I have two kids i have lost my weight but it was very very hard. you see ur body after kids cover in strech marks and its depressing, its a shock and your body will NEVER be the same. Ive heard men say well she shouldnt have used pregnancy to gain weight. I worked out two hours a day when i was prego ate no sweets or meat and guess what i gained 60 pounds. im am 5'2 and 128 pds my stomach skin still looks bad but guess what my husband fucks me everyday almost u know why because when we get old were all gonna b ugly thats y u marry for the insides not the out