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Folks, do you think this guy in question is a stalker? I'd like some feedback, please | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1332508  United Kingdom04/07/2011 05:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Meow...  User ID: 1236021  United States04/07/2011 05:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1331755  Singapore04/07/2011 05:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 720629  Canada04/07/2011 05:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | my big question is why do people put their personal lives on facebook! Who she is dating and when it breaks up isn't anybodies business, but I suppose this may well be how this other one knows. If you are going to use facebook, don't put all your shit on it and don't give your link to anybody except folks who should have it. |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 1332508 United Kingdom04/07/2011 05:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | my big question is why do people put their personal lives on facebook! Who she is dating and when it breaks up isn't anybodies business, but I suppose this may well be how this other one knows. If you are going to use facebook, don't put all your shit on it and don't give your link to anybody except folks who should have it. Quoting: Nobody in ParticularShe deleted him, so he cant get email notifications about her r/s status. So he must have been constantly checking her profile to see if her r/s status had changed (i think she made her r/s status public). She didn't help matters by telling him he was sweet for saying she looks gorgeous (i told her this). He looks like a creepy little bastard too. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1296109 United States04/07/2011 05:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 803259 United States04/07/2011 05:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 1332508 United Kingdom04/07/2011 05:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Really Facebook?.....if ya don't want all people to know your business then don't post it on the internet. Dumbass - shes asking for his attention by posting her business. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1296109Yeh but she was only dating him for less than a month and he keeps trying to get back into her over a year later. Surely he should have moved on by now. That shit aint natural. |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 1332508 United Kingdom04/07/2011 05:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Carol B. User ID: 1265827 United States04/07/2011 05:40 PM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1147880 United States04/07/2011 05:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Why do i say this? The woman could easily block the dude, she's playin' him and saving him as a last ditch possibility. Yep.. |
| moondust User ID: 1133894 United States04/07/2011 05:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | FB stalking isn't illegal. That said, she needs to have her FB on completely private, or just have her relationship status say nothing or N/A, so that her ex can't check in and see her status daily/hourly. ETA: she might be enabling him/leading him on in some way that she hasn't told you. Last Edited by moondust on 04/07/2011 05:44 PM "But don't you think it's better for a girl to be preoccupied with sex than occupied?" -The Moon Is Blue(1953) “Ninety-nine percent of who you are is invisible and untouchable.” ~Richard Buckminster Fuller "Does koala bear poop smell like cough drops?" ~Tom Robbins (Jitterbug Perfume) [link to www.mpp.org] medpot :sleepz: ~**Ron Paul 2012**~ |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 1332508 United Kingdom04/07/2011 05:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | That word gets abused alot. IMHO a 'stalker' is anyone someone else wants to marginalize. Sure, there are people who actually stalk other people, but like the man said words can't hurt you unless you've done something you want to hide, or you are trying to conceal your own true nature. Calling someone a stalker for asking you out repeatedly is asinine. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1147880Why do i say this? The woman could easily block the dude, she's playin' him and saving him as a last ditch possibility. Yep.. True enough. If it comes back on her, then she only has herself to blame for fucking with men's heads. I've told her she's opening the door to danger, but she wont listen. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1147880 United States04/07/2011 05:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If he makes her uncomfortable...and he's been told 'NO"...then he's a stalker. No communication of any kind should occur between them. Quoting: Carol B.If everyone on this planet had obeyed your whim by your definition, most of the loving relationships between men and women in this world would never have been formed. It has been my experience that women say 'no' frequently because they KNOW it makes the poor dude more desperate. She could block him, nuff said idiots |
