my significant other just downloaded keylogging software on my computer..... | |
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stillhere User ID: 1253176 United States 06/06/2011 04:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | on a scale of 1-10 how officially creepy and absurd is this?! Quoting: double_frickto be clear, i've never cheated or anything like that, as if that would be reason to violate someone's privacy (not that i have any secrets LOL, its the principle, isn't it?!) If it bothers you have them take it off. I would guess they are afraid of your doing things they do themselves. This kind of "Control" will only manifest in other unpleasant ways as the relationship continues. By your posting here, I'm guessing this really bothers you and you don't want this kind of controlling relationship-- this might be your "RED FLAG" to get out. "You can bend it and twist it... You can misuse and abuse it... But even God cannot change the Truth.” Michael Levy |
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double_frick (OP) User ID: 1406623 United States 06/06/2011 04:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | on a scale of 1-10 how officially creepy and absurd is this?! Quoting: double_frickto be clear, i've never cheated or anything like that, as if that would be reason to violate someone's privacy (not that i have any secrets LOL, its the principle, isn't it?!) If it bothers you have them take it off. I would guess they are afraid of your doing things they do themselves. This kind of "Control" will only manifest in other unpleasant ways as the relationship continues. By your posting here, I'm guessing this really bothers you and you don't want this kind of controlling relationship-- this might be your "RED FLAG" to get out. unfortunately i fel so trapped here i fear i won't ever get out. until death, god willing that be sooner than later. this is and has been hell and every time i leave he makes my life a LIVING HELL, and professes to do this even though he says i don't deserve it and he doesn't deserve me--he still acts all psychotic like this. we were broken up and he broke the doll my grandma gave me on her deathbed because i wouldn't go spend new years with him, my EX at the time. my life is fuckin hell on earth--i'd rather be homeless and would be if it weren't for having to take care of the kids he says he doesn't care about unless i'm here. real cream of the crop....and trust me, i know its all my fault and i'm a fucking MORAN, i know. i don't know what to do or where to go, or if there is such a place to escape to with my two kids. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1415948 United States 06/06/2011 05:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Call child protective services on him, call a battered woman's shelter. And yes, you are definitely battered emotionally if not physically. If you don't then you are a complete fucking idiot. After you move out then buy some good quality pepper spray/mace and don't be afraid to use it. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1416291 United States 06/06/2011 05:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Assuming that you're using Microsoft Windows, are you sure it wasn't some computer virus that put the keylogging software on your computer? It might be some hacker in Russia or Nigeria or someplace that put it there, looking for credit card numbers and such. |
GeekOfTheWeek User ID: 1383040 United States 06/06/2011 05:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | on a scale of 1-10 how officially creepy and absurd is this?! Quoting: double_frickto be clear, i've never cheated or anything like that, as if that would be reason to violate someone's privacy (not that i have any secrets LOL, its the principle, isn't it?!) Get yourself a linux live cd to boot from... Also he may be after your bank account info!!! Passwords to email etc... Remove it yourself. Or go to start/run/ type in msconfig hit enter, see if it's listed, just uncheck it... I love physics. It bonds us eternally, it's what makes our computers work, it's what's in my morning cup of coffee, it's the thing that keeps the universe from vanishing due to lack of belief... |
DeadRabbit User ID: 1381554 United States 06/06/2011 05:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sorry to hear about that, OP. I don't have any advice but just hope things get better for you and the kids. "In the long history of the world, only a few generations have been granted the role of defending freedom in it's hour of maximum danger. I do not shrink from this responsibility... I welcome it." John F Kennedy |
stillhere User ID: 1253176 United States 06/06/2011 06:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | on a scale of 1-10 how officially creepy and absurd is this?! Quoting: double_frickto be clear, i've never cheated or anything like that, as if that would be reason to violate someone's privacy (not that i have any secrets LOL, its the principle, isn't it?!) If it bothers you have them take it off. I would guess they are afraid of your doing things they do themselves. This kind of "Control" will only manifest in other unpleasant ways as the relationship continues. By your posting here, I'm guessing this really bothers you and you don't want this kind of controlling relationship-- this might be your "RED FLAG" to get out. unfortunately i fel so trapped here i fear i won't ever get out. until death, god willing that be sooner than later. this is and has been hell and every time i leave he makes my life a LIVING HELL, and professes to do this even though he says i don't deserve it and he doesn't deserve me--he still acts all psychotic like this. we were broken up and he broke the doll my grandma gave me on her deathbed because i wouldn't go spend new years with him, my EX at the time. my life is fuckin hell on earth--i'd rather be homeless and would be if it weren't for having to take care of the kids he says he doesn't care about unless i'm here. real cream of the crop....and trust me, i know its all my fault and i'm a fucking MORAN, i know. i don't know what to do or where to go, or if there is such a place to escape to with my two kids. Wow, that sounds like a whole lot worse than just key logging software. Sounds like he is afraid you are going to leave him. Is he logging what you are writing right now? Kids, well you have more to consider than just yourself. Please don't put yourself down, things are just what they are- blaming doesn't help. Most pain is caused from fear of the future and living in the past. Are you ok now? Are your kids ok now? I highly recommend Byron Katie-- easy to understand and very helpful. [link to www.thework.com] Please listen to her, you can access most of her work for free--it does help. Your thoughts and fear and his fear are causing you both pain, which has to affect the kids. "You can bend it and twist it... You can misuse and abuse it... But even God cannot change the Truth.” Michael Levy |
