Godlike Productions - Conspiracy Forum
Users Online Now: 1,554 (Who's On?)Visitors Today: 264,574
Pageviews Today: 403,736Threads Today: 120Posts Today: 1,672
03:01 AM


Rate this Thread

Absolute BS Crap Reasonable Nice Amazing
 

AMERICAN Women bring out the WORST in you!!!

 
lim (OP)

User ID: 1084106
United States
12/03/2010 12:29 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: AMERICAN Women bring out the WORST in you!!!
women in their 20's don't know what they want anyways, so it would be pointless for a good guy to even get into a relationship with them... they want to spend their 20's partying and being with random men..
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1123488


I do not think this is true for every young woman out there...
For what will it profit men that a more prudent distribution and use of riches make it possible for them to gain even the whole world, if thereby they suffer the loss of their own souls?
Tali

User ID: 1018633
United States
12/03/2010 12:30 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: AMERICAN Women bring out the WORST in you!!!
I would like to add a really helpful book I read to help my understanding of men and vice versa...Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus....

My ex and I would read a chapter every night...I would read a chapter, and highlight things I wanted him to especially look into and he would do the same and we would switch. It did help.

I know one of my problems - as in something I needed to stop - was when we would be arguing about something and when he would try to drop the subject I would keep going and going and going, I felt I was not heard at all.....well, thats considered nagging to some people, really I would like to believe he did care about what I was saying, but I should have dropped it and let him go to his "mancave" when he was upset....and brought it up again another time when we both had some air.

This is one example of something I learned in this book...another thing is appreciation...it goes a long way, (when its not fake of course)...you're stroking their ego of course which is fine, but I think it makes them feel fulfilled as a man/breadwinner/hero extraoridaire. It does something primally good.

Women also deserve appreciation, it IS a two way street. Taking care of a home and kids and meals isn't a walk in the park...coming up behind your wife slaving in the kitchen and telling her how sexy it is or how you appreciate it also goes a long way...

Can you see a great FRIENDSHIP in this? Trying to understand the way EACHOTHER tick instead of bashing?


Thanks Tai for your book suggestion and insight; I will download the book tonight at home

Also; I would recommend a book called ' the five love languages ' it really helps out but it does not solve underlying personal issues
 Quoting: lim



I think I read that book too! It is good!
Our perfect companions never have fewer than four feet. ~Colette
Anonymous Coward
User ID: 1182624
United States
12/03/2010 12:31 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: AMERICAN Women bring out the WORST in you!!!
I would like to add a really helpful book I read to help my understanding of men and vice versa...Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus....

My ex and I would read a chapter every night...I would read a chapter, and highlight things I wanted him to especially look into and he would do the same and we would switch. It did help.

I know one of my problems - as in something I needed to stop - was when we would be arguing about something and when he would try to drop the subject I would keep going and going and going, I felt I was not heard at all.....well, thats considered nagging to some people, really I would like to believe he did care about what I was saying, but I should have dropped it and let him go to his "mancave" when he was upset....and brought it up again another time when we both had some air.

This is one example of something I learned in this book...another thing is appreciation...it goes a long way, (when its not fake of course)...you're stroking their ego of course which is fine, but I think it makes them feel fulfilled as a man/breadwinner/hero extraoridaire. It does something primally good.

Women also deserve appreciation, it IS a two way street. Taking care of a home and kids and meals isn't a walk in the park...coming up behind your wife slaving in the kitchen and telling her how sexy it is or how you appreciate it also goes a long way...

Can you see a great FRIENDSHIP in this? Trying to understand the way EACHOTHER tick instead of bashing?
 Quoting: Tali


"Taking care of a home and kids and meals" is a pleasure not a choir. Doing something for your family is an expression of your love or your feelings toward your family, and if you truly love your family then you would even do it without the need for "reciprocation" or "appreciation."
ShaneSteele

User ID: 1173331
United States
12/03/2010 12:32 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: AMERICAN Women bring out the WORST in you!!!
OP 'angry feminists' usually do not get married.

Men have been brain washed about feminism, just as men believe women have been brainwashed by feminism.

