Well if that is true of the majority of Women I thank you, seriously though if you're giving your wWoman pleasure,what's the point of her holding it in? I'm not quiet when I bust a nut and most the Women I've been involved with have been multi orgasmic,so even if she only moans when approaching and/or during orgasm she's going to make more noise than you. Also,over the years I have found this response useful feedback on how I'm doing.