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double_frick (OP) User ID: 1426869 United States 06/13/2011 04:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | on a scale of 1-10 how officially creepy and absurd is this?! Quoting: double_frickto be clear, i've never cheated or anything like that, as if that would be reason to violate someone's privacy (not that i have any secrets LOL, its the principle, isn't it?!) If it bothers you have them take it off. I would guess they are afraid of your doing things they do themselves. This kind of "Control" will only manifest in other unpleasant ways as the relationship continues. By your posting here, I'm guessing this really bothers you and you don't want this kind of controlling relationship-- this might be your "RED FLAG" to get out. unfortunately i fel so trapped here i fear i won't ever get out. until death, god willing that be sooner than later. this is and has been hell and every time i leave he makes my life a LIVING HELL, and professes to do this even though he says i don't deserve it and he doesn't deserve me--he still acts all psychotic like this. we were broken up and he broke the doll my grandma gave me on her deathbed because i wouldn't go spend new years with him, my EX at the time. my life is fuckin hell on earth--i'd rather be homeless and would be if it weren't for having to take care of the kids he says he doesn't care about unless i'm here. real cream of the crop....and trust me, i know its all my fault and i'm a fucking MORAN, i know. i don't know what to do or where to go, or if there is such a place to escape to with my two kids. Wow, that sounds like a whole lot worse than just key logging software. Sounds like he is afraid you are going to leave him. Is he logging what you are writing right now? Kids, well you have more to consider than just yourself. Please don't put yourself down, things are just what they are- blaming doesn't help. Most pain is caused from fear of the future and living in the past. Are you ok now? Are your kids ok now? I highly recommend Byron Katie-- easy to understand and very helpful. [link to www.thework.com] Please listen to her, you can access most of her work for free--it does help. Your thoughts and fear and his fear are causing you both pain, which has to affect the kids. thank you. we did have a huuuuuuge fight *sigh* and was without the computer completely for a few days. :( but at least it was only that.... i kinda keep telling myself im gonna go to school and get a nursing degree or something so i CAN leave...and then decide then. nobody is perfect, and i wish i could stay but if it goes on forever i just can't. i feel bad, the kids don't want to leave. well, the oldest one doesn't...i don't know, on one hand i feel like one of those lame abused women that rationalizes stupid things but i don't really feel that way inside, i just think it looks that way? looooollll i think a big thing for me is feeling that i couldn't leave and support the two kids, even without his threats of ruining my life if i ever leave. so i stay. out of weakness mostly. not fear. and some strange sense of obligation like some sort of contract and every time i leave i magically end up here again regardless of my resolve or situation. last time i had a fine job and other friends to turn to and was living at my moms....still ended up back here. it was weird....maybe its fate or like a lesson i'm not really sure. i like to go where life takes me, but this year i'm really starting to re-examine that philosophy---it doesn't seem to be taking me place i really want to be. hahahaha stupid pisces moon *kicks natal chart* lol |
BoboTheHobo User ID: 516644 United States 06/13/2011 04:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you're "thinking" about leaving then you should. It's already over in your mind and it will happen sooner or later. No reason to wait. An expert is someone who knows more and more about less and less until eventually they know everything about nothing ~ Anonymous |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1183343 United States 06/13/2011 04:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | on a scale of 1-10 how officially creepy and absurd is this?! Quoting: double_frickto be clear, i've never cheated or anything like that, as if that would be reason to violate someone's privacy (not that i have any secrets LOL, its the principle, isn't it?!) Time to install cameras in the bedroom! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1422560 United States 06/13/2011 04:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | better look for hiden cameras voic recorders and phone recorders , also gps devices in your car . yes she was cheating , Guys go with your gut fellings . when I called her on it and played the video and recordings and showed her the gps tracking , man was it funny . She could not talk , and when she could she studderd for 3 days . |
riderr User ID: 1421924 United States 06/13/2011 04:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ive had something weird like that happen,but the person did not have access to my computer,weird There is no finish line [link to www.facebook.com] Love is the highest motivation which man may utilize in his universe ascent. Love is the desire to do good to others-Urantia Book Gold is food that can be consumed,to make your transition to the higher realms easy |
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