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| TwinSister Switch Up! User ID: 1372751 05/16/2011 04:23 PM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Marriage? Big no no! Quoting: Smoulderin'GalWent to my brother's wedding Saturday. Was asked so many times why I'm not married. Some people here are getting entirely the wrong idea. It's actually kinda entertaining though. I have been dating a man for a month now, he also has never been married and he is 59. Haven't asked him yet why not. You'll find out in 6-8 mos hey, a prediction............I'll bookmark this page If you don't have control of your mind.....someone else will! |
| airlie User ID: 1385608 05/16/2011 04:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I like being married. Look forward to time with the wife and grandkids. 30 years on the old hook, wouldn't change it for nothing. Quoting: LegbaI've been married for 30 yrs in Sept. I love it too. But its not easy, as I'm sure you'll know only too well. You have to work at it.....a lot! |
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| Tyche User ID: 1290953 05/16/2011 04:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Guys tell the truth! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1386220You don´t wanna marry because you´re afraid the wife will take your GLP away!!! ![]() Busted! I would nevah take a man's GLP away from him but he would be required to share! It is not the teacher before you that manifests what you perceive as an awakening, but the awakening within you that manifests what you perceive as a teacher. You call me a Crone like it's a bad thing |
| redlicorice User ID: 1284555 05/16/2011 04:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Married people are weak. They can't deal with the world on their own. They need someone to tell them they're ok, pretty, special. Whatever. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1156828It takes character and inner strength to go it alone. Whaa? I do all my character building all by myself and believe me being married with kids is not for weak spirits. Writer's Block |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1375730 05/16/2011 04:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Marriage is a natural thing that has been destroyed by the social engineers these past 50 years. They've done their work well for their masters. Whether the attack was from an eugenic, feminist, communistic or satanic directive, it has succeeded in its goal of destroying the foundation of countries and people. The family has existed for ages, but now it has become the target for destruction. Like this---> [link to www.livescience.com] Why??? What was done to men and women's minds and spirits these past years? Yes, we've been fucked with whether we like to admit it or not. The ego won't admit it, but we went with the hedonic at the expense of the heroic. |
| TwinSister Switch Up! User ID: 1372751 05/16/2011 04:28 PM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Guys tell the truth! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1386220You don´t wanna marry because you´re afraid the wife will take your GLP away!!! ![]() Busted! I would nevah take a man's GLP away from him but he would be required to share! GLP'ers are quite giving folks.........jus sayin If you don't have control of your mind.....someone else will! |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1156828 05/16/2011 04:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm just sayin' People seem to imply that un-married people are defective in some way, in their characters or personalities. I think its the other way around. You have to be incredibly strong within yourself and emotionally brave to suffer the slings and arrows of the world by yourself. Yes, being married has its challenges, but don't ever suggest that un-marrieds are somehow flawed. There are plenty of fucked up people who happen to be livign together or married with kids. Being married doesn't make you inherently better. |
| Stealth521 (OP) Lurking under the radar User ID: 1343439 05/16/2011 04:34 PM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | "I am a young 43 years old. Just today, a very pretty 19-year-old girl gave me the eye, meaning, I have no trouble getting attention from women. At least five different women have told me they wanted to marry me, I've earned nearly a million dollars in the last twelve years, I'm college educated and very smart, very handsome, I'm good at conversation, I'm in touch with my emotions, I want children, and I want to be married. Quoting: Stealth521So why aren't I? Women have laid a minefield between themselves and Men. I will not cross it. I see the bodies of the foolish and foolhardy on the ground ahead of me, and I know better. I can see the other side, and there are NO survivors. Not only that, I know that if I brave the obstacles, and so win fair maiden, she will not be my wife: I'll be hers. That's just not an arrangement I'm interested in. The legalities of marriage are a brazen affront to my manhood and would strip me of the authority necessary to fulfill my responsibilities as husband and father. I'm a