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Becoming A First Time Father...Concerned, Need Advice!

 
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Being 65 and a woman I have to say you are too preoccupied with what you are afraid of to give much attention to the little person growing along side you. I you are going to be obsessed with all this stuff the child will literally be abandoned in your presence. If you must pick something to dote on, pick one you can do something about, not those you can't and research that one.
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I would pin his birth certificate to his/her shirt everyday.. Birthers might think he's ineligible for school..
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Congrats Dad!

1). minimal and necessary vaccines only and with no adjuvents...My parents didn't need then and neither does your precious child.

2). No baby formula. It's high in sugars and can be the beginning of sugar addiction and alcoholism in some cases.

3). No GMO's...start a garden.

4). Homeschool, Homeschool, Homeschool...

5). Consider sovereign citizenship and think before you get her a SSN #.

6). You will need to teach her critcal thinking and individualism because if you do the things I just said, she will be questioned and harassed her whole life.

But ITS WORTH IT!

These are just a few things off the top of my head.

Best wishes dad!
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Thankyou, first one to call me dad (not even my partner, yet). This is some excellent advice and exactly what I was looking for, thankyou. Critical thinking runs in the genes, I do have one question though...

How do you know it's a girl??
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Just a feeling OP.
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Here's a radiation thread: Thread: **RADIATION PROTECTION**- non prescription list, revised and updated.

Additionally, google: "baking soda for radiation" and "apple pectin for radiation"

As far as the rest, here are a few things to remember. Even heavily pregnant, women can really move if need be. Whatever a woman can do while she's not pregnant, the vast majority can do while pregnant. Yes, you should be extra considerate of her because it's HARDER to do while pregnant, but nearly all CAN do it.

Being pregnant is a tough state for some of us, but for some, it's not so hard. It will all depend upon your wife's reaction to pregnancy. You must learn to understand that pregnancy is different for each woman AND each pregnancy. BUT, the majority of pregnancies, women are just fine and can carry on their normal routines.

Most women who do not carry on normal routines don't because they are emotional from hormone overload and everything feels (emotionally) like a major trial.

That being said!!

I had gestational diabetes when I was pregnant, and quite frankly, if that happens to your wife, you MUST ensure that you have adequate insulin for the remainder of the pregnancy. The main problem with gestational diabetes is HUGE babies. Which can tear or rupture your wife during delivery.

One thing to research for certain is the EXCESSIVE USE of cesarean births. You should stand up for your wife in that regard, EVEN IF the shit don't hit it. I can almost guarantee you, especially if you have insurance, they are going to do anything in their power to try to cut your wife open.

Several reasons:

-- makes more money for them
-- takes less time for them
-- easy and convenient for them

From THEIR perspective, there's nothing to lose by forcing your wife into a c-section. DON'T LET IT HAPPEN TO HER. Because from her health perspective, and from baby's health perspective, there is potentially EVERYTHING TO LOSE.

Find out how to do a birth plan, and advocate for your wife. Be a real knuckle-dragging neanderthal bastard on her behalf.

Look into the laws in your state. If you can have a midwife-assisted homebirth DO IT.

Knowing and understanding the birth process, and learning what can go wrong and ancient techniques in dealing with it could be your best chance during a SHTF birth.

Also keep in mind that high stress levels can trigger early labor onset, so if she's still pregnant when the shit hits it, you will want to be absolutely certain that you do what you can to let her know that you've got it all mapped out and she just needs to focus on keeping up.


In the meantime, Congrats, don't stress, you're in for a great (and terrible at times) ride!

chorus wave chorus
 Quoting: Sandi_T


Now, for vaccines: [link to www.vaclib.org]

There are many, many other proofs that vaccines don't actually work, but this is the one held up as the most "obvious" of all the supposed vaccine successes... yet it is a blatant and egregious lie!

