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33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?

 
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33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
Definitely not ! I think it's the best choice I've made

Most of my married friends (if I ever get to see them) look like they're ready to kill themselves in a cycle of routine

could have married when I was 26, but didnt really see it as any benefit to me other than a legally binding contract that has no terms but definite financial consequences if the contract is broken

what schmuck would sign this?

you have one kid, two...then you're pretty much expendable...the woman could pretty much just take off and you'll still have to pay her regardless, and this I've seen happen a few times and it appears to be a cruel punishment

probably most importantly, what always bothered me the most about a girlfriend or a 'serious relationship' is that I knew I wouldn't be able to enjoy other women unless I cheated, which kind of counters the whole idea anyways

Life's pretty exciting for me...I can do what I want and go anywhere I want, and If I want female company, I can have that too, and someone different each time, and really the less committed you are to relationships the more women want you..it's really fucked up

lastly, I couldn't bear having a kid and offering it to the altar of the NWo by shipping the kid to daycare

how can any parent counter this and work a job at the same time, unless you're rich? no thanks

so really, why would a man choose to get married when you have hot little 21 year olds about that just want to party if you're nice to them?

someone enlighten me on the benefits, please
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05/27/2011 08:58 PM
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
I'm 33 and divorced from a BPD woman and have one daughter. Besides my daughter, your much better off than me.
no child support payments and a complete parasite from an ex-wife.
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
right on.. the illusion is failing.. marriage and kids = what you were SUPPOSE to do.. what we have been conditioned to believe is the thing to do..

im 28.. refuse to get married, and will NOT have kids
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05/27/2011 08:59 PM
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
i'm 39 and never been married.

I don't see the point in marriage unless you have kids.

i mean why bring the church and government into your life unless necessary.

i'm not a big fan of legal contracts of anysort.
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
Bull shit your just fugly
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05/27/2011 09:00 PM
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
You ever think this NWO thing has you all conditioned to think it's best to be "free". Derp..."live for one". Break apart families/communities and bonds with others.

Sad you may never have the loving relationship some do experience, really. But hey, to each his own.
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
Pics or bs
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05/27/2011 09:02 PM
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
Marriage is just part of the system
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05/27/2011 09:03 PM
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
You ever think this NWO thing has you all conditioned to think it's best to be "free". Derp..."live for one". Break apart families/communities and bonds with others.

Sad you may never have the loving relationship some do experience, really. But hey, to each his own.
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The NWO has conditioned women through all the crap on TV to be materialistic and straight-up dumb. There are a few and I mean only a few good women in our generation. The rest are gold digging, instant gratitude sluts. Why marry one of these?
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
one more thing...women are dressing so much sexier these days...being in a relationship can torture a guy, really...with all the advertisements, girls wearing leggings as pants

it's torture to know you can look but not touch...it's a guilt trip rationalization and that's just negative for people to feel
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05/27/2011 09:04 PM
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
Lol brother you are not missing out.
Your wallet thanks you for sure!
I'm definitely a fan of the whole mother and father staying together though... That's extremely important to a child.
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05/27/2011 09:05 PM
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
When I was 29, I married a hot little 21 year old and have not looked back. No dull routine, the Wife does not work, we have children. Having many woman in your life just leads to trouble. Carefull what you wish for since the things you lust for usually end up ruining your life. I guess I am very Lucky.
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
There's no reason to rush into marriage but you should at least have a girlfriend. Otherwise, people might start thinking you're a homosexual.
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05/27/2011 09:05 PM
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
Good! Stay single and use a rubber.
Please don't breed, we have enough self centered, immature boy-men in the world already.
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
Marriage is wonderful, when it's good. When it goes sour, look out! For a guy it's sheer hell. People change and no one stays in love forever with the same person. If you're VERY LUCKY the lust and romance of the early years is replaced by a deep abiding friendship and genuine fondness for each other. But that's rare. Something to strive toward, but not easy to achieve.

There is NOTHING wrong with you. You've made choices that were your own, and not those of our peer group. Unless you're so in love you cannot imagine life without the person you love, do NOT event think about marriage.Even if you decide to have kids - there are plenty of women who would welcome a partner in child-rearing without being married to him. So that's an option when you're ready to procreate (if you ever are.)

The whole nature of male/female relationships has changed. Because pregnancy and childbirth are now things we can control and delay or prevent as we choose. No one other than complete idiots get pregnant now without wanting to do so.

Because of that, getting married is no longer necessary to have a family and having a family today is also optional. Choosing to not have kids is an equally valid choice. Although a lonely one in your later years I would imagine.
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
I'm 39 and single, no kids I'm smart!!!!


ohyeah
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05/27/2011 09:07 PM
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
You ever think this NWO thing has you all conditioned to think it's best to be "free". Derp..."live for one". Break apart families/communities and bonds with others.

Sad you may never have the loving relationship some do experience, really. But hey, to each his own.
 Quoting: ItsPat


look it's not like we're living in the 1920's

we're living in an age where pop videos are nothing short of porn, where you have ads like American Apparel showing teens in barely anything

I tried to count all the sexual ads, (bras, panties, bent over, bikinis) I saw walking down the main street in this city..I lost track after 60 walking for 20 minutes

and on top of that, women give it up so easily...and they flaunt it

id rather be single and honest than married, tortured and cheating
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
38 years old here. Single, never married, no kids, $75K job, high-yield investments slowly building up a nice secondary income stream.

I never wanted kids, and marriage is a sucker's bet for man in that case.

