'Obedient wives' club: Good sex is a duty

Not crazy about men who are control freaks.

it's good to have a wife who never refuse sexual request from the husband. shrewd and stingy husbands are not forced to pay a huge sum of money for sex with hookers to satisfy his natural urge.

Yes, they need to keep their perv husbands satisfied.

Otherwise, they'll go and rape some virgins.

please make that GREAT sex

Catholic tradition:

[link to www.newadvent.org]
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The encyclical "Arcanum", 10 February, 1880, declares: "The husband is ruler of the family and the head of the wife; the woman as flesh of his flesh and bone of his bone is to be subordinate and obedient to the husband, not, however, as a hand-maid but as a companion of such a kind that the obedience given is as honourable as dignified. As, however, the husband ruling represents the image of Christ and the wife obedient the image of the Church, Divine love should at all times set the standard of duty."
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So what you really need is a Robot, not a human being. You made a mistake, go out a buy a Robot, then you can f...k yourself to death.

dutiful sexx = gross
men need to be nice to their women, treat them well, do their own chores, and give their wives an hour of foreplay.
then there will be lots of great sex.

There's hardly a woman alive who hasn't said "yes" when she felt like saying "no" just to shut a guy up and get some sleep. These ladies have simply formalized the concept. Of which I do not approve.

It just goes to show Islam is a cult made for and by guys...it's all about the things that please a man, which is fucking and control/power:

72 virgins = fucking

wife must obey = fucking + Power/control

Blow up those who oppose your cult = 72 virgins (fucking) and power/control

etc, etc...

Last Edited by BRIEF on 06/08/2011 10:09 AM

Who gives a shit abut what Woman says is important? Worry about your own marriages.

Don't get caught up in a bullshit discussion about someone else' marriage advice, because that running with the Jones' bullshit is a big part of what got us here. Do what YOU have to do for YOUR marriage.

LOL The sad part is: she believes it. I like my woman to be turned on, not dutiful. Her duty is to work with me and try to make things work out, not bend when I ask.

Want to be dutiful? Then don't stab me in the back, help out in the household, don't yell at me for little things, don't steal from me, don't be a bar fly and boom, you have been dutiful. You don't have to lay back and spread em when your not even in the mood.

Here is the traditional Catholic teaching on "rendering the marriage debt" (i.e., providing sex on demand):

[link to www.ewtn.com]
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The principle is this: whenever either the husband or the wife seriously and reasonably asks for the marriage due the other is bound to render it.
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Last Edited by Skeptic the First on 06/08/2011 10:14 AM

But... You're worrying about what we're worrying about.. Seems a bit contradictory.

Well, what surprise, a Catholic principle written outside of the bible. I believe the bible says: Love your wife, honor your husband. Not to sure it says anything about sex on demand.

I don't see a problem with women listening to their husbands? Foreplay isn't that fun but we work at it for you ladies. I mean if your married and have fucked countless times why send your husband away. Honestly fucking fuck him if he has the needs why hol out on him it is just counter productive.

There is nothing worse than blue balls for guys not being able to release the pressure and then the wife saying im not in the mood. I'm not in the mood to do chores around the house but i do em. For fucks sake your helping out your soulmate with a need and you send em away.

fucking women thinking they can do everything their way. I'm not marrying one of em. (probably will GLP effect)

They have smaller brains anyway...so it's fitting.

Sorry If I offended any females in here...it's science.

ah yes......and you will agree then, that since men have larger brains & men rule the world, that is why the world is all screwed up with wars, violence, etc., etc.

here's an idea: want great sex? Don't get married!

Move to Malaysia and be happy. Find Ummm Kaboko Boo's sister and live happily ever after. The end.

When a husband cares, loves, protects, provides and makes wise choices in and for his family, most women are happy to satisfy their husbands. Should he fail to do these things, she loses respect and nobody wants to sleep with a husband they don't believe in.

I can only assume that good sex would be a pleasure, as well as a duty, if more husbands were obedient to their wives, if you know what I mean. Trying to follow some other trash act sort of sucks the fun right out of it, you know...?

Think about it. Really.

I am female and a natural submissive Christian. I am turned on by following exactly what my husband says. ANd, before you 'liberal' women have a fit- it is only sexually. I am an equal in every other way. I lost my husband years ago, but, when I close my eyes and fantasize, all I need is his voice telling me to do something. It doesn't really matter what. When he was here, I could climax by giving him oral. Perhaps TMI, but, some American women are turned on by giving over control to someone else- especially when we have so much responsibility.

True indeed. I lost a lot of respect for my husband when a neighbor guy down the road put his hands on me when he was drunk at a block party. My husband did nothing! I had to handle the bastard myself. He's generally a coward in all sorts of other dealings as well (I have to negotiate business terms and be the 'take charge' team member, I have to pick every place we eat even when I insist that he choose, I have to be the mouthpiece for us when we go out because he's too coward to speak up) and so, I really have had to grow my own pair as a result. I don't find him attractive anymore. It's sad. I daydream about having a real man, on I can simply be a woman with...I have always been strong, but sometimes, a woman wants a man to take charge of a few things. A man like this this is not a meat-headed GLP he-man type, could get my drawers rain, sleet hail, snow...3 AM or surprise afternoon lunch break. I'd drop any and everything to fuck if I had a man that could make me weak in the knees, not make me want to blow his kneecaps out with a bat because he's such a spineless wimp.

OMG. I freaking love you. And, I am a woman too. LOL

Monogamous wives club:

- Good sex for husband is "too much work"
- Good sex for husband is "slavery"
- Making husbands happy is "slavery"

Monogamous wifery is BS today because monogamous wives don't freakin care about their husbands.

I believe this is true, it is the duty of the wife to make sure the man is sexually satisfied and vice versa. When you are married, you have all the time in the world to figure out what makes the other person sexually satisfied.

The man has responsibilities in the marriage as well. As long as both parties take care of their responsibilities, everyone is happy.

Marriage is a bullshit arrangement in any culture.

having sex with a woman who does it only because it is her 'duty' is not enjoyable, an dis one of the leading causes of infidelity. that's why it is so important to try each other out before marriage. if you are not compatible in your sexual tastes, desires, and needs, your relationship is doomed.