"My mother had me believe her husband who I thought was my dad,was my dad. She never told me she had an affair and I had a different dad. I found out when I was donating blood one day ( I have a rare blood type) and the nurse said you should ask your parents to donate because one of them has to have this type of blood. So low and behold when I was 26 years old I went home to ask who had the blood type. GO FIGURE Neither"

Been there done that too- was 38 yrs old. Really makes you re-think life!

Also - we had two dogs that went to a "good farm home" I'm sure you can figure how that work out!

Oh well - You are who you are. Move on.