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33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?

 
Guns n' God (redux)

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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
Being single is great for a while but as you get older and look back in a "what if" sort of way... you might regret not having someone hog half the bed, or little brats looking up to you and asking all sorts of questions, or having someone grow old with you and be your best friend, partner, lover and supporter.

A friend asked me a while back, "then what's your purpose for living, who are you living for and why do you make the effort to do better for yourself?"

the time to have kids or seek a partner is limited. your looks could fade, your health could fade and you only have right now to do this.

Think of yourself at 66...now look back at a life of no love, no kids and no partner. how do you feel about that?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1190583


Not when I'm 66, single and not as aged as some poor bastard that has been run ragged trying to keep up with the needs of his materialistic family members.

When I'm sitting at a cabana on the beach ordering another round, while surrounding by lots of eye candy, my only question will be, "What the fuck are she and I going to do tonight?"
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1402394


LOL! Yeah, because young girls love 65 year olds hitting on them...

You better retire with a sizable pension.
Anonymous Coward
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05/27/2011 09:21 PM
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
Good! Stay single and use a rubber.
Please don't breed, we have enough self centered, immature boy-men in the world already.
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Im telling you it's the Soybeans! Males these days must be happy sleeping with Palmula Handerson every night.
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05/27/2011 09:21 PM
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
But like my girl wanted me to interject..
Just because you don't get married doesn't mean you can't find sexually satisfying relationships.
Plenty of girls just want sex/friendship/fun .. Don't be afraid to tell them the truth about what you're looking for,
good chance that 1/10 want the exact same thing.
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05/27/2011 09:22 PM
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
Married 18 years...got divorced. Lost the kids, then got the kids.
Single father then remarried at 48 to a Dutch women who is not only my best friend ever but she looks exactly like a mature Ginger Lynn.
I know she's not Ginger Lynn cuz she has that silly Dutch accent.
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05/27/2011 09:22 PM
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
Eighty-five years old, totally single for 20 years, no kids, basically no family, and few friends. It is SO sad.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 905363


Sad are the people who had kids, plopped them in front of the tv while they were cheating on each other, and then come to realize their kids aren't visiting them on their death bed, they're too busy playing video games

I've seen that MANY MANY times, more often than not

my mother died about 10 years ago, I was 23 and was with her every day, the nurses told me i was a very rare case as a lot of terminal cancer patients get visits once a week, if they're lucky
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
But like my girl wanted me to interject..
Just because you don't get married doesn't mean you can't find sexually satisfying relationships.
Plenty of girls just want sex/friendship/fun .. Don't be afraid to tell them the truth about what you're looking for,
good chance that 1/10 want the exact same thing.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1342725


Gross! who would want a slut for a night besides Arnold!
ItsPat

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05/27/2011 09:24 PM
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
You answered my question by talking about how everything on TV is materialistic and virtually porn. It's sick, but they want you to be single and away from human connections. If you own a cell phone you probably get more angry over that breaking than reading about a rape down your street.

I'm just saying--you don't have to marry one of "those". My gosh, it's kind of pathetic how some of you men rally up women into all materialistic sluts. I guess all of you GLPers are just dirty dumbass jocks then hm?

Lol. Find yourself a woman who loves the same LIFESTYLE and INTERESTS as you--it's possible, really.
Guns n' God (redux)

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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
But like my girl wanted me to interject..
Just because you don't get married doesn't mean you can't find sexually satisfying relationships.
Plenty of girls just want sex/friendship/fun .. Don't be afraid to tell them the truth about what you're looking for,
good chance that 1/10 want the exact same thing.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1342725


Gross! who would want a slut for a night besides Arnold!
 Quoting: Zmelli

Lol, nearly every honest red blooded male.
Anonymous Coward
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05/27/2011 09:27 PM
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
relationships are not what they used to be, because men and women both are not what they used to be. The illuminati has many ways to reduce population and the strength to be found in family and community. Destroying the institution of marriage is a sly one. Women have become immasculinated, and men have become effeminate. You cant deny this is true. Feminism has killed the last of the good women, and the men...well not sure what happened there - i do think alcohol and porn, and media images that are so sexual have corrupted men.there are no defining roles anymore, and there is no need for family, unless you plan to procreate.
I was a good woman, raised in the country by very good parents, but when my time came i found there were no good men around. the men i found ridiculed me, or worse. my last real relationship begot beautiful children, but the alcohol and mental abuse just could not be tolerated anymore.
So now i am single, my youth and attractiveness have faded into frumpy mom apparel so what man would want me now. And to make it worse, he runs around playing the victim...i am the evil woman who has destroyed his life, i have torn a family assunder.
bottom line is, women need to get back in the kitchen and the home, nurturing and bonding and caring for the family, and men need to step up and earn a good living, and treat the woman with the utmost respect and love. short of that, it will just get worse and worse.. that's my rant. you might be interested in a fellow named henry makow...google him.
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05/27/2011 09:28 PM
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
I'm 43yrs old no kids...single...and i love it..because most people are evil and you'll only get burned....
Cheeselord

