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My boyfriend says we can have sex and I can stay a virgin.

 
FATIMA
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My boyfriend says we can have sex and I can stay a virgin.
because of my culture we have to remain virgin until the wedding day.
If I get pregnant before marriage it will be unspeakable dishonour for my family and very dangerous for me.
But my boyfriend wants to intercourse now and will not wait otherwise he will leave me.
If he leaves me my honour will be tainted because it means that he found something not right with myself.
My boyfriend says that we can have gentle intercourse without breaking the virginity veil and I will not get pregnant.
I have tried to get information on google but nothing about this.
I cannot ask my doctor because she knows my family.
Any kind ladies here can tell me for sure what is the truth?
Anonymous Coward
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10/20/2010 08:02 PM
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Re: My boyfriend says we can have sex and I can stay a virgin.
Anal.
Anonymous Coward
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Re: My boyfriend says we can have sex and I can stay a virgin.
True love can wait...if he can't he isn't worth your time...
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Re: My boyfriend says we can have sex and I can stay a virgin.
because of my culture we have to remain virgin until the wedding day.
If I get pregnant before marriage it will be unspeakable dishonour for my family and very dangerous for me.
But my boyfriend wants to intercourse now and will not wait otherwise he will leave me.
If he leaves me my honour will be tainted because it means that he found something not right with myself.
My boyfriend says that we can have gentle intercourse without breaking the virginity veil and I will not get pregnant.
I have tried to get information on google but nothing about this.
I cannot ask my doctor because she knows my family.
Any kind ladies here can tell me for sure what is the truth?
 Quoting: FATIMA 1136708


he's lying.
Anonymous Coward
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10/20/2010 08:03 PM
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Re: My boyfriend says we can have sex and I can stay a virgin.
oral or anal
Anonymous Coward
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10/20/2010 08:05 PM
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Re: My boyfriend says we can have sex and I can stay a virgin.
male troll!
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Re: My boyfriend says we can have sex and I can stay a virgin.
Anal.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1136709


cruise
Anonymous Coward
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10/20/2010 08:06 PM
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Re: My boyfriend says we can have sex and I can stay a virgin.
Let him have gentle sex with your mouth, and you won't get pregnant. You will love the taste, I promise!
Anonymous Coward
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10/20/2010 08:07 PM
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Re: My boyfriend says we can have sex and I can stay a virgin.
True, if he cannot wait, he's lying to you. besides, we already know the answer. But if you have any self respect, you need to wait. If he can't,lose him.
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10/20/2010 08:07 PM
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Re: My boyfriend says we can have sex and I can stay a virgin.
Gentle sex? Small dick.
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10/20/2010 08:07 PM
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bsflag
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10/20/2010 08:09 PM
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Re: My boyfriend says we can have sex and I can stay a virgin.
Leave him first. Taint him, because there's something wrong with him.
Anonymous Coward
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10/20/2010 08:11 PM
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Re: My boyfriend says we can have sex and I can stay a virgin.
Leave him first. Taint him, because there's something wrong with him.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 252372


You said, "Taint"!

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10/20/2010 08:12 PM
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Re: My boyfriend says we can have sex and I can stay a virgin.
Ever heard of fucking condoms???? Your obviously 10 years old and shouldn't be having sex anyway.
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10/20/2010 08:15 PM

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Yeah it's all good,just tell him to wait until you're married, that way you guys can become just another divorce statistic once you realize you're sexually incompatible...well ok I wasn't being fair, you might not get divorced over it, but I hope you don't mind a marriage full of bitterness, disappointment, and most likely infidelity.

The whole "waiting for marriage" thing is like so many other failed policies in this world, it sounds great on paper and sure it makes a nice romantic tale, but applied in the real world it usually ends up as epic failure.

