From what I got it was about intent...
The intent of the embodiment has to match the intent of the "thing" capable of facilitating the change. God...what ever term you want to use...

It was interesting because it plays with so many different layers of belief that movie...I enjoyed it...

And about what you got her...hope she appreciates it...and appreciates you for giving her opportunities not many other kids get. Sounds like she's in good hands...