Wife is pregnant, but I had a vasectomy over 10 years ago.

Good for you, but none of that has anything to do with if another woman is cheating.

Why would you assume? Come on...OP still has a mullet and OP says she harped on him to change? Why would she give a flying f##k if she didn't want him cause she was running another man? Irritated by him rubbing her neck....sounds like OP thinks he is a great catch. I reacted the same to my ex and I got pregnant and was not cheating.

Also...what is lately? Maybe she is hormonal because she is pregnant. OP just needs to go to the doc and check for swimmers. It only takes one to make a baby.

OP you better come back and tell us the results.

It doesn't look good ..with her being all unhappy with you and now this.. fuck...I vote paternity test or pack your shit..she can get pissed about it.. but she can't refuse.. it will look bad for her.. you have every reason to question the pregnancy and no reason not too.. GL

She actually said "Miracle Baby"?

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there is another option besides abortion ... and that is ADOPTION ... let her live the rest of her life knowing that her "miracle child" is being raised by someone else or let her go raise it on her own ... if she pitches a bitch, let her go or divorce her ass BEFORE THAT CHILD IS BORN!

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:grda:There may very well have been partial to even full regeneration over the past 15 years.

Though I appreciate all of your comments I feel I need to make you all understand my situation better and the woman herself. I met my wife the first day of University. We married when we were 25. She has been a loving companion, mother, friend. She is succesful in her career as a ceo and not the floozy you all speak of. She has taken care of the home,the kids and has been there for me when I needed her most. She is a strong,thoughful, compasionate, firecraker of a women whom I have a profound love and admiration for. We are on equal playing fields and she is truly one in a million and I consider myself one lucky bastard! Not only has she managed the household, child rearing, a successful company, but she has also single handedly built a wildlife refuge on our land which she funds by fundraising events. This is a woman who drove 5 hours through the night to save an orphan bear cub. Of course I step up and help her when she needs me but she has much pride and is fiercly independant.

I have been thinking alot today and with a little clarity I have decided to be there regardless. This baby is not at fault and I will be a father again! But I have an appointment Tuesday to test for swimmers. I have asked for an ultrasound from her. If there is 100% no sperm, I will demand a DNA and an answer and appology and a new commitment. If There are sperm, EVEN ONE, I will hold my breath and not question. The child will be mine regardless of biology and I dont need to know who the donor is as long as he is out of the picture. I am done with feeling sorry for myself these last 15 hours. She is not entitiled to a mistake but she is still my partner and friend.

My own husband recannulated. We found out before we had a unexpected pregnancy. I'd get your sperm checked. Don't be so suspicious.

Though I appreciate all of your comments I feel I need to make you all understand my situation better and the woman herself. I met my wife the first day of University. We married when we were 25. She has been a loving companion, mother, friend. She is succesful in her career as a ceo and not the floozy you all speak of. She has taken care of the home,the kids and has been there for me when I needed her most. She is a strong,thoughful, compasionate, firecraker of a women whom I have a profound love and admiration for. We are on equal playing fields and she is truly one in a million and I consider myself one lucky bastard! Not only has she managed the household, child rearing, a successful company, but she has also single handedly built a wildlife refuge on our land which she funds by fundraising events. This is a woman who drove 5 hours through the night to save an orphan bear cub. Of course I step up and help her when she needs me but she has much pride and is fiercly independant.

I have been thinking alot today and with a little clarity I have decided to be there regardless. This baby is not at fault and I will be a father again! But I have an appointment Tuesday to test for swimmers. I have asked for an ultrasound from her. If there is 100% no sperm, I will demand a DNA and an answer and appology and a new commitment. If There are sperm, EVEN ONE, I will hold my breath and not question. The child will be mine regardless of biology and I dont need to know who the donor is as long as he is out of the picture. I am done with feeling sorry for myself these last 15 hours. She is not entitiled to a mistake but she is still my partner and friend.

get checked.. if it turns out you cant possibly be the father.. do what she did.. sit her down and tell her how you found out the baby really is a miracle.. because you cant possibly be the father.. then tell her youre going to turn your house into a church to worship her miracle womb and the blessed return of Jesus that she will no doubt be having..... then grab a sledge hammer and start knocking down walls.. when she protests tell her.. "but where will i put all the pews?