Last Edited by The Myth on 10/20/2010 08:15 PM
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Hasai
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10/20/2010 08:25 PM
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Muslim, troll or muslim troll?
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10/20/2010 08:26 PM
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putin
So have I now become your enemy for telling you the TRUTH? Galatians 4:16
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10/20/2010 08:28 PM
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putin
 Quoting: TXGal4Truth

you're a virgin, except for the 7 crotch fruit your sloppy crotch tunnel shat out.

shitstream
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10/20/2010 08:29 PM
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Re: My boyfriend says we can have sex and I can stay a virgin.
You should ask Mary from LA.
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10/20/2010 08:29 PM
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Re: My boyfriend says we can have sex and I can stay a virgin.
your "religion" is really chains and shackles that you bind your physical and mental self with. you live a life of bondage, to keep you weak and for the ones in control to stay powerful.
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Re: My boyfriend says we can have sex and I can stay a virgin.
Yeah it's all good,just tell him to wait until you're married, that way you guys can become just another divorce statistic once you realize you're sexually incompatible...well ok I wasn't being fair, you might not get divorced over it, but I hope you don't mind a marriage full of bitterness, disappointment, and most likely infidelity.

The whole "waiting for marriage" thing is like so many other failed policies in this world, it sounds great on paper and sure it makes a nice romantic tale, but applied in the real world it usually ends up as epic failure.
 Quoting: Debaser

I hate to say it but I agree.........people should try each other out for YEARS before getting married.....to see if they are compatible before bringing kids into the equation.
BRIEF AND TO THE POINT

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10/20/2010 08:33 PM
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Re: My boyfriend says we can have sex and I can stay a virgin.
OP, you should blow him and all 97 of his cousins and the family camel...swallowing every drop is a blessing to your marriage too...
Poor people do poor people things, and rich people do rich people things.

You cannot legislate the poor into prosperity by legislating the wealthy out of prosperity.

What one person receives without working for, another person must work for without receiving.

The government cannot give to anybody anything that the government does not first take from somebody else.

When half of the people get the idea that they do not have to work because the other half is going to take care of them, and the other half gets the idea that it does no good to work because somebody else is going to get what they work for, that my dear friend, is the beginning of the end of any nation.

You cannot multiply wealth by dividing it!

when you rob Paul to give to Peter ... ... ... you will always get Peters support!

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10/20/2010 08:33 PM
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Re: My boyfriend says we can have sex and I can stay a virgin.
This is the Islams they have a practice like Mohamhead the child molester used to do to kids.
Which entails rubbing the penis between the legs and on the vagina but not penetrating.
I believe your muzzard bf means this.
Which you might want to be careful because, he might have the deliberate intention of poking it up you.
And may do it on purpose to dishonor you, because he doesn't really want to marry you.
And then you'll get your head chopped off and shit and we don't really need any of that shit here to be honest.
So just go ahead and fuck off back to where it was you came from if you don't mind cruise
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10/20/2010 08:34 PM
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putin

you're a virgin, except for the 7 crotch fruit your sloppy crotch tunnel shat out.

shitstream
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And you're a damn troll. Questions? Can you post on a thread without personal insults? Didn't think so.

lmao
So have I now become your enemy for telling you the TRUTH? Galatians 4:16
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Raisty

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10/20/2010 08:35 PM
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Re: My boyfriend says we can have sex and I can stay a virgin.
If you want to wait until you are married and he won't wait then LEAVE HIM. Tell your family he is trying to coerce you to have sex before marriage. If it is that big of a cultural issue there then how can they not stand by you?

Seriously no matter what it isn't worth it for you to compromise your own values because he won't wait. He can get his relief with his hand just as well as he can with a female.


edit: It is really up to every individual if they want to wait to have sex or not. But a man should never try to coerce a woman into having sex, possibly ruining her life in the process, just so he can feel like he accomplished something.

Last Edited by Raisty on 10/20/2010 08:39 PM
ISeeAll

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10/20/2010 08:37 PM
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OP, if you are truly in the situation you describe, listen carefully to this advice.

Do not have vaginal sex with your boyfriend, even if his penis is close to your vagina (not in it, but close), pre-cum can get you pregnant; I had a girlfriend who got pregnant this way at 15.

If you let him enter you, your hymen will likely break, which means you will not only loose your virginity, but will very likely to become pregnant.

You could take the birth control pill (the most effective way of avoiding pregnancy), but your virginity will still be lost.