You should also look into the fact that when they say that a vaccine has "zero" thimerisol or adjuvants in it, they mean ZERO ACCORDING TO A 300 POUND ADULT MAN.
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A big hug to you from me, thankyou, for this precious information. I have spoken to her regarding C-section and she agrees that she will try to 'go' as natural as possible, also no epidural (if she can). I will be her/their protector of all things, I'm a very inquisitive individual, capible of critial thinking and who knows how to say NO when needed!

Again a big hug and thankyou

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Worry about vitamin D deficiency. It's much worse than you think. Worse than vaccines.

[link to www.grassrootshealth.net]

It is likely the main cause for autism.
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Ok, thankyou, I will check this out, this is unknown to me.
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"None are more hopelessly enslaved than those who falsely believe they are free." - Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (1749 - 1832)

"The world is a dangerous place to live, not because of the people who are evil, but because of the people who don't do anything about it." - Albert Einstein (1879 - 1955)

"Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do." - Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (1749 - 1832)
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Congrats!

I'll be a first timer end of September. It's very important to remain positive at all times and certainly to be sure that momma is being fed properly and that she is exercising regularly.

That said, I often find myself worrying about that old "woe to those who are with child" verse and that horribly depressing move The Road.
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Congrats, to you too. Our due dates seem to match up with this new star-sign, Ophiuchus, interesting star-sign. I also am aware of this verse, worrying.
"The most brilliant propagandist technique will yield no success unless one fundamental principle is borne in mind constantly - it must confine itself to a few points and repeat them over and over." — Joseph Goebbels, Propaganda Minister, Nazi Germany

"True wisdom comes to each of us when we realize how little we understand about life, ourselves, and the world around us." - Socrates

"None are more hopelessly enslaved than those who falsely believe they are free." - Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (1749 - 1832)

"The world is a dangerous place to live, not because of the people who are evil, but because of the people who don't do anything about it." - Albert Einstein (1879 - 1955)

"Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do." - Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (1749 - 1832)
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Being 65 and a woman I have to say you are too preoccupied with what you are afraid of to give much attention to the little person growing along side you. I you are going to be obsessed with all this stuff the child will literally be abandoned in your presence. If you must pick something to dote on, pick one you can do something about, not those you can't and research that one.
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This is not true... I'm far from obsessed with anything (pre-judged me), my partner and child will certainly NOT be abandoned in my presence (in fact I find this insulting). As a new parent, I have concerns, as all do.
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"True wisdom comes to each of us when we realize how little we understand about life, ourselves, and the world around us." - Socrates

"None are more hopelessly enslaved than those who falsely believe they are free." - Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (1749 - 1832)

"The world is a dangerous place to live, not because of the people who are evil, but because of the people who don't do anything about it." - Albert Einstein (1879 - 1955)

"Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do." - Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (1749 - 1832)
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Although I am not a father yet, I would suggest you to fight your fears first and have a positive attitude. Try to pass that to your little as you help it getting older and wiser. You are already on the track, so try not to be victim of the fear-mongering people.
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Thankyou AC1367813, for your positive comment. My fears are very real, although if you knew me, you would realise that I'm not a worrier (never have been), but more concerned for the future than before.

My major concern is the radiation, effects upon pregnancy, contaminated food etc. Is there any advice (that you may be privy to) as to what products have been confirmed to be contaminated with radiation, ie milk, fish etc?
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Live in the now. Worrying is only going cause you to miss the little things that are going to happen very quickly... and you'll regret it. You can be a proud poppa and be vigilant. Just take a breath and live.

I would suggest gardening your own veggies. You can control their environment and ensure safe produce for you and yours.

BTW, Congrats, being a dad is a big deal. Don't blink or they'll wind up teenagers right before your eyes... :(
(I went from 2 tiny tots to mouthy opinionated teenagers in what seemed like a single month)
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I would pin his birth certificate to his/her shirt everyday.. Birthers might think he's ineligible for school..
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Lol, thankyou, made me chuckle!
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"True wisdom comes to each of us when we realize how little we understand about life, ourselves, and the world around us." - Socrates

"None are more hopelessly enslaved than those who falsely believe they are free." - Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (1749 - 1832)

"The world is a dangerous place to live, not because of the people who are evil, but because of the people who don't do anything about it." - Albert Einstein (1879 - 1955)

"Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do." - Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (1749 - 1832)
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It's easy and I think pretty normal to be scared. Especially now, during a big radiation scare.

