Why do men say "I Love You"...only to runaway months later? | |
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scrat (OP) User ID: 1140654 United States 10/24/2010 05:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Psycho? That's what he liked most about me!!!! Last Edited by scrat on 10/24/2010 05:30 PM Dum spiro spero / "While I breathe, I hope" - Marcus Tullius Cicero |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1071506 United States 10/24/2010 05:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | High School friend from years ago. We rekindled a friendship that turned into something more. We connected on all levels. He kept telling me that he loved me since High School. Did not believe him at first. He ended up convincing me by his words and deeds. Obtaining sex was not the issue. That had already occurred. Quoting: scratFour or five months into the relationship he stopped calling. Would not answer my calls or emails. Drove out to his place (3 hours away) and was told that he changed his mind. No other explination just that he had gotten caught up in the moment. Are you even sure the baby is his? |
scrat (OP) User ID: 1140654 United States 10/24/2010 05:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | High School friend from years ago. We rekindled a friendship that turned into something more. We connected on all levels. He kept telling me that he loved me since High School. Did not believe him at first. He ended up convincing me by his words and deeds. Obtaining sex was not the issue. That had already occurred. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1071506Four or five months into the relationship he stopped calling. Would not answer my calls or emails. Drove out to his place (3 hours away) and was told that he changed his mind. No other explination just that he had gotten caught up in the moment. Are you even sure the baby is his? Baby factory closed. Dum spiro spero / "While I breathe, I hope" - Marcus Tullius Cicero |
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scrat (OP) User ID: 1140654 United States 10/24/2010 05:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Four or five months into the relationship he stopped calling. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1140735"I Love You" is the magic password to open your panties! . Didn't need a password. Got that before the I Love You part. Dum spiro spero / "While I breathe, I hope" - Marcus Tullius Cicero |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 985394 Bulgaria 10/24/2010 05:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | shortest distance between two points. his dick and in your pants. too much of a coward to admit it, so he was 'caught up in the moment' he is a fickle SOB and you are better without such types.. unfortunately that only leaves <10% of all men, most of which are taken. go younger... |
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Th Anti-Hero User ID: 1127083 United States 10/24/2010 05:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | High School friend from years ago. We rekindled a friendship that turned into something more. We connected on all levels. He kept telling me that he loved me since High School. Did not believe him at first. He ended up convincing me by his words and deeds. Obtaining sex was not the issue. That had already occurred. Quoting: scratFour or five months into the relationship he stopped calling. Would not answer my calls or emails. Drove out to his place (3 hours away) and was told that he changed his mind. No other explination just that he had gotten caught up in the moment. because if they don't run away, you'll be kicking them out. |
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Sigyn User ID: 1102955 United States 10/24/2010 05:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | That is the truth of it. I thought most women already knew this and wouldn't need to have it explained??? And I thought most women knew to avoid this problem??? |
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scrat (OP) User ID: 1140654 United States 10/24/2010 05:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Most men get what they want for a few months, become bored of it and you don't hear from them. Quoting: SigynThat is the truth of it. I thought most women already knew this and wouldn't need to have it explained??? And I thought most women knew to avoid this problem??? Guess I missed that lesson. Dum spiro spero / "While I breathe, I hope" - Marcus Tullius Cicero |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1140737 Canada 10/24/2010 05:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The love and honor in the relationships of men and women has been extinguished by the liberal elite. I have notice the "progress" in my sons of late and am being uppity about it. The lack of love is disgusting. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1047610 |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1140733 United States 10/24/2010 05:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Youre a good woman. Maybe he has a personal issue which is exacerbated by you or your personality. Maybe you didnt suck him enough. Maybe he doesnt like you, or likes someone else more. who knows. Point is - keep your head up, and your vagina clean. You are obviously a very "in-tune" lady to come here. You will find your mate, and he will love you sincerely. Sincerely, me. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1139756 United States 10/24/2010 06:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | High School friend from years ago. We rekindled a friendship that turned into something more. We connected on all levels. He kept telling me that he loved me since High School. Did not believe him at first. He ended up convincing me by his words and deeds. Obtaining sex was not the issue. That had already occurred. Quoting: scratFour or five months into the relationship he stopped calling. Would not answer my calls or emails. Drove out to his place (3 hours away) and was told that he changed his mind. No other explination just that he had gotten caught up in the moment. If a man says he loves you then you have to use some common sense. A lot of men will say whatever they think a women wants to hear to get what they want. If you give it away to fast then they figure you would give it away to anyone that fast. Make them earn it by working for it it and they will appreciate it. If they don't want to work for it and run then they never loved you anyways so its no big loss. But the thing is I can just about guarantee you that you could have spotted things that would have told you earlier what his character is. Just little things you can easily observe. I've never met a scumbag yet that didn't give them self away by doing little weird things. |
herrw User ID: 1120326 United States 10/24/2010 06:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't know if this helps or not. First, don't sleep with a prospective mate for at least three months. Not because it's morally correct, but it's the only way to know if their feelings have 'staying power'. The love chemistry for men burns strongly for about 90 days, and then peters out. It's built into us, left over from the days when a man had to protect his mate just long enough to ensure she was with child... then he could move on to other conquests. If a male does not get that conquest within 3 months, and still remains, it means that he is actually serious about a prospective long-term relationship. At that point it's relatively safe to 'take the plunge' as it were. I know this probably doesn't help right now, but hopefully it will give you some insight for the next go-round. Or you could sleep with his father out of revenge. Both work. "Don't shove beans up your nose."--from a sign in my 8th grade History class. It still applies. |
Melodye User ID: 1138749 Australia 10/24/2010 06:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Forget it. Just thought I could get some insight from a male point of view. Quoting: scratWhat is....is nevermind. Its the thrill of the chase. You were too easy. And I'm not talking about sex. I'm talking about love and commitment. As soon as he realised he could have you forever, he changed his mind. |