Alone and dont know what to do!!! 33 year old female`

Yes, your husband did know?????


Wow, your husband figured out you had a cock? Amazing!

but as usual all the ignorant people on GLP ruin a serious post guess this as futile as everything else

you're bullshitting, right??

i like it! funny!!

Maybe men would like you more if you used punctuation.

Legally ....maybe, but reeally?????? not ever.
Doesn't matter how hard you try you are hardwired to be male so embrace that and stop pretending to be something you will never be.
Less confusion that way.

Do you tell potential love interest before you have sex? What about the first kiss?

bullshitting about what? yes my husband knew no I was a woman long before I met my exhusband. I told him like I always tell guys and he educated himself on this subject and we got married 2 years later whats funny is the haters like yourself are the ones who always asked for my number when I was pre op haha

No matter how much you cut yourself
and no matter how much you paint yourself
and no matter what clothes you put on
your dna today is the same as the day you were born
and you would test male
because you are male... still.
You can't change that. It is what it is. You are what you are.
No matter what desperate lengths you go to.

The only question is how do you deal with that now if you ever do at all?

if you were in sydney, i would have invited you over to christmas lunch. cracked open a bottle of red and compared notes on being single lol.

there is someone out there for everyone, i know everyone says that but its true.

even though your situation may not be the 'typical' single gal scenario, good on you for putting yourself out there. friends of mine have hooked up on dating sites, i've tried but I get all the lunatics.... not for me. i like meeting someone organically, and see if sparks fly. maybe i should post my pic, see if any good men around here are available?!

Last Edited by sky168 on 12/26/2010 12:52 AM

Never said I was a 'hater' just asking a question. Do you tell future potential love interest before you have your first kiss or first date?

I tell guys before it goes anywhere cause I wouldnt want someone to not tell me so why would I do that to someone else and yes they always know before a first kiss before a first date etc it isnt I am not attractive I know this but the trans thing is an issue for most guys I understand this I am just trying to figure out where to go to find someone who well is cool with me cause alot of guys love trans women but they like non ops or pre ops so I am in an inbetween they have no dating sites for people like myself all the ones for trans are well geared more for the non ops those who are boys in a dress meaning they have a penis and want to use it I am physically female legally female I live my life as a female so guys into "shemales" arent into women like myself and straight guys which I understand most have hangups on my past so...........

op you aren't a real woman. thats your first problem.

You have to face the realization that, in the world we live in, there is just a smaller pool of men willing to accept you. It is sad, but true. When the time is right, you will find the right person for you.

I tell ya most of these posts I am recieving are a waste of time ignorance breeds ignorance

no I understand there is a smaller pool of men I have no issue with that my question is where do u find that small pool thanks for the heart yay a nice post in a thread full of haters

Trust me people here made fun of me big time when I told them that I was interested in shemale aside from straight women. They told me that I was surely gay and I know for a fact that I am not. I tried to explain to them that female body parts is what actually turns me on but they wouldn't listen. So yes there are a lot of ignorant people on GLP. Just see who runs GLP in the first place and you wouldn't be surprised why this place is filled with so many ignorant, insane people. Still I believe there are also good people like yourself and a few others here.

reply sky person from austrailia props to u u are a kind soul hugs

stanislav u rawk
it is a differnt world thats for sure I know alot of other women in canada like myself I myself am in the states but if u are looking for someone I might be able to introduce u to a couple of nice girls

Many years ago I worked in a bar with this freaky drag queen homo. He told me that negro dudes dont care about the cock, as long as you act like a chick. Perhaps you should go to one of the prison pen pal websites

no worries hun, take care - holidays like christmas make many people feel extra lonely so i normally have all my friends over that are 'christmas orphans' we have a massive meal (usually bbq) and then drink and laugh.

hang with friends and people that love you..... stop worring about stuff :)

Last Edited by sky168 on 12/26/2010 01:08 AM

op very few of the posters on here are being ignorant. The truth hurts you realize that. The thing that sets you aside from real woman is that you'll never be able to have children deep down men want children as much as woman do and thats something you can never provide.

But don't worry somebody will land in your lap when you least expect it.

To tell you the truth I am interested. I have been lonely myself (like yourself) for sometime. But I am only looking for quality individuals. I haven't yet found the right woman as of today. I wonder if transsexuals might be a better option. By the way I am 29 soon to be 30 years old. And thank you very much for your offer. Do you know anyone in GTA (Greater Toronto Area)

Yes it is true that I would want to have children of my own but if I could find someone like her who can be the love of my life I would not mind to adapt a child.

So your looking so hard but you limit your avenues... i am a member of POF and just tried to contact you. It wont allow me cause your seeking people close by. How is that opening up your avenues for the search for love? Its not... cause you could truly find them "next door" or in the "next country". Even though im right next door to you so to speak. Dont complain when your limiting yourself heavily by a location restriction. Enjoy

what about moving to california? people are more open-minded there.
otherwise, don't say anything on your profile. don't say anything until you know that the relationship will be going somewhere. you don't need to disclose if it is just going to be one or two dates. after that, your potential mate will either like you for who you are as a person or not.

Haha, embrace it now?

stanisslav yes I do know a few in toronto but when it comes to the trans community I oftent wonder who is crazier the trans women or the men into them lol but there are a few who arent crazy they just cannot fulfill the male role they where handed how ever they are happier fun and can handle life as a woman and they are pretty cool people I am stealth and I only associate with stealth passable pretty "normal" trans women.
and to the other post yes they are ignorant cause ask any psycologist gender identity issues are a serious mental disorder and for people to be posting the things they do show they A: dont care about others mental stability and wellbeing and do not care if they push someone over the edge B: the are ignorant of the subject and they are in dire need of education

op do you honestly think you're attractive?

to the person who tired to contact me I changed my mail settings to any u are right I had it too restricted hugs