The original woman that you described would not be called a feminist, but someone who had been abused. This can apply to men or women. Abused people are emotionally fucked up, and create drama unconsciously because that is what they know of reality. Their bodies can become addicted to the drama and will allow "drama" peptides to dock in cells over proteins to help build the body.
We all know people, both men and women, who have stayed with abusive partners. They were brought up with abuse and receate when they become adulats. ULESS they take steps to knw themselves, and to break the cycle.

Men need to start getting to knw themselves, and stop projecting outswards onto women. Both men and women need to stop blaming the other for their problems. All problems and all solutions start with the self.

Women have led the way on this path of self-insight in the past few decades. Yes, there are still some young women who have been brainwashed by Hollyweird (just as there are young men who have been brainwhased by porn.)But go to any group based on self-inquiry (eg: meditation, philosophical discussion, commenity groups, yoga even etc) and it is at least 80% women. Men seem to be having a harder time figuring out who they are, and how to change.

This spiritual age that we are in is all about Know Thyself, and consciously evolving. ARe you doing that, or are you still going to the bar to drink and watch professional sports on tv.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1112895


The book, "you cant afford the luxury of a negative thought" Documents this phenom...

Also...it is STAGGERING how many women have been abused as young women- in our culture, by Fathers,brothers,uncles etc... beyond SAD!!
Anonymous Coward
User ID: 1123488
United States
12/03/2010 12:33 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: AMERICAN Women bring out the WORST in you!!!
there are a pool of about say 10% of the male population that will end up having sex with something like 50% or more of the women in any given community. This is just biology at work and the result of humans giving into their animalistic urges. The curve of how much sex a typical man gets is pretty logarithmic looking with a small number getting a huge amount, and a large number having to really try to get any at all.
Tali

User ID: 1018633
United States
12/03/2010 12:35 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: AMERICAN Women bring out the WORST in you!!!
I would like to add a really helpful book I read to help my understanding of men and vice versa...Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus....

My ex and I would read a chapter every night...I would read a chapter, and highlight things I wanted him to especially look into and he would do the same and we would switch. It did help.

I know one of my problems - as in something I needed to stop - was when we would be arguing about something and when he would try to drop the subject I would keep going and going and going, I felt I was not heard at all.....well, thats considered nagging to some people, really I would like to believe he did care about what I was saying, but I should have dropped it and let him go to his "mancave" when he was upset....and brought it up again another time when we both had some air.

This is one example of something I learned in this book...another thing is appreciation...it goes a long way, (when its not fake of course)...you're stroking their ego of course which is fine, but I think it makes them feel fulfilled as a man/breadwinner/hero extraoridaire. It does something primally good.

Women also deserve appreciation, it IS a two way street. Taking care of a home and kids and meals isn't a walk in the park...coming up behind your wife slaving in the kitchen and telling her how sexy it is or how you appreciate it also goes a long way...

Can you see a great FRIENDSHIP in this? Trying to understand the way EACHOTHER tick instead of bashing?


"Taking care of a home and kids and meals" is a pleasure not a choir. Doing something for your family is an expression of your love or your feelings toward your family, and if you truly love your family then you would even do it without the need for "reciprocation" or "appreciation."
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1182624


Oh geez....I guess maybe I need to get into one taking care of themselves as well...

Are you trying to tell me doing those jobs is all cake?
Our perfect companions never have fewer than four feet. ~Colette
Anonymous Coward
User ID: 1182624
United States
12/03/2010 12:35 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: AMERICAN Women bring out the WORST in you!!!
I would like to add a really helpful book I read to help my understanding of men and vice versa...Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus....

My ex and I would read a chapter every night...I would read a chapter, and highlight things I wanted him to especially look into and he would do the same and we would switch. It did help.

I know one of my problems - as in something I needed to stop - was when we would be arguing about something and when he would try to drop the subject I would keep going and going and going, I felt I was not heard at all.....well, thats considered nagging to some people, really I would like to believe he did care about what I was saying, but I should have dropped it and let him go to his "mancave" when he was upset....and brought it up again another time when we both had some air.

This is one example of something I learned in this book...another thing is appreciation...it goes a long way, (when its not fake of course)...you're stroking their ego of course which is fine, but I think it makes them feel fulfilled as a man/breadwinner/hero extraoridaire. It does something primally good.

