My forum is closed to new members. I have reasons for that at this time. Its nothing personal. I remember a couple requests I turned down for that reason only, a decision made. I did post that to my forum and then ignored any requests after that if ones sent them. Going on the idea that it was read, as each account there has a list of unread and new posts that is personalized to them. So when people write me about something that would show up in that list and they don't read it, it's not my problem. There is a need for personal responsibility to READ.