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andawg221

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You married her - deal with it !
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well what the fuck do you think Im doing guy? Im talking to her about it and shes acting like im being unfair, all I need is opinions on if Im being fair or not. not your opinion on what I should do.
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If she's medically depressed, then, no, you are not being fair. It's like being annoyed that someone with two broken legs doesn't go jogging with you.
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shes on medication and goes to a doctor so there should be no reason for it.
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Right Dick, cause meds are fucking miracles! She's cured, I would tell her to piss off. douche
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I have a similar story, I've been on both ends of this one.
When My husband and I first moved out together I worked as a manager putting in 40hrs and more every week.
He had gotten fired so he was at home during this.
I would come home to a messy house after work, have to clean and cook dinner while he laid around playing video games.
Sex was around 1-2 times per week.
This continued for several years and during that time he would work some but video games took up most of his time.
He rarely ever cleaned up after himself. the house, or pets.
Sex dropped to 1-2 times per month.
Then I had a sick relative who was homeless and a alcoholic move in a few years ago.
Seeing him destroy himself took alot out of me plus having to take care of him, the house, and pets while my husband played games and didn't work.
After the relative died another moved that was also an alcoholic who died a year to the day the other relative who was her brother did.
Watching 2 people I loved die depressed the hell out of me and left me empty but it didn't matter to my husband evidently because anytime I tried to tell him how unhappy I was he shrugged it off.
During these years of seeing him stay up all night playing video games, withholding sex because the gaming was more important to him, and distancing himself further from me further compounded my depression.
Now a couple of years later I still have not worked and he has went from job to job getting fired and only in the past 6 months held a steady job.
I usually cook, clean, and take care of pets everyday.
He comes home and within the hour it looks like I haven't cleaned at all.
He won't take care of the pets, won't clean up after himself, and we have sex maybe once every couple months or so.
When I try to talk to him about it he gets defensive with me and doesn't want to talk.
He makes snide remarks about me doing nothing and him being the one working.
He gets mad now when I stay up all night on the computer and when he initiates sex I no longer want it from him.
I warned him years ago that he was going to keep pushing me away until the tables turned and it happens to him which it did.
Now I don't know why I stay.......
I am still just as depressed and unhappy as hell.
The thing that sucks worse is he used to be my best friend now we argue more than anything.
So op I suggest you talk to her, listen to what she has to say and look deep inside your own self to see if you may be the cause of some of her depression.
Save this marriage if you can.
Love is worth so much more than money.
It wasn't all that long ago when men wanted to take care of their spouses and wanted the spouses to take care of the home.
They came home tired but ready to spend time with their family.
Now they come home tired, plug into whatever device that can make then unplug from their life and family.
It's a lonely world even when you're married it seems.
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Well, you showed him! First you guys were miserable, cause of him. Now you guys are miserable cause you need to prove your point of how bad it was?

Maybe one of you will die, and that will be who wins.
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...

I've been told she's got dry vomit around her lips.
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A bath or paper bag over her face I hear it works rockon
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You don't dare ask her for a blowjob, eh?
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B.J. are overrated
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So are Lamborghinis Dick
Anonymous Coward
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12/13/2012 06:21 AM
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Re: All my wife does is sit around all day.
Why keep beating a dead horse.

She is not going to change. No matter how tired she is, if she cared for you at all she would see to trying to make you happy. Turn off the TV sport...the show is over.

You never mentioned kids...so pack up and visit someone. Tell her to call when the place is clean and she is ready to work with you.

If she wants you she will come around. If not, get a lawyer and start again. Next time...no wedding. Put some value on yourself. She needs the change too. Maybe you just bore her to death.

Move on.
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Throw away the Ps3 and the tv and put a pair of walking shoes and a buss pass on the tv stand with the job ads.
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9teen Sounds about right to me. Just think what it will be like if you have kids and she's like this.

PS: The nice guy never wins, they just get taken advantage of.

