NO fuck off, you are clueless, a broken hip can bring TIA after TIA and infection, when a person bones are like chalk the prognisis is bad, you clearly hove little idea how many people do not recover from such an inury and how quickly to makes a person go into decline.. if you think you know what her care SHOULD BE ////// fucking provide it.. you, know so well they are killing her, YOU make YOUR world different and provide her care, dont you understand the concept of self determination of autonomy?

I'm also a hospice nurse in a previous life smart arse, 6 years of hospice work in peoples own homes with their pain management provided by their family and only over seen by me (western wercy hospice is a wonderful Victorian service).. so I know whats out there, and I know what age and illness brings. I would never trust my loved ones to someone elses care because I know that should be the job of a loved one.

Man up and be the nurse, make yourself a fixture of her care facility or shut the fuck up about things you dont have a clue about.