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How can you tell if a coworker has a crush on you? Details inside..

 
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How can you tell if a coworker has a crush on you? Details inside..
This guy flirts often but never makes an overt pass in about two years. He texted while tipsy last night and said things like Im beautiful and he would give anything to be with me. But it was in the context of how he thought the current person Im with is crazy for not valuing me. He's single. I think he's embarrassed about it now and don't know if he's just being nice or really likes me. Thoughts?
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This guy flirts often but never makes an overt pass in about two years. He texted while tipsy last night and said things like Im beautiful and he would give anything to be with me. But it was in the context of how he thought the current person Im with is crazy for not valuing me. He's single. I think he's embarrassed about it now and don't know if he's just being nice or really likes me. Thoughts?
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Are you kidding me? Obviously, he's serious...but doesn't have the nerve to ask you out while sober for fear of rejection. The alcohol gave him the courage to tell you how he really feels. But you must be sure that He's not an abusive ungrateful asshole himself? Do the research on this guy. There's no point in leaving one asshole for another...right?
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If they come up to you and ask for sex, that's usually how you know.
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I don't understand, how women get signals like this mixed up lol. Yes. Clearly, he likes you lol.
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If they come up to you and ask for sex, that's usually how you know.
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Wanna fuck?
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If they come up to you and ask for sex, that's usually how you know.
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is that the way we go about that these days?

Darn...Here I was being a gentlemen and all...fuck that shit, I'm trying this out tonight
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ask him
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Sounds like you need an ego boost.....do you feel good now?
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This guy flirts often but never makes an overt pass in about two years. He texted while tipsy last night and said things like Im beautiful and he would give anything to be with me. But it was in the context of how he thought the current person Im with is crazy for not valuing me. He's single. I think he's embarrassed about it now and don't know if he's just being nice or really likes me. Thoughts?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1353329


Are you kidding me? Obviously, he's serious...but doesn't have the nerve to ask you out while sober for fear of rejection. The alcohol gave him the courage to tell you how he really feels. But you must be sure that He's not an abusive ungrateful asshole himself? Do the research on this guy. There's no point in leaving one asshole for another...right?
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But he never seems to pick up on the signals I send so its frustrating and confusing. I don't get guys. He always compliments me a lot but when I try to give him an opening he just doesn't go there. I think he thinks he's not good looking enough but I have really fallen for him just bc of who he is. I don't know how to let him know without possibly making an ads of myself.
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This guy flirts often but never makes an overt pass in about two years. He texted while tipsy last night and said things like Im beautiful and he would give anything to be with me. But it was in the context of how he thought the current person Im with is crazy for not valuing me. He's single. I think he's embarrassed about it now and don't know if he's just being nice or really likes me. Thoughts?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1353329


Are you kidding me? Obviously, he's serious...but doesn't have the nerve to ask you out while sober for fear of rejection. The alcohol gave him the courage to tell you how he really feels. But you must be sure that He's not an abusive ungrateful asshole himself? Do the research on this guy. There's no point in leaving one asshole for another...right?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1353269


But he never seems to pick up on the signals I send so its frustrating and confusing. I don't get guys. He always compliments me a lot but when I try to give him an opening he just doesn't go there. I think he thinks he's not good looking enough but I have really fallen for him just bc of who he is. I don't know how to let him know without possibly making an ads of myself.
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I meant *ass* not ads. Damn spell correct.
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This guy flirts often but never makes an overt pass in about two years. He texted while tipsy last night and said things like Im beautiful and he would give anything to be with me. But it was in the context of how he thought the current person Im with is crazy for not valuing me. He's single. I think he's embarrassed about it now and don't know if he's just being nice or really likes me. Thoughts?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1353329


I can put myself in the guy's shooes and YES that would be something serious I am too shy to say sober even more if you have a boyfriend!
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I don't understand, how women get signals like this mixed up lol. Yes. Clearly, he likes you lol.
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Big fear of rejection and can't tell if he just feels bad for me.
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in the context of how he thought the current person Im with is crazy for not valuing me.
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Translation: he is jealous and wants you for himself
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in the context of how he thought the current person Im with is crazy for not valuing me.
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Translation: he is jealous and wants you for himself
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If that's true how do I get him to admit it?
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Sounds like you need an ego boost.....do you feel good now?
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Nope.
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in the context of how he thought the current person Im with is crazy for not valuing me.
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Translation: he is jealous and wants you for himself
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 904314


If that's true how do I get him to admit it?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1353329


Why, looking to cheat on your man, or looking to make fun of your introvert co-worker? We introverts are fun to make fun of, apparently!

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in the context of how he thought the current person Im with is crazy for not valuing me.
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Translation: he is jealous and wants you for himself
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 904314


If that's true how do I get him to admit it?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1353329


Why, looking to cheat on your man, or looking to make fun of your introvert co-worker? We introverts are fun to make fun of, apparently!