Make sure your wife takes apple pectin on a DAILY BASIS. You can find ways to make it palatable... turn it into jelly. Who doesn't love jelly?!

But make sure she takes it if you want a normal, healthy baby.

Every chance she gets, she should soak in a sea-salt and baking soda bath to draw not only radiation, but other toxins out, as well.

A huge reminder to you, okay... to keep baby healthy, KEEP MOMMY HEALTHY!

And remind mom that pregnancy is NOT the time to indulge in sweets and things like that (politely, of course) because from a nutrition standpoint (NOT from a volume standpoint), she is eating for two!

Many women encouraged me blatantly to eat as unhealthy and disgusting food as I could during the whole pregnancy, because afterwards I would "have to diet, you know".

I told them that I was eating healthy and avoiding all of those things because I was eating NUTRITIONALLY, for two. It pissed them off and made me very unpopular, so she should expect to be encouraged to eat all the junk food she can 'before she has to diet'.

Your encouragement and keeping unhealthy food out of the house during this time will be a HUGE boon to her. She's likely to feel very alone.
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Thread: Just found out I am pregnant this AM -What can I to about the Radiation?

I had the same concerns OP read some of the thoughts posted here and also here in Emerald Eye's post to me.

Thread: **RADIATION PROTECTION**- non prescription list, revised and updated. (Page 9)


I hope this helps....When is the due date? Mine is Dec 14th! Congrats!
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Its the best no matter how messed up the world is it is worth every second of it. Babies have a special way of forgetting about everything else and just living in the moment. Just don't let on to your wife you have any fears bring them to God, your wife needs you to be the strong "Rock" for her and your baby. God Bless!
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It's easy and I think pretty normal to be scared. Especially now, during a big radiation scare.

Make sure your wife takes apple pectin on a DAILY BASIS. You can find ways to make it palatable... turn it into jelly. Who doesn't love jelly?!

But make sure she takes it if you want a normal, healthy baby.

Every chance she gets, she should soak in a sea-salt and baking soda bath to draw not only radiation, but other toxins out, as well.

A huge reminder to you, okay... to keep baby healthy, KEEP MOMMY HEALTHY!

And remind mom that pregnancy is NOT the time to indulge in sweets and things like that (politely, of course) because from a nutrition standpoint (NOT from a volume standpoint), she is eating for two!

Many women encouraged me blatantly to eat as unhealthy and disgusting food as I could during the whole pregnancy, because afterwards I would "have to diet, you know".

I told them that I was eating healthy and avoiding all of those things because I was eating NUTRITIONALLY, for two. It pissed them off and made me very unpopular, so she should expect to be encouraged to eat all the junk food she can 'before she has to diet'.

Your encouragement and keeping unhealthy food out of the house during this time will be a HUGE boon to her. She's likely to feel very alone.
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Its the best no matter how messed up the world is it is worth every second of it. Babies have a special way of forgetting about everything else and just living in the moment. Just don't let on to your wife you have any fears bring them to God, your wife needs you to be the strong "Rock" for her and your baby. God Bless!
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^^^^THIS^^^^
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It's easy and I think pretty normal to be scared. Especially now, during a big radiation scare.

Make sure your wife takes apple pectin on a DAILY BASIS. You can find ways to make it palatable... turn it into jelly. Who doesn't love jelly?!

But make sure she takes it if you want a normal, healthy baby.

Every chance she gets, she should soak in a sea-salt and baking soda bath to draw not only radiation, but other toxins out, as well.

A huge reminder to you, okay... to keep baby healthy, KEEP MOMMY HEALTHY!