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so I work at least 10 hour work days. the wife stays at home most of the time. she has a part time job watching someones kid. she works maybe two hours every other day (if that). I think that she should at least tidy up the house. She cant cook worth a shit so I cant expect anything like that. But everyday I come home the house is COMPLETELY trashed and all she does is sleep during the daytime and play ps3, and she stays up all night playing ps3 and watching tv. I bring in 90 percent of the money why cant she do anything? Am I being an asshole thinking that she should at least do something to help?
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How is she in the sack?
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12/13/2012 06:33 AM
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She sounds clinically depressed.
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Yep, she most likely hates it. Loneliness, boredom and with no personal purpose or aspiration her self-esteem is bound to suffer. When one doesn't 'like' themselves, they don't care about themselves or their environment. I'd like to say what you could do to help, but only you know her and her potential.

Maybe give props more for what she does actually do and try to help build her self-esteem. And not to be too harsh, but a good woman, who loves and respects her husband would do anything for him and wants to please him. Just something to think about cause it takes two to tango and even if you don't say anything, she can still feel your disappointment in her
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sell the chairs lol
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Sell the ps3
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Sell her.
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so I work at least 10 hour work days. the wife stays at home most of the time. she has a part time job watching someones kid. she works maybe two hours every other day (if that). I think that she should at least tidy up the house. She cant cook worth a shit so I cant expect anything like that. But everyday I come home the house is COMPLETELY trashed and all she does is sleep during the daytime and play ps3, and she stays up all night playing ps3 and watching tv. I bring in 90 percent of the money why cant she do anything? Am I being an asshole thinking that she should at least do something to help?
 Quoting: help 1414716


Throw away the Ps3 and the tv and put a pair of walking shoes and a buss pass on the tv stand with the job ads.
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thought about it, but then shed be on the computer all day. I cant get rid of my computer you know?
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You CAN take the keyboard and put it in your trunk though...and if its a laptop put THAT in your trunk and tell her when the house is clean you will bring it back in! AND THROW THAT STUPID PS3 AWAY!!!! She needs a reality check and you need to make it happen.
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Look her straight in the eyes. Make sure she is looking back at you. Do not let her turn away.

Tell her how hurt and worried you are about your future together. Explain the specifics of your grievance in a calm, non-condescending way. Tell her "we are in this together" it cant be "you versus me".

If she dismisses the conversation or tells you to fuck off, end it now.
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I agree with this angle. Don't let her take it lightly so be firm but also be understanding and make her feel cared for. No one reacts well when they feel cornered. It's a long journey but if and when she comes to handle her depression, your relationship will likely be that much stronger.
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so I work at least 10 hour work days. the wife stays at home most of the time. she has a part time job watching someones kid. she works maybe two hours every other day (if that). I think that she should at least tidy up the house. She cant cook worth a shit so I cant expect anything like that. But everyday I come home the house is COMPLETELY trashed and all she does is sleep during the daytime and play ps3, and she stays up all night playing ps3 and watching tv. I bring in 90 percent of the money why cant she do anything? Am I being an asshole thinking that she should at least do something to help?
 Quoting: help 1414716


Do you get sex? That's the bigger answer to why do you put up with her..

So many guys will put up with endless abuse to have pussy privileges...
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I come home the house is COMPLETELY trashed and all she does is sleep during the daytime and play ps3, and she stays up all night playing ps3 and watching tv.
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Has she seen the doctor recently. Thyroid problems are a common cause of low grade depression.

If this is her problem, you may wish to avoid synthetic thyroid suppliments.


[link to www.webmd.com]

Levels of hormones, such as those produced by the thyroid gland, can be factors in depression. In addition, some symptoms of depression are associated with thyroid conditions. The same is true about conditions related to the menstrual cycle, such as premenstrual syndrome (PMS), perimenopause, and menopause.

