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How can you tell if a coworker has a crush on you? Details inside.. | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1353329  United States04/22/2011 11:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1353269 United States04/22/2011 11:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This guy flirts often but never makes an overt pass in about two years. He texted while tipsy last night and said things like Im beautiful and he would give anything to be with me. But it was in the context of how he thought the current person Im with is crazy for not valuing me. He's single. I think he's embarrassed about it now and don't know if he's just being nice or really likes me. Thoughts? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1353329Are you kidding me? Obviously, he's serious...but doesn't have the nerve to ask you out while sober for fear of rejection. The alcohol gave him the courage to tell you how he really feels. But you must be sure that He's not an abusive ungrateful asshole himself? Do the research on this guy. There's no point in leaving one asshole for another...right? |
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theDtrain  User ID: 1200477 United States04/22/2011 11:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If they come up to you and ask for sex, that's usually how you know. Quoting: Mister Obviousis that the way we go about that these days? Darn...Here I was being a gentlemen and all...fuck that shit, I'm trying this out tonight Facts are stubborn things; and whatever may be our wishes, our inclinations, the dictates of our passions, they cannot alter the state of facts and evidence." We can never shed our sins and regrets, only accumulate more, a burden that we grow and carry until our deaths. The best we can do is learn to live with ourselves, to accommodate our pasts |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 587899 United States04/22/2011 11:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 1353329 United States04/22/2011 11:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This guy flirts often but never makes an overt pass in about two years. He texted while tipsy last night and said things like Im beautiful and he would give anything to be with me. But it was in the context of how he thought the current person Im with is crazy for not valuing me. He's single. I think he's embarrassed about it now and don't know if he's just being nice or really likes me. Thoughts? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1353329Are you kidding me? Obviously, he's serious...but doesn't have the nerve to ask you out while sober for fear of rejection. The alcohol gave him the courage to tell you how he really feels. But you must be sure that He's not an abusive ungrateful asshole himself? Do the research on this guy. There's no point in leaving one asshole for another...right? But he never seems to pick up on the signals I send so its frustrating and confusing. I don't get guys. He always compliments me a lot but when I try to give him an opening he just doesn't go there. I think he thinks he's not good looking enough but I have really fallen for him just bc of who he is. I don't know how to let him know without possibly making an ads of myself. |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 1353329 United States04/22/2011 11:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This guy flirts often but never makes an overt pass in about two years. He texted while tipsy last night and said things like Im beautiful and he would give anything to be with me. But it was in the context of how he thought the current person Im with is crazy for not valuing me. He's single. I think he's embarrassed about it now and don't know if he's just being nice or really likes me. Thoughts? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1353329Are you kidding me? Obviously, he's serious...but doesn't have the nerve to ask you out while sober for fear of rejection. The alcohol gave him the courage to tell you how he really feels. But you must be sure that He's not an abusive ungrateful asshole himself? Do the research on this guy. There's no point in leaving one asshole for another...right? But he never seems to pick up on the signals I send so its frustrating and confusing. I don't get guys. He always compliments me a lot but when I try to give him an opening he just doesn't go there. I think he thinks he's not good looking enough but I have really fallen for him just bc of who he is. I don't know how to let him know without possibly making an ads of myself. I meant *ass* not ads. Damn spell correct. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1122185  Canada04/22/2011 11:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This guy flirts often but never makes an overt pass in about two years. He texted while tipsy last night and said things like Im beautiful and he would give anything to be with me. But it was in the context of how he thought the current person Im with is crazy for not valuing me. He's single. I think he's embarrassed about it now and don't know if he's just being nice or really likes me. Thoughts? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1353329I can put myself in the guy's shooes and YES that would be something serious I am too shy to say sober even more if you have a boyfriend! |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 1353329 United States04/22/2011 11:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 1353329 United States04/22/2011 11:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | in the context of how he thought the current person Im with is crazy for not valuing me. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1353329Translation: he is jealous and wants you for himself If that's true how do I get him to admit it? |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 1353329 United States04/22/2011 11:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 904314 Canada04/22/2011 11:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | in the context of how he thought the current person Im with is crazy for not valuing me. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1353329Translation: he is jealous and wants you for himself If that's true how do I get him to admit it? Why, looking to cheat on your man, or looking to make fun of your introvert co-worker? We introverts are fun to make fun of, apparently!  |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 1353329 United States04/22/2011 11:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | in the context of how he thought the current person Im with is crazy for not valuing me. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1353329Translation: he is jealous and wants you for himself If that's true how do I get him to admit it? Why, looking to cheat on your man, or looking to make fun of your introvert co-worker? We introverts are fun to make fun of, apparently! No Id never make fun of him, I care about him a lot. Not sure about cheating to be honest. Maybe just breaking up period. |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 1353329 United States04/22/2011 11:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1088763 United States04/22/2011 11:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | in the context of how he thought the current person Im with is crazy for not valuing me. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1353329Translation: he is jealous and wants you for himself If that's true how do I get him to admit it?  |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1088763 United States04/22/2011 11:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | An example of the mixed signals..today I texted him and asked if he was hung over. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1353329He probably regrets being so forward with you last night. Once you take that step out on a ledge you can't step back. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1088763 United States04/22/2011 11:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | An example of the mixed signals..today I texted him and asked if he was hung over. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1353329He probably regrets being so forward with you last night. Once you take that step out on a ledge you can't step back. So the cat is out of the bag. What are YOU going to DO about it , OP? |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 1353329 United States04/22/2011 11:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | An example of the mixed signals..today I texted him and asked if he was hung over. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1353329He probably regrets being so forward with you last night. Once you take that step out on a ledge you can't step back. So the cat is out of the bag. What are YOU going to DO about it , OP? I don't know how I can let him know without putting myself too far out there. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 717934 United States04/22/2011 11:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1088763 United States04/22/2011 11:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | An example of the mixed signals..today I texted him and asked if he was hung over. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1353329He probably regrets being so forward with you last night. Once you take that step out on a ledge you can't step back. So the cat is out of the bag. What are YOU going to DO about it , OP? I don't know how I can let him know without putting myself too far out there. He feels the same way. One of you has to make that leap. Is it going to be you or are you going to wait for the beta male to make a move? |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 1353329 United States04/22/2011 11:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1088763 United States04/23/2011 12:00 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | An example of the mixed signals..today I texted him and asked if he was hung over. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1353329He probably regrets being so forward with you last night. Once you take that step out on a ledge you can't step back. So the cat is out of the bag. What are YOU going to DO about it , OP? I don't know how I can let him know without putting myself too far out there. Here is an exercise for you to get out of your train of thinking. Ask yourself this, "If I were going to be dead in two years, would I respond to this situation differently?" This will change your way of thinking. The mind wants to constantly think about something. You just need to use that realization to your advantage. Control your thoughts into ones that lead to more fruitful results in your life! |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 1353329 United States04/23/2011 12:01 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1088763He probably regrets being so forward with you last night. Once you take that step out on a ledge you can't step back. So the cat is out of the bag. What are YOU going to DO about it , OP? I don't know how I can let him know without putting myself too far out there. He feels the same way. One of you has to make that leap. Is it going to be you or are you going to wait for the beta male to make a move? Well I asked him to go out with me and some friends to a club and he didn't seem interested. Not sure what to propose. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1322491 United States04/23/2011 12:02 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1088763 United States04/23/2011 12:04 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Well I asked him to go out with me and some friends to a club and he didn't seem interested. Not sure what to propose. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1353329Maybe he doesn't like your friends. Or he would prefer to hang with you ONE on ONE. |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 1353329 United States04/23/2011 12:14 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Well I asked him to go out with me and some friends to a club and he didn't seem interested. Not sure what to propose. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1353329Maybe he doesn't like your friends. Or he would prefer to hang with you ONE on ONE. Im gonna keep trying to get him to tell me how he feels. You have to remember we work together so there's no avoiding the situation if it gets awkward. So its delicate. |
| DachshundsRule70 User ID: 1340704 United States04/23/2011 12:16 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This guy flirts often but never makes an overt pass in about two years. He texted while tipsy last night and said things like Im beautiful and he would give anything to be with me. But it was in the context of how he thought the current person Im with is crazy for not valuing me. He's single. I think he's embarrassed about it now and don't know if he's just being nice or really likes me. Thoughts? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1353329Are you kidding me? Obviously, he's serious...but doesn't have the nerve to ask you out while sober for fear of rejection. The alcohol gave him the courage to tell you how he really feels. But you must be sure that He's not an abusive ungrateful asshole himself? Do the research on this guy. There's no point in leaving one asshole for another...right? But he never seems to pick up on the signals I send so its frustrating and confusing. I don't get guys. He always compliments me a lot but when I try to give him an opening he just doesn't go there. I think he thinks he's not good looking enough but I have really fallen for him just bc of who he is. I don't know how to let him know without possibly making an ads of myself. How about stop with all the signals and just come out and say whats on your mind. Goodness its silly. If you fancy someone just say it. If they don't feel the same way then there are other fish in the sea. Granted the fish are dying but you know what I mean. I am allergic to stupidity so I break out in sarcasm When they said there was no Lyme in Florida they lied! |