And remind mom that pregnancy is NOT the time to indulge in sweets and things like that (politely, of course) because from a nutrition standpoint (NOT from a volume standpoint), she is eating for two!

Many women encouraged me blatantly to eat as unhealthy and disgusting food as I could during the whole pregnancy, because afterwards I would "have to diet, you know".

I told them that I was eating healthy and avoiding all of those things because I was eating NUTRITIONALLY, for two. It pissed them off and made me very unpopular, so she should expect to be encouraged to eat all the junk food she can 'before she has to diet'.

Your encouragement and keeping unhealthy food out of the house during this time will be a HUGE boon to her. She's likely to feel very alone.
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You are posting some wonderful information. I would like to state though that the "eating for two" statement should not be taken at face value.

You are eating for two in the sense that you need to be mindful of what you are taking in and you need to be sure that you are getting the vitamins needed through fruits and vegetables. You are NOT eating for two where portion sizes are concerned. This train of thought leads to many overweight pregnancies which lead to complications. During a perfectly healthy pregnancy, a mother should never gain more than 25 pounds.
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Live in the now. Worrying is only going cause you to miss the little things that are going to happen very quickly... and you'll regret it. You can be a proud poppa and be vigilant. Just take a breath and live.

I would suggest gardening your own veggies. You can control their environment and ensure safe produce for you and yours.

BTW, Congrats, being a dad is a big deal. Don't blink or they'll wind up teenagers right before your eyes... :(
(I went from 2 tiny tots to mouthy opinionated teenagers in what seemed like a single month)
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Thankyou, we do try to be grateful and to enjoy lifes small pleasures, sun on your neck the rain on your skin etc. We are going to start growing some veggies, for the benefit of us all.
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"None are more hopelessly enslaved than those who falsely believe they are free." - Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (1749 - 1832)

"The world is a dangerous place to live, not because of the people who are evil, but because of the people who don't do anything about it." - Albert Einstein (1879 - 1955)

"Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do." - Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (1749 - 1832)
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It's easy and I think pretty normal to be scared. Especially now, during a big radiation scare.

Make sure your wife takes apple pectin on a DAILY BASIS. You can find ways to make it palatable... turn it into jelly. Who doesn't love jelly?!

But make sure she takes it if you want a normal, healthy baby.

Every chance she gets, she should soak in a sea-salt and baking soda bath to draw not only radiation, but other toxins out, as well.

A huge reminder to you, okay... to keep baby healthy, KEEP MOMMY HEALTHY!

And remind mom that pregnancy is NOT the time to indulge in sweets and things like that (politely, of course) because from a nutrition standpoint (NOT from a volume standpoint), she is eating for two!

Many women encouraged me blatantly to eat as unhealthy and disgusting food as I could during the whole pregnancy, because afterwards I would "have to diet, you know".

I told them that I was eating healthy and avoiding all of those things because I was eating NUTRITIONALLY, for two. It pissed them off and made me very unpopular, so she should expect to be encouraged to eat all the junk food she can 'before she has to diet'.

Your encouragement and keeping unhealthy food out of the house during this time will be a HUGE boon to her. She's likely to feel very alone.
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Thankyou, once again, your 'mothering instincts' are coming through perfectly. Your advice for both mother and child are excellent, thankyou
"The most brilliant propagandist technique will yield no success unless one fundamental principle is borne in mind constantly - it must confine itself to a few points and repeat them over and over." — Joseph Goebbels, Propaganda Minister, Nazi Germany

"True wisdom comes to each of us when we realize how little we understand about life, ourselves, and the world around us." - Socrates

"None are more hopelessly enslaved than those who falsely believe they are free." - Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (1749 - 1832)

"The world is a dangerous place to live, not because of the people who are evil, but because of the people who don't do anything about it." - Albert Einstein (1879 - 1955)

"Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do." - Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (1749 - 1832)
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Thread: Just found out I am pregnant this AM -What can I to about the Radiation?

