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All my wife does is sit around all day.

 
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All my wife does is sit around all day.
so I work at least 10 hour work days. the wife stays at home most of the time. she has a part time job watching someones kid. she works maybe two hours every other day (if that). I think that she should at least tidy up the house. She cant cook worth a shit so I cant expect anything like that. But everyday I come home the house is COMPLETELY trashed and all she does is sleep during the daytime and play ps3, and she stays up all night playing ps3 and watching tv. I bring in 90 percent of the money why cant she do anything? Am I being an asshole thinking that she should at least do something to help?
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06/07/2011 11:56 PM
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Re: All my wife does is sit around all day.
She sounds clinically depressed.
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06/07/2011 11:57 PM
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You married her - deal with it !
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06/07/2011 11:57 PM
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give her the flick
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06/07/2011 11:58 PM
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Re: All my wife does is sit around all day.
too bad you married her, otherwise you could just kick her out.


What worth is a wife if she just sits there and gets fat and doesn't contribute?
She's sounds like less of a companion and more like a liability.
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You married her - deal with it !
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well what the fuck do you think Im doing guy? Im talking to her about it and shes acting like im being unfair, all I need is opinions on if Im being fair or not. not your opinion on what I should do.
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06/08/2011 12:00 AM
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Re: All my wife does is sit around all day.
so I work at least 10 hour work days. the wife stays at home most of the time. she has a part time job watching someones kid. she works maybe two hours every other day (if that). I think that she should at least tidy up the house. She cant cook worth a shit so I cant expect anything like that. But everyday I come home the house is COMPLETELY trashed and all she does is sleep during the daytime and play ps3, and she stays up all night playing ps3 and watching tv. I bring in 90 percent of the money why cant she do anything? Am I being an asshole thinking that she should at least do something to help?
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Throw away the Ps3 and the tv and put a pair of walking shoes and a buss pass on the tv stand with the job ads.
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06/08/2011 12:00 AM
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Olaf will probably be glad to have her...count your lucky stars...lol

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06/08/2011 12:00 AM
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Re: All my wife does is sit around all day.
How old is your wife? and how long have you been married?
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06/08/2011 12:01 AM
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You married her - deal with it !
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well what the fuck do you think Im doing guy? Im talking to her about it and shes acting like im being unfair, all I need is opinions on if Im being fair or not. not your opinion on what I should do.
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If she's medically depressed, then, no, you are not being fair. It's like being annoyed that someone with two broken legs doesn't go jogging with you.
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Re: All my wife does is sit around all day.
so I work at least 10 hour work days. the wife stays at home most of the time. she has a part time job watching someones kid. she works maybe two hours every other day (if that). I think that she should at least tidy up the house. She cant cook worth a shit so I cant expect anything like that. But everyday I come home the house is COMPLETELY trashed and all she does is sleep during the daytime and play ps3, and she stays up all night playing ps3 and watching tv. I bring in 90 percent of the money why cant she do anything? Am I being an asshole thinking that she should at least do something to help?
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Throw away the Ps3 and the tv and put a pair of walking shoes and a buss pass on the tv stand with the job ads.
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thought about it, but then shed be on the computer all day. I cant get rid of my computer you know?
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Re: All my wife does is sit around all day.
You married her - deal with it !
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well what the fuck do you think Im doing guy? Im talking to her about it and shes acting like im being unfair, all I need is opinions on if Im being fair or not. not your opinion on what I should do.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1414716


If she's medically depressed, then, no, you are not being fair. It's like being annoyed that someone with two broken legs doesn't go jogging with you.
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shes on medication and goes to a doctor so there should be no reason for it.
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06/08/2011 12:03 AM
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Teach her how to make sammiches and fetch you beer. She will feel a new sense of self worth knowing she can make something of her otherwise useless life.
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Tell her to get a job or get out!

And password protect the computer so she can't log on, unless she's applying for jobs.
people want to believe in mysteries

is the truth so bad?
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06/08/2011 12:04 AM
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Re: All my wife does is sit around all day.
Look her straight in the eyes. Make sure she is looking back at you. Do not let her turn away.

Tell her how hurt and worried you are about your future together. Explain the specifics of your grievance in a calm, non-condescending way. Tell her "we are in this together" it cant be "you versus me".

