This is my first post to a very easy question , life is short and connections are important , we live in a time where soul mates are mocked as myths with no longer respected from the life media tv friends and family with over stated opinions that doubt even the most confident . I get horny but yeh imm a 26 year old dude from a small town so when i find my self answering this i shoulda sed summin no one specially the original poster can deny mystery nervousness and not knowin whats round the corner is the thrill we are robbed by daily , so judge all u want if u find yourself unagreeable but not everyoe can tolerate the perfect relationship they show on the surface or put up with the bad habits of there other half . Im single and its best that way for me just now but whats the point in life if u cant connect or be subject to your own inabitions