Women also deserve appreciation, it IS a two way street. Taking care of a home and kids and meals isn't a walk in the park...coming up behind your wife slaving in the kitchen and telling her how sexy it is or how you appreciate it also goes a long way...

Can you see a great FRIENDSHIP in this? Trying to understand the way EACHOTHER tick instead of bashing?


"Taking care of a home and kids and meals" is a pleasure not a choir. Doing something for your family is an expression of your love or your feelings toward your family, and if you truly love your family then you would even do it without the need for "reciprocation" or "appreciation."
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1182624

in other words--swallow and smile!
Tali

User ID: 1018633
United States
12/03/2010 12:36 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: AMERICAN Women bring out the WORST in you!!!
I would like to add a really helpful book I read to help my understanding of men and vice versa...Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus....

My ex and I would read a chapter every night...I would read a chapter, and highlight things I wanted him to especially look into and he would do the same and we would switch. It did help.

I know one of my problems - as in something I needed to stop - was when we would be arguing about something and when he would try to drop the subject I would keep going and going and going, I felt I was not heard at all.....well, thats considered nagging to some people, really I would like to believe he did care about what I was saying, but I should have dropped it and let him go to his "mancave" when he was upset....and brought it up again another time when we both had some air.

This is one example of something I learned in this book...another thing is appreciation...it goes a long way, (when its not fake of course)...you're stroking their ego of course which is fine, but I think it makes them feel fulfilled as a man/breadwinner/hero extraoridaire. It does something primally good.

Women also deserve appreciation, it IS a two way street. Taking care of a home and kids and meals isn't a walk in the park...coming up behind your wife slaving in the kitchen and telling her how sexy it is or how you appreciate it also goes a long way...

Can you see a great FRIENDSHIP in this? Trying to understand the way EACHOTHER tick instead of bashing?


"Taking care of a home and kids and meals" is a pleasure not a choir. Doing something for your family is an expression of your love or your feelings toward your family, and if you truly love your family then you would even do it without the need for "reciprocation" or "appreciation."

in other words--swallow and smile!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1182624



We have a weiner here people!!!
Our perfect companions never have fewer than four feet. ~Colette
Anonymous Coward
User ID: 1170379
United States
12/03/2010 12:37 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: AMERICAN Women bring out the WORST in you!!!
Most American women have been so dumbed down and pumped up to believe they are smart that most of them are delusional. Yet, they think they are rational.

The American woman is the perfect example of propaganda and science making a WONDERFULLY dumb human creature. Hence, they have 110% succeeded in the U.S.

Not all American women are like this. But the VAST majority are and that has been our plan for hundreds of years. If you are a man in the states and have a lady, what you see lying next to you is the product of our NWO. Plain and simple.
Anonymous Coward
User ID: 1181752
United States
12/03/2010 12:38 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: AMERICAN Women bring out the WORST in you!!!
all women have it in them to castrate without flinching
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 737344


I'd think any DECENT male or female would under certain circumstances.

For example (one of millions of examples):
Sex Offender Eugene Melendres Ramos Allegedly Rapes 2-Year-Old In Dollar Store
Thread: This is why I believe in the death penalty - Sex Offender Eugene Melendres Ramos Allegedly Rapes 2-Year-Old In Dollar Store

Use your penis as a weapon to harm an innocent then darn right you should be castrated. Then locked away for life. Prison labor should be required the entire time and every cent should go to paying for your own incarceration and to compensate those you harmed.

Oh, wait. I guess raping little children is somehow the woman's fault, too?

