!! Who Else Here Is Fucking Annoyed By Rude People .....???? Have You Ever Been To .....

You got guns in the US...shoot them in the face, bullets are cheap.

You got guns in the US...shoot them in the face, bullets are cheap.

OP , you're rude

Yes, and it is getting worse. The other day I stopped at a Circle K to buy some beer. The guy ahead of me (young) was buying pop with food stamps. Whatever...I don't care. So I paid for my beer and when I walked out to my car he backed his junker car out and yelled out the window at me that the brand of beer I bought sucked. Shock...I wasn't buying it for him and I paid cash. Go figure.

I totally understand how you feel, OP.

People nowadays are mostly selfish and only think of themselves. I see this in driving, in my Zumba classes where women will steal my "good" spot in the class and sneak cut in front of me at a water break, or cha cha dance class where they will block your view instead of staggering out so that you can't see yourself in the mirror. Why do they care? As long as they can see themself, that's all that matters to them. Unfortunately, selfishness is rampant in these times.

On the flip side....

First, you have to put yourself in someone else's shoes. This really does help you to understand and calm down.

Realize that 99.9% of the time someone isn't purposely trying to be rude or offend you. They probably have no idea that their actions are offending you. When you put yourself in their shoes, then it helps to calm you down and realize that they're not doing it on purpose.

Also, if you treat them the way that you would want to be treated, no matter how they're acting, then maybe that will make a lasting impression on them and inspire them to change themselves.

As far as the invading your personal space issue, remember that some cultures, personal space is different. For instance, Asian culture, their personal space is much, MUCH closer than Americans. They practically stand so close as to touch you, but to them, this is normal.

people goinnn cwazee
cultures clashiiing
everyone hates each other
fuk it all
op, can you show me what's in ur purse
then tuck me in?

You got guns in the US...shoot them in the face, bullets are cheap.

the rude assholes are the ones who need to try on my shoes. not the other way around.

stop making excuses.

You got guns in the US...shoot them in the face, bullets are cheap.

I totally understand how you feel, OP.

People nowadays are mostly selfish and only think of themselves. I see this in driving, in my Zumba classes where women will steal my "good" spot in the class and sneak cut in front of me at a water break, or cha cha dance class where they will block your view instead of staggering out so that you can't see yourself in the mirror. Why do they care? As long as they can see themself, that's all that matters to them. Unfortunately, selfishness is rampant in these times.

On the flip side....

First, you have to put yourself in someone else's shoes. This really does help you to understand and calm down.

Realize that 99.9% of the time someone isn't purposely trying to be rude or offend you. They probably have no idea that their actions are offending you. When you put yourself in their shoes, then it helps to calm you down and realize that they're not doing it on purpose.

Also, if you treat them the way that you would want to be treated, no matter how they're acting, then maybe that will make a lasting impression on them and inspire them to change themselves.

As far as the invading your personal space issue, remember that some cultures, personal space is different. For instance, Asian culture, their personal space is much, MUCH closer than Americans. They practically stand so close as to touch you, but to them, this is normal.


doesn't matter and it is even worse than purposefully being rude. like i hinted at previously, it is systemic, this nonsense.

the rude assholes are the ones who need to try on my shoes. not the other way around.

stop making excuses.

The US?

Yeah, which is why most of us no longer vacation or do much business there. Actually, the Chinese are much cooler, respectful and polite. Plus they still have money and factories, unlike the US.

But sure enough, these "balloon knots" from the south are now showing up here and ruining what used to be some of our quietest and most pristine resort areas. Hopefully when the Chinese call in all their US loans, that will put a quick end to the home invasion.

the rude assholes are the ones who need to try on my shoes. not the other way around.

stop making excuses.


You cannot control someone else. You can only control your own actions. Worry about yourself and take the high road, and stop trying to police another's actions. You'll find a lot of your stress decreases when you do it this way.

This is classic marriage counseling 101. You sound just like an angry spouse who wants their partner to change before he/she changes themselves. It's like a vicious cycle. Again, worry about policing yourself and forget about how the other person reacts.

the rude assholes are the ones who need to try on my shoes. not the other way around.

stop making excuses.


You cannot control someone else. You can only control your own actions. Worry about yourself and take the high road, and stop trying to police another's actions. You'll find a lot of your stress decreases when you do it this way.

This is classic marriage counseling 101. You sound just like an angry spouse who wants their partner to change before he/she changes themselves. It's like a vicious cycle. Again, worry about policing yourself and forget about how the other person reacts.

Yes, and it is getting worse. The other day I stopped at a Circle K to buy some beer. The guy ahead of me (young) was buying pop with food stamps. Whatever...I don't care. So I paid for my beer and when I walked out to my car he backed his junker car out and yelled out the window at me that the brand of beer I bought sucked. Shock...I wasn't buying it for him and I paid cash. Go figure.

the rude assholes are the ones who need to try on my shoes. not the other way around.

stop making excuses.


You cannot control someone else. You can only control your own actions. Worry about yourself and take the high road, and stop trying to police another's actions. You'll find a lot of your stress decreases when you do it this way.

This is classic marriage counseling 101. You sound just like an angry spouse who wants their partner to change before he/she changes themselves. It's like a vicious cycle. Again, worry about policing yourself and forget about how the other person reacts.

the rude assholes are the ones who need to try on my shoes. not the other way around.

stop making excuses.


You cannot control someone else. You can only control your own actions. Worry about yourself and take the high road, and stop trying to police another's actions. You'll find a lot of your stress decreases when you do it this way.

This is classic marriage counseling 101. You sound just like an angry spouse who wants their partner to change before he/she changes themselves. It's like a vicious cycle. Again, worry about policing yourself and forget about how the other person reacts.




and i do. you don't know anything about me or anyone else. sounds like you took psych 101 and now know it all.

so follow your own advice, please, and stop trying to police me.

you'll find a lot of your stress decreases when you do it this way.

the rude assholes are the ones who need to try on my shoes. not the other way around.

stop making excuses.


You cannot control someone else. You can only control your own actions. Worry about yourself and take the high road, and stop trying to police another's actions. You'll find a lot of your stress decreases when you do it this way.

This is classic marriage counseling 101. You sound just like an angry spouse who wants their partner to change before he/she changes themselves. It's like a vicious cycle. Again, worry about policing yourself and forget about how the other person reacts.





Are you saying that the OP's wife turned him into
an asshole,and his marriage makes him want to beat
the shit out of vietnamese women at Wallmrt??

Ok!!

The is no respect for other peoples individual space or their not minding their own business