I had the same concerns OP read some of the thoughts posted here and also here in Emerald Eye's post to me.

Thread: **RADIATION PROTECTION**- non prescription list, revised and updated. (Page 9)


I hope this helps....When is the due date? Mine is Dec 14th! Congrats!
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Thankyou, for this information (glad to see I'm not the only one). I will definately check this out, thankyou. We don't have a due date as of yet (first scan next week), but using alittle math, we think begining to end of Dec.

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Its the best no matter how messed up the world is it is worth every second of it. Babies have a special way of forgetting about everything else and just living in the moment. Just don't let on to your wife you have any fears bring them to God, your wife needs you to be the strong "Rock" for her and your baby. God Bless!
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Thankyou, I'm sure once baby is born, all my fears will disappear (if but for a moment). Don't worry about the 'fear' coming through to my partner, it will never happen, as far as she is concerned, I'm bullet proof and nothing gets me down (I'm good at hiding emotions when necessary). Thankyou for this advice, I'm also pleased at the amount of people concerned for the welfare of the mother, thankyou.
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Breast milk....
home grown veggies smashed up....
we've been feedin' em for millions of years, you'll
figure it out...
There is NOTHING at all you can do about the radiation, if in fact that does become a problem.
Otherwise, relax. It
will be just fine.
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Don't piss them off too much or you'll wake up to them stabbing you in your sleep. I would never have kids, thanks. Good luck to you.
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Thankyou, once again, your 'mothering instincts' are coming through perfectly. Your advice for both mother and child are excellent, thankyou
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You're welcome. I'm trying to think back to my pregnancy, lol.

Oh, something else, from a "wife" to a "husband" that mine did while I was pregnant... that you might not want to do (though it gets harder as time goes by):

When I was near the end of my pregnancy, I went on a cleaning/painting binge. I used one of the high-test masks so I wouldn't get paint toxins in my lungs for me and baby to share, and then I went on a total tare.

Now, to be honest with you, I made a lot of decisions on what color rooms would be, etc.

But here's where the problem came in. Hubby decided one day that he didn't feel like he was in control of the process and the room colors and etc. to a high enough degree. So he sat me down and we had a long, ugly argument about it.

I walked away at that point. The whole "who's in control" bit didn't even come up for me. I was in what is commonly called "nesting mode", and I just wanted to make the environment clean and fresh and suitable for my daughter. Hubby didn't even have to do most of the painting, I was THAT focused on it! I didn't even care if he painted, I just knuckled in and dug into the trenches and I was going at it.

So I suggest that, when she goes into nesting mode, just let her go. We would have a painted bathroom right now if he hadn't have gone off on "who's in charge here!!". I also didn't finish putting the stencil around the office, and I can't bring myself to pick it up again, because since he did it during my pregnancy, it's a symbol of "who's in charge here!!" to me now. It'll probably NEVER get done now.

Bottom line is, she'll probably go nuts trying to make the house "suitable" for the baby. If you get in the way of that and break her momentum, you may regret it later.

And if you think she's "getting ready too soon" if she starts looking at car seats and other things... keep it closed. Because the problem with guys is that one day, the baby's HERE, and he NOW thinks it's time to buy diapers. But that's a day late. We women, during pregnancy, have a whole other view than you guys do.

For us, it's "REAL" a lot sooner. And we feel a strong, overwhelming underlying urge to GIT 'ER DONE before baby's here. Just go with it. It'll probably be hard, and it'll make you want to pop her one.

But it's not forever. She has no choice but to live with all the discomforts and trials and pains of being pregnant for 40 looooooong weeks. You can live with her making up the house even in ways that you don't like. That can be changed later... your wife's view of herself and the importance of being able to "nest" can't be redone later, you know?

So keep reminding yourself over and over that THIS TOO SHALL PASS.

