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My friend's girlfriend.

 
mael
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My friend's girlfriend.
Basically, he's been with her for eight years, and during that time she has never been with another man.

She's very attractive, and gets some attention.

She's very 'feminine' and logic and sensibility can evaporate in a flash if her emotions get stirred.

Over the eight years she has had plenty of fantasies about other men, and just recently a man has made a direct approach and the guy's got a lady who likes to act like a match-maker, and things are being arranged so my friend's g/f is being set up.

My friend is married, but he hasn't lived with his wife for eight years (she refuses to divorce).

*

My friend was a bit out of sorts because he knows she can easily get 'emotional,' and if she continues as she is then she'll end up having sex with him and then most likely it'll become too complicated to continue so she'll be left to go her own way (maybe with the prospective new guy).

My friend doesn't talk much about it but tonight he was really opening up about his concern. The situation he is in is that he sees her every day, and she lives with her mother. He is in effect the man of the house, though not on paper. Recently her mother noticed a new visitor to their shop and afterwards quizzed her daughter about it because she feels wary of him ... it's obvious he wants to do her.

Anyway - thing is - she is a bit kinky - as he is. She's no stranger to men in general and before she was with my friend she always had different guys when the mood took her. The difference was that she was living in a big city. Now she's living on a small island and the guy who(s making moves on her is a local guy. This coupled with the fact that she's got a matchmaker steering events means that the rumours and the gossip will start, and my friend will have to step out of the way. My friend and her are very discrete with outsiders and everything is proper in the public eye.

She apparently said she'd really like to 'try' another guy, and wants my friend to understand. From what I gather my friend treats her like a princess and she cums several times every night. He mused that even if the sex is fantastic, even fantastic sex can be routine, and having sex with someone who may be far less able is still exciting by virtue of the new person being ... new and different.

If someone wants to give an opinion I will try to consider to consider what others think and then think some more and talk to my friend again.

I know this person very well and I think I can supply more info if necessary.

... But hurry!
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:stressed:
-My karma ran over your dogma-

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mael (OP)

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08/05/2011 04:11 PM
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Not like that at all. small and pert.
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08/05/2011 04:16 PM
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WEll, they are not living together but still having sex

BAD SIGN!

If there are no children, I would highly suggest everyone stop thinking about their own selfish asses and so what is going to have the greatest positive outcome for all involved.

I do not know what that is.

She no longer loves your friend, just using him.
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08/05/2011 04:19 PM
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so your friend should just fall out of love and use her for his own pleasure

find another woman and keep her on the side, you can't turn a ho into a housewife
mael (OP)

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08/05/2011 04:27 PM
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WEll, they are not living together but still having sex

BAD SIGN!

If there are no children, I would highly suggest everyone stop thinking about their own selfish asses and so what is going to have the greatest positive outcome for all involved.

I do not know what that is.

She no longer loves your friend, just using him.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1446916


He sleeps with her. He does all the jobs around the place that she and her mother can't.

No children.

I suppose theoretically she might have found Mr Right, and my friend might be doing the best thing if he leaves her - to try with the single (?) new guy because he might be able to offer her more security, and obviously he would not have to avoid dates in public.

There's no doubt there's quite a bit of using on her part. But my friend accepts this providing he isn't sharing her.

Actually he said he had been thinking about how to go about finding another woman tonight. I've known him this past eight years, and I have seen him go from several girlfriends down to only her over the years.

So I'm pretty certain he hasn't found anyone he likes more, so even though the best thing for him to do is to get out of the relationship before things get messy - and find another girl, I strongly suspect he will miss the girl he is with now.

He said it wouldn't be so bad if she had a one-nighter whilst on a long trip somewhere - or maybe a quick fling with someone who doesn't live on the island. But a local guy in the equation and the matchmaker hovering around means the potential for problems is pretty high.
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If you can't even be honest and admit it, don't do it. And, don't expect us to applaud your actions...cuckolding your "best friend".
mael (OP)

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08/05/2011 04:36 PM
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so your friend should just fall out of love and use her for his own pleasure

find another woman and keep her on the side, you can't turn a ho into a housewife
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1301689


He doesn't want a housewife. I think he wants her primarily for sex. I believe she views him similarly.

They go about their daily lives and when the day is over they get together and make love, talk and relax.

They don't often go on dates, but if they do then it's to a place where the risk of being seen are low.

* Actually I think she really was a whore at some time when she was in the big smoke. I am sure she has been faithful to my friend all this time because he knows her very well and can give her what she wants. But of course he can't give her a different penis to play with.

They have done stuff like role-playing in the past - but this time it seems she is really keen on doing it for real

I said she's a big girl and knows what she is doing, and having sex with another guy isn't necessarily the end of the world, and that maybe in some strange way - it might make them closer - but that sounds a bit sado-masochist now I come to think of it.
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If you can't even be honest and admit it, don't do it. And, don't expect us to applaud your actions...cuckolding your "best friend".
 Quoting: weegie


I don't understand.
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08/05/2011 04:43 PM
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Sounds like the makings of a great party if you can get everyone together in the same place.
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08/05/2011 04:46 PM
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You should have divorced your wife and made the relationship legit (I mean your "friend"). Since you are married, you shouldn't be banging another woman.

