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whiterussian User ID: 1335931 Thailand 04/10/2011 05:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | BOREDOM DOOM!!! OK, yes, we are bored, we're all bored now... Last Edited by whiterussian on 04/10/2011 05:32 AM |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1220908 United States 04/10/2011 05:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | For the past several years (I'm 32 years old), I've found myself incredibly bored with everything life has to offer. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1185559Of course there are things I enjoy, for a while, but there is nothing I really look forward to. Everything is so boring to me. Every topic, subject, activity... life itself is boring. I'm not depressed. I'm just bored with living. I don't welcome death, but I don't fear it either. And I can tell you right now that I do NOT want to come back again. It's just too damn boring here. Anyone else? You read my mind. We are the same. I can't stand people and their games and the lame old traditions and whatever. We need to finally be free from all the political correctness. The relationships. The fake society. All of it is beneath me. I try to joke about it all but the realization of how low this plane of existence is can be depressing. I hope this ascension stuff is true because I don't want to be stuck here with all these egomaniacs. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1327216 United States 04/10/2011 05:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | For the past several years (I'm 32 years old), I've found myself incredibly bored with everything life has to offer. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1185559Of course there are things I enjoy, for a while, but there is nothing I really look forward to. Everything is so boring to me. Every topic, subject, activity... life itself is boring. I'm not depressed. I'm just bored with living. I don't welcome death, but I don't fear it either. And I can tell you right now that I do NOT want to come back again. It's just too damn boring here. Anyone else? start learning cosmology your ANSWER sure of it |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1331439 United States 04/10/2011 05:32 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes, life is boring. I have learned to call that "happiness" - the absence of pain and suffering, this is all we have to strive for. You take nothing with you. There is nothing to strive for. It's an empty shell. Dreams, those are less boring. I have a child. Sometimes I feel guilt at having brought her into the world. Sometimes she tells me she's bored. I see parents that will go to any lengths to entertain their children. It baffles me. Something is about to happen. This is the reason we volunteered to come here (again). I wish I could remember what it was, but then again, that would probably spoil the surprise, and then it would be boring too!! I'm not sure if I can stand the excitement of what is coming, but I suspect it won't be as exciting as I've imagined/hoped. Probably some more boredom with extra pain and less conveniences. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 300884 Sweden 04/10/2011 05:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Something is about to happen. This is the reason we volunteered to come here (again). I wish I could remember what it was, but then again, that would probably spoil the surprise, and then it would be boring too!! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1331439I'm not sure if I can stand the excitement of what is coming, but I suspect it won't be as exciting as I've imagined/hoped. Probably some more boredom with extra pain and less conveniences. You hit the nail right on the balls sister. "Incarnate on Earth! Experience the ending of an Age, and the joy of building a new world!" sure sounded great in the flyer, but those few who survive the poleshift probably won't find it to be much fun at all. I'm hoping to make a smooth exit at that time myself. With some luck I'll be swallowed by a crack in the ground or something... |
Wonderlust User ID: 1170159 United States 04/10/2011 05:41 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I completely understand you OP. I feel the same about life, and I am only 25 years old. This state of being if you will, happened to me after experiencing much that life has to offer in a short amount of time, followed by deep introspection and self discovery over the last couple of years. Even when I was a young teenager, I felt like an old soul. Actually on second thought, it's not so much that I feel bored with life, but rather that I feel completely free from all the things and events that people say they are living for. I have many abstract concepts in my head that are almost impossible to describe in words, that I honestly believe are snippets of experiences to come after this life is over... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1335967I'm 26 I feel the same way OP and I can relate to this. I have distance and freed myself of all these boring mundane distractions. I found that its just more rewarding to be yourself and improve. I just focus on being happy to live, learn, love, life. I may or not get the chance to get married and start a family, I am not ready for that at this time. It does not really matter, only if that is what you desire. Before I never really saw myself as having any purpose on living here, but though we may think we don't have one, we all have do. To live, learn, love, and life. I think that is what we are to do learn and get experience from it in the 3rd reality world, then graduation to the next. I believe we are in some very interesting times and I am looking forward to what lies ahead for us. Last Edited by Wonderlust on 04/10/2011 05:48 AM In oneself lies the whole world and if you know how to look and learn, the door is there and the key is in your hand. Nobody on earth can give you either the key or the door to open, except yourself. ~Jiddu Krishnamurti [link to twitter.com] [link to www.jgoth.com] [link to www.facebook.com (secure)] |