It's a limited time deal. So knuckle in, batten down the hatches, and cope. It may be very difficult, but please try to remember that EVERYTHING, and I do mean EVERYTHING has changed for your wife. Her body, her hormones, her view of life, her future... it's ALL CHANGED.

For you, that becomes REAL when baby's there and you have something to see, hear, and hold. For mommy... it's already happening.

There's a large gulf between the viewpoints, and you're going to need to keep gritting your teeth and remembering that she's only a prima donna for 40 weeks. Then NOTHING will EVER be all about her again. EVER.

Because once that kid is born, you're mom 24-7, 365. PERIOD.

You will still be you, PLUS you'll be dad. But she'll be mom and wife and little else. So let her have her 40 weeks in the sun and do your best to just go with the flow. Yes, it's hard for you. But when that baby's born, there will be a massive burden on HER after that.

This is your time to do the heavy labor of the relationship. Your time to have to stick to it and get up all hours of the night and grit your teeth while someone hangs off of you and makes nonstop demands.

Mommy dearest gets it for the next 13 or so years.

Put it into perspective of how dependent your child will be on your wife for the next 13 years (and even after that, but hopefully to a lesser degree) and 40 weeks becomes a LOT easier to bear, ya know?
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Relax and enjoy your soon to be little one.
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Although I am not a father yet, I would suggest you to fight your fears first and have a positive attitude. Try to pass that to your little as you help it getting older and wiser. You are already on the track, so try not to be victim of the fear-mongering people.
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Thankyou AC1367813, for your positive comment. My fears are very real, although if you knew me, you would realise that I'm not a worrier (never have been), but more concerned for the future than before.

My major concern is the radiation, effects upon pregnancy, contaminated food etc. Is there any advice (that you may be privy to) as to what products have been confirmed to be contaminated with radiation, ie milk, fish etc?
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If you believe in your child's true creator, which is not you, then you have nothing to fear. The true creator will take care of his people, no matter how bleak the future may seem..

Children are innocent, just keep yours that way.. Lead him/her the right direction. Stay in his/her life, no matter who/what tries to tear you apart.

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Breast milk....
home grown veggies smashed up....
we've been feedin' em for millions of years, you'll
figure it out...
There is NOTHING at all you can do about the radiation, if in fact that does become a problem.
Otherwise, relax. It
will be just fine.
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Have we been feeding them for millions of years?? Lol, just playing, sorry. Although you are correct, the mantra 'fail to prepare, prepare to fail' still runs true in my mind. I'm a fairly relaxed individual, please be aware that I don't 'fear' anything, but I do have concerns.
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Sorry, not to harp on it, but I think that the relationship between father and mother is SO important. During and after pregnancy. Because baby needs both parents!

So I just want to add to my above statements. Your wife's personality WILL CHANGE.

Just keep repeating to yourself, "it's temporary," "it's temporary," "it's temporary," "it's temporary!"

She won't be like this forever. She hasn't changed into a stranger for the duration. Please, please, please, do NOT make any big life changes during pregnancy. Please, please, please, do NOT have any big relationship arguments during pregnancy.

Doctors won't allow women to choose to get "fixed" during pregnancy in most cases, because (and I know I'm going to get beat about the head and shoulders by other women for this) WE ARE NOT IN OUR RIGHT MINDS!!!

Don't EVER say that to her!

But do keep it in the back of your mind. During pregnancy, SHE IS NOT HERSELF.

Do not have any big arguments with her about things that aren't baby related like whether or not to vaccinate to give the vit. K shot, etc. Those are okay... but that's NOT the time to argue about whether or not to move to another state. You can do that after if needs be!

Because you're just begging for trouble by arguing with someone NOT IN HER RIGHT MIND to make life-altering, world-shattering decisions. Okay?

You cannot expect her to behave normally. She's pregnant. NOTHING is normal for her right now! She cannot be focused on your emotional needs, because she's focused on preparing for the life growing inside of her.

