so I work at least 10 hour work days. the wife stays at home most of the time. she has a part time job watching someones kid. she works maybe two hours every other day (if that). I think that she should at least tidy up the house. She cant cook worth a shit so I cant expect anything like that. But everyday I come home the house is COMPLETELY trashed and all she does is sleep during the daytime and play ps3, and she stays up all night playing ps3 and watching tv. I bring in 90 percent of the money why cant she do anything? Am I being an asshole thinking that she should at least do something to help?