im 26 and not only havent had sex, but havent had any other sexual experiences either (except... solo ones lol.) i just havent found the right person. im a weird one haha, so its hard to find men that im compatible with. im a little bit more traditional i guess. i want to date someone and get to know them and feel like i can trust them before letting them into my body. i *respect* my body and dont want just anyone in it. i have a hard time believing that women who've slept with tons of men have that same self respect. im sure many of them do, its just hard for me to understand how they can.

i also wanted to comment on the "women dress for other women" thing. i guess i dont really get it. im assuming its to do with women being competitive with each other? because when i dress up, im doing it to get attention from guys. i want to be looked at and flirted with. i couldn't care less about what other women are thinking...