These threads are tiresome. All the time, the woman bashing. Get a grip, people. You and you alone are responsible for your actions. MALE OR FEMALE. It's pathetic watching "adults" try to find ways to pin their shortcomings on others. "I'd be a man if it weren't for the feminists". Um, whatever. The world is being destroyed because of a group of men who want power and complete control. Billions of other men out there apparently either have to work for these evil bastards or are helpless ninnies because of feminists because, ya know, gotta get a permission slip from the feminists to act like a man. Cause real men ask permission before doing what's morally right. *eyeroll*

I know there are a lot of decent men still out there- I've met many and married one. I thank you all for it and I know you'll stand tall when shtf. It's these whiny asses posting here all the time about how awful women are because their own lives suck or they are incapable of attracting a decent woman (but they don't look in the mirror I bet), you know, the porn addicted, sex starved keyboard warriors, that are annoying. Grow up.
Anonymous Coward
User ID: 1112895
Canada
12/03/2010 12:38 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: AMERICAN Women bring out the WORST in you!!!
"Taking care of a home and kids and meals" is a pleasure not a choir. Doing something for your family is an expression of your love or your feelings toward your family, and if you truly love your family then you would even do it without the need for "reciprocation" or "appreciation."
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1182624

I thought choirs were pleasure? I know I enjoy singing with others. :)
Proud Anglo Saxon
User ID: 1170379
United States
12/03/2010 12:39 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: AMERICAN Women bring out the WORST in you!!!
I would like to add a really helpful book I read to help my understanding of men and vice versa...Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus....

My ex and I would read a chapter every night...I would read a chapter, and highlight things I wanted him to especially look into and he would do the same and we would switch. It did help.

I know one of my problems - as in something I needed to stop - was when we would be arguing about something and when he would try to drop the subject I would keep going and going and going, I felt I was not heard at all.....well, thats considered nagging to some people, really I would like to believe he did care about what I was saying, but I should have dropped it and let him go to his "mancave" when he was upset....and brought it up again another time when we both had some air.

This is one example of something I learned in this book...another thing is appreciation...it goes a long way, (when its not fake of course)...you're stroking their ego of course which is fine, but I think it makes them feel fulfilled as a man/breadwinner/hero extraoridaire. It does something primally good.

Women also deserve appreciation, it IS a two way street. Taking care of a home and kids and meals isn't a walk in the park...coming up behind your wife slaving in the kitchen and telling her how sexy it is or how you appreciate it also goes a long way...

Can you see a great FRIENDSHIP in this? Trying to understand the way EACHOTHER tick instead of bashing?


"Taking care of a home and kids and meals" is a pleasure not a choir. Doing something for your family is an expression of your love or your feelings toward your family, and if you truly love your family then you would even do it without the need for "reciprocation" or "appreciation."

in other words--swallow and smile!



We have a weiner here people!!!
 Quoting: Tali


You see this? They are completely delusional folks.
Tali

User ID: 1018633
United States
12/03/2010 12:40 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: AMERICAN Women bring out the WORST in you!!!
I would like to add a really helpful book I read to help my understanding of men and vice versa...Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus....

My ex and I would read a chapter every night...I would read a chapter, and highlight things I wanted him to especially look into and he would do the same and we would switch. It did help.

I know one of my problems - as in something I needed to stop - was when we would be arguing about something and when he would try to drop the subject I would keep going and going and going, I felt I was not heard at all.....well, thats considered nagging to some people, really I would like to believe he did care about what I was saying, but I should have dropped it and let him go to his "mancave" when he was upset....and brought it up again another time when we both had some air.

This is one example of something I learned in this book...another thing is appreciation...it goes a long way, (when its not fake of course)...you're stroking their ego of course which is fine, but I think it makes them feel fulfilled as a man/breadwinner/hero extraoridaire. It does something primally good.

Women also deserve appreciation, it IS a two way street. Taking care of a home and kids and meals isn't a walk in the park...coming up behind your wife slaving in the kitchen and telling her how sexy it is or how you appreciate it also goes a long way...

Can you see a great FRIENDSHIP in this? Trying to understand the way EACHOTHER tick instead of bashing?


"Taking care of a home and kids and meals" is a pleasure not a choir. Doing something for your family is an expression of your love or your feelings toward your family, and if you truly love your family then you would even do it without the need for "reciprocation" or "appreciation."

in other words--swallow and smile!



We have a weiner here people!!!


You see this? They are completely delusional folks.
 Quoting: Proud Anglo Saxon 1170379


zombie!
Our perfect companions never have fewer than four feet. ~Colette
SaltWaterTaffy

User ID: 1066095
United States
12/03/2010 12:40 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: AMERICAN Women bring out the WORST in you!!!
Here we go again ....
:SWT name:

When the shit hits the fan and the end is quite nigh,
will you cry out to heaven? Will you lay down and die?

