All my wife does is sit around all day.

She sounds clinically depressed.

You married her - deal with it !

give her the flick

too bad you married her, otherwise you could just kick her out.


What worth is a wife if she just sits there and gets fat and doesn't contribute?
She's sounds like less of a companion and more like a liability.

well what the fuck do you think Im doing guy? Im talking to her about it and shes acting like im being unfair, all I need is opinions on if Im being fair or not. not your opinion on what I should do.

Throw away the Ps3 and the tv and put a pair of walking shoes and a buss pass on the tv stand with the job ads.

Olaf will probably be glad to have her...count your lucky stars...lol

How old is your wife? and how long have you been married?

If she's medically depressed, then, no, you are not being fair. It's like being annoyed that someone with two broken legs doesn't go jogging with you.

thought about it, but then shed be on the computer all day. I cant get rid of my computer you know?

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shes on medication and goes to a doctor so there should be no reason for it.

Teach her how to make sammiches and fetch you beer. She will feel a new sense of self worth knowing she can make something of her otherwise useless life.

Tell her to get a job or get out!

And password protect the computer so she can't log on, unless she's applying for jobs.

Look her straight in the eyes. Make sure she is looking back at you. Do not let her turn away.

Tell her how hurt and worried you are about your future together. Explain the specifics of your grievance in a calm, non-condescending way. Tell her "we are in this together" it cant be "you versus me".

If she dismisses the conversation or tells you to fuck off, end it now.

You know your wife better than I do - what do you want me to say ? OK here is some touchy felly stuff :

Find a priest or pastor and discuss your problems
Take a vacation and find your inner selves

Whatever...

That's the point of being married. You can tidy up the house yourself on the weekends.

Ive been working weekends lately.

Medication takes time to work -- if it ever does. I know it's frustrating on your end; it IS unfair that you basically do it all, but then again, she can't help it.

I wish I had answers for you.

The one who stays home the most should do most of the basic chores, such as vacuuming, dishes, cooking, etc. other chores such as bathroom cleaning, laundry, etc can be split up.

Let her know you just want to see her making an effort to appreciate your long days at work. Youre not being unreasonable.

Here's your answer right here.
Deal with it, and help her.

let your balls drop

toss the ps3..its material shit-causing major disruptions

cancel the cable

tell your little schnitzle to either get productive OR to get herself a lawyer

come on man...stop the bleeding already

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Download or rent some episodes of the Odd Couple, watch them together.

some people are just slobs. They don't meant to be, they just don't know how they should organize things.

He who puts down his wife only puts himself down. If your right arm causes you to sin...cut it off.

Anti-depressant medication is not magic. Only about 60% of people taking it get significant relief of symptoms, and even of those, most do not get full relief. Get her back to the doctor. She may need to have her medication changed, and she may need to have additional therapy.

I'm serious. This isn't a marital problem, it's almost certainly a chemical imbalance in your wife's brain that hasn't been adequately treated.

First, you are not alone. In my neighborhood, it seems like either the wife or husband is in this spot. Of course, its labeled as depression, sign of the times, whatever; but, you can't just dump and run like so many suggest. You are with her for a reason. With your limited time, try to get some help for yourself first. Tell her that her actions are draining you and that you need her to help you by helping herself.

Since I know you are not alone, maybe you should start some sort of support group. I bet you'd have half your town show up the first night.

Good luck. Try prayer, meditation for yourself. Ask God, the universe for help.

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whats her Playstation handle? tell her download: "supersonic acrobatic rocket powered battle cars"




srsly tho.....