You could offer him oral sex avoiding all of the problems above, and no doubt he will enjoy it. However, most importantly, you have to feel comfortable with this and have a discussion with him before you proceed.

A final option is anal sex. Many hetrosexual couples engage in this form of sexuality. Again, most importantly, you have to feel comfortable with this and need to discuss this together before proceeding. Hygenic precautions need to be taken if you go this route, such as wearing a condom. This will also help prevent possible pregnancy due to the fact that the anis and vagina aren't very far apart.

In my own opinion your boyfriend should wait. He is putting you in a horrible (and dangerous) situation which shows complete lack of respect for you and I'm assuming your shared culture; Not to mention lack of love or compassion towards you.

Is there an elder in your family who is respected to whom you could disclose that your boyfriend is pressuring you in this way? Could you explain that you are wanting to abide by your cultural standards and remain pure for your wedding day but he is placing you in a no win situation (for you). If you could reach out to someone perhaps they could speak to him.

Good luck!
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putin

you're a virgin, except for the 7 crotch fruit your sloppy crotch tunnel shat out.

shitstream


And you're a damn troll. Questions? Can you post on a thread without personal insults? Didn't think so.

lmao
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baby
 Quoting: TXGal4Truth

You started the trolling bitch...

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10/20/2010 08:44 PM
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10/20/2010 08:46 PM
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Re: My boyfriend says we can have sex and I can stay a virgin.
OP is probably a one-post hit-and-run troll, but just in case...if you have sex vaginally, you will no longer be a virgin. Can you gently squeeze a tomato through the opening of a bottle without it squishing? Gentle has nothing to do with it. If a male penus enters you, your hymen will not remain intact. If you do decide to have sex, you must wear a condom because pregnancy can (and often does) happen the first time. Personally, it sounds like your boyfriend is taking you for a ride. Stick up for yourself. If he really loved you, he would wait. You might try orally pleasing each other, but that can be risky if, in the heat of the moment, you decide to push forward...
FATIMA (OP)
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Re: My boyfriend says we can have sex and I can stay a virgin.
OP, if you are truly in the situation you describe, listen carefully to this advice.

Do not have vaginal sex with your boyfriend, even if his penis is close to your vagina (not in it, but close), pre-cum can get you pregnant; I had a girlfriend who got pregnant this way at 15.

If you let him enter you, your hymen will likely break, which means you will not only loose your virginity, but will very likely to become pregnant.

You could take the birth control pill (the most effective way of avoiding pregnancy), but your virginity will still be lost.

You could offer him oral sex avoiding all of the problems above, and no doubt he will enjoy it. However, most importantly, you have to feel comfortable with this and have a discussion with him before you proceed.

A final option is anal sex. Many hetrosexual couples engage in this form of sexuality. Again, most importantly, you have to feel comfortable with this and need to discuss this together before proceeding. Hygenic precautions need to be taken if you go this route, such as wearing a condom. This will also help prevent possible pregnancy due to the fact that the anis and vagina aren't very far apart.

In my own opinion your boyfriend should wait. He is putting you in a horrible (and dangerous) situation which shows complete lack of respect for you and I'm assuming your shared culture; Not to mention lack of love or compassion towards you.

Is there an elder in your family who is respected to whom you could disclose that your boyfriend is pressuring you in this way? Could you explain that you are wanting to abide by your cultural standards and remain pure for your wedding day but he is placing you in a no win situation (for you). If you could reach out to someone perhaps they could speak to him.

Good luck!
 Quoting: ISeeAll

thank you for your wise advice. Now I got the answer I was asking, to find out that I can get pregnant even with a very short gentle head touch. Thank you !!
I have tried oral to releive him with my mouth but this is very difficult and disgusting because my mouth is quite small and it makes me gag soon as we start but also I cant' stand the awful genital smell and taste and makes me sick.
The best I can do is like spanish releif in the breasts ointed with palm oil to stop friction.
Thanks again.
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Re: My boyfriend says we can have sex and I can stay a virgin.
Mary from LA, is that you?

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