In the world of metaphysics, whats the big thing with asking questions??

I´ve spent the last ten years or so learning metaphysics and being taught by the unspoken word, so to speak, mainly synchronicities.....and it was all going so well, until I started asking questions! Now I just feel like the thorn in everybodies side...so with that in mind, I´m gonna ask this question.....

What is the big thing about asking questions??

When I do ask questions, I do get answers but not in a direct way! So whats the crack with that? Is it down to the individual or person who is learning lifes lessons? to go as far as he can go on his own intuition, without the help of others? Is that what its about? Not interfering in freewill? Because I would really like to know!