Why are women so messed up?

True but we need to rise above all this and simply forgive...
there are things in our past that we are aware of and what we have been carrying around in our subconcious that we are not even aware of. Only a Love for God can take that pain away.

The new world will all be lovers of God and that will bring about wonderful and amazing things we all can create.

The problem is that these women are not women, they're girls. Same goes for a lot of men today too (act like boys). Fact is the vast majority of people never actually mature.. their body ages and decays but their mind never made it past 15.

Another part of the problem is sex. We're doing it wrong.

Can it all be fixed? LOL. Nah, this planet is a fucking madhouse. Besides some kind of a miracle we're jolly well fucked and shit out of luck!

Humans are all a bit messed up right now. But we will make it through all this crap, at least I have high hopes.

IDK why are men so stupid? All my life I have seen men bend over backwards for the WRONG woman. They don't care how messed up she is as long as she is HOT or good in bed. Then later on when she moves to her next victim or lands in jail then they wanna cry about how messed up she is. Oh ALL the red flags were there, everyone warned him but these dumb men always gravitate to the helpless bimbo!

Just an old e-mail forward for the laughs

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My wife sat down on the couch next to me as I was flipping channels.
She asked, 'What's on TV?'
I said, 'Dust.'
And then the fight started.
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My wife was hinting about what she wanted for our upcoming anniversary.
She said, 'I want something shiny that goes from 0 to 100 in about 3 seconds.'
I bought her a weighing scale.
And then the fight started.
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When I got home last night, my wife demanded that I take her someplace expensive.
So, I took her to a petrol pump
And then the fight started.
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My wife and I were sitting at a table at her high school reunion, and my wife kept staring at a drunken man swigging his drink as he sat alone at a nearby table.
I asked my wife, 'Do you know him?'
'Yes,' she sighed, 'He's my old boyfriend.
I understand he took to drinking right after we split up those many years
ago, and I hear he hasn't been sober since.'
'My God!' I said to my wife, 'who would think a person could go on celebrating that long?'
And then the fight started.
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My wife is standing & looking in the bedroom mirror.
She is not happy with what she sees and says to me,
'I feel horrible; I look old, fat and ugly. I really need you to pay me a compliment.'
I replied, 'Your eyesight's damn near perfect.'
And then the fight started.
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I tried to talk my wife into buying a case of beer for 20% and instead, she bought a jar of cold cream for 15$.
I told her the beer would make her look better at night than the cold cream..
And then the fight started..
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I asked my wife, "Where do you want to go for our anniversary?"
It warmed my heart to see her face melt in sweet appreciation.
"Somewhere I've not been in a long time. So I took her to the kitchen.
And then the fight started..........

I bolded the only parts that you got right. The rest is bullshit.

when were they ever normal?

LESBIANS.

I've been traveling around the world and american women are the worst. But I try very very hard not to stereotype everyone into one lump I know there are good american women out there but this is just my experience, they have no respect for men and yet they want me to respect them. I've met couple of hundred of women here in california and california's women are one of the worst examples of USA women, they want to act like men but they're not the ones dying in wars. The media is horrible, all over TV you see dumb fat men and smart women, they put this message to their kids through cartoons too. The laws here in US completely fuck up a lot of things too, they're all bluntly in favor of a woman.. ok.. in that cause wouldn't you think men deserved a little bit of respect?? Women of today don't consider to show any respect for that! The image of a man that's a pure machine today, like be a man and take it and then they show really dumb men on tv, that take it along with a fat bag of chips and everything is alright.. what the f.. is wrong with this world society today, it makes me sick, literally looking at most women and a lot of men on the streets today in US makes me sick.. I've been in foreign conflict war situation outside of US and I just want to say that when bombs are flying outside women crawl back into their kitchen like the good obedient puppies and men are the ones trying to figure a way out.. here in US there hasn't been any wars thankfully (I believe in peace) it's very comfortable and as soon as it gets comfortable women somehow think that it's their turn to control. Well to all the women reading this let me tell you, you will not get respect by showing none of it and the only reason that its quiet and peaceful in US is because of men that died to keep it this way not women. Show some respect it's been like this for thousands of years now and to change everything in the last couple of decades, I don't know who's idea that was probably some feminist movement but I feel like it's gone too far right now like I feel that today in order to continue this kind of movement and for everyone to feel fair, women have to show a lot of respect and gratitude.. But the problem is they don't, not only that most of them show arrogance and stupidity unlike the smart women on TV... Yes Indeed women are very messed up today, no words can explain, a lot of stupid men out there too, but this women are men and men are women society movement is just so messed up, a big war will change that but I hope it won't get to that and women actually realize that they are the weaker sex and that they need to show some RESPECT if they want to be treated with the same. Mind me I show a lot of respect to women, but I barely get any in return. Plus some women start treating me like they see women treat dumb men on TV. It's incredibly frustrating to deal with women these days and I am a very patient man, all I keep thinking is if it is half as frustrating to me as it is to some men that have no patience, god help us..