Man, not a boy, not a guy, not a featherless biped: I'm a Man. By my very nature as a Man, I have the right and the authority to bind myself by my signature or given word on any matter." [link to www.henrymakow.com] Just to clarify... This is not a woman-bashing thread (I love women). The author does get a little bit into woman bashing, but my intent on posting is relevant to the legal absurdities involved with modern day state-approved marriage. Not gonna happen on my watch. I guess I'm one of those strange people who can learn from the mistakes of others. Hey Mr. Brightside, do you have a point? you seem awfully bitter for being dealt such a marvelous hand in life...lol Not bitter in the least. Again, I'm not the author. Not sure why I have to keep pointing that out. As far as my point. A comment posted at the link sums it up far better than I ever could. "Good article. Someone years ago put it in perspective for me thus: a state-licensed marriage (as opposed to a common-law marriage) creates a 3-way partnership between you, your wife and the government. When that partnership is dissolved (either through death of the husband or wife, or divorce) the assets of the "partnership" are "distributed", as they would be in any business. That's what the estate tax really is: Uncle Sam getting his "cut" as one of the partners in this unholy triad. Thus women serve (wittingly or unwittingly) as the agents of totalitarianism. The state is able to pierce this most fundamental relationship in humanity and seize whatever legacy a man has built through his entire life. I completely understand why men of Joshua's generation would run from the very idea of marriage in the modern sense." I specialize in run-on sentences. |
| Stealth521 (OP) Lurking under the radar User ID: 1343439 05/16/2011 04:42 PM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Marriage is a natural thing that has been destroyed by the social engineers these past 50 years. They've done their work well for their masters. Whether the attack was from an eugenic, feminist, communistic or satanic directive, it has succeeded in its goal of destroying the foundation of countries and people. The family has existed for ages, but now it has become the target for destruction. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1375730Like this---> [link to www.livescience.com] Why??? What was done to men and women's minds and spirits these past years? Yes, we've been fucked with whether we like to admit it or not. The ego won't admit it, but we went with the hedonic at the expense of the heroic. ![]() Excellent post! I specialize in run-on sentences. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1351486 05/16/2011 04:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Marriage? Big no no! Quoting: Smoulderin'Gal:chained: Went to my brother's wedding Saturday. Was asked so many times why I'm not married. Some people here are getting entirely the wrong idea. It's actually kinda entertaining though. I have been dating a man for a month now, he also has never been married and he is 59. Haven't asked him yet why not. 59??is that a recent pic of you, or do you just like much older men??? |
| TwinSister Switch Up! User ID: 1372751 05/16/2011 04:45 PM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Marriage is a natural thing that has been destroyed by the social engineers these past 50 years. They've done their work well for their masters. Whether the attack was from an eugenic, feminist, communistic or satanic directive, it has succeeded in its goal of destroying the foundation of countries and people. The family has existed for ages, but now it has become the target for destruction. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1375730Like this---> [link to www.livescience.com] Why??? What was done to men and women's minds and spirits these past years? Yes, we've been fucked with whether we like to admit it or not. The ego won't admit it, but we went with the hedonic at the expense of the heroic. ![]() Excellent post! ![]() If you don't have control of your mind.....someone else will! |
| TwinSister Switch Up! User ID: 1372751 05/16/2011 04:48 PM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Marriage? Big no no! Quoting: Smoulderin'GalWent to my brother's wedding Saturday. Was asked so many times why I'm not married. Some people here are getting entirely the wrong idea. It's actually kinda entertaining though. I have been dating a man for a month now, he also has never been married and he is 59. Haven't asked him yet why not. 59??is that a recent pic of you, or do you just like much older men??? My pic is from a couple months ago, and though this man is older, he has a great mind and an awesome body, he works out and looks great, nice tan.................and soooo cool. If you don't have control of your mind.....someone else will! |
