CG, actually mine and my mom's relationship isn't in the way way that I am thinking that you are sensing it. I love her a tremendous amount as I know she does me as well as having a great amount of admiration and respect between the two of us- it is not overbearing or controling over my life in any way. We both have an immense peace about death, for we know this life is only a short ride compared to the next and that we will all be together again under much much better circumstances. What is behind my question is more pertaining to her real idnetity- it is mysterious and she has been followed all of her life- forged birth certificated and such- kidnap attempts, strangers devulging mysterious snips of info of her real identity before, etc. She is a medical anomomly- rarest blood- no fingerprints, huge birthmark removed at birth (they were in extreme poverty with no money to do such things) Very odd- any insight?