A friend of mine got divorced after several years of marriage, she kept the children because the of the law in US, now she doesn't want work, she has a new boyfriend and my friend works full time he is stuck with paying all the bills his ex wife and new boyfriend to enjoy life without working.. The law in US sees this as fair.. I think if you have any brains at all then you see what I am getting at this is a good article that I found helpful [link to do-not-marry.com]

Agreed. These guys speaking their brainwashed parts. Chicks are pissed at that Alfa guy that didn't choose them to marry. The story got twisted to cover their shame for not being good enough. The rest of us have to deal with 10years of built up anger.

Lol i just love it when girls say "no place for bad feelings we dont want a guy that complains about this that and the next thing" then you go and all they do is bitch about something. Ever look online like facebook or some other shit site all they do is bitch about their problems and want us men to fix it yet dont do the same. Its too funny. Yoyng girls now are having kids at 16 to 18 or just plain dressing like little sluts and they get mad when you call them by how they look or that all anyone wants is to fuck and dump.

soap opera's, money, television, media, magazines take your pick. oh and 3400$ purses

so funny, did u make that up, or did u get it from some joke site bb

You hit the nail on the head! It's because of men!
You can't really trust men. They lie like it is normal.
Rarely can a woman find an honest male.
Men are weird. I like men but they are weird.

In your case your girl was weird. She should have been more considerate.
What a creep she is!

I remember back when you didn't have to mention this explicitly, it was kind of understood.

I must be getting old.

heh...

Is not women op.... is people that are messed up...

By the time we are 30 we have probably on average watched over 40.000 hrs of TV, all that "programming" plays a major part in making dysfunction a normal thing.

I literally just sent a message to this girl I broke up with a few months back...

In short she pretends to be all nice, hippy, peace and love but inside shes a manipulator and turns so nasty so quickly without even clarifying a situation, she thinks the worse and acts on it.

So I told her that unless she acknowledges her faults and tries to fix them I want nothing to do with her.

She actually replied saying that SHE decided not to be my friend because I am a manipulator, lol!

I told a few friends of mine that know her and they all laughed really hard because we all know she's the manipulator, and she uses that against me as a reason to not see me anymore.

Off course I replied to inform her how stupid and ironic her reply was.

In short... a messed up spiritual narcissist.

I agree with the post saying explore other interestes. Sure have embraced that idea with a vintage motorcycle and metal lathe in my livingroom,along w electronics and computers too.

hahahahahahahahahahaha

i was one of them - i listened to the garbage

they said i needed to be bigger, so i built muscles at the gym

they said i had to be educated, so i went to university and got my education

they said i needed a job, so i went and got a really good one that paid me a lot

then they said i need a car and a house and nice clothing, i thought, this is getting really hard.. then at some point during the years i was single (good/decent looking guy) i just gave up and said fuck it, i got it all mostly alone anyways, why now when i have everything should i have to risk all of it and get screwed?

i have have a hard time dating because there is very real fear, that i will lose my future children, hard earned wealth, business and assets.. i am not psychic enough to be able to decode which women are evil and which are good.. it's depressing, even as a moderately wealthy and decent looking, educated guy, i find myself avoiding many women because they seem to exhibit signals and signs that i presume to be undesirable

woe is me

Couldn't have said it better myself.