| Stealth521 (OP) Lurking under the radar User ID: 1343439 05/16/2011 04:51 PM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Stealth521Went to my brother's wedding Saturday. Was asked so many times why I'm not married. Some people here are getting entirely the wrong idea. It's actually kinda entertaining though. I have been dating a man for a month now, he also has never been married and he is 59. Haven't asked him yet why not. Because he hadn't met you until now. awwwwww.........sweet! Well if he's smart that'll be his answer. I specialize in run-on sentences. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1351486 05/16/2011 04:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Stealth521:chained: Went to my brother's wedding Saturday. Was asked so many times why I'm not married. Some people here are getting entirely the wrong idea. It's actually kinda entertaining though. I have been dating a man for a month now, he also has never been married and he is 59. Haven't asked him yet why not. 59??is that a recent pic of you, or do you just like much older men??? My pic is from a couple months ago, and though this man is older, he has a great mind and an awesome body, he works out and looks great, nice tan.................and soooo cool. tmi...lol |
| TwinSister Switch Up! User ID: 1372751 05/16/2011 04:56 PM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: TwinSisterI have been dating a man for a month now, he also has never been married and he is 59. Haven't asked him yet why not. 59??is that a recent pic of you, or do you just like much older men??? My pic is from a couple months ago, and though this man is older, he has a great mind and an awesome body, he works out and looks great, nice tan.................and soooo cool. tmi...lol ? If you don't have control of your mind.....someone else will! |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1386315 05/16/2011 04:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Marriage is a CONTRACT period! You vow to stay together no matter what, thru thick and thin with a legal and binding contract, which to me takes all the romance out. When the shit hits the fan ( and it will ) & neither one of you can take it anymore, voila,,, in steps lawyers and guess who wins? THEY DO! I like the commitment plan and ceremony - gays got it right in that regard. I dont know wtf they are thinking wanting to marry! STUPID! So does Goldie and Kurt Russell got it right , they dont need no stinkin piece of paper either. I dont think anyone wants to be wife anymore- thats what I alwasy said, HELL I need a wife! The man gets a WIFE to do all his piddly shit he doesnt wanna do, really? Gets someone to cater to him ...REALLY? He wants a slave is what he wants!! Im sure there are marriages that are equally balanced somewhere only I havent ran across one yet ! So I hear you buddy - no marriage for me either! Im so done! Ive had my share of poisen! |
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| Debaser User ID: 568994 05/16/2011 05:06 PM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Social media is one of the biggest downfalls of marriage. True. They say Facebook is now responsible for 1 of every 5 divorces. 1 of 5...and that's just one website! When you look at the big picture also, social media is still in its infancy so I wouldn't call it unreasonable to name social media the "marriage killer". Marriages (in the strictly legal sense anyways) should be on a term limit...if you want out after 7 years (or some other reasonable length of time) you should be able to split your stuff down the middle and go your seperate ways, rather than thinking you're "stuck" with someone, which does not make for a comfortable or healthy living arrangement, especially if you have kids. Wouldn't it be great to heal the world, with only a song? |
| patdeez84 User ID: 630995 05/16/2011 05:07 PM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i tried it once....will never do it again Quoting: infinitymindboxsame. same here lol ![]() ![]() “We have allowed our nation to be over taxed and over regulated and overrun by bureaucrats, the founders would be ashamed of us for what we're putting up with.” Ron Paul . “My idea of a perfect government is one guy who sits in a small room at a desk, and the only thing he’s allowed to decide is who to nuke. The man is chosen based on some kind of IQ test, and maybe also a physical tournament, like a decathlon. And women are brought to him, maybe ... when he desires them.” Ron Swanson |
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| ~reaper~ User ID: 1384497 05/16/2011 05:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Married people are weak. They can't deal with the world on their own. They need someone to tell them they're ok, pretty, special. Whatever. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1156828It takes character and inner strength to go it alone. i taught about what you said made lotta sense...takes a brave soul to tackle this world alone no doubt. married couples need a support group to keep them breathing LOl....wonder so many are on suicide watch..total weaklings nothing but lies... |
