We each have our pride with our arts or art. Considering that many have sweat, blood and the occasional broken bone.
When I see a question such as 'the best' of anything I consider that the question is 'the best for me' as in the asker.

All martial arts are very personal. I would suggest an internal art such as bujinkan. But your preference maybe for something else. So I would suggest for you, go look, learn and try.