...well in my experience , coherent seduction is life force
finding coherence is the tricky part i discovered
Quoting: aether aether, coherence has been the easy part for me. Seduction has been somewhat of the easy part for me my entire life. But, is/was that always wrong? Or right in that both parties came away with what they wanted? Which was physical and non-physical. What if creation of both could be a conscious decision?
Quoting: SickScent oh
i see where your going
well on this topic i always listen to a women
Quoting: aether well allow me, pal
love a bit of requested advice ( albeit indirctly ;-)
if i'm getting what you mean
then your guilt is appropriate
you are meant to recognise seduction
and reflect on what part of you is desiring and why you desire
it's not wrong to desire
it's an emotional drive which reflects a hunger
you've been given a set of emotions (tools) with which you can gain greater understanding of yourself
your physical/emotional self and what is driving that at any point
if you instantly fulfil your desire - or over time - having anguished about the 'rightness'
then feel 'guilt'
your guilt has told you whether your actions ring true to your inner self or not
i see guilt and shame as 'tools' - further assistance -further 'meat' for the table of your reflective feast
logically - you know what you manifest in the astral may not be 'visible'-to all- but is created all the same and has effect and consequence -that's physics that is
it isn't imaginary
it is real-it has consequence
just on another level
but it also sets up incoherence between your physical and emotional being as you feel guilt (consequence)
private guilt - but guilt all the same
and you 'wear' that , physically
and most women are very intuitive with such 'clothes'
old arguement here but maybe helpful- if your wife could travel in the astral-as you do
and she was getting heavily nailed by big strapping hunkas every night
while cuddled up next to you
and one day on your astral travels , you chose to see that -and she was loving it -
how would you feel?
and would you wake in the morning , feeling any different
towards her -and she you
i suspect you might
the desire of the flesh tell us about our good fleshy selves
our emotions compliment that learning
both those when we act and when we don't
how about you set up a desire - a full bodied one- have it before you and know it's yours
then choose not to-for whatever reason feels right
see how you feel about yourself then
and then decide if your guilt now is appropriate or not
from a female perpective - i think it is
good luck pal , hope that helps