5a
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 904314


No Id never make fun of him, I care about him a lot. Not sure about cheating to be honest. Maybe just breaking up period.
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An example of the mixed signals..today I texted him and asked if he was hung over. Kinda of made light of the situation. He told me had something to do and would text me later but never did.
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in the context of how he thought the current person Im with is crazy for not valuing me.
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Translation: he is jealous and wants you for himself
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 904314


If that's true how do I get him to admit it?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1353329


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An example of the mixed signals..today I texted him and asked if he was hung over.
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He probably regrets being so forward with you last night.

Once you take that step out on a ledge you can't step back.
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An example of the mixed signals..today I texted him and asked if he was hung over.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1353329


He probably regrets being so forward with you last night.

Once you take that step out on a ledge you can't step back.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1088763


So the cat is out of the bag.

What are YOU going to DO about it , OP?
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An example of the mixed signals..today I texted him and asked if he was hung over.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1353329


He probably regrets being so forward with you last night.

Once you take that step out on a ledge you can't step back.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1088763


So the cat is out of the bag.

What are YOU going to DO about it , OP?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1088763


I don't know how I can let him know without putting myself too far out there.
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ummm

in order to be a CO-WORKER

you have to have a JOB first


good luck with that


-living in a van down by the river
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An example of the mixed signals..today I texted him and asked if he was hung over.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1353329


He probably regrets being so forward with you last night.

Once you take that step out on a ledge you can't step back.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1088763


So the cat is out of the bag.

What are YOU going to DO about it , OP?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1088763


I don't know how I can let him know without putting myself too far out there.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1353329


He feels the same way.

One of you has to make that leap.

Is it going to be you or are you going to wait for the beta male to make a move?
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ummm

in order to be a CO-WORKER

you have to have a JOB first


good luck with that


-living in a van down by the river
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Sorry. Kinda puts petty stuff like this in perspective.
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An example of the mixed signals..today I texted him and asked if he was hung over.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1353329


He probably regrets being so forward with you last night.

Once you take that step out on a ledge you can't step back.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1088763


So the cat is out of the bag.

What are YOU going to DO about it , OP?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1088763


I don't know how I can let him know without putting myself too far out there.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1353329


Here is an exercise for you to get out of your train of thinking.

Ask yourself this, "If I were going to be dead in two years, would I respond to this situation differently?"

This will change your way of thinking.

The mind wants to constantly think about something. You just need to use that realization to your advantage.

Control your thoughts into ones that lead to more fruitful results in your life!
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He probably regrets being so forward with you last night.

Once you take that step out on a ledge you can't step back.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1088763


So the cat is out of the bag.

What are YOU going to DO about it , OP?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1088763


I don't know how I can let him know without putting myself too far out there.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1353329


He feels the same way.

One of you has to make that leap.

Is it going to be you or are you going to wait for the beta male to make a move?
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Well I asked him to go out with me and some friends to a club and he didn't seem interested. Not sure what to propose.
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He wants to have sex with you. How is this not obvious to you at this point? GEZZZ.
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Well I asked him to go out with me and some friends to a club and he didn't seem interested. Not sure what to propose.
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Maybe he doesn't like your friends.

Or he would prefer to hang with you ONE on ONE.
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Well I asked him to go out with me and some friends to a club and he didn't seem interested. Not sure what to propose.
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Maybe he doesn't like your friends.

Or he would prefer to hang with you ONE on ONE.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1088763


Im gonna keep trying to get him to tell me how he feels. You have to remember we work together so there's no avoiding the situation if it gets awkward. So its delicate.
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Re: How can you tell if a coworker has a crush on you? Details inside..
This guy flirts often but never makes an overt pass in about two years. He texted while tipsy last night and said things like Im beautiful and he would give anything to be with me. But it was in the context of how he thought the current person Im with is crazy for not valuing me. He's single. I think he's embarrassed about it now and don't know if he's just being nice or really likes me. Thoughts?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1353329


Are you kidding me? Obviously, he's serious...but doesn't have the nerve to ask you out while sober for fear of rejection. The alcohol gave him the courage to tell you how he really feels. But you must be sure that He's not an abusive ungrateful asshole himself? Do the research on this guy. There's no point in leaving one asshole for another...right?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1353269


But he never seems to pick up on the signals I send so its frustrating and confusing. I don't get guys. He always compliments me a lot but when I try to give him an opening he just doesn't go there. I think he thinks he's not good looking enough but I have really fallen for him just bc of who he is. I don't know how to let him know without possibly making an ads of myself.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1353329



How about stop with all the signals and just come out and say whats on your mind. Goodness its silly. If you fancy someone just say it. If they don't feel the same way then there are other fish in the sea. Granted the fish are dying but you know what I mean.

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