Schleppmeister User ID: 1334516 United States 04/10/2011 05:44 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Over my decades of boredom I've pinpointed a few issues that seem to be the root cause. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1288478Society is a closed-loop. We have a limited range of experience available to us, by design. Our creativity is suppressed or funneled into the mechanisms that keep us on hamster wheel. Our dreams and hopes are stolen and sold back to us via cheap knock-offs. There is no fulfillment in being a slave. There is no fulfillment in living to work. There is no fulfillment here at all. Having kids is just bringing more slaves into the meat grinder. Having a family is what's left from the engineered isolationism we face as a species. And well, rampant engineered stupidity is boring. Excellent! ..new words for my tombstone ..thanks! p.s. before Ford's assembly line was invented many people worked as true craftsmen and must have felt more fulfillment from work despite the long hours,low pay etc |
whiterussian User ID: 1335931 Thailand 04/10/2011 05:45 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'd be happy in a world without radioactive DOOM to be honest. Kinda puts things into perspective. then stop the greed wars. all things we can work towards. of course the nature of man is to feather his own nest... if the pyramid is destroyed... it just regrows. maybe that is the cycle. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1294979 Sweden 04/10/2011 05:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's as if the matrix has you and there is no way out and simply dropping everything is no solution either due to the responibility to provide for ones family. Maybe this is all there is to it and we simply have to accept things and live with them. |
Kimchi User ID: 1210290 Netherlands 04/10/2011 06:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | For the past several years (I'm 32 years old), I've found myself incredibly bored with everything life has to offer. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1185559Of course there are things I enjoy, for a while, but there is nothing I really look forward to. Everything is so boring to me. Every topic, subject, activity... life itself is boring. I'm not depressed. I'm just bored with living. I don't welcome death, but I don't fear it either. And I can tell you right now that I do NOT want to come back again. It's just too damn boring here. Anyone else? I had the same feeling about 2 years ago, every day the same boring routine.. I was getting depressed and bored with everything I did, until I decided my life had to change 100%. I went to South Korea as an exchange student for a year. This has given me new energy and happiness, now I know what I really want to do with my life. In a couple of months I'm going to New Zealand for my internship to gain more new experiences! I will probably finish my degree in China or Singapore. Finally my days of boredom are over! I would suggest to go abroad for a while, not on vacation but to live there for a couple of months! Take a break from your daily routine! It is an enriching experience, you will meet new people and learn to appreciate new cultures and ways of life. There are lots of opportunities! The important thing to remember is that you should DO it. Dont think or daydream about things you want to do.. just DO IT! |
Schleppmeister User ID: 1334516 United States 04/10/2011 06:10 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I would not be totally surprised if I ended up in some Religitard's hell for all the hating I have done on this planet but .. ..I hope at least if that's the case I get to go to Dante's.. ..as that is, for sure, the most interesting one I have heard of and thus the least likely to bore me. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1294979 Sweden 04/10/2011 06:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | For the past several years (I'm 32 years old), I've found myself incredibly bored with everything life has to offer. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1185559Of course there are things I enjoy, for a while, but there is nothing I really look forward to. Everything is so boring to me. Every topic, subject, activity... life itself is boring. I'm not depressed. I'm just bored with living. I don't welcome death, but I don't fear it either. And I can tell you right now that I do NOT want to come back again. It's just too damn boring here. Anyone else? I had the same feeling about 2 years ago, every day the same boring routine.. I was getting depressed and bored with everything I did, until I decided my life had to change 100%. I went to South Korea as an exchange student for a year. This has given me new energy and happiness, now I know what I really want to do with my life. In a couple of months I'm going to New Zealand for my internship to gain more new experiences! I will probably finish my degree in China or Singapore. Finally my days of boredom are over! I would suggest to go abroad for a while, not on vacation but to live there for a couple of months! Take a break from your daily routine! It is an enriching experience, you will meet new people and learn to appreciate new cultures and ways of life. There are lots of opportunities! The important thing to remember is that you should DO it. Dont think or daydream about things you want to do.. just DO IT! I agree maybe this is enough for some people to snap out of it though for me I've lived in three different countries and travel all over the world through my work and it doesn't help. It's a strange feeling and very difficult to explain unfortunately. |