Because there is this connection between depression symptoms and other medical conditions, blood tests are often ordered to avoid a misdiagnosis. It is important to note that you can have both depression and thyroid conditions at the same time. It is also possible to have depression and menstruation-related symptoms.


A naturopath may be helpful.
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I come home the house is COMPLETELY trashed and all she does is sleep during the daytime and play ps3, and she stays up all night playing ps3 and watching tv.
 Quoting: help 1414716


Has she seen the doctor recently. Thyroid problems are a common cause of low grade depression.

If this is her problem, you may wish to avoid synthetic thyroid suppliments.


[link to www.webmd.com]

Levels of hormones, such as those produced by the thyroid gland, can be factors in depression. In addition, some symptoms of depression are associated with thyroid conditions. The same is true about conditions related to the menstrual cycle, such as premenstrual syndrome (PMS), perimenopause, and menopause.

Because there is this connection between depression symptoms and other medical conditions, blood tests are often ordered to avoid a misdiagnosis. It is important to note that you can have both depression and thyroid conditions at the same time. It is also possible to have depression and menstruation-related symptoms.


A naturopath may be helpful.
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You are an ignoramus.
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05/11/2013 08:21 AM
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You married her - deal with it !
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well what the fuck do you think Im doing guy? Im talking to her about it and shes acting like im being unfair, all I need is opinions on if Im being fair or not. not your opinion on what I should do.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1414716


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Al Bundy get back to shoe store and get to work! chuckle
"Don't do anything that affects anything. Unless it turns out you were supposed to do it, in which case for the love of God. Don't not do it!"
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05/11/2013 08:29 AM
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Teach her how to make sammiches and fetch you beer. She will feel a new sense of self worth knowing she can make something of her otherwise useless life.
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this
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man, i'm sorry for you..it sounds as though you deserve better and that you are a good provider..was she always like this? marriage is a shitty trap...i perfer freedom and independence..after working so much and you paying her way through life, she should look at housework and learning to cook as her job
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Have you noticed that most of the replies are from people in the USA and your from Germany. (Just noticed that and we have two different cultures). Anyway, have you ever played a slot machine with just one quarter? Doesn't happen because the more you play the "happies" are being released in your brain and makes you want to keep playing. She is getting that "high" when she plays her ps3. Same feeling and with you complaining about it makes her want to play it even more. Just give her time and when you stop complaining is when she will stop.
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That confusing moment when 99% of the ids are blue clickables
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I have a similar story, I've been on both ends of this one.
When My husband and I first moved out together I worked as a manager putting in 40hrs and more every week.
He had gotten fired so he was at home during this.
I would come home to a messy house after work, have to clean and cook dinner while he laid around playing video games.
Sex was around 1-2 times per week.
This continued for several years and during that time he would work some but video games took up most of his time.
He rarely ever cleaned up after himself. the house, or pets.
Sex dropped to 1-2 times per month.
Then I had a sick relative who was homeless and a alcoholic move in a few years ago.
Seeing him destroy himself took alot out of me plus having to take care of him, the house, and pets while my husband played games and didn't work.
After the relative died another moved that was also an alcoholic who died a year to the day the other relative who was her brother did.
Watching 2 people I loved die depressed the hell out of me and left me empty but it didn't matter to my husband evidently because anytime I tried to tell him how unhappy I was he shrugged it off.
During these years of seeing him stay up all night playing video games, withholding sex because the gaming was more important to him, and distancing himself further from me further compounded my depression.
Now a couple of years later I still have not worked and he has went from job to job getting fired and only in the past 6 months held a steady job.
I usually cook, clean, and take care of pets everyday.
He comes home and within the hour it looks like I haven't cleaned at all.
He won't take care of the pets, won't clean up after himself, and we have sex maybe once every couple months or so.
When I try to talk to him about it he gets defensive with me and doesn't want to talk.
He makes snide remarks about me doing nothing and him being the one working.
He gets mad now when I stay up all night on the computer and when he initiates sex I no longer want it from him.
I warned him years ago that he was going to keep pushing me away until the tables turned and it happens to him which it did.
Now I don't know why I stay.......
I am still just as depressed and unhappy as hell.
The thing that sucks worse is he used to be my best friend now we argue more than anything.
So op I suggest you talk to her, listen to what she has to say and look deep inside your own self to see if you may be the cause of some of her depression.
Save this marriage if you can.
Love is worth so much more than money.
It wasn't all that long ago when men wanted to take care of their spouses and wanted the spouses to take care of the home.
They came home tired but ready to spend time with their family.
Now they come home tired, plug into whatever device that can make then unplug from their life and family.
It's a lonely world even when you're married it seems.
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Oh dear. Now I'm fucking depressed. Hey everybody, I got two words for you: LONG COURTSHIP! Pick the right one, or else!

