Hey, why the anger? I wanted to not derail even more the thread, that's all... but ok. Feminism, in many ways, has been a tool to destroy the feminity itself. In fact I hate male domination, but also hate female domination - and there is much ressentment in many kinds of feminism, which tends to not stablish some kind of equality, but an inversion of rules (I have to admit not in all of them).
And about sex and magic/spirituality, yes, I know for example about the Tantra, or some Crowley's related authors ways of thinking about it - though not that I am an expert. So what? The sex in the way you (in plural) were talking some posts ago is purely matterial one, just looking for pleasure. And there are more ways of spirituality than those based on sexuality.
And finally, for sure I am older than you - some respect, I didn't insult you.