How to treat INDEPENDENT WOMEN - ARIES WOMEN? ~HELP~

Exactly!

All Aries -- men and women -- LIE, LIE, LIE like dogs! Right to your face, on a regular basis.

OP needs to dump her NOW.

You are fornicating all over the place and go by "Lamb of God!?"

LMAO! You must be -- yet another -- one of those hypocritical Christians.

1st off all, you cannot go just by the sun signs.
you have to look at a person's entire chart.
we are not just our sun signs.

i am sun and moon in aries and i LOVE scorpios.
i am VERY expressive with my feelings.
and very loyal. if anything aries are loyal, as are scorpios.

but really you have to look beyond this sun sign thing.

the REALITY of the situation isshe has given you more than enough "clues" that she is not that into you.
it's ok, it happens.
it happens to everyone.
you'll survive , move on.

learn from this experience, be kind to yourself and her.
she might ahve been through a terrible ordeal that made her be this way and she is workig through it.
she will work through it in her own time and own way.

if you are "meant" to be together, then time means nothing and you will be together.

let it go
go have fun.

put your fun times with her in a box and hold then dear but don't let them rule your heart.
life is complex.

welcome to earth

Cant believe talking so much shit about women like me none what saying about Aries is true yes we independent ,I dont ask man for anything .By choice so he throw up in your face what he done for you.I so loyal it hurts sometimes because Men treat aries women like shit and they shouldnt in long run you regret any wrong or harm done..And my man Leo are sign suppose be best ...

hi markiki, im an aries woman, and i feel like i am like your girlfriend, my ex was libra, anyhow, when i read your post and also read the comments i felt like aries women are very much misunderstood. i was very much like your gf when i was still with my ex boyfriend, he always waited for me to go home from work before he sleep, he always wanted to know what am i doing, where am i going, if i ate already and all that stuff, he always text me.. and wait for me, but as an aries woman.. i seldom reply to his text messages, it doesnt necessarily mean though that WE DON'T LOVE our boyfriend just because we don't text as much as our boyfriend does,that we don't worry much as you worry about us, its just that, an aries woman.. when it comes to their career, it comes first, i don't think though that she is really your priority, as you said that you do the same thing with your family and others, right? anyhow IT DOESN'T ALSO MEAN THAT SHE IS NOT INTO YOU, AND THAT THEY DON'T HAVE ANY FEELINGS AT ALL. its just that, when aries women are at work, they concentrate on that, for sure when you are with her, all her attention is onto you aswell. that's what we are, what is infront of us at the moment that's what matters, and when we are at home.. that's what matters, but it doesn't mean that we don't love you, we're not into you (when you are in a relationship with her) we don't think about you. it's just that we don't show it that much at all, because aries women doesn't like a guy who is so clingy but they don't like detached guys also, you gotta balance it out. yes we are very possesive. for sure when she sees your miscalls and texts she smiles. she would always look into her phone just to check if you miscalled or text because she wants to have the security and assurance that you were thinking about her. the thing here is that we love the chase, but become bored with it too easily also when we get what we want. but we are very loyal, we love deeply and we are sensitive inside and sentimental. we are very ambitious thats why we prioritize our career first.and that's what we want from our partner too. to have their own lives but do not forget to include us to your life too. you can both be independent while loving each other. because deep inside YOU MATTER (IF YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM)

that's all i can say.

we are not cold blooded women who have no feelings
we are capable of being affectionate too and very loyal.

you just gotta know how to catch our interest. like what tickles us.. so you can get an aries woman go crazy chasing you..

i hope you are still together.

goodluck. and best wishes

Scorpio man here... I don't follow the stars signs much, but I ALWAYS end up with Aries girls and I find out after they're Aries after the fact. My last relationship was with an Aries for 15 years. We did pretty good, but changes to our lives drew us apart. I still love her very much and talk to her regularly. She's a good person and good friend.

I don't know what it is, but I never seem to get matched up with the signs I'm supposed to be compatible with. I always end up with Aries, whether I like it or not... So I know there is something there.

