I slept with my husbands brother!! Now I dont know whether to tell my husband ?? | |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1194105 12/22/2010 11:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And just why would u tell him? To ease your guilt? Suck it up keep quiet and live with it. About a year ago I cheated on my husband with his brother. A lot of what happened between us was emotional rather than physical, although we did sleep together on 2 occasions. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1204223I think I did it because I wanted the excitement and as a reflex reaction to being married and suddenly feeling that my freedom had gone, although I still cannot be sure of the reasons myself. The whole thing seems totally crazy now, and I can't believe that I was so stupid. (Although I have to say that my relationship with my husband is now more amazing than ever.) The problem really is whether or not to tell my husband. Whether I tell him or not, I am 95% sure he would stay with me although clearly if I did tell him he would be devastated and his relationship with his brother would be ruined, although they are not particularly close. Is it better to be honest in this situation, or is it better not to tell him and save his feelings and his relationship with his brother (although it may seem rather cowardly on my part)? |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 924584 12/22/2010 11:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | NO Do not ever tell him...and never sin again...let it go...he'll find out oneday on his own maybe when his brother is on his deathbead and can ask for his forgiveness...that would be best...why ruin a good thing now when everyone is happy... |
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| orb User ID: 1117394 12/22/2010 11:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Telling him is selfish, although it was poor form for his brother to allow this to happen. However the poison this can spread throughout the family from this can have some very negative impacts. So since the damage is done, I would not offer it up, but the moment it was every questioned, you fess up and tell the truth at that time. If you are every asked, then you just admit to it, do not try to hide it. Personally, if my wife slept with my brother, 5 minutes later she would be out the door, I got no time for that stuff. I just can't see you recovering from it, without counciling. This is a incidious evil thing to become between two brothers, so be nice to your husband and cut him some slack. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1165428 12/22/2010 11:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Springer, springer, springer. Quoting: FaithLOL - it never ceases to amaze me that real people actually do these kinds of things. Heck, maybe the father-in-law is available too! oh, picturing you faith,it is a pleasant fantasy. |
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| Katt User ID: 1204227 12/22/2010 11:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Loooooser! Tell him....just to see what happens. Life's like a play; it's not the length but the excellence of the acting that matters! www.LifeIsAPlay.com And we can live it on the cheap: [link to www.TwinCitiesCheap.com] |
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| tomasgod1 User ID: 1112802 12/22/2010 11:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He is going to find out eventually. His brother is going to get really mad one day, and say "I Fuc..your wife". Things are not all that great in my opinnion...If I was you...I would schedule an appointment with a psychologist, or "family counselor", pastor..etc. The sooner you you come clean..the better...this is like a rock in your shoe, and it not going to go away untill you deal with it! _______ Blog [link to mysolaralerts.blogspot.com] YouTube Channel [link to www.youtube.com] "Give me Liberty, or give me Death!" FOUNDING FATHER, Patrick Henry (May 29, 1736 – June 6, 1799) |