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| Grayfox3d Offer Upgrade  User ID: 1076470  United States08/22/2010 05:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 976618 United States08/22/2010 05:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Well, as cliche as this sounds, you will get over her. Be glad you found this out now, before getting married and having kids! As for getting through it, I have had a few exes demolish my world, but then one day I finally stopped looking, and stumbled onto a wonderful woman I have been with for 8 years since. It will happen, and this relationship failing at least paves the way for a better one to come along. BTW, 27 is still young. You don't want to marry girls before they reach 30 anyway, they are too immature to handle it yet. Anyhow OP, I wish I could help more, other than to say I've been there and it does get better. |
| I am Free? Maybe User ID: 1064973 United States08/22/2010 05:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Don't trip, It's her not you. You rock this planet and don't need her. You will have your own family one day with a hella cool chick you adore and adores you right back. Just don't look for it, it will come to you. Have patience-In the mean time party with us here....have fun and sow your wild oats-grow and you will be much better off.  (just don't be a GQ penny pinching ass and all will be well...lol)Last Edited by I am Free? Maybe on 08/22/2010 05:17 PM |
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| TwinSister User ID: 704060 United States08/22/2010 05:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ok so ill give you a run down. Quoting: Grayfox3dMe and my gf were together for a year, things were great. She has a 3 year old daughter, who i adore, she calls me dad. Me and the gf always talked about how this was it, we were meant for eachother, planned a future, starting working on our future together. We had a few quarrels here and there but everyone fights right. Well i was on the road for a week about 2 weeks ago and while i was gone we were making plans to do things and how much we loved and missed eachother. Well Saturday the 14th rolls around, and all of a sudden she needs some "time" and a "break"... so i was confused, two days before im supposed to be home right. Well on the way home driving from seattle to phoenix i find out she met a new guy.. even though she promised there was no one and she wasnt even going out, so i beleive she met him online. Well Now they are in a relationship 1 day after she calls for our "break". Well she is sending me text giving me false hope saying "we will have our chance together again one day just not this day" things like that, claiming she still loves me. I am madly in love with this girl and its killing me! she's already posted facebook pics of them together undressed... its like wow, thanks a bunch. Now im not a fat or unnatractive guy, and i know im better looking than him, so its like what do i do from here? im 27, i though i'd be married with at least one kid by now... now it feels like it all went down the drain. Any mature responses would be greatly appreciated, thank you so much for reading. the fact alone that she would even think to post such on facebook is indeed over the limit of respect for you much less herself. My advice to you is that you remove her from your life and do not go back! You will find another person that can be better for you. You have plenty of time to get married. If you don't have control of your mind.....someone else will! |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1040464  United Kingdom08/22/2010 05:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ok so ill give you a run down. Quoting: Grayfox3dMe and my gf were together for a year, things were great. She has a 3 year old daughter, who i adore, she calls me dad. Me and the gf always talked about how this was it, we were meant for eachother, planned a future, starting working on our future together. We had a few quarrels here and there but everyone fights right. Well i was on the road for a week about 2 weeks ago and while i was gone we were making plans to do things and how much we loved and missed eachother. Well Saturday the 14th rolls around, and all of a sudden she needs some "time" and a "break"... so i was confused, two days before im supposed to be home right. Well on the way home driving from seattle to phoenix i find out she met a new guy.. even though she promised there was no one and she wasnt even going out, so i beleive she met him online. Well Now they are in a relationship 1 day after she calls for our "break". Well she is sending me text giving me false hope saying "we will have our chance together again one day just not this day" things like that, claiming she still loves me. I am madly in love with this girl and its killing me! she's already posted facebook pics of them together undressed... its like wow, thanks a bunch. Now im not a fat or unnatractive guy, and i know im better looking than him, so its like what do i do from here? im 27, i though i'd be married with at least one kid by now... now it feels like it all went down the drain. Any mature responses would be greatly appreciated, thank you so much for reading. Sea . Fish.. Get over it. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1076465 United States08/22/2010 05:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Well, as cliche as this sounds, you will get over her. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 976618Be glad you found this out now, before getting married and having kids! As for getting through it, I have had a few exes demolish my world, but then one day I finally stopped looking, and stumbled onto a wonderful woman I have been with for 8 years since. It will happen, and this relationship failing at least paves the way for a better one to come along. BTW, 27 is still young. You don't want to marry girls before they reach 30 anyway, they are too immature to handle it yet. Anyhow OP, I wish I could help more, other than to say I've been there and it does get better. I agree, her loss, and do the right thing... let her realize it on her own time, i.e. don't try and remind her or rub her face in it. just say bye , and thanks for the memories and move on, you'll be a better person for it. Trust me, in 30 years you'll feel a lot better about yourself then you would have if you try and make her regret it as you'd be the only one doing the regretting...  |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 996977  Denmark08/22/2010 05:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ok so ill give you a run down. Quoting: Grayfox3dMe and my gf were together for a year, things were great. She has a 3 year old daughter, who i adore, she calls me dad. Me and the gf always talked about how this was it, we were meant for eachother, planned a future, starting working on our future together. We had a few quarrels here and there but everyone fights right. Well i was on the road for a week about 2 weeks ago and while i was gone we were making plans to do things and how much we loved and missed eachother. Well Saturday the 14th rolls around, and all of a sudden she needs some "time" and a "break"... so i was confused, two days before im supposed to be home right. Well on the way home driving from seattle to phoenix i find out she met a new guy.. even though she promised there was no one and she wasnt even going out, so i beleive she met him online. Well Now they are in a relationship 1 day after she calls for our "break". Well she is sending me text giving me false hope saying "we will have our chance together again one day just not this day" things like that, claiming she still loves me. I am madly in love with this girl and its killing me! she's already posted facebook pics of them together undressed... its like wow, thanks a bunch. Now im not a fat or unnatractive guy, and i know im better looking than him, so its like what do i do from here? im 27, i though i'd be married with at least one kid by now... now it feels like it all went down the drain. Any mature responses would be greatly appreciated, thank you so much for reading. PWNT!  |
| TwinSister User ID: 704060 United States08/22/2010 05:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Well, as cliche as this sounds, you will get over her. Quoting: Seeker of TruthBe glad you found this out now, before getting married and having kids! As for getting through it, I have had a few exes demolish my world, but then one day I finally stopped looking, and stumbled onto a wonderful woman I have been with for 8 years since. It will happen, and this relationship failing at least paves the way for a better one to come along. BTW, 27 is still young. You don't want to marry girls before they reach 30 anyway, they are too immature to handle it yet. Anyhow OP, I wish I could help more, other than to say I've been there and it does get better. I agree, her loss, and do the right thing... let her realize it on her own time, i.e. don't try and remind her or rub her face in it. just say bye , and thanks for the memories and move on, you'll be a better person for it. Trust me, in 30 years you'll feel a lot better about yourself then you would have if you try and make her regret it as you'd be the only one doing the regretting... I agree, do not attempt to make anyone regret or feel guilty just go on and your life will be the better! If you don't have control of your mind.....someone else will! |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1066468 United States08/22/2010 05:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This will take time to recover from most likely. I had a situation that look a long time to get over. But, you will get over it. Several things you can do: Read a book, go out to the movies, keep busy. The busier you are the faster you will recover. Also, you probably need to look in the mirror and say, I am a good person, everyone likes me. Say nice things about yourself (affirmations). [link to www.vitalaffirmations.com] |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1076450 United Kingdom08/22/2010 05:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ok so ill give you a run down. Quoting: Grayfox3dMe and my gf were together for a year, things were great. She has a 3 year old daughter, who i adore, she calls me dad. Me and the gf always talked about how this was it, we were meant for eachother, planned a future, starting working on our future together. We had a few quarrels here and there but everyone fights right. Well i was on the road for a week about 2 weeks ago and while i was gone we were making plans to do things and how much we loved and missed eachother. Well Saturday the 14th rolls around, and all of a sudden she needs some "time" and a "break"... so i was confused, two days before im supposed to be home right. Well on the way home driving from seattle to phoenix i find out she met a new guy.. even though she promised there was no one and she wasnt even going out, so i beleive she met him online. Well Now they are in a relationship 1 day after she calls for our "break". Well she is sending me text giving me false hope saying "we will have our chance together again one day just not this day" things like that, claiming she still loves me. I am madly in love with this girl and its killing me! she's already posted facebook pics of them together undressed... its like wow, thanks a bunch. Now im not a fat or unnatractive guy, and i know im better looking than him, so its like what do i do from here? im 27, i though i'd be married with at least one kid by now... now it feels like it all went down the drain. Any mature responses would be greatly appreciated, thank you so much for reading. Imagine her orgasming at the tender touch of another man. Or simply move on. She has. Treat feelings like currency. Humans are like failing businesses from the start, so don't invest too much in them. |