Aries woman here. My man texts and phones just to say hi and I don't. It means nothing.

Aries women are independent and dont need to constantly check in. She'll phone you if she has something specific to say. It doesn't mean she doesn't appreciate your texts it's just not the way she rolls.

If someone tries to suffocate me I run but if they are chilled then I stay. Aries are very honest people though so when she says she loves you she means it just try not to be too needy and get a hobby or something.

When you constantly declare your feelings to someone you are really asking them to say that they love, care and need you, it's a form of insecurity. She feels secure so doesn't need to bombard you with verbal declarations.

LOL. I did wonder about that myself " the you arn't woman enough to take my man " comment, came across as some childish control game, only to prove they are the " better woman " - will show affection and love when you are about to walk to keep the control and not " look the loser ".

May not of been meant the way the whole thing sounds though, lol.

I am Scorpio and went out with one Aries male in life, will never happen again. 2 bob millionaire trying to be all he never was or will be, and constant lies, deception and attempted financial uses. That said though, remember most people are on a cusp, and have moon and rising signs, so they will be a blend and all totally different.

To me, sounds like the woman already has another man, and you are purely the safety net. Sorry but It is clearly not any " special love ". And how do you know she doesn't go out when she ignores 10 calls? To me you would be out or with another to do that ...

How to treat INDEPENDENT WOMEN ...

...Um kick her in the cock?

i attract aries women..love them to death...but they always think they are controlling me (when i go along with their ideas)..me being a sag. they think they got me, but they don't realize me being a sag you didn't 'win' anything by me going along with you....i want to go along with you.

i'm a sag. i won't do anything i dont' want to do.

i no longer date them except for some exceptions .

aries the baby of the zodiac.

IMO

I'm telling my dad on you!!

She should get a child!

Pish posh. Been with my Aries woman for 20 years (married for 14) and life ain't a bed of roses. But I am a Taurus and in it for the long haul because of kids and she knows it. Long and short is that I put her in place when she steps out of line and if it goes way too far (brink of divorce - like we have been - thrice) I go get laid with other women and make it a point to explicitly tell her all the juicy details.
pretty conceited of me I know, but it works wonders and she comes back running to me knowing that I am a good mate and was correct in the first place. It is just that they like the "feeling of being in control of everything they touch" syndrome.
They tend to pull the rug under your feet at times so to speak - just to see how you react and match up. Childish innocence can be charming at first and needs handling with kid gloves, but after a while it gets drab. So change the pace every now and then and keeping them guessing is the name of the game.
Last but not the least - TAKE AWAY THEIR CREDIT CARDS if you have joint finance/bank accounts because they are spendthrifts and get a high by living off credit - because it feels larger than life.
All the best mate.

You need to shock her , and do it big.Dump her ne harsh it may be the only chance you have to wake her up

Im an Aries woman...and like many Aries women, we like a challenge, if there's no challenge for us in a relationship....we get bord and want out of it...And another thing, being that we are very independent, we will never fall under anyones leadership...we are the leaders...and we follow or answer to no one but ourselves. In a realtionship, we are totally commited. But when our partner comes off tooooooo needy, we run.

Aries are self centred and can't cope unless they are obeying rules.
I had one as a flatmate for 6 weeks. Cared more about possessions and money than people. Cold people and I've never met one that I've taken to.

leave'em alone

Ha, ha. I think that I am a sterotypical Aries woman and most of this couldn't be further from the truth. I am a risk taker, but I cushion any fall by being a prepper, too. Your gal sounds a lot like me when I was single.

Someone once pointed out that biblically a woman is just supposed to submit to HER husband, not every male running aroung. I think that Aries understand this and are very independent until they are married, but then they are very loyal. In other words, if you can tame the shrew, she will be a very nice wife! But never a dull moment!

I was no gold digger either - I wanted a man with *potential* not one that had already made it without *me*.