| Lotus Flower User ID: 1286497 United Kingdom04/07/2011 05:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OK, there's this lady I know, and around Feb of last year she was dating a half Iranian guy for a month. They split up, and she hooked up with a new guy about 2 weeks after. She went through frequent break ups with the new guy but they always made up again. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1332508Now each time she'd split, the half Iranian guy would always seem to immediately know about it, and he'd immediately contact her on facebook to get back with her, but she always told him no. OK, so her and the other guy finally split for good in January, and the half Iranian ex immediately knew about the split and STILL made an attempt to get back with her. She blew him off yet again, and hooked up with a new guy 2 weeks after splitting with her other ex of 10 months. Do you think this half Iranian guy is obsessively stalking her facebook page to see if she's split with her new beau? I keep telling her that this guy seems fixated on her, and she shouldn't take it lightly, instead, he comments on her pics telling her she looks gorgeous and he adorable. I just find this too weird seeing as she was only dating him for a month. Why would someone keep doing this? Why is she even allowing him to be able to write on her wall, comment on her photos and view her profile? She should block him immediately and make her profile and all it contains only viewable to her friends. If she completely blocks him, he won't even be able to find her profile, let alone view it. Last Edited by Lotus Flower on 04/07/2011 05:46 PM Lotus Be not forgetful to entertain strangers: for thereby some have entertained angels unawares - Hebrews 13:2 One Crowded hour of glorious life, is worth an age without a name - Thomas Osbert Mordaunt |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 1332508 United Kingdom04/07/2011 05:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | FB stalking isn't illegal. That said, she needs to have her FB on completely private, or just have her relationship status say nothing or N/A, so that her ex can't check in and see her status daily/hourly. Quoting: moondustETA: she might be enabling him/leading him on in some way that she hasn't told you. Most probably. And like I said in the previous post, she is playing with fire. She meets all sorts of men off facebook, and has 2000 friends, mainly all men who constantly comment on how gorgeous she is. I've told her, that she doesn't actually know these men, and any of them could develop an obsession with her and start stalking her. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1147880 United States04/07/2011 05:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My definition of a stalker is someone who actively pursues you, that is shows up where you are against your will. Internet 'stalkers' is just another way to marginalize certain people who know too much about other certain people. A stalker on the internet could be someone exposing a criminal or a hacker, or a conspiracy.. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 360613 United States04/07/2011 05:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| devorahg User ID: 1332526 United States04/07/2011 05:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She's a whore Quoting: Anonymous Coward 803259Yeh, I know she is, I've smashed her in every position LOL but this dude seems like a real fucking creep. Some friend you are calling her a whore. |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 1332508 United Kingdom04/07/2011 05:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OK, there's this lady I know, and around Feb of last year she was dating a half Iranian guy for a month. They split up, and she hooked up with a new guy about 2 weeks after. She went through frequent break ups with the new guy but they always made up again. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1332508Now each time she'd split, the half Iranian guy would always seem to immediately know about it, and he'd immediately contact her on facebook to get back with her, but she always told him no. OK, so her and the other guy finally split for good in January, and the half Iranian ex immediately knew about the split and STILL made an attempt to get back with her. She blew him off yet again, and hooked up with a new guy 2 weeks after splitting with her other ex of 10 months. Do you think this half Iranian guy is obsessively stalking her facebook page to see if she's split with her new beau? I keep telling her that this guy seems fixated on her, and she shouldn't take it lightly, instead, he comments on her pics telling her she looks gorgeous and he adorable. I just find this too weird seeing as she was only dating him for a month. Why would someone keep doing this? Why is she even allowing him to be able to write on her wall, comment on her photos and view her profile? She should block him immediately and make her profile and all it contains only viewable to her friends. If she completely blocks him, he won't even be able to find her profile, let alone view it. True. She seems to get off on playing men on FB, but this dangerous game she's playing is going to seriously backfire on her one day. It seems like this dude must be fixated on her otherwise he'd have moved on last year, but he hasnt done that; he's constantly tried to get back with her ever since. |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 1332508 United Kingdom04/07/2011 05:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She's a whore Quoting: Anonymous Coward 803259Yeh, I know she is, I've smashed her in every position LOL but this dude seems like a real fucking creep. Some friend you are calling her a whore. It's true though, she even freely admits that she's a slut. |
| Carol B. User ID: 1265827 United States04/07/2011 05:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OK, there's this lady I know, and around Feb of last year she was dating a half Iranian guy for a month. They split up, and she hooked up with a new guy about 2 weeks after. She went through frequent break ups with the new guy but they always made up again. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1332508Now each time she'd split, the half Iranian guy would always seem to immediately know about it, and he'd immediately contact her on facebook to get back with her, but she always told him no. OK, so her and the other guy finally split for good in January, and the half Iranian ex immediately knew about the split and STILL made an attempt to get back with her. She blew him off yet again, and hooked up with a new guy 2 weeks after splitting with her other ex of 10 months. Do you think this half Iranian guy is obsessively stalking her facebook page to see if she's split with her new beau? I keep telling her that this guy seems fixated on her, and she shouldn't take it lightly, instead, he comments on her pics telling her she looks gorgeous and he adorable. I just find this too weird seeing as she was only dating him for a month. Why would someone keep doing this? Why is she even allowing him to be able to write on her wall, comment on her photos and view her profile? She should block him immediately and make her profile and all it contains only viewable to her friends. If she completely blocks him, he won't even be able to find her profile, let alone view it. True. She seems to get off on playing men on FB, but this dangerous game she's playing is going to seriously backfire on her one day. It seems like this dude must be fixated on her otherwise he'd have moved on last year, but he hasnt done that; he's constantly tried to get back with her ever since. If that is what she's doing...then she has a problem. I agree with your statement that he seems fixated on her...if they only went out for one month, a year ago..well, she's IN his head. Prayer.....the world's first wireless connection. |
| moondust User ID: 1133894 United States04/07/2011 05:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | FB stalking isn't illegal. That said, she needs to have her FB on completely private, or just have her relationship status say nothing or N/A, so that her ex can't check in and see her status daily/hourly. Quoting: moondustETA: she might be enabling him/leading him on in some way that she hasn't told you. Most probably. And like I said in the previous post, she is playing with fire. She meets all sorts of men off facebook, and has 2000 friends, mainly all men who constantly comment on how gorgeous she is. I've told her, that she doesn't actually know these men, and any of them could develop an obsession with her and start stalking her. Yeah, if I ever get stalked, I go into hiding mode. It's unwelcome and makes me nervous. Naïveté could be an active part of the problem. Unfortunately, it won't go away until some sh*t hits the fan in her life. "But don't you think it's better for a girl to be preoccupied with sex than occupied?" -The Moon Is Blue(1953) “Ninety-nine percent of who you are is invisible and untouchable.” ~Richard Buckminster Fuller "Does koala bear poop smell like cough drops?" ~Tom Robbins (Jitterbug Perfume) [link to www.mpp.org] medpot :sleepz: ~**Ron Paul 2012**~ |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 1332508 United Kingdom04/07/2011 06:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OK, there's this lady I know, and around Feb of last year she was dating a half Iranian guy for a month. They split up, and she hooked up with a new guy about 2 weeks after. She went through frequent break ups with the new guy but they always made up again. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1332508Now each time she'd split, the half Iranian guy would always seem to immediately know about it, and he'd immediately contact her on facebook to get back with her, but she always told him no. OK, so her and the other guy finally split for good in January, and the half Iranian ex immediately knew about the split and STILL made an attempt to get back with her. She blew him off yet again, and hooked up with a new guy 2 weeks after splitting with her other ex of 10 months. Do you think this half Iranian guy is obsessively stalking her facebook page to see if she's split with her new beau? I keep telling her that this guy seems fixated on her, and she shouldn't take it lightly, instead, he comments on her pics telling her she looks gorgeous and he adorable. I just find this too weird seeing as she was only dating him for a month. Why would someone keep doing this? Why is she even allowing him to be able to write on her wall, comment on her photos and view her profile? She should block him immediately and make her profile and all it contains only viewable to her friends. If she completely blocks him, he won't even be able to find her profile, let alone view it. True. She seems to get off on playing men on FB, but this dangerous game she's playing is going to seriously backfire on her one day. It seems like this dude must be fixated on her otherwise he'd have moved on last year, but he hasnt done that; he's constantly tried to get back with her ever since. If that is what she's doing...then she has a problem. I agree with your statement that he seems fixated on her...if they only went out for one month, a year ago..well, she's IN his head. She's somewhat of a narcissist, and constantly putting new pics of herself on FB, and fellas go crazy commenting on them. She has a new guy, but obviously doesnt give a shit about his feelings -- like the others before him. Like I said, the shit will hit the fan soon enough when a crank out of her 2000 + friends list becomes overwhelmed with lust for her and starts stalking her. And I'm not just talking about the half Iranian guy either. Most of her "male friends" on FB all are either drug addicts, alcoholics or have severe personality disorders, and she gives them her phone number! This one bipolar guy told her, "If I want pizza I have got to HAVE pizza" in reference to meaning that he HAS to have SEX if he wants sex. She even told me that she believed her mobile phone had been tapped by someone off facebook beause she could hear all sorts of strange noises in the background which are apparently consistent with phone tappping. Also her texts always seemed to arrive late, and when they did arrive they'd been jumbled up with texts from the day before. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1097171 United States04/07/2011 06:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Lotus FlowerSOunds like she's being stalked by a fusion center, not a dude on facebook. Why is she even allowing him to be able to write on her wall, comment on her photos and view her profile? She should block him immediately and make her profile and all it contains only viewable to her friends. If she completely blocks him, he won't even be able to find her profile, let alone view it. True. She seems to get off on playing men on FB, but this dangerous game she's playing is going to seriously backfire on her one day. It seems like this dude must be fixated on her otherwise he'd have moved on last year, but he hasnt done that; he's constantly tried to get back with her ever since. If that is what she's doing...then she has a problem. I agree with your statement that he seems fixated on her...if they only went out for one month, a year ago..well, she's IN his head. She's somewhat of a narcissist, and constantly putting new pics of herself on FB, and fellas go crazy commenting on them. She has a new guy, but obviously doesnt give a shit about his feelings -- like the others before him. Like I said, the shit will hit the fan soon enough when a crank out of her 2000 + friends list becomes overwhelmed with lust for her and starts stalking her. And I'm not just talking about the half Iranian guy either. Most of her "male friends" on FB all are either drug addicts, alcoholics or have severe personality disorders, and she gives them her phone number! This one bipolar guy told her, "If I want pizza I have got to HAVE pizza" in reference to meaning that he HAS to have SEX if he wants sex. She even told me that she believed her mobile phone had been tapped by someone off facebook beause she could hear all sorts of strange noises in the background which are apparently consistent with phone tappping. Also her texts always seemed to arrive late, and when they did arrive they'd been jumbled up with texts from the day before. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1097171 United States04/07/2011 06:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Lotus FlowerWhy is she even allowing him to be able to write on her wall, comment on her photos and view her profile? She should block him immediately and make her profile and all it contains only viewable to her friends. If she completely blocks him, he won't even be able to find her profile, let alone view it. True. She seems to get off on playing men on FB, but this dangerous game she's playing is going to seriously backfire on her one day. It seems like this dude must be fixated on her otherwise he'd have moved on last year, but he hasnt done that; he's constantly tried to get back with her ever since. If that is what she's doing...then she has a problem. I agree with your statement that he seems fixated on her...if they only went out for one month, a year ago..well, she's IN his head. She's somewhat of a narcissist, and constantly putting new pics of herself on FB, and fellas go crazy commenting on them. She has a new guy, but obviously doesnt give a shit about his feelings -- like the others before him. Like I said, the shit will hit the fan soon enough when a crank out of her 2000 + friends list becomes overwhelmed with lust for her and starts stalking her. And I'm not just talking about the half Iranian guy either. Most of her "male friends" on FB all are either drug addicts, alcoholics or have severe personality disorders, and she gives them her phone number! This one bipolar guy told her, "If I want pizza I have got to HAVE pizza" in reference to meaning that he HAS to have SEX if he wants sex. She even told me that she believed her mobile phone had been tapped by someone off facebook beause she could hear all sorts of strange noises in the background which are apparently consistent with phone tappping. Also her texts always seemed to arrive late, and when they did arrive they'd been jumbled up with texts from the day before. Sounds like she's being stalked by a fusion center to me. |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 1332508 United Kingdom04/07/2011 06:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ETA: she's been doing this for three years, and guys from all over the world, including the where she lives in the United Kingdom have been hung up on her for all that time. IMO these screwed up guys will become so consumed with lust that they will probably make it their business to go pay her a visit. |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 1332508 United Kingdom04/07/2011 06:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1332508True. She seems to get off on playing men on FB, but this dangerous game she's playing is going to seriously backfire on her one day. It seems like this dude must be fixated on her otherwise he'd have moved on last year, but he hasnt done that; he's constantly tried to get back with her ever since. If that is what she's doing...then she has a problem. I agree with your statement that he seems fixated on her...if they only went out for one month, a year ago..well, she's IN his head. She's somewhat of a narcissist, and constantly putting new pics of herself on FB, and fellas go crazy commenting on them. She has a new guy, but obviously doesnt give a shit about his feelings -- like the others before him. Like I said, the shit will hit the fan soon enough when a crank out of her 2000 + friends list becomes overwhelmed with lust for her and starts stalking her. And I'm not just talking about the half Iranian guy either. Most of her "male friends" on FB all are either drug addicts, alcoholics or have severe personality disorders, and she gives them her phone number! This one bipolar guy told her, "If I want pizza I have got to HAVE pizza" in reference to meaning that he HAS to have SEX if he wants sex. She even told me that she believed her mobile phone had been tapped by someone off facebook beause she could hear all sorts of strange noises in the background which are apparently consistent with phone tappping. Also her texts always seemed to arrive late, and when they did arrive they'd been jumbled up with texts from the day before. Sounds like she's being stalked by a fusion center to me. Precisely what I was thinking also. All of these weirdos are probably inboxing eachother constantly about her. 2000+ odd balls on her friend list, there has to at least be a number of them who probably have designs on her. |
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