If she dismisses the conversation or tells you to fuck off, end it now.
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06/08/2011 12:06 AM
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Re: All my wife does is sit around all day.
You married her - deal with it !
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well what the fuck do you think Im doing guy? Im talking to her about it and shes acting like im being unfair, all I need is opinions on if Im being fair or not. not your opinion on what I should do.
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You know your wife better than I do - what do you want me to say ? OK here is some touchy felly stuff :

Find a priest or pastor and discuss your problems
Take a vacation and find your inner selves

Whatever...
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06/08/2011 12:06 AM
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Re: All my wife does is sit around all day.
That's the point of being married. You can tidy up the house yourself on the weekends.
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06/08/2011 12:09 AM
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Re: All my wife does is sit around all day.
That's the point of being married. You can tidy up the house yourself on the weekends.
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Ive been working weekends lately.
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06/08/2011 12:09 AM
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Re: All my wife does is sit around all day.
You married her - deal with it !
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well what the fuck do you think Im doing guy? Im talking to her about it and shes acting like im being unfair, all I need is opinions on if Im being fair or not. not your opinion on what I should do.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1414716


If she's medically depressed, then, no, you are not being fair. It's like being annoyed that someone with two broken legs doesn't go jogging with you.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1322813


shes on medication and goes to a doctor so there should be no reason for it.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1414716


Medication takes time to work -- if it ever does. I know it's frustrating on your end; it IS unfair that you basically do it all, but then again, she can't help it.

I wish I had answers for you.
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06/08/2011 12:15 AM
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Re: All my wife does is sit around all day.
The one who stays home the most should do most of the basic chores, such as vacuuming, dishes, cooking, etc. other chores such as bathroom cleaning, laundry, etc can be split up.

Let her know you just want to see her making an effort to appreciate your long days at work. Youre not being unreasonable.
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06/08/2011 12:16 AM
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Re: All my wife does is sit around all day.
She sounds clinically depressed.
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Here's your answer right here.
Deal with it, and help her.
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06/08/2011 12:26 AM
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Re: All my wife does is sit around all day.
let your balls drop

toss the ps3..its material shit-causing major disruptions

cancel the cable

tell your little schnitzle to either get productive OR to get herself a lawyer

come on man...stop the bleeding already
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06/08/2011 12:28 AM
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Teach her how to make sammiches and fetch you beer. She will feel a new sense of self worth knowing she can make something of her otherwise useless life.
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lol hahahaha
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06/08/2011 12:29 AM
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Re: All my wife does is sit around all day.
Download or rent some episodes of the Odd Couple, watch them together.

some people are just slobs. They don't meant to be, they just don't know how they should organize things.
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Re: All my wife does is sit around all day.
so I work at least 10 hour work days. the wife stays at home most of the time. she has a part time job watching someones kid. she works maybe two hours every other day (if that). I think that she should at least tidy up the house. She cant cook worth a shit so I cant expect anything like that. But everyday I come home the house is COMPLETELY trashed and all she does is sleep during the daytime and play ps3, and she stays up all night playing ps3 and watching tv. I bring in 90 percent of the money why cant she do anything? Am I being an asshole thinking that she should at least do something to help?
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06/08/2011 12:35 AM
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wakeup
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You married her - deal with it !
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well what the fuck do you think Im doing guy? Im talking to her about it and shes acting like im being unfair, all I need is opinions on if Im being fair or not. not your opinion on what I should do.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1414716


If she's medically depressed, then, no, you are not being fair. It's like being annoyed that someone with two broken legs doesn't go jogging with you.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1322813


shes on medication and goes to a doctor so there should be no reason for it.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1414716




Anti-depressant medication is not magic. Only about 60% of people taking it get significant relief of symptoms, and even of those, most do not get full relief. Get her back to the doctor. She may need to have her medication changed, and she may need to have additional therapy.

I'm serious. This isn't a marital problem, it's almost certainly a chemical imbalance in your wife's brain that hasn't been adequately treated.
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06/08/2011 12:41 AM
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First, you are not alone. In my neighborhood, it seems like either the wife or husband is in this spot. Of course, its labeled as depression, sign of the times, whatever; but, you can't just dump and run like so many suggest. You are with her for a reason. With your limited time, try to get some help for yourself first. Tell her that her actions are draining you and that you need her to help you by helping herself.

Since I know you are not alone, maybe you should start some sort of support group. I bet you'd have half your town show up the first night.

Good luck. Try prayer, meditation for yourself. Ask God, the universe for help.
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so I work at least 10 hour work days. the wife stays at home most of the time. she has a part time job watching someones kid. she works maybe two hours every other day (if that). I think that she should at least tidy up the house. She cant cook worth a shit so I cant expect anything like that. But everyday I come home the house is COMPLETELY trashed and all she does is sleep during the daytime and play ps3, and she stays up all night playing ps3 and watching tv. I bring in 90 percent of the money why cant she do anything? Am I being an asshole thinking that she should at least do something to help?
 Quoting: help 1414716


OOOOoooooOOOoooo

whats her Playstation handle? tell her download: "supersonic acrobatic rocket powered battle cars" cruise




srsly tho.....

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