If I were to guess your problem using what I know (not a lot admittedly) about astrology, I would guess that Aries and Scorpio are just not that compatable although I think that people are individuals that can overcome anything negative that is thrown at them if they make the effort. (My dad was a Scorpio, I loved him dearly, but I wouldn't have wanted to be married to a man of his type.)

It's not a matter of zodiac.

You just got friendzoned by her, every woman does that with weak men, not only the aries ones.

I'm an Aries who is female and beg to differ.

If you are calling her 10 times it's maybe giving her a sign that you don't trust her.

Sometimes we don't text first because we feel if you really want to talk to us you'll text us first.

Or maybe she is trying to play hard to get in order to keep you interested. If you are too easy guys tend to take you for granted same goes for guys.

She needs some Fiya

Aries woman are very intelligent, independent and sometime dramatic. They have the courage to go for what they like but at the same time if they fail they will sulk and also affect those around them. They are found in good positions in their career or if nothing doing well in life.They are strong willed but sometimes due to their indiscipline some great opportunities might miss out, thus they need to be more careful about it. www.astrolika.com/aries-woman.html

Brother, This is why I am single , for 10 years plus. Just passed the one year anniversary of the last time I had sex, I could not be happier. I am a decent looking bloke, could have a girlfriend if I wanted but that is just it..

They have all been brainwashed/programmed by beyonce. And the Spice Girls. Watch this youtube clip. A lot of dudes in your position. And the better looking they are, the more issues they have. Statistics don't lie.

I like a good booty, but now fat chicks are dressing in short short shorts that were once only reserved for females with the figure to pull it off. They have nasty attitudes and are a 6/10 in the shade but get around with attitudes like they are supermodels. You know the ones, who roll their eyes and say "like" a lot.

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OP...I'm glad you are in love. Aries women are straight forward and speak their mind. They are not gold diggers...most are very dedicated and hard workers, usually get everything they need on their own.

But independent women are just that....independent. They are not clingy or needy where relationships are concerned. Maybe that is your attraction to her?

Back off a little...give the girl some breathing room. Women like to chase a little too and can't do that when you're breathing down their neck. Women need room to fall in love...they need time to fantasize and miss you. Especially independent women.

Read the book Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus by John Gray. Best relationship book ever. (And no, I'm not promoting sales for self interest). It just made me see how men and women differ.

I'm an Aries woman and I dated a scorpio male... Not for money.. We are selfish but not interested in other people's things... We have take pride in having our own. I at first I wasn't sure how serious the relationship would get. He travels alot for work... He seemed really into me.. I started expressing my feelings the further away he got. The more I reached out the further he backed away... Being Aries woman could be difficult. We do want security, I think we fear abandonment. We do things to push people away as self protection... If you still like us then u won't leave us and we can express our raw desires. (Again security). But when Scorpio feels Aries intensity he'll get overwhelmed and runaway.

kick her ass to the curb...after you come in her mouth !!!

whats her number

no one gets an aries female like an aries man

you might as well prepare for the dumping now as she rides off in a red porsche, sucking on the aries driver's cock

Okay. I am a 37 year old Aries woman. Many of us do not show feelings not because we do not care, feelings can make things awkward. She obviously loves you or she would have left you by now. Although we like for a man to show their feelings being too clingy makes us want a little more space. We like to know that you can about us because it makes us feel loved and safe (not financially) and this is what we need to survive a romantic relationship. Continue doing what you are doing but cut back on calling a little (she could be busy at work). An Aries is a masculine sign and we like to do things for ourselves I'm assuming to prove that we can so we don't rely on others. We like the little things in life, flowers, opening doors etc. We are also very competitive and like to be active (this explains her constant traveling with her job). We can be introverted but trust me we have feelings!!! We are also very personal people, we like our privacy so if she told her family about you then she's really into you (I never mention a person that I am dating until I know that there is a possibility for a very long connection; possibly marriage. I started not to answer until I saw the advise that was being provided (hope this helps); good luck.