The hardest part of an ended relationship is the promise that seems to be gone.

But my friend, the Promise of a peaceful life with someone you love is still there. It's still possible.

You attached a lot of characteristics to her that she didn't possess. Learning that they weren't in her, makes you feel like you'll never have someone with those characteristics... but that's not true.

You haven't lost the promise of a bright future with a person you love. I know it feels that way right now, but if you truly wanted to be with HER, and not with your DREAM of her... you would be.

Let her go, keep the dream.



I'm so sorry you're hurting so much.