I'd have it made if not for this damned social anxiety disorder with avoidance as a primary coping mechanism. I just passed four years of mostly involuntary celibacy and this is not my longest dry spell either.

I might just start seeing escorts twice a month and give up on trying to meet civilian women.
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
it's just ...you haven't met HER yet! And kids...oh man,one day you are gonna love that little kid more than you love yourself,trust me...
nothing is wrong with you,nothing.you are just not there yet,it's ok.
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05/27/2011 09:08 PM
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
There's no reason to rush into marriage but you should at least have a girlfriend. Otherwise, people might start thinking you're a homosexual.
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I hope! I'll get more chicks like that
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
Being single is great for a while but as you get older and look back in a "what if" sort of way... you might regret not having someone hog half the bed, or little brats looking up to you and asking all sorts of questions, or having someone grow old with you and be your best friend, partner, lover and supporter.

A friend asked me a while back, "then what's your purpose for living, who are you living for and why do you make the effort to do better for yourself?"

the time to have kids or seek a partner is limited. your looks could fade, your health could fade and you only have right now to do this.

Think of yourself at 66...now look back at a life of no love, no kids and no partner. how do you feel about that?
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
I still want one of them perdy foriegn ones.
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
You ever think this NWO thing has you all conditioned to think it's best to be "free". Derp..."live for one". Break apart families/communities and bonds with others.

Sad you may never have the loving relationship some do experience, really. But hey, to each his own.
 Quoting: ItsPat


look it's not like we're living in the 1920's

we're living in an age where pop videos are nothing short of porn, where you have ads like American Apparel showing teens in barely anything

I tried to count all the sexual ads, (bras, panties, bent over, bikinis) I saw walking down the main street in this city..I lost track after 60 walking for 20 minutes

and on top of that, women give it up so easily...and they flaunt it

id rather be single and honest than married, tortured and cheating
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totally agree with you
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
38 years old here. Single, never married, no kids, $75K job, high-yield investments slowly building up a nice secondary income stream.

I never wanted kids, and marriage is a sucker's bet for man in that case.

I'd have it made if not for this damned social anxiety disorder with avoidance as a primary coping mechanism. I just passed four years of mostly involuntary celibacy and this is not my longest dry spell either.

I might just start seeing escorts twice a month and give up on trying to meet civilian women.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1136686


dude I can help you with that...they don't mean shit, im talking about the people...stop giving a fuck, relax and don't put yourself on any schedule

seriously i mean that...free your mind, your ass will follow, and all anxiety stems from thinking too much into a snowball, trust me bro i fuckin know it been there done that and it's no longer a problem, i wasted my early 20's on this shit and the solution lies in freeing your mind
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
There's no reason to rush into marriage but you should at least have a girlfriend. Otherwise, people might start thinking you're a homosexual.
 Quoting: Guns n' God (redux)


I hope! I'll get more chicks like that
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1262006


Uh...maybe to shop with.

You've never actually talked to a female before, have you, sir?
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
the time to have kids or seek a partner is limited. your looks could fade, your health could fade and you only have right now to do this.

Think of yourself at 66...now look back at a life of no love, no kids and no partner. how do you feel about that?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1190583


that's my most pressing issue...
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
First of all, you're Canadian...
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
Is your name Skippy? [link to www.youtube.com]

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Can someone re-post this with the Picture please!
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
Being single is great for a while but as you get older and look back in a "what if" sort of way... you might regret not having someone hog half the bed, or little brats looking up to you and asking all sorts of questions, or having someone grow old with you and be your best friend, partner, lover and supporter.

A friend asked me a while back, "then what's your purpose for living, who are you living for and why do you make the effort to do better for yourself?"

the time to have kids or seek a partner is limited. your looks could fade, your health could fade and you only have right now to do this.

Think of yourself at 66...now look back at a life of no love, no kids and no partner. how do you feel about that?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1190583


Not when I'm 66, single and not as aged as some poor bastard that has been run ragged trying to keep up with the needs of his materialistic family members.

When I'm sitting at a cabana on the beach ordering another round, while surrounding by lots of eye candy, my only question will be, "What the fuck are she and I going to do tonight?"
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
Being single is great for a while but as you get older and look back in a "what if" sort of way... you might regret not having someone hog half the bed, or little brats looking up to you and asking all sorts of questions, or having someone grow old with you and be your best friend, partner, lover and supporter.

A friend asked me a while back, "then what's your purpose for living, who are you living for and why do you make the effort to do better for yourself?"

the time to have kids or seek a partner is limited. your looks could fade, your health could fade and you only have right now to do this.

Think of yourself at 66...now look back at a life of no love, no kids and no partner. how do you feel about that?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1190583


You make many good points. I've spent a lot of time with bedridden seniors, and heard many sad stories of men (and women, though mostly men) who refused to settle down...and paid the price.

Eighty-five years old, totally single for 20 years, no kids, basically no family, and few friends. It is SO sad.
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
To each their own but I love being married.I love falling asleep/waking up to my best friend every single day.I love being taken care of & I love taking care of him.There's just something really amazing that one can only feel from being married.Plus it's really great to have someone tell you they love you.You don't get love by sleeping around.I can only imagine how lonely it must get at times.

As for children...I have 2.Absolutely the best thing I've ever done in my entire life.Waking up & seeing their faces light up when they see me,hearing their little laughs & getting those slobbery wet kisses.That to me is everything.

I really do wish you the best with your staying single/childless.I hope you won't wake up one day and regret anything.Sure takes a very strong person to go through with that.

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