~~~~~~~~~~~SOULMATES~~~~~~~~~~~~

I'm not really sure about that. I actually dreamt of my husband before I met him - he was my husband and we had kids. Then I met him and you could have knocked me over with a feather. That doesn't mean I didn't try to ditch him a couple of times before we were married, but he just hung in there and eventually wore me down. :) We've gone through the normal stages of relationships - there has been good and bad, but we both realize that happiness comes from within - we don't expect the other one to dance to our tune 24/7. If I had it to do all over again, I would make the same choice. Just call us Ward and June. LOL

I want chills to run up my spine and fireworks to go off every time we touch is that too much to ask?

Our soulmates are of our own reflection.

no that's awesome...

Does this lucky man know you love him?

well said, Faith!

I am much more of a romantic...maybe to the point of being in la la land, but I think that each of us can find that person we are destined to be with. When you do, you will know that you have found them.

Here is Romantic Synthpop song that I just love, by an artist that most people have never heard of, James D. Stark:



I only want your love..
I only want your love..
I only want your love..
I only want your love..
I only want your love..
I only want your love..

And the whole world can burn in hell.
I don’t care who must die.

All the worlds a small sacrifice, for your love.
For your love..

And the whole world can burn in hell.
Whatever be the price.

All the worlds a small sacrafice, for your love.
For your love..

Its getting to late for me to find.
The love that I need to feel alive.

Despite all my searching, I’m still far.
As ever from the one to save my heart.

Its failing.. Its draining.. from my blood.
The heart has.. no point to.. but if there.. is no love.
I only want your love..
I only want your love..
I only want your love..

And the whole world can burn in hell.
I don’t care who must die.
All the worlds a small sacrafice, for your love.

Your beauty is all I can think about.
And we’re trapped in a world that wont allow.
This love that turns to rage as its denied.
I’ll take out my revenge on all mankind.
Only you.. can diffuse.. this anger..
Butting out.. of control.. for your kiss.. worth killing for.

I only want your love..
I only want your love..
I only want your love..

And for the whole world to burn in hell.
I don’t care who must die.
All the worlds a small sacrafice, for your love..

And the whole world can burn in hell.
Whatever be the price.
Nothings too good to sacrafice, for your love..

The whole world can burn in hell.
If thats what it takes to make you mine.
I will destroy all human kind, for your love..

but what are married people that think they are not with their soul mates supposed to do? wouldn't that be breaking the ten commandements if they ended a marriage?

Ahhh yes being in another location where one is not permitted to leave and "belonging" to someone else. There is one thing that I have learned in the last 4 years, and it is "cause and affect" not just nature but it seems as though the darker forces try to keep two entities who bring forth devine love seperated. They bring the "Jokers" into our lives. Manipulate our thoughts and emotions to view that one person we are truly meant to be with differently. Keep in mind, that they will use your weaknesses to manipulate the way you view the love of your life. For instance, if there was something that person might have done in the past that hurt you, they will feed into that, making you resent that person instead of realizing that true love is forgiving. By evoking those negative energies out of you they are actually succeeding in draining you. The objective is to keep you negative so these darker energies can survive off of your life force. This is why they keep the two seperated. With all the manipulation in this day and age it seems nearly impossible to think with an heart, and open mind. Let go of all bad emotions, fallow your heart, when you do this, all the pain you felt will subside, and your heart and mind will completely align. For this to happen you much accept your soul mate for who they are 100 percent, no stings attached, no judgment, just love.

In response to a later post about a vagina and a cock being all the same thing, I disagree. I have had times with other people I sexually enteracted with and it seems as though my perception was fogged by all the bullshit i was fed. When my heart and mind slowely became as one I began to realize that I was not supposed to interact with those people in a sexual way. It was pure manipulation, and those who wanted me to love them were just forcing it. The truth came later, as I realized there were serious consequences for those who knew I was not their "soulmate" yet still persued me sexually, while aware of the fact that I did not know. They figured, if they could convince me I was thier soul mate there would be no reprocussions in the future. Lust is blinding. Once you can let go of the lust you are able to percieve what is conflicting to you and your soul mate. You will feel a harsh negativity overcome you, only then will you realize that person you are interacting with is not right for you.


In response to another post, separation between soulmates is indeed painful. :( Cheer up, love him or her with all your heart, and the two of you will be together again, very soon. Love will find a way. Even if death is the final outcome. The cycle starts again, and you will soon be reunited in the next lifetime.

I just so happened to be manipulated into marriage when I was at a very young age. Not until later did I realize that I was manipulated into a marriage that was not meant to be, and also manipulated into having a child at a young age. Don't get me wrong I love my son and always will, but seriously, If I am manipulated and tricked into such madness my nature is to fight it. You going to go rob a bank because someone manipulated you into doing it? Didn't think so. You'd probably realize it and back away from that person. Same concept. I respect you and think its great that you are holding on to those vows. I chose not to be involved in a marriage that was full of manipulation. What good is do or die, when it's a forced agreement? How can two genuinly agree to such a commitment when one manipulates the other?

Sorry to hear that ..

Soulmates are born together with the birth/creation of a Galaxy.

Soulmates are Two Singularities creating a Duality of One Love.

Ribbit

Soulmates? WTF?

Fuck no. Are you kidding? Your "soulmate" just a guy who happens to be funny/cute/charming/buys you shit, etc.

You still waiting to huh?

