But, are you not instructing us, that we can change the way we perceive this event?

Say, for example, the anticipated event is a large tax bill. We know it's coming. We're a little bit fearful of it's arrival. In the meantime, can't we choose a different geometry -- a different relationship -- so that if this scary tax bill still arrives, it contains good news, like, say, a refund from an error made years ago that we didn't even know about?

In other words, the event that affects realities doesn't necessarily have to affect our own reality if we know how to adjust our perception of it? Is that correct?