It's not because she doesn't love you. It's not because you're not important. It's because HORMONES ARE DRIVING HER LIKE A RELENTLESS, WHIP-WIELDING BOSS. She can't help it, and she isn't trying to hurt you. She's not being mean, she's not purposefully neglecting you.

AND IT ISN'T FOREVER!

I don't care what anyone tells you. If you don't have times during her pregnancy when you're scared, and you feel like she's lost to you, or other horrible, painful feelings, YOU ARE JUST NOT NORMAL. Either that, or you are able to realize that IT'S TEMPORARY.

If you're not jealous of baby sometimes, before and after birth, then YOU ARE NOT NORMAL, and something is WRONG with you.

Don't let anybody fool you, it's both a beautiful, and a difficult road.

FEARS ARE NORMAL. JEALOUSY IS NORMAL.

It's where you let it take you that counts! It's where you go with it, and how you deal with it, that counts!

Piss on anyone who says not to have fears. Piss on anyone who says you're a bad person for your perfectly normal and even reasonable feelings.

Expect them. Deal with them as they come up. Don't lie and deny, that's the most unhealthy thing you can do.

I can't stand these people who act like jealousy of the baby's time with mom isn't normal. I can't stand these people who think you're a terrible person for being afraid for your baby. If you aren't afraid for your baby, YOU DON'T LOVE HIM/HER!!

Be afraid. Just be smart in the midst of it. You aren't right in the head nor the heart if you're not afraid for your child sometimes. That's part of love, and fear has a purpose.

Just don't let it make you crazy, THAT is the secret.

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take it natrually.

and accept the fact that your not priority anymore.
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yep
good advice
we await the second one

life with kids is awesome!
i needed this
looking back i was not used
my potencial (i love people) was not met
but now..
it all makes a sense to me

somewhat slowed down the madness
values are floating on the surface
all for me to see them now
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I am very much looking forward to a 'family' of my own. I think we both are very well balanced, mentally and physically. We have so much love to give and advice to teach, I'm sure that love for our 'family' will get us through most of lifes perils. I know I shouldn't worry, but I'm human.

Is there any advice any one can possibly give me relating to contaiminated (radiated) foods??
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Ok OP, change is constant. The best thing you can offer your kid is the ability to calm him/herself down. Most first time parents these days will console the child until they calm it down. This appropriate in public and when the child is hurt, however at about 6 months the child will start crying for attention, and letting the child learn this on it's own will be much harder on you than the child. Toss all that mentally balanced crap out the window as sleep deprivation for the next 20 years kills all that....

As far as contaminated food: We moved to the middle of nowhere (150 miles to a super Walmart). We started raising milk goats (ugg get a cow - the fencing's cheaper) and chickens (I'm hoping to get rad meters in place before it starts raining for buying hay and checking the milk). I also have a small greenhouse and then I use agribond (row covers) in my outdoor garden. I have switched my construction plans to put a larger greenhouse/nursery structure in - which I'll be using well water for. I was on the verge of setting up rainwater cachement. The plants and the animals are the only proven free energy devices. Your the transitional generation that will have kids growing up as the caretakers that humans are meant to be. Maintaining a significant portion of your food supply is independence/freedom. Unfortunately the only way to know about radiated food is to have a survey meter and a sensitive meter and check it. The signs all point to GMOs and fertilizers/pesticides/modern medicine being just as dangerous not to mention the new improved petrol glowing seafood situation..... I would certainly be more concerned in your high rainfall location, but if your really that nervous about fallout over the myriad of other dangers - you can always set up a rainfall distillery based on a fresnel lens set up (maybe not in your solar location) or some other heat source and you'll have all the fallout (chemtrails, pollutants, etc) left in your boiler. Stop researching to research and go out and make your reality - you'll need quick answers and then back to doing it - with the kid, now you'll have half the time to do it in over the next several years...
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The heavy weight of the rock of responsibility will be rolled upon your shoulders but do not despare.

Great joy and wonderment accompany such.

Do not worry of the future because worry is a wasted emotion.