Not me, my dear ones. This is my sacred life. To no one or no thing I'll surrender.

For how does one know where when dead he will go, or if sweet mother Earth she'll remember?
D's Pet

User ID: 1182984
United States
12/03/2010 12:40 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: AMERICAN Women bring out the WORST in you!!!
Women have led the way on this path of self-insight in the past few decades. Yes, there are still some young women who have been brainwashed by Hollyweird (just as there are young men who have been brainwhased by porn.)But go to any group based on self-inquiry (eg: meditation, philosophical discussion, commenity groups, yoga even etc) and it is at least 80% women. Men seem to be having a harder time figuring out who they are, and how to change.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1112895


Could there be a difference in causality? Are women more prone to self examination because they are less likely to be content with their lives?
If so, what are the reasons for that?
The good news is that, according to the Obama administration, the rich will pay for everything. The bad news is that, according to the Obama administration, you're rich.
~P. J. O'Rourke
Anonymous Coward
User ID: 1123488
United States
12/03/2010 12:43 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: AMERICAN Women bring out the WORST in you!!!
Women have led the way on this path of self-insight in the past few decades. Yes, there are still some young women who have been brainwashed by Hollyweird (just as there are young men who have been brainwhased by porn.)But go to any group based on self-inquiry (eg: meditation, philosophical discussion, commenity groups, yoga even etc) and it is at least 80% women. Men seem to be having a harder time figuring out who they are, and how to change.


 Quoting: D's Pet

thanks for the tip. I'll see if I can find a yoga class around here. I am willing to change and grow with the right woman. I want the best for the future love of my life, I'm just not that thrilled with what I see out there for selection.

It really takes a good woman to make a man change in a meaningful way, in my opinion.
Anonymous Coward
User ID: 1182624
United States
12/03/2010 12:43 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: AMERICAN Women bring out the WORST in you!!!
I would like to add a really helpful book I read to help my understanding of men and vice versa...Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus....

My ex and I would read a chapter every night...I would read a chapter, and highlight things I wanted him to especially look into and he would do the same and we would switch. It did help.

I know one of my problems - as in something I needed to stop - was when we would be arguing about something and when he would try to drop the subject I would keep going and going and going, I felt I was not heard at all.....well, thats considered nagging to some people, really I would like to believe he did care about what I was saying, but I should have dropped it and let him go to his "mancave" when he was upset....and brought it up again another time when we both had some air.

This is one example of something I learned in this book...another thing is appreciation...it goes a long way, (when its not fake of course)...you're stroking their ego of course which is fine, but I think it makes them feel fulfilled as a man/breadwinner/hero extraoridaire. It does something primally good.

Women also deserve appreciation, it IS a two way street. Taking care of a home and kids and meals isn't a walk in the park...coming up behind your wife slaving in the kitchen and telling her how sexy it is or how you appreciate it also goes a long way...

Can you see a great FRIENDSHIP in this? Trying to understand the way EACHOTHER tick instead of bashing?


"Taking care of a home and kids and meals" is a pleasure not a choir. Doing something for your family is an expression of your love or your feelings toward your family, and if you truly love your family then you would even do it without the need for "reciprocation" or "appreciation."


Oh geez....I guess maybe I need to get into one taking care of themselves as well...

Are you trying to tell me doing those jobs is all cake?
 Quoting: Tali


those are not jobs. your thinking is flawed. your purpose in life is to have a family--something that made you alive, made your life worth living.

now, i understand you when you say that some men are lame. look at lions, for example. (actually, when i need inspiration, i watch lion videos on youtube). lionesses go hunt and kill, but lions come and take it away with a fight. they surrender with respect understanding the simplest truth of life that without a male they are nothing because they suffer the most when they are lonely.
D's Pet

User ID: 1182984
United States
12/03/2010 12:45 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: AMERICAN Women bring out the WORST in you!!!
It really takes a good woman to make a man change in a meaningful way, in my opinion.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1123488


