniperobut the pussy will take you to the bank ;) (and i am female) Yea, I know. I was sooo sure that THIS was It... jokes on me i guess Anyone who in discussion relies upon authority uses, not his understanding, but rather his memory. Leonardo Da Vinci 1452-1519, Italian Inventor, Architect, Painter, Scientist, Sculptor |
Seraphic (OP) User ID: 932957 United States 08/13/2010 01:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I married an ex-stripper because i loved her and after 9 months she left me.. I can not get a pay check untill september 2010. my last paycheck was an $800 dollar dinner for two at Craft Steak House. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1066573dude, it says "Average Check 3 course menu starting at $85" she must have charged you for sex, too. [link to www.mgmgrand.com] we both had 6 OZ of KOBE and a crazy bottle of Sake.... plus sides and desert. Anyone who in discussion relies upon authority uses, not his understanding, but rather his memory. Leonardo Da Vinci 1452-1519, Italian Inventor, Architect, Painter, Scientist, Sculptor |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1014818 United States 08/13/2010 01:44 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I married an ex-stripper because i loved her and after 9 months she left me.. I can not get a pay check untill september 2010. my last paycheck was Half of what? Quoting: SeraphicHalf of my FAMILY's Propertys!!! really? how is that so? are your parents dead? what was in their will/trust? and what about siblings? any? do they know? are you the sole inheritor of the family property as last surviving son? 9 months you can contest this..get your marriage annulled .. fraud.. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1064550 United States 08/13/2010 01:46 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I married an ex-stripper because i loved her and after 9 months she left me.. I can not get a pay check untill september 2010. my last paycheck was Ex-stripper. Red flag. If you owned the property before you got married, depending on what state you're in, you shouldn't have to give her half. ESPECIALLY when the marriage was only 9 months -- and she's the one who abandoned the marriage. Next time don't be easy prey for a woman who knows how to shake her ass to get what she wants. There are decent women out there, few and far between. |
Seraphic (OP) User ID: 932957 United States 08/13/2010 01:49 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I married an ex-stripper because i loved her and after 9 months she left me.. I can not get a pay check untill september 2010. my last paycheck was Half of what? Quoting: juniperoHalf of my FAMILY's Propertys!!! really? how is that so? are your parents dead? what was in their will/trust? and what about siblings? any? do they know? are you the sole inheritor of the family property as last surviving son? 9 months you can contest this..get your marriage annulled .. fraud.. Only one surviver, My Dad, but he is going through Altzimers. The trust goes to me and secondary my sister, its 60/40 i share it with my sister. Anyone who in discussion relies upon authority uses, not his understanding, but rather his memory. Leonardo Da Vinci 1452-1519, Italian Inventor, Architect, Painter, Scientist, Sculptor |
Seraphic (OP) User ID: 932957 United States 08/13/2010 01:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I married an ex-stripper because i loved her and after 9 months she left me.. I can not get a pay check untill september 2010. my last paycheck was I live in Massachusetts.. I know I'm DOOMED. Lesson Learned Anyone who in discussion relies upon authority uses, not his understanding, but rather his memory. Leonardo Da Vinci 1452-1519, Italian Inventor, Architect, Painter, Scientist, Sculptor |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1014818 United States 08/13/2010 01:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I married an ex-stripper because i loved her and after 9 months she left me.. I can not get a pay check untill september 2010. my last paycheck was Half of what? Quoting: SeraphicHalf of my FAMILY's Propertys!!! really? how is that so? are your parents dead? what was in their will/trust? and what about siblings? any? do they know? are you the sole inheritor of the family property as last surviving son? 9 months you can contest this..get your marriage annulled .. fraud.. Only one surviver, My Dad, but he is going through Altzimers. The trust goes to me and secondary my sister, its 60/40 i share it with my sister. you are not doomed.. get your sister involved..what is your 'wife' wanting? half of all assets? for a brief 'marriage'? believe me your dad may have altzheimers but he will resonate with this.. or someone caring for him can get the message through.. get a power of attorney document .. perhaps have your sister be the one because of your situation.. she would not skunk you would she? maybe agfree to go 50/50 if she helps you..better than stripzella getting half |
Seraphic (OP) User ID: 932957 United States 08/13/2010 01:59 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I married an ex-stripper because i loved her and after 9 months she left me.. I can not get a pay check untill september 2010. my last paycheck was you are not doomed.. get your sister involved..what is your 'wife' wanting? half of all assets? for a brief 'marriage'? Quoting: juniperobelieve me your dad may have altzheimers but he will resonate with this.. or someone caring for him can get the message through.. get a power of attorney document .. perhaps have your sister be the one because of your situation.. she would not skunk you would she? maybe agfree to go 50/50 if she helps you..better than stripzella getting half Yes, thats it... Thanks Junipero Anyone who in discussion relies upon authority uses, not his understanding, but rather his memory. Leonardo Da Vinci 1452-1519, Italian Inventor, Architect, Painter, Scientist, Sculptor |