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| FubarMan User ID: 1050931 United States08/22/2010 05:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Just be glad your dna was not involved here. Now mourn for a while then have a friend throw a party for you. Have him invite a bunch of chicks, lots of beer and chips and watch the fun unfold. |
| Anonymous Coward 08/22/2010 05:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ="we will have our chance together again one day just not this day" things like that, claiming she still loves me. Quoting: Grayfox3d  That is absolutely pathetic. This woman is a whore, total garbage. Forget her. Go out and get some strange... TONIGHT. And tomorrow night. And the night after that. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 991584 United States08/22/2010 05:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Take some time to chill, hang out with your friends to get over the loneliness. Hit the gym for a few weeks then get back in the game. Start dating and banging, 27 is a good age - you can go from 21 to 35, plenty of options. You must replace one with two or more. After hanging out with cool chicks you will realize there is no "one" - you will find that it is possible to be compatible and have chemistry with a lot of women. And another thing - F*ck your ex. Don't even entertain the idea of getting back together with her, chances are she was seeing the other guy for at least a month before she broke up with you. She is looking for someone to take care of her and her daughter. Sadly, that poor kid will have to get used to all of Mommy's new boyfriends. When you are ready and find a cool chick, settle down and start your own family. Peace |
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| Neesie User ID: 1048292 United States08/22/2010 05:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | you are strong enough to handle it OP. you might even be decended from one of the great ones (Caesar, Alexander the great) Remember, you are not as much in love with her as you are in love with how you feel when you are with her. the secret to getting over heartache is to Immediately find another woman. Don't beg your gf, this makes you look pitiful and she will not like seeing that side of you. don't be clingy, she will become curious and even jealous. this new guy may be a fling and she will come back with her tail between her legs. .A man can no more diminish God's glory by refusing to worship Him than a lunatic can put out the sun by scribbling the word, 'darkness' on the walls of his cell. C. S. Lewis |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1076490  Ireland08/22/2010 05:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ok so ill give you a run down. Quoting: Grayfox3dMe and my gf were together for a year, things were great. She has a 3 year old daughter, who i adore, she calls me dad. Me and the gf always talked about how this was it, we were meant for eachother, planned a future, starting working on our future together. We had a few quarrels here and there but everyone fights right. Well i was on the road for a week about 2 weeks ago and while i was gone we were making plans to do things and how much we loved and missed eachother. Well Saturday the 14th rolls around, and all of a sudden she needs some "time" and a "break"... so i was confused, two days before im supposed to be home right. Well on the way home driving from seattle to phoenix i find out she met a new guy.. even though she promised there was no one and she wasnt even going out, so i beleive she met him online. Well Now they are in a relationship 1 day after she calls for our "break". Well she is sending me text giving me false hope saying "we will have our chance together again one day just not this day" things like that, claiming she still loves me. I am madly in love with this girl and its killing me! she's already posted facebook pics of them together undressed... its like wow, thanks a bunch. Now im not a fat or unnatractive guy, and i know im better looking than him, so its like what do i do from here? im 27, i though i'd be married with at least one kid by now... now it feels like it all went down the drain. Any mature responses would be greatly appreciated, thank you so much for reading. Sounds like a classic female socioapth to me. [link to antimisandry.com] |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1076498  Canada08/22/2010 05:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Take some time to chill, hang out with your friends to get over the loneliness. Hit the gym for a few weeks then get back in the game. Start dating and banging, 27 is a good age - you can go from 21 to 35, plenty of options. You must replace one with two or more. After hanging out with cool chicks you will realize there is no "one" - you will find that it is possible to be compatible and have chemistry with a lot of women. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 991584And another thing - F*ck your ex. Don't even entertain the idea of getting back together with her, chances are she was seeing the other guy for at least a month before she broke up with you. She is looking for someone to take care of her and her daughter. Sadly, that poor kid will have to get used to all of Mommy's new boyfriends. When you are ready and find a cool chick, settle down and start your own family. Peace In the mean time, masterbate at least 3 times a day. |
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