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05/27/2011 09:31 PM

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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
I am 28, no kids, single. I have dated here and there. I dont want kids, not in this day and age. I live on a farm, have my pets. I really like being able to do what I want, when I want. And well when the SHTF I only have to worry about me.
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05/27/2011 09:32 PM
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
There's no reason to rush into marriage but you should at least have a girlfriend. Otherwise, people might start thinking you're a homosexual.
 Quoting: Guns n' God (redux)


Yeah because homosexuals are ALWAYS single right.
Anonymous Coward
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05/27/2011 09:32 PM
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
OP, why are you asking a question you already have the answer to?

And why are you so defensive about your decision? No one's judging you for your life.... except yourself perhaps...
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05/27/2011 09:35 PM
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
Think of yourself at 66...now look back at a life of no love, no kids and no partner. how do you feel about that?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1190583




Most will be too busy worrying about the bowel cancer at that time.


How would you feel watching your wife die from breast cancer huh?
Anonymous Coward
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
Married 18 years...got divorced. Lost the kids, then got the kids.
Single father then remarried at 48 to a Dutch women who is not only my best friend ever but she looks exactly like a mature Ginger Lynn.
I know she's not Ginger Lynn cuz she has that silly Dutch accent.
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Congrats your wife looks like a washed up porn-star.
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05/27/2011 09:36 PM
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
i want to smell u
BrianMoran

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05/27/2011 09:37 PM
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
You ever think this NWO thing has you all conditioned to think it's best to be "free". Derp..."live for one". Break apart families/communities and bonds with others.

Sad you may never have the loving relationship some do experience, really. But hey, to each his own.
 Quoting: ItsPat


look it's not like we're living in the 1920's

we're living in an age where pop videos are nothing short of porn, where you have ads like American Apparel showing teens in barely anything

I tried to count all the sexual ads, (bras, panties, bent over, bikinis) I saw walking down the main street in this city..I lost track after 60 walking for 20 minutes

and on top of that, women give it up so easily...and they flaunt it

id rather be single and honest than married, tortured and cheating
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1262006


You're weak OP. I'm 36 and have been married since I was 22. I have three great kids and a beautiful wife and I've never cheated nor been tortured by it. You just need to grow the fuck up and realize the world does not revolve around you and your dick. In 30 years you won't be able to pick up 21 year olds or even 30 year olds or even 40 year olds. Where will you be then, with no companionship or progeny to take care of you in your old age. Oh, I almost forgot, you'll be dead from VD within 15 years if some jealous boyfriend/husband doesn't get to you first. Good luck, OP. It's a cold world when you're rootless and have no one to trust.
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
Eighty-five years old, totally single for 20 years, no kids, basically no family, and few friends. It is SO sad.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 905363


Sad are the people who had kids, plopped them in front of the tv while they were cheating on each other, and then come to realize their kids aren't visiting them on their death bed, they're too busy playing video games

I've seen that MANY MANY times, more often than not

my mother died about 10 years ago, I was 23 and was with her every day, the nurses told me i was a very rare case as a lot of terminal cancer patients get visits once a week, if they're lucky
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1262006


...sorry about your mom....
I got a feeling that you are a great person,everything you say makes sense,and you are way more mature than some 60 y.o grandad posting here...You will make a great husband and an amazing father one day.You already somehow know what is right to do in a relationship.I don't think meaningless sex relationship is for you...
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05/27/2011 09:40 PM
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
i agree, this ideal is part of the plan.

Family is everything. Without family, who do you have to truly lean on? no one. so you are left with the government.

I married my bestfriend, I love him, we still have romatic times but it isnt the most important part of our relationship. We love each other. We love being with each other. We grow into better pepole with each other. You have a loving soundboard to go through everything with, everyday.

We have 3 amazing children. They do not go to daycare. We arent super rich, we just adjusted our lifestyle so I can stay home for a while. How else do you put good people back into the world?

I am happy I will have someone to grow old with. I am happy I will get to relive my childhood through my children (every holiday is better because of them). We just took my kids to Disney and it was better watching them enjoy it than it was for me to enjoy it when I was a kid.