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Seraphic (OP) User ID: 932957 United States 08/13/2010 02:08 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I married an ex-stripper because i loved her and after 9 months she left me.. I can not get a pay check untill september 2010. my last paycheck was see how GLP solves your life problems! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1066427just ask Thats what i did. yeehaww!! Anyone who in discussion relies upon authority uses, not his understanding, but rather his memory. Leonardo Da Vinci 1452-1519, Italian Inventor, Architect, Painter, Scientist, Sculptor |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1014818 United States 08/13/2010 02:08 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I married an ex-stripper because i loved her and after 9 months she left me.. I can not get a pay check untill september 2010. my last paycheck was you are not doomed.. get your sister involved..what is your 'wife' wanting? half of all assets? for a brief 'marriage'? Quoting: Seraphicbelieve me your dad may have altzheimers but he will resonate with this.. or someone caring for him can get the message through.. get a power of attorney document .. perhaps have your sister be the one because of your situation.. she would not skunk you would she? maybe agfree to go 50/50 if she helps you..better than stripzella getting half Yes, thats it... Thanks Junipero in grief or uncertainty..we sometimes make choices that we would not otherwise.. i went through a long time of being the executor and going through family shit ..and dealing with legal shit and a lawyer out of state who was trying to take the escrow.. i am no expert6 but you can fight this.. annull the marriage ..reasons? under duress..stress, etc. if not then get that power of attorney.. i do not know what mass laws are but my advice qwhen dealing with lawyers is keep all communications brief! including emails..they are not (emotional) counselors.. they will listen but charge your ass off..even when you think they are sincere.. think and write down all your points without distractions.. good luck..it is not her right to your familys assets only after 9 months despite your lack of judgement.. she wanted the divorce right? she should walk away.. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 993047 United States 08/13/2010 02:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I married an ex-stripper because i loved her and after 9 months she left me.. I can not get a pay check untill september 2010. my last paycheck was I live in Massachusetts.. I know I'm DOOMED. Quoting: SeraphicLesson Learned Lesson learned? You haven't even gotten close yet. If she really does go after $$ and property and you find yourself in a pissing match, just wait until you see how much fucking money the attorneys steal from wallet. Btwn your lawyers and her, you just may be doomed. But really, based on the fact that you were together for such a brief period of time, there's little she can do. So it ain't as bad as it could be.... unless .... you find out she got pregnant while you were 'courting' her for the past 8 months. |
Seraphic (OP) User ID: 932957 United States 08/13/2010 02:19 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I married an ex-stripper because i loved her and after 9 months she left me.. I can not get a pay check untill september 2010. my last paycheck was I live in Massachusetts.. I know I'm DOOMED. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 993047Lesson Learned Lesson learned? You haven't even gotten close yet. If she really does go after $$ and property and you find yourself in a pissing match, just wait until you see how much fucking money the attorneys steal from wallet. Btwn your lawyers and her, you just may be doomed. But really, based on the fact that you were together for such a brief period of time, there's little she can do. So it ain't as bad as it could be.... unless .... you find out she got pregnant while you were 'courting' her for the past 8 months. no chance, she stopped having sex with me, and i paid for her birth control. I'm safe .. Anyone who in discussion relies upon authority uses, not his understanding, but rather his memory. Leonardo Da Vinci 1452-1519, Italian Inventor, Architect, Painter, Scientist, Sculptor |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 919411 United States 08/13/2010 02:24 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I married an ex-stripper because i loved her and after 9 months she left me.. I can not get a pay check untill september 2010. my last paycheck was Half of what? Quoting: SeraphicHalf of my FAMILY's Propertys!!! 1. did you get a prenuptial agreement (no I'm guessing) 2. Do you live in a community property state? (yes, I'm guessing) 3. Is there a minimum length of time a couple must have been married for the wife (without children) to be ABLE to demand 50% of your assets in a settlement? (I know there are minimum lengths of time one must be married in order for either partner to expect any alimony.) 4. Are you in a better legal situation because SHE left you, you did not leave HER; you did not abandon the marriage, she did. 5. Is there ANY property of yours that is ALSO in her name? (for example, are you both on the mortgage to your home, are you both on the title to your car) 6. Do you have any children from a previous marriage? They have a stake in what happens to you financially and this woman who is soon to be your x-wife. 7. Did you have a will that had been drawn up prior to being married to her? If so, did you change it to make her a beneficiary in the event of your death? (This would show intention on your part to leave her with your assests.) If you do have a will, but you never changed it to make her your beneficiary, I would think that works in your behalf. 