I forgot to mention this. Be careful about bumping old topics like this one and telling the truth or you will be banned for six months like I was.

Why 'woe is me'? I say congratulations and it sounds like you have already accomplished much in life with a lot more to look forward to. If you are happy with yourself and life then why is it a bad thing? Have we become conditioned so well by the media that when we are single and enjoying ourselves, we feel a certain amount of self hate because we are not in a relationship? I say screw that and enjoy the ride. I remember a certain saying...something about the grass is greener on the other side? ... no, that is not quite right..

I think it lies within both sexes. I do agree that there are a lot of messed up women out there. But there are a lot of messed up guys as well. Myself being one of them. I've come to view a lot of women as simple whores. With the exceptions coming into their own, with their own career paths and pulling enough onto the table to fill their own plate.

I wouldn't be against women who want to go the old fashioned way of "Me pop out babies and care for babies. You bring home food. Oog." But the issue is for many that it becomes a double standard. They will go out shopping, flirting with a lot of other guys with the 6 packs etc. While the husband works his ass off pulling in enough to support them both.

My issue comes down to the fact that money is the big thing. It's always money. I'm a decent looking guy with, what I assume is, a good personality. But I don't make much at all. I have roommates and I am 30! That's a big blow to the pride thing.

But my friends mom kind of confirmed my suspicions on this for a while. No woman will really commit to you unless you are fully able to support yourself and have some spending cash. Even if you are making things work for yourself, there is an expectation that you should be at a certain point in your life and if you aren't meeting it, you WILL be overlooked in the dating scene.

Then we have a lot of propaganda that leads people to believe that it's okay to act certain ways because that's what's expected. Women on tv act crazy. So then it becomes "okay" to throw things and behave like a total ass. Men on tv are portrayed as the wife beating, over controlling prick. So then it becomes "okay" to beat your partner into submission.

It really sucks but the societal norms are completely out of whack.

Yes, and just think of the people who watch porn and think that is supposed to be what life, love and sex is about.

Talk about twisting your psyche.

Another clueless anti porn idiot who doesnt realize that good porn now a days is done by two real people in front of their webcam, either live or uploaded to website. "Actress" porn, where the women may not being enjoying it (thier choice, but Ill play your game) and only doing it to collect a paycheck.

Plus, no one thinks of porn as life, and you of all people should realize (with your God like wisdom on what people who are in live should do with their free time)that love has nothing to do with sex sometimes, so why did you type that?

You have sex bewteen sheets? Or with a bag on your head or something? Or do you just not participate since there is a chance your partner may look at your genitals and compare them to a models that he has seen on internet porn in the past? Oh, the horror, you are not queen for six seconds!

I hear ya! So many of the men that I dated wouldn't have accepted me if they had truly gotten to know me. Who wants a women who talks to God out loud for 2 hours a night. I also get angry and talk angry and then God gets upset with me and He stops talking to me and then I have a major upset and I melt down.

I think men don't really understand the interior lives of women. The women you are meeting have been treated by men like Brief for so long, they probably think that you have a disease or some kind of ed. If you really are a nice guy, then you are going to have to have some patience and put up with all kinds of emotional crap that you probably don't want to put up with in order to get to the woman that you are trying to deal with. You should see the kind of damage that gets done to us in our birth homes. It's really crazy. And then we try to date and marry and work and other women cause us grief and you have no idea. So much hurt. Men really need to pay attention to that kind of thing or you're not going to understand why your woman is acting like she is. There are reasons for it. Y

You really need a Christian woman. And not one of the gossipers either.