You are married - she should be able to enjoy the same...

Get out of the way.
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If you can't even be honest and admit it, don't do it. And, don't expect us to applaud your actions...cuckolding your "best friend".
 Quoting: weegie


I don't understand.
 Quoting: mael


Implying YOU are the new penis to play with
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08/05/2011 04:48 PM
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Can you perhaps insert fake names for the people you are talking about...I am totally confused, this sounds like a completly fucked up relationship anyways....who gets married and doesnt live together and sneaks around for dates....seriously i'm lost...

BTW...either you are referring to your own situation or you have a weird obsession with your friend and the details of his personal life.

weird...
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Sounds like the makings of a great party if you can get everyone together in the same place.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1491869


In my own experience I've had a couple of g/f who I knew cheated on me. In my case I wasn't bothered on one of the occasions because I had become uninterested in that girl.

But the other one did bother me - she arranged to meet an old b/f from years back and after he left I never got back with her. Probably a good thing in retrospect.

I know my friend actively sabotaged his relationships with his other girls in the past so he could be with the one he has been with for the past eight years.

So now he has all his eggs in one basket. I don't think it'll be easy to find another lady of her calibre in a hurry.
mael (OP)

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08/05/2011 04:54 PM
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Re: My friend's girlfriend.
You should have divorced your wife and made the relationship legit (I mean your "friend"). Since you are married, you shouldn't be banging another woman.

You are married - she should be able to enjoy the same...

Get out of the way.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1495173


She refuses to divorce as far as I know.

The point is getting out of the way - which means a clean break, or some sort of temporary or permanent sharing arrangement.
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If you can't even be honest and admit it, don't do it. And, don't expect us to applaud your actions...cuckolding your "best friend".
 Quoting: weegie


I don't understand.
 Quoting: mael


Implying YOU are the new penis to play with
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1494541


No. That's not I.
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08/05/2011 04:55 PM
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:stressed:
 Quoting: HondaKing


:bumps:
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Can you perhaps insert fake names for the people you are talking about...I am totally confused, this sounds like a completly fucked up relationship anyways....who gets married and doesnt live together and sneaks around for dates....seriously i'm lost...

BTW...either you are referring to your own situation or you have a weird obsession with your friend and the details of his personal life.

weird...
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1401609


OK. John and Jane.

I sit down with tea and talk with my friend every day. Normally we talk about engines and DIY.
mael (OP)

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bumps
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Boobs aren't the same but the face is strikingly similar.
mael (OP)

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08/05/2011 05:04 PM
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Re: My friend's girlfriend.
John says he understands some girls might get picked-up and spend the night with someone (or more than one), and he appreciates she can take a shower and speak nothing of it and there's no real harm done. He (John) is clearly putting this lady on a peg above that kind of thing.

My advice to him is to find another girl. But I know finding one as good as her are not that good... at least not that good in a hurry.
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08/05/2011 05:09 PM
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drama

sidewaysbananasex
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08/05/2011 05:11 PM
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White trash soap opera?
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Radiation much?
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Re: My friend's girlfriend.
John says he understands some girls might get picked-up and spend the night with someone (or more than one), and he appreciates she can take a shower and speak nothing of it and there's no real harm done. He (John) is clearly putting this lady on a peg above that kind of thing.

My advice to him is to find another girl. But I know finding one as good as her are not that good... at least not that good in a hurry.
 Quoting: mael


John Smith, is that you... or is it John Doe?

Last Edited by ifSHTF on 08/05/2011 05:15 PM
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Best advice for all parties involved: Don't reproduce.
mael (OP)

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08/05/2011 05:30 PM
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Best advice for all parties involved: Don't reproduce.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1455743


No worries there as far as I know.

Ah well. Thank you for your comments.

I think it's a case of "what the eyes don't see the heart can't grieve about."

Trouble is he knows her inside and out like a book and senses what's going on when she's not being forthcoming about something.

I just took a look on the 'net about people who share their partners, and there's no general rule - except those who want to do it mostly didn't regret it. ... The rest? Well they became 'exes'.

I don't know what to say to him but I will certainly advise him once more of being on the lookout for someone new, and to be prepared to make a clean break from the woman he has been with.

I gather Jane said she wants John to let her try it. He isn't necessarily 100% against her having sex with someone else, it's the problems associated with this being a small town and more so a problem with the matchmaker - who unbeknownst to her (matchmaker) is an ex of my friend and she never got over him jilting her - ten years ago. - Some visitor from afar might possibly be accomodated. Not someone in the next street with the local gossip as a mentor.
mael (OP)

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08/05/2011 05:32 PM
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John Smith, is that you... or is it John Doe?
 Quoting: ifSHTF


Smith.
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Radiation much?
 Quoting: Kung Fu


More than desirable.
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drama

sidewaysbananasex
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1455743


Yes! It's fun, isn't it!
mael (OP)

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White trash soap opera?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1455743


Yeah! Pretty run-of-the-mill.

Of course I'm enjoying it as a spectator.
mael (OP)

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08/05/2011 05:38 PM
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Ah well! I've got to get ready for work now.

These threads here move so fast it'll be long gone by the time I get online tomorrow night.

Thanks for contributing.

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