8. Check whether she has pulled this before with some poor fool ahead of you (possibly abroad). Maybe this is her M.O. Maybe she goes around marrying guys, staying married for a short time and then takes them to the cleaners. Maybe??? Talk to her "oldest friend" that you know of and pump that person for info about her past. 9. The simplest solution is for you to claim alienation of her affections and prove that she carried on an extra-marital affair at some point during your short marriage. If she is the skank she sounds like she is, this should have indeed actually happened. GOOD LUCK Sorry for your hard luck. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1049987 Australia 08/13/2010 02:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I married an ex-stripper because i loved her and after 9 months she left me.. I can not get a pay check untill september 2010. my last paycheck was dude---remember you can't take pussy to the bank Quoting: juniperobut the pussy will take you to the bank ;) (and i am female) I think they call that sexually incurred debt. |
Tardy 2D Party User ID: 461622 United States 08/13/2010 03:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I married an ex-stripper because i loved her and after 9 months she left me.. I can not get a pay check untill september 2010. my last paycheck was Half of what? Quoting: juniperoHalf of my FAMILY's Propertys!!! THIS! 9 months you can contest this..get your marriage annulled .. fraud.. You were married for too short a time. There was no investment in the marriage...Annul it. |
Seraphic (OP) User ID: 932957 United States 08/13/2010 03:36 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I married an ex-stripper because i loved her and after 9 months she left me.. I can not get a pay check untill september 2010. my last paycheck was Half of what? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 919411Half of my FAMILY's Propertys!!! 1. did you get a prenuptial agreement (no I'm guessing) 2. Do you live in a community property state? (yes, I'm guessing) 3. Is there a minimum length of time a couple must have been married for the wife (without children) to be ABLE to demand 50% of your assets in a settlement? (I know there are minimum lengths of time one must be married in order for either partner to expect any alimony.) 4. Are you in a better legal situation because SHE left you, you did not leave HER; you did not abandon the marriage, she did. 5. Is there ANY property of yours that is ALSO in her name? (for example, are you both on the mortgage to your home, are you both on the title to your car) 6. Do you have any children from a previous marriage? They have a stake in what happens to you financially and this woman who is soon to be your x-wife. 7. Did you have a will that had been drawn up prior to being married to her? If so, did you change it to make her a beneficiary in the event of your death? (This would show intention on your part to leave her with your assests.) If you do have a will, but you never changed it to make her your beneficiary, I would think that works in your behalf. 8. Check whether she has pulled this before with some poor fool ahead of you (possibly abroad). Maybe this is her M.O. Maybe she goes around marrying guys, staying married for a short time and then takes them to the cleaners. Maybe??? Talk to her "oldest friend" that you know of and pump that person for info about her past. 9. The simplest solution is for you to claim alienation of her affections and prove that she carried on an extra-marital affair at some point during your short marriage. If she is the skank she sounds like she is, this should have indeed actually happened. GOOD LUCK Sorry for your hard luck. Thank you, and Yes i did have her sign a anti-nuptual agreement, But her lawyer was not available to be present at the signing, so now she claims to have signed it under duress. Anyone who in discussion relies upon authority uses, not his understanding, but rather his memory. Leonardo Da Vinci 1452-1519, Italian Inventor, Architect, Painter, Scientist, Sculptor |
Tardy 2D Party User ID: 461622 United States 08/13/2010 03:45 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I married an ex-stripper because i loved her and after 9 months she left me.. I can not get a pay check untill september 2010. my last paycheck was From DivorceSupport.com Massachusetts is referred to as an "equitable distribution" state. When parties are unable to reach a settlement, Family Court will take the following approach to dividing the assets; First, it will go through a discovery process to classify which property and debt is to be considered marital. ........................ The courts shall consider the following: a. length of the marriage; Google Massachusetts divorce laws.. |
Seraphic (OP) User ID: 932957 United States 08/13/2010 03:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I married an ex-stripper because i loved her and after 9 months she left me.. I can not get a pay check untill september 2010. my last paycheck was From DivorceSupport.com Quoting: Tardy 2D PartyMassachusetts is referred to as an "equitable distribution" state. When parties are unable to reach a settlement, Family Court will take the following approach to dividing the assets; First, it will go through a discovery process to classify which property and debt is to be considered marital. ........................ The courts shall consider the following: a. length of the marriage; Google Massachusetts divorce laws.. Thanks Tardy 2D Party Anyone who in discussion relies upon authority uses, not his understanding, but rather his memory. Leonardo Da Vinci 1452-1519, Italian Inventor, Architect, Painter, Scientist, Sculptor |