It takes a good man to make a woman realize he doesn't need a bunch of changing. Love him as he is and it will pay off in spades.
The good news is that, according to the Obama administration, the rich will pay for everything. The bad news is that, according to the Obama administration, you're rich.
~P. J. O'Rourke
Anonymous Coward
User ID: 1182624
United States
12/03/2010 12:45 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: AMERICAN Women bring out the WORST in you!!!
Here we go again ....
 Quoting: SaltWaterTaffy


and so it begins, yes?
BOWMAN

User ID: 908163
United States
12/03/2010 12:46 PM

Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: AMERICAN Women bring out the WORST in you!!!
"Taking care of a home and kids and meals" is a pleasure not a choir. Doing something for your family is an expression of your love or your feelings toward your family, and if you truly love your family then you would even do it without the need for "reciprocation" or "appreciation."

I thought choirs were pleasure? I know I enjoy singing with others. :)
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1112895



Hehe...

It use to be this way, but because we're living in the Me society, not so much anymore.

We are softer people nowadays and the maintenance required to keep the other person satisfied without launching into pissing contests about who does more is very high.


------
"And I understood that in an age where there was so much ego, because of the camera, that it was very important to look for that kind of player, ... I began to look for the kind of player that doesn't need his ego fed by stardom, but will do what he's supposed to do because he knows the game and loves the game, and will do the job the right way even if someone else gets the glory." ~ Bill Belichick

H&W P401 Recip./Parson's Turbine Cold Start

[link to www.youtube.com (secure)]

Make Good Pitches

[link to www.youtube.com (secure)]

The Real You

[link to www.youtube.com (secure)]
SaltWaterTaffy

User ID: 1066095
United States
12/03/2010 12:46 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: AMERICAN Women bring out the WORST in you!!!
Most people I know living in the real world don't have this debate.

They are families and they love each other and they are happy.

I always wonder where this hate against American women comes from, seeing as how the American women I know are loved and cherished just fine by their husbands.

Why bother op? Why not just order a bride online and be done with it?
:SWT name:

When the shit hits the fan and the end is quite nigh,
will you cry out to heaven? Will you lay down and die?

Not me, my dear ones. This is my sacred life. To no one or no thing I'll surrender.

For how does one know where when dead he will go, or if sweet mother Earth she'll remember?
Anonymous Coward
User ID: 1182624
United States
12/03/2010 12:47 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: AMERICAN Women bring out the WORST in you!!!
I would like to add a really helpful book I read to help my understanding of men and vice versa...Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus....

My ex and I would read a chapter every night...I would read a chapter, and highlight things I wanted him to especially look into and he would do the same and we would switch. It did help.

I know one of my problems - as in something I needed to stop - was when we would be arguing about something and when he would try to drop the subject I would keep going and going and going, I felt I was not heard at all.....well, thats considered nagging to some people, really I would like to believe he did care about what I was saying, but I should have dropped it and let him go to his "mancave" when he was upset....and brought it up again another time when we both had some air.

This is one example of something I learned in this book...another thing is appreciation...it goes a long way, (when its not fake of course)...you're stroking their ego of course which is fine, but I think it makes them feel fulfilled as a man/breadwinner/hero extraoridaire. It does something primally good.

Women also deserve appreciation, it IS a two way street. Taking care of a home and kids and meals isn't a walk in the park...coming up behind your wife slaving in the kitchen and telling her how sexy it is or how you appreciate it also goes a long way...

Can you see a great FRIENDSHIP in this? Trying to understand the way EACHOTHER tick instead of bashing?


"Taking care of a home and kids and meals" is a pleasure not a choir. Doing something for your family is an expression of your love or your feelings toward your family, and if you truly love your family then you would even do it without the need for "reciprocation" or "appreciation."

in other words--swallow and smile!



We have a weiner here people!!!
 Quoting: Tali


don't you like weiners?
lim (OP)

User ID: 1084106
United States
12/03/2010 12:47 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: AMERICAN Women bring out the WORST in you!!!
come on, women do the same thing, date guys that make them horny, people marry for sex and divorce not long after.. not a big surprise, sex is not enough to keep a relationship going.


The above is spot on... having been married twice...

At the risk of being burned at the stake here..hahaha..