Schleppmeister User ID: 1334516 United States 04/10/2011 08:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | O.P. work & people mostly suck for me but hobbies have made my life worthwhile. I was fortunate to learn classical guitar back in '77 for 3 years from a world class teacher, a top student and close friend of Christopher Parkening and Pepe Romero. I don't know if I can properly describe to you what its like to be in the presence of someone who had total mastery of craft as he did at the age of 28 and PLEASE! don't dare to compare his ability to some pathetic little rock god like Clapton or Page whom I also admire ..they never even cracked open a book on music theory where you have to learn to write in 4 part harmony what you hear by ear...let alone compose music for an entire orchestra ... except to say that I have been playing Bach for 34 years with everything I got and yes people are impressed but to give an analogy, I have only progressed from being an amoeba to the level of a worm in the classical guitar world!. Doesn't matter to me I am never bored with it! |
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spiritnut User ID: 1326464 United States 04/10/2011 10:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Determine what your REAL interests are and then try to find a job or career that mirrors those interests. It might take a while to find but you are young enough to do it NOW. Don't wait 20 years (I really don't think we have that long) - but who is to know. Question everything |
Big'Ez User ID: 1318973 United Kingdom 04/10/2011 10:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | For the past several years (I'm 32 years old), I've found myself incredibly bored with everything life has to offer. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1185559Of course there are things I enjoy, for a while, but there is nothing I really look forward to. Everything is so boring to me. Every topic, subject, activity... life itself is boring. I'm not depressed. I'm just bored with living. I don't welcome death, but I don't fear it either. And I can tell you right now that I do NOT want to come back again. It's just too damn boring here. Anyone else? Too bad, you're coming back again, no matter how "spiritual" you think you are. Or did you think the more spiritual knowledge one has the less chance they have of incarnating? Big mistake. Did you think life was exciting 100 to 200 years ago. How about a daily fight for survival in one of those African nations, or the want for space in Pakistan, India, China or Indonesia? Be thankful it is damn boring, and all the while do something constructive with yourself, like growing as a person, some of those "evolving" experiences might just be had in those not so boring places on the planet. MOST people will be retuning to one of the nations I've mentioned above. Pretty much 2/3rds of the world's population is there afterall. If you really don't want to come back again, perhaps you should start looking for the way that would make that wish come to fruition. Yet those who are bored with life are not so bored as to want to change their character and belief system, so stay static wishing to die or moaning about being bored, saying that life has nothing to offer them. Like that was it's meaning or something. I am, what I am. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1320612 United States 04/10/2011 11:05 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I completely understand you OP. I feel the same about life, and I am only 25 years old. This state of being if you will, happened to me after experiencing much that life has to offer in a short amount of time, followed by deep introspection and self discovery over the last couple of years. Even when I was a young teenager, I felt like an old soul. Actually on second thought, it's not so much that I feel bored with life, but rather that I feel completely free from all the things and events that people say they are living for. I have many abstract concepts in my head that are almost impossible to describe in words, that I honestly believe are snippets of experiences to come after this life is over... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1335967exactly. i think i am an old soul as well. strange but i also feel completely disconnected now from everything life has to offer, and it happened to me after becoming love sick and getting well again. now its just me and my thoughts |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1292241 United States 04/10/2011 11:08 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Over my decades of boredom I've pinpointed a few issues that seem to be the root cause. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1288478Society is a closed-loop. We have a limited range of experience available to us, by design. Our creativity is suppressed or funneled into the mechanisms that keep us on hamster wheel. Our dreams and hopes are stolen and sold back to us via cheap knock-offs. There is no fulfillment in being a slave. There is no fulfillment in living to work. There is no fulfillment here at all. Having kids is just bringing more slaves into the meat grinder. Having a family is what's left from the engineered isolationism we face as a species. And well, rampant engineered stupidity is boring. Excellent! ..new words for my tombstone ..thanks! p.s. before Ford's assembly line was invented many people worked as true craftsmen and must have felt more fulfillment from work despite the long hours,low pay etc Yep. That poster nailed it. This is exactly what I and many here have finally realized. It's an engineered prison planet. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1023938 United States 04/10/2011 11:27 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | For the past several years (I'm 32 years old), I've found myself incredibly bored with everything life has to offer. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1185559Of course there are things I enjoy, for a while, but there is nothing I really look forward to. Everything is so boring to me. Every topic, subject, activity... life itself is boring. I'm not depressed. I'm just bored with living. I don't welcome death, but I don't fear it either. And I can tell you right now that I do NOT want to come back again. It's just too damn boring here. Anyone else? Don't worry, your life will be getting very interesting shortly! |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1023938 United States 04/10/2011 11:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No kids. Absolutely no interest in having children, nor getting married. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1185559I just want to be alone really. But yes, I would imagine having a family would take your mind off of it all. I don't understand why people do it, to be honest. And you wonder why you're bored? Geez... give me a break! You just answered your own question! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1336268 United States 04/10/2011 11:44 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | But real happiness exists. The truth is, you don't need anything to be happy, ultimately. Your very nature radiates happiness, once you discover it. But to discover this true happiness you need a guide. You need a spiritual teacher you can trust not only with this life, but with all your future lives. So set your intention with forethought. I hope you have the good fortune to meet with at least one teacher, and that you prove a worthy student to them. The true key to happiness is ALTRUISTIC INTENT. If you seek happiness only for yourself, you will fail. You must intend unconditional happiness for yourself only so that you can bring this happiness to others. In fact, in setting others' happiness first, the better way to say it would be "In order guide others to happiness and liberation, may I discover true happiness and liberation." This is also how you will find a true teacher, since you must find a teacher with this intent in order to learn how to do it. This kind of love will amaze you. It is also the safely-check on your system so that you don't create a monster. Love and compassion are absolutely vital to your quest. They are the fuel. You will nead a master to guide you on the paths of meditation and proper view ("View" being the actual nature of you and all things). Your own mind and body will be the laboratory in which you apply the teachings and bring them to life. I'm doing my best to represent what I've learned through the Dharma teachings. If I've misrepresented anything or misspoken in a misguiding way, I deeply apologize, and may I be forgiven. I hope that you find everlasting liberation and happiness.. |
EyesoftheUnholy User ID: 1336196 Ireland 04/10/2011 11:58 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have the same thoughts sometimes, but I try to have fun with the time I have. Might as well live to the fullest before this shit hits the fan. With his power he banishes, his followers, and sentences them to his own personal sins. He masturbates on the scriptures, that hold his kingdom together, as one and lays it to shame. ~Job For a Cowboy |
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Big'Ez User ID: 1318973 United Kingdom 04/10/2011 12:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No kids. Absolutely no interest in having children, nor getting married. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1185559I just want to be alone really. But yes, I would imagine having a family would take your mind off of it all. I don't understand why people do it, to be honest. And you wonder why you're bored? Geez... give me a break! You just answered your own question! What because he has no children? Must suck to be a child. A child doesn't have to work, doesn't have to do much really outside of piss and shit. They don't seem bored. Some seem quite content to suckle on teet, others merely sitting in a chair and watching the world. Boredom, the result of too much thought, and very litle presence of mind. i.e living in the moment. In a nutshell the opposite of boredom isn't excitement, it's a lack of CONCENTRATION. It's quite a common issue with people. To improve matters. Meditate, for example focus your inner attention at the forehead, or within at the pineal gland area. Doing this while faling asleep increases the benefits. Drop sugar and caffeine from your diet. Don't masturbate so much, especially during the day. If you smoke stop it. It's a retarded addiction. Big problem. Alcohol. May as well quit that too. Keep your diet as plain as possible. You'll be closer to natural living and thus won't be so bored. I am, what I am. |
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