signed,

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HAHAHAHAHA pathetic cunts.
ancients had it right.
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I had the same problem with my ex, needless to say we are divorced now. I would work 55 to 60 hours a week. All I asked is that she do the cleaning. She wouldn't. She didn't work and refused to get a job. Watch TV and play ps3 is all she did. And she would complain I wouldn't help her clean. Go figure.
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wakeup
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tounge
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I don't play video games, I work hard around the house, I like sex, I'm attractive - been single 12 years - must be a curse, lol - or I'm just extremely lucky

Guys will meet me online and be all like, WHY is someone like YOU single?

Elefino! Must just be fate


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Maybe tell her if she makes some money to pay the maid service to come around then you'll back off a bit of the demands?
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so I work at least 10 hour work days. the wife stays at home most of the time. she has a part time job watching someones kid. she works maybe two hours every other day (if that). I think that she should at least tidy up the house. She cant cook worth a shit so I cant expect anything like that. But everyday I come home the house is COMPLETELY trashed and all she does is sleep during the daytime and play ps3, and she stays up all night playing ps3 and watching tv. I bring in 90 percent of the money why cant she do anything? Am I being an asshole thinking that she should at least do something to help?
 Quoting: help 1414716


Of course, the least she could do is cook a nice meal for you, every evening, and keep the house clean. That's not asking for anything above what chores she should have, as not bringing bread to the table.
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You married her - deal with it !
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well what the fuck do you think Im doing guy? Im talking to her about it and shes acting like im being unfair, all I need is opinions on if Im being fair or not. not your opinion on what I should do.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1414716


"All compromise is based on give and take, but there can be no give and take on fundamentals. Any compromise on mere fundamentals is a surrender. For it is all give and no take." - Gandhi
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I went through this exact same shit, and have been happily divorced now for over 12 years. Was with Ms. Worthless for 7.
Id work my ass off while she would just sit there watching TV or playing with the kids' Gameboy. If you want your marriage to work, you gotta talk to her about it, or you'll be singing the same song guaranteed. I tried but she just refused or threw a fit. There should be no reason that she can't help out if you're the breadwinner, PERIOD!
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OP is screwed, hope you have a prenup
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You married her - deal with it !
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well what the fuck do you think Im doing guy? Im talking to her about it and shes acting like im being unfair, all I need is opinions on if Im being fair or not. not your opinion on what I should do.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1414716


If she's medically depressed, then, no, you are not being fair. It's like being annoyed that someone with two broken legs doesn't go jogging with you.
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shes on medication and goes to a doctor so there should be no reason for it.
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if she is on anti-depressant or any other medication that affects the mood it might be more than likely that this is a reason for her lethargy. Never underestimate the impact of messing with biochemics and mood of a person. Try for yourself to stop drinking coffee for just 2 weeks and understand what just coffee may do with your mood.

Either you let her go on one point which may trigger a effect or try to put her in a class for example where she could lern something that truly captures her interest.
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ok let me get this straight

your wife can't even cook one of the most basic of tasks, is lazy and on medication?

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