The second time around, I got flat on my face and prayed to GOD to provide the best for ME! ..... shocking...HE DID!!

After all Genesis says... It was not good for man to be alone,....... HE BROUGHT THE WOMAN TO THE MAN....

so my best advice...OP...watch for the women that great mystery brings to you...NOT WHAT YOUR EGO WANTS...its best to have a friend to grow old with....!!
 Quoting: ShaneSteele



watch for the women that great mystery brings to you...NOT WHAT YOUR EGO WANTS...its best to have a friend to grow old with....!!


You are right Shane

I will watch
I will wait

It is not healthy to be alone for a long time; every human being needs companionship with the opposite sex and friendships with both sexes

Let me tell you; quality men know this and do not pick the girls b/c she said some flattering words that stroked his ego; they go for the gusto. They go for the great woman.
For what will it profit men that a more prudent distribution and use of riches make it possible for them to gain even the whole world, if thereby they suffer the loss of their own souls?
Anonymous Coward
User ID: 77539
United States
12/03/2010 12:48 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: AMERICAN Women bring out the WORST in you!!!
When a man abuses them, deep down they feel a creamy sense of satisfaction.
 Quoting: lim


A creamy sense of satisfaction???
Anonymous Coward
User ID: 623842
United States
12/03/2010 12:49 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: AMERICAN Women bring out the WORST in you!!!
[link to happiestmen.com]


Feminists believe that all men are evil abusers.

When a man abuses them, deep down they feel a creamy sense of satisfaction. Their belief has been validated.

Therefore they carefully craft a life, and surround themselves with people who will create more of this abuse.

Thus further confirming their belief structure.

This type of mentality has been studied and explored by countless psychologists, and is well-understood by all people with common sense.

Also, there is a more dangerous issue, here.

Men are very "susceptible" to women's opinions of us. Let's face it guys, when we get married, we are very likely to start changing in response to our woman's needs. We can't help it...her emotions are so strong, and our sense of responsibility to her is so deep, that we can't help but slowly become the man she envisions us to be.

That can be good, or bad. A man who is married to an angry feminist will often become more abusive, fulfilling her expectations of him. She accuses him of shit he didn't do...finally he thinks "well, if she's going to treat me like a scumbag, then by golly I should just go ahead and be a scumbag."

On the other hand, a man who marries a loving woman (who trusts men) will usually become more worthy of trust, thus fulfilling her expectations of him.

The old cliche of "behind every great man is great woman" is so true.

Men, choose your wife carefully. Her mental image of men will probably become your destiny. Avoid women who think badly of men (which as you know, includes the vast majority of American women).
 Quoting: lim


I am so weary of all these women-hating, women-bashing threads. Funny how you rarely see women bashing on men on this forum. The men that bash - stop whining, grow up and look in the mirror and find out where YOU might improve YOUR behavior. There are bitches and there are jerks in both genders. Stop painting one gender with one brush. Geezus.
Anonymous Coward
User ID: 1123488
United States
12/03/2010 12:49 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: AMERICAN Women bring out the WORST in you!!!
Most people I know living in the real world don't have this debate.

They are families and they love each other and they are happy.

I always wonder where this hate against American women comes from, seeing as how the American women I know are loved and cherished just fine by their husbands.

Why bother op? Why not just order a bride online and be done with it?
 Quoting: SaltWaterTaffy



how old are you? Do you spend much time around women under 30? From my experience a very small percentage of women under 30 are marriage material... most will get pregnant and have kids, but the man in their life will not be stable, just because of their partying lifestyle. Not ALL women are like this, maybe 80 percent, and a poster on GLP is not going to be a good representation of the average female either.
Nikki_LaVey

User ID: 1120752
United States
12/03/2010 12:49 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: AMERICAN Women bring out the WORST in you!!!
Get your self a mail order bride
How Can You Be Two Places At Once When You're Not Anywhere at all
Tali

User ID: 1018633
United States
12/03/2010 12:49 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: AMERICAN Women bring out the WORST in you!!!
I would like to add a really helpful book I read to help my understanding of men and vice versa...Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus....

