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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1485201  United States07/27/2011 06:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 1485201 United States07/27/2011 06:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't know how to handle the backstabbing. I don't like the evilness that resides there. I can't quit since my family relies on me. I am hoping for others, who are desperate to keep the only job that's available. There's nothing else. I have been applying at other places, including fast food/janitor/etc. I have had 3 interviews in the last year. How do you block their negative energy? I appreciate the honesty. I want to quit, but the bills will keep coming. |
| ObeWayneKenobe User ID: 1330622 United States07/27/2011 06:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | How do you block their negative energy? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1485201By surrounding yourself with a brighter Light-Shield! Before going to work, see yourself filled with Light........when you can LOVE your enemy, more that you Love yourself, then you will have arrived! |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1485224 United States07/27/2011 06:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1476882 United States07/27/2011 07:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Completely ignore them.. don't let what they say get to you. My manager is a nice woman, but during work she can turn into a complete lunatic. 2 weeks ago she singled me out and screamed at me infront of everyone, over a minimal mistake which was my first in 6 months of working there. I was ready to quit, but I have to stay for the same reasons as you. Now, I can't really stay angry.. at anyone.. so this all passed pretty quickly, and now we're on good terms again. I know my situation isn't the same as yours but I hope I can help. Really, really try when at work to just ignore ANYTHING negative. If something pops up, immediately change your thoughts. Just try and think positive as much as possible, find something to distract you're mind. You CAN ignore them, stop telling yourself you can't, thats part of the problem. Mind over matter. Just know that you live a beautiful life, and your manager can enjoy their power trip for now, but a few years down the road just know they'll be a sad, mean old man, whereas you have you're whole life in front of you. This job is nothing but a stepping stone for something greater, think of it as that. While you're there think about anything but the job, distract yourself. Go there, do your job, go home, ignore anyone you deem worthy of ignoring and And/or smoking weed also helps. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 933188 United States07/27/2011 07:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I know I should be thankful for having a job. But I am getting physically ill from it. Mentally, I am losing it. I feel like the main manager I have to deal with is demonic. No one really sees their evil like I do, since I work with them constantly. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1485201I think this person enjoys making my life hell. He does favoritism, and makes sure everyone knows it's not me. He blows up at me for little things, like how I constructed a question, why I tried to help him put away things, he said he didn't need my help, and he would write me up if I helped. I would quit, but THERE ARE NO OTHER JOBS. I thought about unemployment, since I am having to take a pepto bismal and asprin for work everyday now. I don't want psych meds, since I am sure that's what they'll say I will have to be on since the job drove me to it. I know I shouldn't care what they think, but I am bullied constantly. I can't ignore them, since they are in my work area at all times. I don't know how to be peaceful anymore. Anytime the manager brings a problem up, I just try to give quick answers, and keep my head down. And now, they are saying I am the problem. Everyone at my job knows he's evil, but they don't want to jeopardize their jobs and say anything. I feel alone, and I don't know how to find peace. I am hoping for others experiences with this. I know no job is perfect, but this is insanity. All people are evil..just wait until a disaster or collapse and you will see just how evil they can be. Grow up and learn to live with them..learn some anti evil techniques and be a man/woman/homo |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1478167 United States07/27/2011 07:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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| LogicTroll User ID: 1402574 United States07/27/2011 07:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | do something awesome to prove you're superior to him, and take a write up like a man. I'm not sayin serve up a hearty ass whoopin' or anything, but retaliate verbally and make him look like a douche or something, make fun at his expense in front of other people. Stand up for yourself. tl;dr stop eating shit everyday and be a man. you can consider this thread: LogicTrolled |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1113553 United States07/27/2011 07:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I recommend prayer. Seriously. Pray for your enemies. It does wonders for your attitude and peace of mind. Also, you may be amazed at the changes in those you are praying for. I've seen it happen. Also, pray for God to either open another door for you or give you peace inside this one. God cares. You are not alone. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1280771 United States07/27/2011 07:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have suffered what you are suffering. Please don't feel alone. You are certainly not. I apologize to you for those who are being EVIL on this site. They are jerks and you don't deserve to be treated that way at all. I had to quit the job I was at because, well frankly, I got to the point that I was "jerking" like PTSD even when I was awake. That started happening after my dad died, but it was only at night. This drove me to start having episodes like this during the day. Some people are very evil and they live among us and look normal, but if you have The Holy Spirit inside you and trust in Jesus Christ, they will sense it and treat you really bad. I pray you love Jesus Christ. Just stay with Him and you may have to look for another job. Try not to quit until you find something else, but maybe even the act of looking for something else will help with the burden you are currently suffering. At least you will be doing something to actively remove yourself from this abuse. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1439417 United States07/27/2011 07:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1485178  Canada07/27/2011 07:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Quit and if you really can't find a job, go into business for yourself, or go find work in a better country. Before you quit, play some pranks on the worst of them. Nothing too aggressive but just to really make you laugh. After you quit spill your beans about everything illegal and unethical you've ever seen them do. That should do it - transition over, pride intact, bullies lose. This will take balls. Good luck OP!  |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1484932  Greece07/27/2011 07:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I know I should be thankful for having a job. But I am getting physically ill from it. Mentally, I am losing it. I feel like the main manager I have to deal with is demonic. No one really sees their evil like I do, since I work with them constantly. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1485201I think this person enjoys making my life hell. He does favoritism, and makes sure everyone knows it's not me. He blows up at me for little things, like how I constructed a question, why I tried to help him put away things, he said he didn't need my help, and he would write me up if I helped. I would quit, but THERE ARE NO OTHER JOBS. I thought about unemployment, since I am having to take a pepto bismal and asprin for work everyday now. I don't want psych meds, since I am sure that's what they'll say I will have to be on since the job drove me to it. I know I shouldn't care what they think, but I am bullied constantly. I can't ignore them, since they are in my work area at all times. I don't know how to be peaceful anymore. Anytime the manager brings a problem up, I just try to give quick answers, and keep my head down. And now, they are saying I am the problem. Everyone at my job knows he's evil, but they don't want to jeopardize their jobs and say anything. I feel alone, and I don't know how to find peace. I am hoping for others experiences with this. I know no job is perfect, but this is insanity. get the fuck out of there. you currently don't have the strength to prevent the energetic vampires from sucking you dry. find a job elsewhere. it will be much easier to find a job while still employed, than after they fire you, which they will sooner or later. get you field fixed on systemic constellations, so you stop ending up in such situations. what, hey you asked. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1485258 United States07/27/2011 07:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1485258 United States07/27/2011 07:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I know I should be thankful for having a job. But I am getting physically ill from it. Mentally, I am losing it. I feel like the main manager I have to deal with is demonic. No one really sees their evil like I do, since I work with them constantly. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1485201I think this person enjoys making my life hell. He does favoritism, and makes sure everyone knows it's not me. He blows up at me for little things, like how I constructed a question, why I tried to help him put away things, he said he didn't need my help, and he would write me up if I helped. I would quit, but THERE ARE NO OTHER JOBS. I thought about unemployment, since I am having to take a pepto bismal and asprin for work everyday now. I don't want psych meds, since I am sure that's what they'll say I will have to be on since the job drove me to it. I know I shouldn't care what they think, but I am bullied constantly. I can't ignore them, since they are in my work area at all times. I don't know how to be peaceful anymore. Anytime the manager brings a problem up, I just try to give quick answers, and keep my head down. And now, they are saying I am the problem. Everyone at my job knows he's evil, but they don't want to jeopardize their jobs and say anything. I feel alone, and I don't know how to find peace. I am hoping for others experiences with this. I know no job is perfect, but this is insanity. get the fuck out of there. you currently don't have the strength to prevent the energetic vampires from sucking you dry. find a job elsewhere. it will be much easier to find a job while still employed, than after they fire you, which they will sooner or later. get you field fixed on systemic constellations, so you stop ending up in such situations. what, hey you asked. Hey guy from Greece, what did you mean by this "get you field fixed on systemic constellations" Because I have the same exact problem everywhere I go. 47 or so jobs in 25 years. I feel like Im stuck in a fractal spiritual pattern. Your comment is very interesting and I would love to learn more please. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1484932 Greece07/27/2011 07:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't know how to handle the backstabbing. I don't like the evilness that resides there. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1485201I can't quit since my family relies on me. I am hoping for others, who are desperate to keep the only job that's available. There's nothing else. I have been applying at other places, including fast food/janitor/etc. I have had 3 interviews in the last year. How do you block their negative energy? I appreciate the honesty. I want to quit, but the bills will keep coming. ah. practice thoughtfullness meditation (make your 3rd eye stronger) with breadth control, plus chakras. but i predict that you won't handle the energy, and kick some asses at work, then being sorry for it. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1274706 United States07/27/2011 07:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | work with evil people, how do I rise above? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1485201You invoke the power of Satan to lay waste to your enemies. If that doesn't work you invoke the power of TPTB and call down fire from above and consume their fornicating alien vessels of wrath. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1484932 Greece07/27/2011 07:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I know I should be thankful for having a job. But I am getting physically ill from it. Mentally, I am losing it. I feel like the main manager I have to deal with is demonic. No one really sees their evil like I do, since I work with them constantly. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1485201I think this person enjoys making my life hell. He does favoritism, and makes sure everyone knows it's not me. He blows up at me for little things, like how I constructed a question, why I tried to help him put away things, he said he didn't need my help, and he would write me up if I helped. I would quit, but THERE ARE NO OTHER JOBS. I thought about unemployment, since I am having to take a pepto bismal and asprin for work everyday now. I don't want psych meds, since I am sure that's what they'll say I will have to be on since the job drove me to it. I know I shouldn't care what they think, but I am bullied constantly. I can't ignore them, since they are in my work area at all times. I don't know how to be peaceful anymore. Anytime the manager brings a problem up, I just try to give quick answers, and keep my head down. And now, they are saying I am the problem. Everyone at my job knows he's evil, but they don't want to jeopardize their jobs and say anything. I feel alone, and I don't know how to find peace. I am hoping for others experiences with this. I know no job is perfect, but this is insanity. get the fuck out of there. you currently don't have the strength to prevent the energetic vampires from sucking you dry. find a job elsewhere. it will be much easier to find a job while still employed, than after they fire you, which they will sooner or later. get you field fixed on systemic constellations, so you stop ending up in such situations. what, hey you asked. Hey guy from Greece, what did you mean by this "get you field fixed on systemic constellations" Because I have the same exact problem everywhere I go. 47 or so jobs in 25 years. I feel like Im stuck in a fractal spiritual pattern. Your comment is very interesting and I would love to learn more please. don't know how it works in the US - but in EU there's a network of certified practitioners, they call it "one brain" - but the method doesn't have to be tied for that. do some googling, but wikipedia being a satanic front-end, is heavily skewing this info, because this is one thing that really really works. perhaps you can do a search here: [link to www2.hellinger.com] anyway the keywords are either "systemic constellations" or "familly constellations", basically the same thing. bert hellinger learned the method from the zulu tribe in africa (go figure). hope this helps. just do it, try it out, you will be blasted away. it's more real than real. |
| FieryFlies User ID: 1482066 United States07/27/2011 07:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I know I should be thankful for having a job. But I am getting physically ill from it. Mentally, I am losing it. I feel like the main manager I have to deal with is demonic. No one really sees their evil like I do, since I work with them constantly. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1485201I think this person enjoys making my life hell. He does favoritism, and makes sure everyone knows it's not me. He blows up at me for little things, like how I constructed a question, why I tried to help him put away things, he said he didn't need my help, and he would write me up if I helped. I would quit, but THERE ARE NO OTHER JOBS. I thought about unemployment, since I am having to take a pepto bismal and asprin for work everyday now. I don't want psych meds, since I am sure that's what they'll say I will have to be on since the job drove me to it. I know I shouldn't care what they think, but I am bullied constantly. I can't ignore them, since they are in my work area at all times. I don't know how to be peaceful anymore. Anytime the manager brings a problem up, I just try to give quick answers, and keep my head down. And now, they are saying I am the problem. Everyone at my job knows he's evil, but they don't want to jeopardize their jobs and say anything. I feel alone, and I don't know how to find peace. I am hoping for others experiences with this. I know no job is perfect, but this is insanity. I know what you mean, I've been there myself. The breaking point for me was when a co-worker physically attacked me, after she repeatedly bullied me. I informed my GM and he refused to send her home that day. . . I was the one who went home. But yes, I remember it all, it was making me feel ill and I dreaded coming in every day. I don't miss that at all. Fortunately, I was able to quit. If you can't find another job somewhere else. . . I'm sorry to hear that, just know you're not alone. Have a hug-  A Stubborn Libertarian. Neither left, nor right, A Proud Texan. Veritas Liberabit Vos. |
| SouthrnPreper User ID: 1303938 United States07/27/2011 07:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | How do you block their negative energy? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1485201By surrounding yourself with a brighter Light-Shield! Before going to work, see yourself filled with Light........when you can LOVE your enemy, more that you Love yourself, then you will have arrived! Benjamin Franklin left the Constitutional Convention in 1787, He was approached by a Mrs. Powell, who asked him, "What have you given us, Dr. Franklin?" "A Republic," he replied, "If you can keep it. "If you want to make someone angry, tell him a lie; if you want to make him furious, tell him the truth. All truth passes through three stages. First, it is ridiculed, second it is violently opposed, and third, it is accepted as self-evident". - A. Schopenhauer Philosopher" [link to www.youtube.com] |