| Stealth521 (OP) Lurking under the radar User ID: 1343439 05/16/2011 05:17 PM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Social media is one of the biggest downfalls of marriage. True. They say Facebook is now responsible for 1 of every 5 divorces. 1 of 5...and that's just one website! When you look at the big picture also, social media is still in its infancy so I wouldn't call it unreasonable to name social media the "marriage killer". Marriages (in the strictly legal sense anyways) should be on a term limit...if you want out after 7 years (or some other reasonable length of time) you should be able to split your stuff down the middle and go your seperate ways, rather than thinking you're "stuck" with someone, which does not make for a comfortable or healthy living arrangement, especially if you have kids. Kinda like a lease with the option to buy I specialize in run-on sentences. |
| Stealth521 (OP) Lurking under the radar User ID: 1343439 05/16/2011 05:46 PM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Stealth521Went to my brother's wedding Saturday. Was asked so many times why I'm not married. Some people here are getting entirely the wrong idea. It's actually kinda entertaining though. I have been dating a man for a month now, he also has never been married and he is 59. Haven't asked him yet why not. 59??is that a recent pic of you, or do you just like much older men??? My pic is from a couple months ago, and though this man is older, he has a great mind and an awesome body, he works out and looks great, nice tan.................and soooo cool. No way! You're dating the Dos Equis guy? I specialize in run-on sentences. |
| Grimmjow User ID: 1386133 05/16/2011 05:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's funny how everybody is STILL missing the point after thousands of years. Marriage, from the beginning of human civilization, has rarely been anything other than a contract. Remember ye olde days where the Juliets were married off to Parises because the union benefited the parents? Fast forward to present era. Marriage is a contract to benefit the state, that I agree with. Love and marriage are fundamentally different things. No they don't go together like a horse and carriage. A cheap piece of paper has nothing to do with compatibility, love, and devotion. Also, both men and women are batshit crazy and should be locked up in the funny farm. Y'all give me the creeps worse than that Szayell nut! (See what I did there with the roleplay?:P +100 XP for whoever knows what I'm talking about!) |
| Catnip User ID: 1382473 05/16/2011 06:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You haven't met the right woman for you yet. You will know almost instantly when you do. Then all your values will change. Want to meet the right woman? Write down all the qualities you'd like her to have, and I mean everything. Right down to hair color and the way she smells. You've just told the universe who you desire to appear in your life. It may take a while, but she will appear. And the best part is, you will know her when you see her. Think this is a joke? Think again. I know many people who have done this and have met the man/woman they were meant to be with. I did this when I was looking to buy a house, right down to the color of the walls in every room. Guess what? I knew the instant I found that house, and it contained everything on my list! Still not convinced? Give it a try anyway. What have you got to lose? "When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change" |
| Stealth521 (OP) Lurking under the radar User ID: 1343439 05/16/2011 06:47 PM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You haven't met the right woman for you yet. You will know almost instantly when you do. Then all your values will change. Quoting: CatnipWant to meet the right woman? Write down all the qualities you'd like her to have, and I mean everything. Right down to hair color and the way she smells. You've just told the universe who you desire to appear in your life. It may take a while, but she will appear. And the best part is, you will know her when you see her. Think this is a joke? Think again. I know many people who have done this and have met the man/woman they were meant to be with. I did this when I was looking to buy a house, right down to the color of the walls in every room. Guess what? I knew the instant I found that house, and it contained everything on my list! Still not convinced? Give it a try anyway. What have you got to lose? Interesting... Thanks for sharing. I specialize in run-on sentences. |
| redlicorice User ID: 1386458 05/16/2011 07:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Marriage is a natural thing that has been destroyed by the social engineers these past 50 years. They've done their work well for their masters. Whether the attack was from an eugenic, feminist, communistic or satanic directive, it has succeeded in its goal of destroying the foundation of countries and people. The family has existed for ages, but now it has become the target for destruction. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1375730Like this---> [link to www.livescience.com] Why??? What was done to men and women's minds and spirits these past years? Yes, we've been fucked with whether we like to admit it or not. The ego won't admit it, but we went with the hedonic at the expense of the heroic. Well said, and promiscuity brings forth many afflictions and disease. Writer's Block |