My ex and I would read a chapter every night...I would read a chapter, and highlight things I wanted him to especially look into and he would do the same and we would switch. It did help.

I know one of my problems - as in something I needed to stop - was when we would be arguing about something and when he would try to drop the subject I would keep going and going and going, I felt I was not heard at all.....well, thats considered nagging to some people, really I would like to believe he did care about what I was saying, but I should have dropped it and let him go to his "mancave" when he was upset....and brought it up again another time when we both had some air.

This is one example of something I learned in this book...another thing is appreciation...it goes a long way, (when its not fake of course)...you're stroking their ego of course which is fine, but I think it makes them feel fulfilled as a man/breadwinner/hero extraoridaire. It does something primally good.

Women also deserve appreciation, it IS a two way street. Taking care of a home and kids and meals isn't a walk in the park...coming up behind your wife slaving in the kitchen and telling her how sexy it is or how you appreciate it also goes a long way...

Can you see a great FRIENDSHIP in this? Trying to understand the way EACHOTHER tick instead of bashing?


"Taking care of a home and kids and meals" is a pleasure not a choir. Doing something for your family is an expression of your love or your feelings toward your family, and if you truly love your family then you would even do it without the need for "reciprocation" or "appreciation."


Oh geez....I guess maybe I need to get into one taking care of themselves as well...

Are you trying to tell me doing those jobs is all cake?


those are not jobs. your thinking is flawed. your purpose in life is to have a family--something that made you alive, made your life worth living.

now, i understand you when you say that some men are lame. look at lions, for example. (actually, when i need inspiration, i watch lion videos on youtube). lionesses go hunt and kill, but lions come and take it away with a fight. they surrender with respect understanding the simplest truth of life that without a male they are nothing because they suffer the most when they are lonely.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1182624


Ok...shall we call it a roll then, in a man/woman with a family situation? It is still work.

My dogs and kids keep me pretty un-lonely.
Our perfect companions never have fewer than four feet. ~Colette
D's Pet

User ID: 1182984
United States
12/03/2010 12:49 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: AMERICAN Women bring out the WORST in you!!!
Most people I know living in the real world don't have this debate.

They are families and they love each other and they are happy.

I always wonder where this hate against American women comes from, seeing as how the American women I know are loved and cherished just fine by their husbands.


 Quoting: SaltWaterTaffy


Good point. How come none of these males have ever noticed the happy couples around them?
The good news is that, according to the Obama administration, the rich will pay for everything. The bad news is that, according to the Obama administration, you're rich.
~P. J. O'Rourke
Tali

User ID: 1018633
United States
12/03/2010 12:50 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: AMERICAN Women bring out the WORST in you!!!
I would like to add a really helpful book I read to help my understanding of men and vice versa...Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus....

My ex and I would read a chapter every night...I would read a chapter, and highlight things I wanted him to especially look into and he would do the same and we would switch. It did help.

I know one of my problems - as in something I needed to stop - was when we would be arguing about something and when he would try to drop the subject I would keep going and going and going, I felt I was not heard at all.....well, thats considered nagging to some people, really I would like to believe he did care about what I was saying, but I should have dropped it and let him go to his "mancave" when he was upset....and brought it up again another time when we both had some air.

This is one example of something I learned in this book...another thing is appreciation...it goes a long way, (when its not fake of course)...you're stroking their ego of course which is fine, but I think it makes them feel fulfilled as a man/breadwinner/hero extraoridaire. It does something primally good.

Women also deserve appreciation, it IS a two way street. Taking care of a home and kids and meals isn't a walk in the park...coming up behind your wife slaving in the kitchen and telling her how sexy it is or how you appreciate it also goes a long way...

Can you see a great FRIENDSHIP in this? Trying to understand the way EACHOTHER tick instead of bashing?


"Taking care of a home and kids and meals" is a pleasure not a choir. Doing something for your family is an expression of your love or your feelings toward your family, and if you truly love your family then you would even do it without the need for "reciprocation" or "appreciation."

in other words--swallow and smile!



We have a weiner here people!!!


don't you like weiners?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1182624



I like summer sausages ;)
Our perfect companions never have fewer than four feet. ~Colette

News








We're dropping truth bombs like it's the end of days!