Each person was created by God at the Moment of Creation with a Twin Flame (or SoulMate), our other half. Each SoulMate pair (the “two who are one”) is a unique and individual cell in God's heart with its own signature or vibration. Each is one being but with two streams of consciousness, the Divine Masculine and the Divine Feminine. This is not about gender of bodies on Earth (or even necessarily about bodies on Earth), but about the grand forces or electrical currents of Creation.
The Twin Flame is an integral part of your own energy field that is and has always been with you. You have never been apart from your Twin Flame, nor can you be. You were created together and you are the same energy. Here on Earth most of us have lost awareness of our Twin but our hearts are now opening in the transformation that is taking place in our world and we feel the longing, not just for relationship on Earth but for reunion with the other part of us.
God will help you find the pure reflection of your Twin Flame who has always been with you through this website. God first guides us to choose to enter the realm of the heart and to unite with the divine feeling of our Twin on deep levels of consciousness before seeking to come together in the physical. The magnetism of this true Love in the spirit will draw its reflection to you in the physical. If you are with someone now, God will show you how to open your heart to allow your Twin Flame to fully manifest through the person you are with. Some may choose to nourish the relationship with the Twin Flame in consciousness without a physical reflection. If you are true to your heart, whatever you desire can manifest in your life.

Have you secretly dreamed of your ideal love? Have you wondered in your heart of hearts if such a being exists? Have you ever yearned for the partner who matches you perfectly? Of course you have. We all have! There is a good reason for these feelings. You do have a SoulMate, unique and belonging only to you. The yearning we all feel was placed there by God to draw us perfectly at the right moment to the truth of Twin Flames.

Deep in the heart of every human lies the knowledge of his or her SoulMate or Twin Flame, covered over perhaps by a shadow -- the disappointments of Earthly relationship experiences. Now at the time of humanity's awakening, the awareness of that Twin Flame relationship becomes of primary importance. Why? Because it is one of the major keys to our awakening to the heart and to the transformation of the Earth. In the human spiritual "genome" is a code of Love, activated by opening to the SoulMate, that will help us to embody Love on Earth and change our world to a peaceful, loving place. Think about it. Would there be war and strife if each of us were truly in Love?

Yes, there are transitions needed and they are happening. Because Love on our planet has been associated with GETTING rather than GIVING (as is the spiritual path to Love), often people do not yet know how to respond to this infusion of changing energy of the decade of the SoulMate. They continue to change partners with the goal of getting more and more personal needs met. This only creates musical chairs for partners and does not bring lasting joy. It is now time to change our view of relationship, instead of changing partners, and to begin exploring Love from giving, from the heart!
We human beings are all cells in the heart of God. Every cell in God's heart has two parts – one of masculine charge and one of feminine. These are the plus and minus, the positive and negative charges that are seen in every part of Creation. This two part cell is the original "Adam and Eve" of Creation – the manifested form of God's Love. Each of us is constructed this way, and each of us has an original SoulMate. This is not about gender on Earth, but about charges of the electricity of Love.

As the embodiment of God's Love, as pieces of God's heart, we are not only made in the image of God and living within God's heart. We are actively creative as is God. Many of us realize this. Our thoughts are active and are creating our life at every moment. However, we can only create at the level of our understanding, which brings us back to the difference between "getting" and "giving," and the difference between living from the mind (limited) and living from the heart (unlimited). In our society, much emphasis has been placed on the individual and what he or she must do to satisfy self. This point of view is often accompanied by fear, lack, greed, aggression, and "taking care of Number One."

In contrast, as we learn to shift to the level of true feeling in the heart, we begin to manifest "heart Love." We begin to experience life through the heart's intelligence rather than through the more limited small mind or ego. When we are able to let go of our smaller needs and make the decision to honor our partner by giving, we are seeing the Real World, God's World, All Creation, which is only comprised of Love. Therefore, if we live only in the day to day smaller mind, we are really living in "an illusion," or a lie.

As we raise ourselves by opening our hearts, our SoulMate will come into view. Our Twin Flame has always been with us but until we reach a certain openness of heart, we cannot perceive him or her. When we ask God's help to open our hearts to our SoulMate, the molecules which make up our ever moving energy field go into motion, and the reflection on Earth of the Twin Flame with whom we were created actively moves toward us . We do not have to go anywhere or do anything special. We do not have to change partners. As we become Love, that Love will show itself in us and before us in our partner. We will literally call and draw our SoulMate to us into our current partner, or a new partner.

I'm not certain that I believe in soulmates anymore. Quite frankly, sometimes I think people are attracted to each other for the wrong reasons.

This seems like a lot of new-age Gobbledygook.

ITT: HF overload.

Most of it is!

Soulmates are Twin Souls born together and most of the BS posted by the OP has nothing to dew with true Soulmates.

Ribbit

Last Edited by Butt Ugly Toad on 03/06/2011 11:58 PM

a-fucking men

Soulmates are born together with the birth/creation of EVERY Galaxy!

How do you think Souls are born?

Ribbit

Ps: The Big Bang Theory is BS. Every Galaxy is born, ONE at a time!

Last Edited by Butt Ugly Toad on 03/07/2011 12:34 AM

OP what happens to those of us who were too late to find our soul mates in this lifetime? The year 2012 is right around the corner and we are about to experience galactic ascension. Many souls will not even have a chance in finding their soul mates before then. Correct me if I am wrong, but I have come to understand that when the time comes, we will be separated from our current relationships. I also heard that wherever we maybe going, our soul mates are waiting for us on the other side.

Ditto. I once believed, too, but then real life set in, and I realized that soul mates are not real at all. You might find someone either whom God purposes for you, or you find them by happenstance, but soulmates? Not at all. That's a new age quack scenario to get you to buy books, tapes, cards and candles.