I love my family. I love that my kids get to know and love and become part of my family. That we all have each other, their cousins, their aunt, uncles, grandparents and even GREATgrandparents to lean on.

Family is everything. Everything else is distraction.
Guns n' God (redux)

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05/27/2011 09:41 PM
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
There's no reason to rush into marriage but you should at least have a girlfriend. Otherwise, people might start thinking you're a homosexual.
 Quoting: Guns n' God (redux)


Yeah because homosexuals are ALWAYS single right.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1401682


Closeted ones tend to be "confirmed bachelors."
Anonymous Coward
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05/27/2011 09:42 PM
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
You're weak OP. I'm 36 and have been married since I was 22. I have three great kids and a beautiful wife and I've never cheated nor been tortured by it. You just need to grow the fuck up and realize the world does not revolve around you and your dick. In 30 years you won't be able to pick up 21 year olds or even 30 year olds or even 40 year olds. Where will you be then, with no companionship or progeny to take care of you in your old age. Oh, I almost forgot, you'll be dead from VD within 15 years if some jealous boyfriend/husband doesn't get to you first. Good luck, OP. It's a cold world when you're rootless and have no one to trust.
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Gonna be fucking fantastic when your wife leaves you or dies.
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05/27/2011 09:45 PM
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
theres gonna be 33 year old Alan Harpers and theres gonna be 33 year old Charlie Harpers. One beats with off with a stick and feels great to be alone.

Then theres the 33 year old Alan Harpers who cling to women for fear of being alone. But sometimes the alan harpers have 2 year gaps in relationships and they live in a perpetual lonely nightmare between relationships
Gingy

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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
i agree, this ideal is part of the plan.

Family is everything. Without family, who do you have to truly lean on? no one. so you are left with the government.

I married my bestfriend, I love him, we still have romatic times but it isnt the most important part of our relationship. We love each other. We love being with each other. We grow into better pepole with each other. You have a loving soundboard to go through everything with, everyday.

We have 3 amazing children. They do not go to daycare. We arent super rich, we just adjusted our lifestyle so I can stay home for a while. How else do you put good people back into the world?

I am happy I will have someone to grow old with. I am happy I will get to relive my childhood through my children (every holiday is better because of them). We just took my kids to Disney and it was better watching them enjoy it than it was for me to enjoy it when I was a kid.

I love my family. I love that my kids get to know and love and become part of my family. That we all have each other, their cousins, their aunt, uncles, grandparents and even GREATgrandparents to lean on.

Family is everything. Everything else is distraction.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1368619

this^^
clappa
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05/27/2011 09:47 PM
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
WTF....
There's nothing wrong with you, ENJOY yourself. Marriage and a family is just another way that was devised to make a producer out of you. They're just anchors to give you a sense of responsibility, aka guilt, so you give and give and never recieve. I know first hand the nightmare of child support and a legal system that doubles as a collection agency. You're nuts if you ever get the idea that you want to give every thing you've ever had or will have away. Why bother trying to get anything in the first place when someone can screw you out of it because their too lazy to get it on their own. Stay single, people are waking up to the scam. Smaller future generations will really put the screws to big government financially.
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
turning 35, single, no kids, still a virgin. I do kinda want a relation, then again I am happy single. If I ever got lucky enough to be in a relation, she would never have to worry about me cheating cause I am not that type of person.
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
33 AND SINGLE ??
GAYNESS ??
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
I'm 33 and divorced from a BPD woman
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BPD = Borderline Personality Disorder?
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
Nothing wrong with you. I got married but later than that. 2 kids now.

If you want kids, the right thing to do for them imho is to provide a stable 2 parent houshold. That generally means marrying. There can be tough times in a marriage, and you don't always want to stay together but do it for the kids. And then a new better time comes.

There might not be enough "glue" to hold together a marriage without kids. Really marriage is for having kids, and it's important if you're going to do that. There might be childless happy married couples too, and that's great, but this is how I understand it.
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05/27/2011 10:03 PM
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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
If you have not met the right woman then don't try to force your way into marriage. Too many people marry the wrong person thinking they need to to fit in. People take marriage too lightly. It's not a joke or a game or a way to make money ladies. It's not a business deal.
Guns n' God (redux)

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Re: 33 and single, no kids...is something wrong with me?
theres gonna be 33 year old Alan Harpers and theres gonna be 33 year old Charlie Harpers. One beats with off with a stick and feels great to be alone.

Then theres the 33 year old Alan Harpers who cling to women for fear of being alone. But sometimes the alan harpers have 2 year gaps in relationships and they live in a perpetual lonely nightmare between relationships
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1380657


A "Two and a Half Men" reference? Really?